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Approaching cpls in pulic places
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Surely if people who are into this lifestyle could wear some sort of chain to let others know that they are singers and are willing for people to approach h them.
Often me and my partner sit in a bar and think mmm would love fun with them but can't just get up and ask hence the chain. There would be a lot more being had on a typical night out. Thoughts please OR is there such a thing already as we are new to this. ty |
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Some people use the chameleon, the risk with anything like this is that it gets worked out by non swingers.
You see a couple with the sign/badge etc, have a great chat and then they say "look out for the article in next week's Sun."  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some people use the chameleon, the risk with anything like this is that it gets worked out by non swingers.
You see a couple with the sign/badge etc, have a great chat and then they say "look out for the article in next week's Sun." "
Doesn't really matter if it gets worked out by non swingers really . If they make a move and they aren't , they soon will be   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Surely if people who are into this lifestyle could wear some sort of chain to let others know that they are singers and are willing for people to approach h them.
Often me and my partner sit in a bar and think mmm would love fun with them but can't just get up and ask hence the chain. There would be a lot more being had on a typical night out. Thoughts please OR is there such a thing already as we are new to this. ty"
Personally, I have no wish to advertise my lifestyle - either to the world at large or to random swingers in public. I would rather have the opportunity of assessing our compatiblity first. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So there is such a thing in existence then ? "
A chameleon is a known sign. Could be a broach, tattoo, pendant, car sticker etc.
That's why the name if the club in Darleson..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Obssered.... This isn't speed swinging... would you like different colour emblems too so to recognise different people's sexual orientation.
Shame on my doctor's receptionist for not declaring her lifestyle..
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If people just carried some of their pampas grass around, it would be so easy.
Otherwise people often like a little discretion, not wanting others to pick them out in the crowd. Have you considered that they like somewhat of a double life? If swingers could pick them out, the secret codes would be open to others and everyone could point their fingers and gossip etc. |
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I totally agree but it would be nice if we dared to approach someone and ask
We off tomibiza next week on what we call a normal holiday but it would be great to be able to spot the swingers so we could have a bit of fun |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I totally agree but it would be nice if we dared to approach someone and ask
We off tomibiza next week on what we call a normal holiday but it would be great to be able to spot the swingers so we could have a bit of fun"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To be fair , Sabrina has the slutty goth look going on at all times , so we find people approach us all the time anyway . We don't need any signals "
I find that sitting on a barstool, very short skirt, no knickers, has a similar effect.
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"To be fair , Sabrina has the slutty goth look going on at all times , so we find people approach us all the time anyway . We don't need any signals
I find that sitting on a barstool, very short skirt, no knickers, has a similar effect.
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Unfortunately, I can't persuade Frisky to do that, she says no one would be interested...  |
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over a year ago
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Surely if people wanted to be approached in this way they would make it obvious.
Some people love everyone to know their business. Some don't.
Assuming that a couple that 'look like they are up for it' is fair game is just a bit distasteful.  |
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