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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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On occasion when it's someone you meet often then maybe it's not selfish. Especially if there are other times when it's reciprocated. But put it this way, I had a FWB who was obsessed with blow jobs. Note my use of the past participle... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As in no sex or oral for her or just no more than a blow job for you and lots of oral andfingerung for her?"
Nothing for her nope just me getting a blow job cumming and the off I go  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you go to a prostitute and pay for it, then no.
If you expect a woman on here to just give you a blowjob and you not reciprocate anything, then yes."
Am not paying for it that's crazy talk. I just thought it could make some ladies weekend knowing she has done a good deed so I am thinking of her as well  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guess it depends on the woman. If she is happy with the arrangement and enjoys it then what's the problem.
However if she was expecting more then yes shellfish |
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"As in no sex or oral for her or just no more than a blow job for you and lots of oral andfingerung for her?
Nothing for her nope just me getting a blow job cumming and the off I go "
As long as your absolutely clear that that's what's going to happen and the woman completely 100% understands what the meet is about, then it's not selfish. Anything other than that and yes, you would be being selfish.
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"If you go to a prostitute and pay for it, then no.
If you expect a woman on here to just give you a blowjob and you not reciprocate anything, then yes.
Am not paying for it that's crazy talk. I just thought it could make some ladies weekend knowing she has done a good deed so I am thinking of her as well "
Lol...you are doing a service |
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"As in no sex or oral for her or just no more than a blow job for you and lots of oral andfingerung for her?
Nothing for her nope just me getting a blow job cumming and the off I go "
Does she know this will happen? |
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over a year ago
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"As in no sex or oral for her or just no more than a blow job for you and lots of oral andfingerung for her?
Nothing for her nope just me getting a blow job cumming and the off I go "
Sounds perfect  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As in no sex or oral for her or just no more than a blow job for you and lots of oral andfingerung for her?
Nothing for her nope just me getting a blow job cumming and the off I go
Does she know this will happen? "
Nope no offers yet |
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"As in no sex or oral for her or just no more than a blow job for you and lots of oral andfingerung for her?
Nothing for her nope just me getting a blow job cumming and the off I go
Does she know this will happen?
Nope no offers yet "
Haha I mean will you tell her before you meet?
I've done it before, met a guy, sacked him off and he left. All good and horny if I'm in on the plan. It's the one when he promised me the world then nipped out for a fag after I'd worked my magic never to be seen again that pissed me off  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe a little but there's nothing wrong with wanting it.
I'm fairly certain there are women out there that are happy with that arrangement (I haven't met one though). |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As in no sex or oral for her or just no more than a blow job for you and lots of oral andfingerung for her?
Nothing for her nope just me getting a blow job cumming and the off I go
Does she know this will happen?
Nope no offers yet
Haha I mean will you tell her before you meet?
I've done it before, met a guy, sacked him off and he left. All good and horny if I'm in on the plan. It's the one when he promised me the world then nipped out for a fag after I'd worked my magic never to be seen again that pissed me off "
Lol no am not that kinda chap to go with out saying goodbye |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do you think it's selfish of me to just want a blowjob (off a women) and nothing else
Yep! At least offer to return the favour, just plain manners  "
To be honest I normally would I just can't be arsed today lol |
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"As in no sex or oral for her or just no more than a blow job for you and lots of oral andfingerung for her?
Nothing for her nope just me getting a blow job cumming and the off I go "
If the woman you meet agrees to that no, I don't think it's selfish. People get their kicks in all sorts of ways. |
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"Do you think it's selfish of me to just want a blowjob (off a women) and nothing else "
I hate being 'performed upon' yet I will give a BJ til the cows come home. That sounds like an ideal to me |
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Perhaps you should consider playing for the other side...It is fairly common for guys to give blow jobs with no reciprocation required..NRR.
Not always a good thing,for str8's to copy the 'gay model'.
Some of my str8 brothers have always been selfish when it comes to hetro sex..Wham bam thank you mam.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Do you think it's selfish of me to just want a blowjob (off a women) and nothing else
I hate being 'performed upon' yet I will give a BJ til the cows come home. That sounds like an ideal to me"
Am on my way |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Perhaps you should consider playing for the other side...It is fairly common for guys to give blow jobs with no reciprocation required..NRR.
