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Hi all I have found myself a fuck buddy and the sex is great but she seems to be ringing me for lifts and favours everyday yet as for sex it's only been 3 times yet we have been fuck buddy's for around 6 weeks is she just using me or is this the normal thing for a fuck buddy |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"Hi all I have found myself a fuck buddy and the sex is great but she seems to be ringing me for lifts and favours everyday yet as for sex it's only been 3 times yet we have been fuck buddy's for around 6 weeks is she just using me or is this the normal thing for a fuck buddy"
different perception of whata fb is i would say..you are her boyfriend....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mate if you ask yourself if it is normal for her to do that, well I understand how she can do it.
You have to set your boundaries with her.
Are you happy to do those tjings for her ? |
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"Hi all I have found myself a fuck buddy and the sex is great but she seems to be ringing me for lifts and favours everyday yet as for sex it's only been 3 times yet we have been fuck buddy's for around 6 weeks is she just using me or is this the normal thing for a fuck buddy
different perception of whata fb is i would say..you are her boyfriend.... "
Could be using you or could have become too attached. What kind of favours? Anything involving money and I would be very wary. How did she cope for lifts and things before you came along? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all I have found myself a fuck buddy and the sex is great but she seems to be ringing me for lifts and favours everyday yet as for sex it's only been 3 times yet we have been fuck buddy's for around 6 weeks is she just using me or is this the normal thing for a fuck buddy"
see it depends how you view it
some call it a fuck buddie, some a friend with benifits, maybe she sees the relationship as the later and as such thinks as a friend you won't mind helping her out
maybe shes just a user
who knows
personally i would dump such a person as i see it as the former |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Id say your heading for the friend zone
I have never asked a fbuddy for anything other than a chat or sex i thought they were just an occasional sexual partner that you kept in touch with had a chat /laugh with
If i had known you can use them as a chauffer i could have saved hundreds in taxi fares  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all I have found myself a fuck buddy and the sex is great but she seems to be ringing me for lifts and favours everyday yet as for sex it's only been 3 times yet we have been fuck buddy's for around 6 weeks is she just using me or is this the normal thing for a fuck buddy
different perception of whata fb is i would say..you are her boyfriend.... "
Haha boyf..more like dogsbody |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all I have found myself a fuck buddy and the sex is great but she seems to be ringing me for lifts and favours everyday yet as for sex it's only been 3 times yet we have been fuck buddy's for around 6 weeks is she just using me or is this the normal thing for a fuck buddy"
If you think you are being taken for a ride, you are being taken for a ride.
If it talks like a duck and walks like a duck ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Depends what you want really
I see a fuck buddy as just that, some one you meet for sex and nothing else
Friend with benefits, as above but doing other social stuff too
Maybe you have one view and she has the other. Either way you need to talk to her and establish your ground rules! |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't post about my friends on here. Hope others can advise you. she ain't on here"
maybe this is the problem,, you in your eyes may have found a FB..maybe shes never heard of the term..either way your expectations of each other dont match up so like it or deal with it..
would she appreciate being called a fb?..out of interest? maybe she feels shes dating you..is my point.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all I have found myself a fuck buddy and the sex is great but she seems to be ringing me for lifts and favours everyday yet as for sex it's only been 3 times yet we have been fuck buddy's for around 6 weeks is she just using me or is this the normal thing for a fuck buddy"
I would say that as you are asking the question, you are doubting her motives yourself. It could be that she sees this as quid pro quo, she gives you sex occasionally and you do other things for her. I have had FWBs that have offered to do all sorts of things outside the bedroom for me, car serviced, lend me money when I was really short. I didn't ask, they offered, as it was something they wanted to do. I came home from work to see my friend and the traffic was bad, so I was late, found him mowing my lawn naked! I never took advantage, most of the time I said 'no', as I was more interested in getting their trousers off! It is up to you, if you don't want to do those things like lifts etc, don't do them, refuse politely and see how she reacts. You have to trust your gut, if it feels wrong, then it most likely is. Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all I have found myself a fuck buddy and the sex is great but she seems to be ringing me for lifts and favours everyday yet as for sex it's only been 3 times yet we have been fuck buddy's for around 6 weeks is she just using me or is this the normal thing for a fuck buddy"
Sounds like friend with benefits but with not so much in the way if benefits.
You're not happy so tell her or walk away
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You're her DB....
That's Drive Buddy."
Quick call delta...can I Ave a dB to tingyo please ! How much ????? Err I'll nosh him once a month if he gets here quick lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fuck buddy is just that. You meet , you fuck , you go home until next time.
If it's not mutially beneficial and equal to both involved I'd walk the other way  |
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"We both agreed from the beginning it was just sex then the lifts etc came in just last week
Be careful you'll be doing all her decorating next and taking the kids to school she has no kids lol"
Just the decorating then |
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Final nail in the coffin just had a text saying can I take her to her mates (43 mile round trip) so they can come back go out for the night then take them back tomorrow as they are both going back and she is there for the week. Hahaha I think it's time to run for the hills |
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"Hi all I have found myself a fuck buddy and the sex is great but she seems to be ringing me for lifts and favours everyday yet as for sex it's only been 3 times yet we have been fuck buddy's for around 6 weeks is she just using me or is this the normal thing for a fuck buddy"
Out of interest how much sex were you expecting? |
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"Final nail in the coffin just had a text saying can I take her to her mates (43 mile round trip) so they can come back go out for the night then take them back tomorrow as they are both going back and she is there for the week. Hahaha I think it's time to run for the hills"
Agree, but only if she fucks you first. Better still, she and her mate agree to a threesome. If she doesn't acquiesce, dump her. |
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"Final nail in the coffin just had a text saying can I take her to her mates (43 mile round trip) so they can come back go out for the night then take them back tomorrow as they are both going back and she is there for the week. Hahaha I think it's time to run for the hills
Agree, but only if she fucks you first. Better still, she and her mate agree to a threesome. If she doesn't acquiesce, dump her."
Yep good plan. |
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"Final nail in the coffin just had a text saying can I take her to her mates (43 mile round trip) so they can come back go out for the night then take them back tomorrow as they are both going back and she is there for the week. Hahaha I think it's time to run for the hills"
You,ve woke up at last.. over the hills and far away is the right move..  |
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"Hi all I have found myself a fuck buddy and the sex is great but she seems to be ringing me for lifts and favours everyday yet as for sex it's only been 3 times yet we have been fuck buddy's for around 6 weeks is she just using me or is this the normal thing for a fuck buddy
Out of interest how much sex were you expecting? "
When we first started talking about becoming fuck buddies it was going to be around 3-5 times a week |
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