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By *igal17Man
over a year ago
Ayr SW Scotland |
Four a day or four in total?
I've tried a fair few more than that (in total) and no luck. I've had a couple of 'So near!' but nothing came of it. So to speak.
Just keep believing that the next one will be yes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I honestly don't make contact first anymore.
If women are interested in me, they usually text or wink.
If not, it is pointless to send them a message as it gets delete most of the time. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't as I respect other people's preferences and it annoys the fuck out of me when others "try their luck" with me on here  "
It's a term, a saying. Something that shouldn't really offend. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I honestly don't make contact first anymore.
If women are interested in me, they usually text or wink.
If not, it is pointless to send them a message as it gets delete most of the time. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I honestly don't make contact first anymore.
If women are interested in me, they usually text or wink.
If not, it is pointless to send them a message as it gets delete most of the time. "
snap |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't as I respect other people's preferences and it annoys the fuck out of me when others "try their luck" with me on here
It's a term, a saying. Something that shouldn't really offend. "
Oh, I'm just being a snarky bitch, it's not personal to you 
When I have my filters all open I have two preferences for single men right at the top, to be over 6 foot and over 30, which is quite easy going for "demands" on here and I get all too many "I know I'm under your age range/your height preferences but..." messages. |
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I try my luck in the sense that I get in contact with couples or single women when I fit within the parameters of their profile.
Not had much luck with couples which is something I really want to try! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't as I respect other people's preferences and it annoys the fuck out of me when others "try their luck" with me on here
It's a term, a saying. Something that shouldn't really offend.
Oh, I'm just being a snarky bitch, it's not personal to you
When I have my filters all open I have two preferences for single men right at the top, to be over 6 foot and over 30, which is quite easy going for "demands" on here and I get all too many "I know I'm under your age range/your height preferences but..." messages."
Ahhhh I see. That indeed is trying your luck. I am sorry and amazed single men don't read things.  |
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By *igal17Man
over a year ago
Ayr SW Scotland |
"I try my luck in the sense that I get in contact with couples or single women when I fit within the parameters of their profile.
Not had much luck with couples which is something I really want to try! "
I'm pretty sure that's what the OP meant (and me). He got torn a new one for his choice of words though. ?? |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"Don't normally message first because I'm shy, sadly the guy I'm dribbling over lives well over 100 miles away and doesn't message first  "
What have you got to lose? If he says no you've not lost anything and he may say yes.
Are you willing to travel or would he have to come to you? |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"I don't as I respect other people's preferences and it annoys the fuck out of me when others "try their luck" with me on here
It's a term, a saying. Something that shouldn't really offend.
Oh, I'm just being a snarky bitch, it's not personal to you
When I have my filters all open I have two preferences for single men right at the top, to be over 6 foot and over 30, which is quite easy going for "demands" on here and I get all too many "I know I'm under your age range/your height preferences but..." messages.
Ahhhh I see. That indeed is trying your luck. I am sorry and amazed single men don't read things. "
Not enough blood left to drive the brain in some cases  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guess at first I used to message first .....but then got to a point where I felt like I wasn't what is being looked for .
So now I wait for a wink or a direct message myself .
Being on the forum helps I think because my profile is garbage and chatting on here allows folks to see what your normally like I think . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I honestly don't make contact first anymore.
If women are interested in me, they usually text or wink.
If not, it is pointless to send them a message as it gets delete most of the time. "
This, it seems that not sending first messages is the best way to receive them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Rarely these days.
It appears to me that Fab is slowly diminishing in terms of user numbers and in terms of the ratio of real posters vs timewasters/pic collectors/egotists. Quite a few regular messagers have gone UNLOS recently, some we really werent expecting.
We usually check for new profiles every 5-6 days or so, send out a few first messages when we see them on that day but in between we send none. Come to realise its just not worth it, we arent going to get what we need from here so we've made our peace with primarily being a social and voyeur couple at the moment. A miracle may come along, but theres only so long you can flog a dead horse. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I honestly don't make contact first anymore.
If women are interested in me, they usually text or wink.
If not, it is pointless to send them a message as it gets delete most of the time. "
Je t'attendrai |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I respect people's wishes ... and I expect the same in return , if their profile states what they don't want people should not try their luck ... this is why people can't be arsed with the site now more and leave ... then come back try again , disrespecting people's wishes , messing them around , no shows , for what ever reason there's just no point .... there's something for everyone on here so find ur compatible match !!!!! |
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