Not always a good thing,for str8's to copy the 'gay model'.
Some of my str8 brothers have always been selfish when it comes to hetro sex..Wham bam thank you mam.."
NOPE in capitals |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you think it's selfish of me to just want a blowjob (off a women) and nothing else
I hate being 'performed upon' yet I will give a BJ til the cows come home. That sounds like an ideal to me"
I like you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do you think it's selfish of me to just want a blowjob (off a women) and nothing else
I hate being 'performed upon' yet I will give a BJ til the cows come home. That sounds like an ideal to me
I like you."
We all like her |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do you think it's selfish of me to just want a blowjob (off a women) and nothing else
Yes that's very selfish
I would not do it.
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Bloody spoil sport  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As in no sex or oral for her or just no more than a blow job for you and lots of oral andfingerung for her?
Nothing for her nope just me getting a blow job cumming and the off I go "
That's very selfish indeed, it's men like you who give single men a bad name. Best stick your hand in your pocket and go elsewhere, that's basically what you want for free. X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As in no sex or oral for her or just no more than a blow job for you and lots of oral andfingerung for her?
Nothing for her nope just me getting a blow job cumming and the off I go
That's very selfish indeed, it's men like you who give single men a bad name. Best stick your hand in your pocket and go elsewhere, that's basically what you want for free. X"
Don't be a baby  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you think it's selfish of me to just want a blowjob (off a women) and nothing else
Yes that's very selfish
I would not do it.
Bloody spoil sport "
No it's not being a spoil sport, I am on here for mutual good sex not to provide Twats like you with blossoms. X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Do you think it's selfish of me to just want a blowjob (off a women) and nothing else
Yes that's very selfish
I would not do it.
Bloody spoil sport
No it's not being a spoil sport, I am on here for mutual good sex not to provide Twats like you with blossoms. X"
Bloody hell that'd swearing at it finest am in shock |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You can ask for whatever you want whether it feels selfish or not,as to whether you'll get it well that's another thing  "
This is true and I know I have not a cat in hells chance lol but if you don't ask you don't get |
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"Do you think it's selfish of me to just want a blowjob (off a women) and nothing else
Yes that's very selfish
I would not do it.
Bloody spoil sport
No it's not being a spoil sport, I am on here for mutual good sex not to provide Twats like you with blossoms. X
Bloody hell that'd swearing at it finest am in shock "
Rather rude wasn't it! |
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"You can ask for whatever you want whether it feels selfish or not,as to whether you'll get it well that's another thing
This is true and I know I have not a cat in hells chance lol but if you don't ask you don't get "
Exactly,good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You can ask for whatever you want whether it feels selfish or not,as to whether you'll get it well that's another thing
G'us a blow job?
No you selfish bugger "
Worth a try. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Actually sometimes I don't want anything in return, I'm just quite happy to give the attention
Same here!  "
I think you women are winding us chaps up or just looking for husbands |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you think it's selfish of me to just want a blowjob (off a women) and nothing else "
Yes
But some women are into this so as long as you are honest I can't see a problem
If you don't say this before hand and drop it out on the meet I'd be furious at you wasting my time when I could have spent that night with somebody more interested in my needs too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As in no sex or oral for her or just no more than a blow job for you and lots of oral andfingerung for her?
Nothing for her nope just me getting a blow job cumming and the off I go "
I had a FWB who wanted that a lot, just pissed me off in the end.
If you make it clear then there's no misunderstanding , but it's not for me. In Noel's words:no deal. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you go to a prostitute and pay for it, then no.
If you expect a woman on here to just give you a blowjob and you not reciprocate anything, then yes.
Am not paying for it that's crazy talk. I just thought it could make some ladies weekend knowing she has done a good deed so I am thinking of her as well "
Your talking bollocks that's what your doing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not at all, sometimes I find myself to only want to suckle on boobs or french kissing a labia without any penetration, it depends on my mood tbh.
