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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So down at Southport and needing my eyebrows threaded. Messages 17....yes 17 females to ask any any recommendations. .Not one reply. I now know how the single guys feel  (eyebrows still not done btw) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i have been sending messages for a month now...even looking further from where i live to give me more chances. but only had 2 reply's to say not what they looking for..every other one just delete message i have tried with photo/without photo..more info..less info. yet on their profiles all they say is "looking for fun and action" i don't think there is any action from this site and i just paid for silver now i feel i have wasted my money..the only people who send me message and pester is gay men asking for blowjobs...even though i am straigh and say i am not gay. |
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"i have been sending messages for a month now...even looking further from where i live to give me more chances. but only had 2 reply's to say not what they looking for..every other one just delete message i have tried with photo/without photo..more info..less info. yet on their profiles all they say is "looking for fun and action" i don't think there is any action from this site and i just paid for silver now i feel i have wasted my money..the only people who send me message and pester is gay men asking for blowjobs...even though i am straigh and say i am not gay. "
I've tried all of the above too. But still remain courteous and respect the wishes of the people I message. And certainly don't make threats. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Females are spoiled for choice so they will contact the ones they are interested in and maybe only consider someone who contacts them if things are a bit thin on the ground.
Also they prefer to have regular fwb so if they have that already then you will have even less chance of a reply.
Just like out in the real world from a woman's point of view it's a buyers market  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They answer me 8 times out of 10. Just saying...especially when I'm asking about getting my eyebrows done
They're probably thinking you're a single bloke pretending to be a couple and the eyebrow question is some kind of trap lol. So many numpties on this site trying stupid tricks like that, that people have their guard way up. |
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"i have been sending messages for a month now...even looking further from where i live to give me more chances. but only had 2 reply's to say not what they looking for..every other one just delete message i have tried with photo/without photo..more info..less info. yet on their profiles all they say is "looking for fun and action" i don't think there is any action from this site and i just paid for silver now i feel i have wasted my money..the only people who send me message and pester is gay men asking for blowjobs...even though i am straigh and say i am not gay. "
So were you expecting answers because you now have silver membership?
It doesn't quite work that way.... |
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"So down at Southport and needing my eyebrows threaded. Messages 17....yes 17 females to ask any any recommendations. .Not one reply. I now know how the single guys feel (eyebrows still not done btw) "
If you'd sent me a message like that I wouldn't have replied because I don't get mine threaded so not a scooby about such things. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i have been sending messages for a month now...even looking further from where i live to give me more chances. but only had 2 reply's to say not what they looking for..every other one just delete message i have tried with photo/without photo..more info..less info. yet on their profiles all they say is "looking for fun and action" i don't think there is any action from this site and i just paid for silver now i feel i have wasted my money..the only people who send me message and pester is gay men asking for blowjobs...even though i am straigh and say i am not gay. "
Many people look at your profile before reading a message so be sure thats up to scratch.
And why message people whos profile only says looking for fun and action?
Why not look for one that is actually enticing |
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By *ullcreamMan
over a year ago
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Women get bombarded with messages - probably too many to read in some cases. There needs to be a "No thanks" tap and send so at least the sender gets something back especially if he takes time to make a well mannered approach. It is irritating to get nothing back but inevitable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always read my messages  but I do get a lot and replying to them all would take so much time up so I don't and only reply to the ones that interest me
I also think there should be a 'no thank you' button there.
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I would say many ladies do, however if you message straight after they've uploaded new pics or status you will probably get lost in the flood of messages. There really are some lovely single ladies on the site |
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