It can actually be quite difficult to give a balanced view of someone without causing them offence..so if we have no gripe with someone we tend to either big them up or say nothing.
So here is a scary challenge should you choose to accept it.
Make two comments on the poster above (or quote one).
The first a constructive criticism.
And the second some well considered praise.
Anyone brave enough?
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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I think it's very difficult to give constructive criticism to people you only know from their profile and avatar. In some cases you may also know their posts on the forum and/or have met them.
Most will concentrate on body parts for their praise.
There's always the difficult news sandwich though.  |
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"I think it's very difficult to give constructive criticism to people you only know from their profile and avatar. In some cases you may also know their posts on the forum and/or have met them.
Most will concentrate on body parts for their praise.
There's always the difficult news sandwich though. "
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"Eh?
Wotevva it is, I'll have ya for breakfast and leave yr leftovers for ma cat.
Erm.
So is you eating me the good bit....and the moggy getting my scraps the bad bit?
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I didn't say I'd eat you, just have you |
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"Eh?
Wotevva it is, I'll have ya for breakfast and leave yr leftovers for ma cat.
Erm.
So is you eating me the good bit....and the moggy getting my scraps the bad bit?
I didn't say I'd eat you, just have you "
Mind you, yr a bit tall... might have some trouble throwing you around the bed... |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Eh?
Wotevva it is, I'll have ya for breakfast and leave yr leftovers for ma cat.
Erm.
So is you eating me the good bit....and the moggy getting my scraps the bad bit?
I didn't say I'd eat you, just have you
Mind you, yr a bit tall... might have some trouble throwing you around the bed... "
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"Eh?
Wotevva it is, I'll have ya for breakfast and leave yr leftovers for ma cat.
Erm.
So is you eating me the good bit....and the moggy getting my scraps the bad bit?
I didn't say I'd eat you, just have you
Mind you, yr a bit tall... might have some trouble throwing you around the bed...
I imagine sex with you involves a lot of tossing around. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Go on, OP. You start. I'll offer myself up
You're hot... but you're not in my bed 
I'm not sure that's what he had in mind  "
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"Go on, OP. You start. I'll offer myself up "
Nah..your right.
Firstly without any bullshit the lady of you is pretty stunning and the guy I would consider would be appreciated by the females. You are an attractive couple.
And secondly if you weren't then I would find it hard to criticise.
So it was a dumb thread that I started!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It can actually be quite difficult to give a balanced view of someone without causing them offence..so if we have no gripe with someone we tend to either big them up or say nothing.
So here is a scary challenge should you choose to accept it.
Make two comments on the poster above (or quote one).
The first a constructive criticism.
And the second some well considered praise.
Anyone brave enough?
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ah it's a very brave concept 
The thing is we all know even the most well intentioned constructive feedback will be misconstrued by some and cause offence so I'm backing out graciously and cowardly as it'll all turn into a mahoosive bun fight and cause unnecessary angst! You know what Fab is like .
Most of us are here for positive feedback and to wallow in sycophantic praise - it's like work appraisals, some are very happy to accept all the positives lavished on then but then get very defensive and upset as soon as the discussion turns to developmental areas!
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"It can actually be quite difficult to give a balanced view of someone without causing them offence..so if we have no gripe with someone we tend to either big them up or say nothing.
So here is a scary challenge should you choose to accept it.
Make two comments on the poster above (or quote one).
The first a constructive criticism.
And the second some well considered praise.
Anyone brave enough?
ah it's a very brave concept
The thing is we all know even the most well intentioned constructive feedback will be misconstrued by some and cause offence so I'm backing out graciously and cowardly as it'll all turn into a mahoosive bun fight and cause unnecessary angst! You know what Fab is like.
Most of us are here for positive feedback and to wallow in sycophantic praise - it's like work appraisals, some are very happy to accept all the positives lavished on then but then get very defensive and upset as soon as the discussion turns to developmental areas!
Good luck OP! "
Yeah well said..you are right. It's a non starter!
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"Go on, OP. You start. I'll offer myself up
Nah..your right.
Firstly without any bullshit the lady of you is pretty stunning and the guy I would consider would be appreciated by the females. You are an attractive couple.
And secondly if you weren't then I would find it hard to criticise.
So it was a dumb thread that I started!
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Not dumb! I really wanted to see what you had to say.
But as the lady of the couple I'll say thanks for your nice comments. Since I didn't get constructive criticism I'll just say that I am an asshole sometimes. And I'm not in Ruby's bed |
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By *igal17Man
over a year ago
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RubyTuesday
A couple of your pictures don't show what is undoubtedly a fine body to best effect.
You've written a great profile and really explained what you want and importantly what you don't want. I bet it doesn't stop you getting bucket loads of idiot messages though.
PS as a Stones fan I also love the name. X |
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