So not selfish at all if it isn't always |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you go to a prostitute and pay for it, then no.
If you expect a woman on here to just give you a blowjob and you not reciprocate anything, then yes.
Am not paying for it that's crazy talk. I just thought it could make some ladies weekend knowing she has done a good deed so I am thinking of her as well
Your talking bollocks that's what your doing "
A lot of swearing on here today |
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"Not at all, sometimes I find myself to only want to suckle on boobs or french kissing a labia without any penetration, it depends on my mood tbh.
So not selfish at all if it isn't always "
No penetration!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not at all, sometimes I find myself to only want to suckle on boobs or french kissing a labia without any penetration, it depends on my mood tbh.
So not selfish at all if it isn't always
No penetration! "
The no penatration does not both me at all
I'm happy to do soft meets, infact I prefer them but I'm not being used as a free hooker, and that's what a blow and go meet is to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not at all, sometimes I find myself to only want to suckle on boobs or french kissing a labia without any penetration, it depends on my mood tbh.
So not selfish at all if it isn't always
No penetration! "
Depends on my mood tbh, but sometimes just Oral play is what I want |
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"Not at all, sometimes I find myself to only want to suckle on boobs or french kissing a labia without any penetration, it depends on my mood tbh.
So not selfish at all if it isn't always
No penetration!
The no penatration does not both me at all
I'm happy to do soft meets, infact I prefer them but I'm not being used as a free hooker, and that's what a blow and go meet is to me"
I need penetration! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not at all, sometimes I find myself to only want to suckle on boobs or french kissing a labia without any penetration, it depends on my mood tbh.
So not selfish at all if it isn't always
No penetration!
The no penatration does not both me at all
I'm happy to do soft meets, infact I prefer them but I'm not being used as a free hooker, and that's what a blow and go meet is to me
I need penetration! "
You'll get some with my fingers |
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"Not at all, sometimes I find myself to only want to suckle on boobs or french kissing a labia without any penetration, it depends on my mood tbh.
So not selfish at all if it isn't always
No penetration!
Depends on my mood tbh, but sometimes just Oral play is what I want "
You disappoint me |
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"Not at all, sometimes I find myself to only want to suckle on boobs or french kissing a labia without any penetration, it depends on my mood tbh.
So not selfish at all if it isn't always
No penetration!
The no penatration does not both me at all
I'm happy to do soft meets, infact I prefer them but I'm not being used as a free hooker, and that's what a blow and go meet is to me
I need penetration!
You'll get some with my fingers "
I prefer your cock! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not at all, sometimes I find myself to only want to suckle on boobs or french kissing a labia without any penetration, it depends on my mood tbh.
So not selfish at all if it isn't always
No penetration!
Depends on my mood tbh, but sometimes just Oral play is what I want
You disappoint me "
It won't be the first time better get use to it love  |
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"Not at all, sometimes I find myself to only want to suckle on boobs or french kissing a labia without any penetration, it depends on my mood tbh.
So not selfish at all if it isn't always
No penetration!
The no penatration does not both me at all
I'm happy to do soft meets, infact I prefer them but I'm not being used as a free hooker, and that's what a blow and go meet is to me
I need penetration!
You'll get some with my fingers
I prefer your cock!"
Bloody hell if you insist ! Give your adress you'll get tonight !!! |
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"Not at all, sometimes I find myself to only want to suckle on boobs or french kissing a labia without any penetration, it depends on my mood tbh.
So not selfish at all if it isn't always
No penetration!
Depends on my mood tbh, but sometimes just Oral play is what I want
You disappoint me
It won't be the first time better get use to it love "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you think it's selfish of me to just want a blowjob (off a women) and nothing else "
Sounds like half the guys I meet on here. Put it the other way round, you have given a woman a good time, she has had a nice orgasm, then gets up, puts her knickers on and waltzes out the door? Is she selfish?? |
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I want all kinds of things, including getting my hands on a huge pot of gold at the end of a rainbow. There's no law against having.desires but when it comes to relationships we usually find out by trial and error whether our approach works. Or not..
