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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Should ex's stay ex's for a reason? My ex has been back in contact and wants to try again, my heart says yes but my head says be wary  "
Is the couple profile just for swinging? |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"Should ex's stay ex's for a reason? My ex has been back in contact and wants to try again, my heart says yes but my head says be wary "
Depends on the reason why they are an ex! x
Normally I'd say stay away but without knowing the reasons I wouldn't want to say yes or no! |
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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago
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There was a reason that you split up, that only you know. If it is something that you want then try again. But if the reason you split up is something that will cause doubts or uncertainty between you i would say probably best not to. But only you can really decide knowing the facts  |
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"Should ex's stay ex's for a reason? My ex has been back in contact and wants to try again, my heart says yes but my head says be wary "
If there's a reason that can't be worked on and put right yes but if it was a case of right person, wrong time it's worth another try surely. However if your head says be wary you must have doubts |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if they're willing to build up that trust again i would say go for it.
i tried again with some of my exes, and it never really worked with any of them. mostly because i couldn't trust them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Depends on the reasons you split up!
Jayne xx"
He split with me as he decided he was in love with his ex, but realised that he loves her as a friend and nothing else, now has asked me to take him back |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Depends on the reasons you split up!
Jayne xx
He split with me as he decided he was in love with his ex, but realised that he loves her as a friend and nothing else, now has asked me to take him back "
he sounds flakey as fuck.  |
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"Depends on the reasons you split up!
Jayne xx
He split with me as he decided he was in love with his ex, but realised that he loves her as a friend and nothing else, now has asked me to take him back "
Yeah proceed with extreme caution, sounds like he either made a genuine mistake or he always wants what he hasn't got...you know him, not us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Depends on the reasons you split up!
Jayne xx
He split with me as he decided he was in love with his ex, but realised that he loves her as a friend and nothing else, now has asked me to take him back
he sounds flakey as fuck. "
Sounds like a perfect summation  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Depends on the reasons you split up!
Jayne xx
He split with me as he decided he was in love with his ex, but realised that he loves her as a friend and nothing else, now has asked me to take him back "
Will he go back to her again? I'd take a breather, let him do the running. Did he definitely leave his ex again or did she kick him into touch? |
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"Should ex's stay ex's for a reason? My ex has been back in contact and wants to try again, my heart says yes but my head says be wary
Is the couple profile just for swinging? "
I was wondering that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Depends on the reasons you split up!
Jayne xx
He split with me as he decided he was in love with his ex, but realised that he loves her as a friend and nothing else, now has asked me to take him back "
So u are better than being alone to him.... nice x |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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step back a minute
you are considering taking back someone who dumped you for an ex..and the poor little man has now decided what that you were better..his tough shit..get a backbone and tell him to sling his hook..or do you lik the feeling that you are 'better than'
errr excuse me..if going to be with someone they should know your value, not be moronic enough, to only realise this, when it went missing..
my advice/opinion... go have fun with anyone else, anywhere else, but with an ex like this...
hugs to you, you goddess x
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"Should ex's stay ex's for a reason? My ex has been back in contact and wants to try again, my heart says yes but my head says be wary "
Your head had the right idea
Why would you want to be with anyone who leaves you for an ex he claims to love then decides he doesn't love all of a sudden and wants to come back 
Sounds like a really reliable bloke |
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By *eeeee7Woman
over a year ago
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"Depends on the reasons you split up!
Jayne xx
He split with me as he decided he was in love with his ex, but realised that he loves her as a friend and nothing else, now has asked me to take him back "
hes playing both of you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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never play second best. If you were right for him then the emotional connection between the two of you should have been stronger than any type of 'love' he thought he had for his ex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Should ex's stay ex's for a reason? My ex has been back in contact and wants to try again, my heart says yes but my head says be wary
Your head had the right idea
Why would you want to be with anyone who leaves you for an ex he claims to love then decides he doesn't love all of a sudden and wants to come back
Sounds like a really reliable bloke "
he doesn't seem to know what he wants but I did a similar thing and went against my head and went with my heart. when a year and a lot of heartache went by and he skipped off into the night stating that he didn't love me anymore I was devastated and beyond angry that I'd given him a chance (and another year of my life!) I would say don't go back, break the cycle and there will be someone out there who appreciates you for all that you are. Not some prop or crutch for them while they work out what they truly want. |
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