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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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One thing I don't understand is why people delete messages if you're still talking to them?
Is there a limit on inbox size or anything?
I always feel they have something to hide/aren't genuine when this happens or is this just me? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not sure if there is a limit. But some women get hundreds of messages a day and deleting a already replied to message saves them having to delete 100's messages later. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I delete messages all the time and have nothing to hide. It's easier to order my inbox with only a few messages and if I keep the last message I can read back through the string. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"I delete messages all the time and have nothing to hide. It's easier to order my inbox with only a few messages and if I keep the last message I can read back through the string. "
I try to do that but I rarely manage to keep on top of it. I have to spend hours working through deleting old messages sometimes and I invariably find people I've lost track of or meant to reply to but lost. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can only see the last 50 messages.. even as a gold supporter.
Once read and replied to, there's no reason to keep them, unless it was something in the message that you liked  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get too many I have too and I am ocd so you know 
This but it's CDO in my little world of weird.
I like a tidy box.  "
Glad I'm not the only one who calls it CDO... it MUST be in order FFS |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I delete messages all the time and have nothing to hide. It's easier to order my inbox with only a few messages and if I keep the last message I can read back through the string. "
Me too (and nothing to hide). |
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"One thing I don't understand is why people delete messages if you're still talking to them?
Is there a limit on inbox size or anything?
I always feel they have something to hide/aren't genuine when this happens or is this just me?"
We had 3000 messages at the weekend and we can only see the last 50 or so on the screen . Fab doesn't have a scroll function to see below that top 50. So we have to read and then delete so the others move back onto the screen.
Send your self 50 messages and then you can see the problem |
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"One thing I don't understand is why people delete messages if you're still talking to them?
Is there a limit on inbox size or anything?
I always feel they have something to hide/aren't genuine when this happens or is this just me?"
We need to delete as we can only see the last few messages. If we are chatting to someone I often delete after I've replied. Nothing we are hiding just that otherwise we fail to reply to other members. Some are friends, some are potential playmates and others we are just chatting to! Certainly not hiding anything |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I delete everything but the latest sent and received. Some of my conversations are with women who live some distance away and will take some time to meet, so it can be days or weeks in between little chat spurts, and I like to be able to scroll down and pick up the conversation. |
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I don't delete enough but it's definitely more efficient to delete older ones in a thread, if they're not going to be needed again. Earlier messages when chatting with someone usually aren't related to the more important aspects, such as details of meet discussions etc.
I'm not sure when the last time was that I could actually see the start of my inbox - maybe 2 or 3 years back! It's not a particularly smart way for me to manage mail and I'm not a site supporter atm.
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