Find a partner with reciprocal needs and you're quids in, all's perfect. My gut feel is that most people want something in return for their sexual giving of intimacy, that's more than just getting your cock in their gob. I'm guessing you've found similarly op, hence your question.
Are you able to satisfy your partners op, where they have needs for being given more than your cock lobbed out?
Gloryholes can provide an opportunity for a guy's cock to be given unlimited attention. Perhaps make your own? |
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The reason I created a gloryhole was purely selfish...My cock is only for my lovers but I love suckin cock with NRR.. so who is selfish?? (Prob both parties)
Never understood why more women and str8 men don't create their own private gloryholes..the demand for cum n go is phenomenal..see my profile and verifications. . |
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If you tell her this before you put your cock in her mouth - no I don't think it is aslong as she knows and agrees before you start.
After you have shot your load down her throat? Yeah you are an inconsiderate and selfish prick. |
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I once had a guy I met from a certain dating free app, arrange to come over to mine, he said he had a couple of hours spare, he literally turned up, pull his trousers down, I sucked him for a tiny bit then he fucked me, it was literally all of five mins, all the way through I was naively thinking 'he will actually talk to me after' nope, all he asked for was the bin and then left, no bye or anything..felt pretty worthless that afternoon I can tell you but if he made it clear what he wanted I might have felt differently (well I wouldn't have met him if that was the case)
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's a bit selfish, but I've honestly thought about offering this before. I love giving blow jobs.
Offer away
It's Marc offering, not Courtney
Meh! "
Nooooooooooooo |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's a bit selfish, but I've honestly thought about offering this before. I love giving blow jobs.
Offer away
It's Marc offering, not Courtney
Meh! "
Nooooooooooooo |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe a little but there's nothing wrong with wanting it.
I'm fairly certain there are women out there that are happy with that arrangement (I haven't met one though)."
Me! I've done this a few times. Love sucking cock and get so horny off it that I do it, he goes home & I have a play after. Perfect |
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I did a thread like this before where all I wanted to do was a bum lick, wank and swallow a load meet. Was called all sorts for suggesting such a thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I did a thread like this before where all I wanted to do was a bum lick, wank and swallow a load meet. Was called all sorts for suggesting such a thing. "
I bet your inbox was overflowing though |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I did a thread like this before where all I wanted to do was a bum lick, wank and swallow a load meet. Was called all sorts for suggesting such a thing. "
Id quite like that myself! And no
one has the right to call you anything! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I did a thread like this before where all I wanted to do was a bum lick, wank and swallow a load meet. Was called all sorts for suggesting such a thing.
I bet your inbox was overflowing though "
I had my filters on, it was on the old seawitch profile the old seadog the old captain! Would be perfect though, guy on all 4's with socks and t shirt still on gingerly holding his bum cheeks open, being very aware that I was looking at him with his bottom in the air. Then, some licks of his bum hole then some key hole surgery with the tongue, then pulling the bells ropes (wanking) smacking the testicles into my chin and to finish he wanks himself into my mouth. |
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"Maybe a little but there's nothing wrong with wanting it.
I'm fairly certain there are women out there that are happy with that arrangement (I haven't met one though).
Me! I've done this a few times. Love sucking cock and get so horny off it that I do it, he goes home & I have a play after. Perfect "
You sound perfect |
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"I'm guessing that OP hasn't had any genuine offers yet ....
Not that I'm surprised though. "
Well you would be right there are no Good Samaritan out there |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you go to a prostitute and pay for it, then no.
If you expect a woman on here to just give you a blowjob and you not reciprocate anything, then yes.
Am not paying for it that's crazy talk. I just thought it could make some ladies weekend knowing she has done a good deed so I am thinking of her as well "
Bless, you're ALL heart |
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"If you go to a prostitute and pay for it, then no.
If you expect a woman on here to just give you a blowjob and you not reciprocate anything, then yes.
Am not paying for it that's crazy talk. I just thought it could make some ladies weekend knowing she has done a good deed so I am thinking of her as well
Bless, you're ALL heart "
Lol thanks |
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