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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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As in ...
'I've had him' or 'I've had her'
It just doesn't sit right with me
Like it somehow devalues / cheapens the meet and/or the person you've met
Am I becoming sensitive in my middle age ?  |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
it is some peoples thing....it's not mine.
i am sensitive and i dont mind admitting it either. i value the people i see and spend time with. sometimes i feel this attitude is the way they cope with this scene in their minds. they usually have characteristics that i can spot and thus avoid x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is it not just a shortened version of "i've had sex with him/her"?
Does that sentence offend you also?"
It doesn't offend me, but it hardly makes for worthwhile comment either
In the context of Fab 'I've met with him/her' seems perfectly adequate
In terms of 'real life' it wouldn't be something worthy of mention |
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"Is it not just a shortened version of "i've had sex with him/her"?
Does that sentence offend you also?
It doesn't offend me, but it hardly makes for worthwhile comment either
In the context of Fab 'I've met with him/her' seems perfectly adequate
In terms of 'real life' it wouldn't be something worthy of mention"
Ah, well perhaps it's the people who feel the need to comment who actually offend you? Personally apart from to my fab girlfriends I don't feel the need to talk to anyone about anyone i've met! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never write anything sexual in a verification nor would i like it if the gentleman did the same towards me. I don't sleep with every guy I attend a social with. If I do then I see it as the sex is only between the both of us. No one else needs to know details. After all what I enjoy with one person, doesn't necessarily mean I'll enjoy it with the next guy I may meet. I think it's important to just let others know whether my meet is easy going, comfortable to be alone with and if he looks like his pics. |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"Is it not just a shortened version of "i've had sex with him/her"?
Does that sentence offend you also?
It doesn't offend me, but it hardly makes for worthwhile comment either
In the context of Fab 'I've met with him/her' seems perfectly adequate
In terms of 'real life' it wouldn't be something worthy of mention
Ah, well perhaps it's the people who feel the need to comment who actually offend you? Personally apart from to my fab girlfriends I don't feel the need to talk to anyone about anyone i've met!"
you discuss you meets with your fab girlfriends?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I agree it is so derogatory.
I much prefer to say 'I slung one up her'.
Or 'Was hanging out the back of that last night'."
Or "I've been balls deep in her clunge"? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I agree it is so derogatory.
I much prefer to say 'I slung one up her'.
Or 'Was hanging out the back of that last night'.
Or "I've been balls deep in her clunge"?"
 good one.
Been going at it hammer a tongs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As in ...
'I've had him' or 'I've had her'
It just doesn't sit right with me
Like it somehow devalues / cheapens the meet and/or the person you've met
Am I becoming sensitive in my middle age ? "
It's not a term I like either. Seems to be about the act, not about the person |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"To me it's about possession, taking someone and using them. It's not a way someone would refer to a mutually fun time.
It's not a nice way to refer to sex with anyone."
oh my Dom owns my ass..but he wouldnt go round saying 'ive had her', completely different in my opinion.. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"To me it's about possession, taking someone and using them. It's not a way someone would refer to a mutually fun time.
It's not a nice way to refer to sex with anyone.
oh my Dom owns my ass..but he wouldnt go round saying 'ive had her', completely different in my opinion.."
Ownership in a D/s sense is a bit different. That's ownership with respect.
There's no respect in the "I've had her" sense. |
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"That's why I am wary... I don't wanna feel like a trophy
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U can both jump into my cabinet!!!!!! 
ha ha best reply .
how many shelves have u got 
He he several!
ooo any room b4 they full  "
There's a little bit of room left |
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