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over a year ago
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"Personally I think its lazy. If you're going to make the effort to go all the way to the park then make the most of the swings I say.
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"Personally I think its lazy. If you're going to make the effort to go all the way to the park then make the most of the swings I say.
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Maybe they get motion sickness? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most common but not exclusive to couples, we do it a lot, all the 4 play is there as a group but you end up doing the penetrative bit with your own partner. Suits us as L mostly likes to get time with the other woman. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally I think its lazy. If you're going to make the effort to go all the way to the park then make the most of the swings I say.
Be sensible its was a serious question "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Personally I think its lazy. If you're going to make the effort to go all the way to the park then make the most of the swings I say.
Be sensible its was a serious question
Sorry OP "
Let you off but if you would of carried on you would be over my knee getting a red arse |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's the only way we play with couples, well I say that like it's present tense, our first one is tonight.
Everyone has their own boundaries, neither L nor I are interested in sharing full penetration with another male.
L is happy for me to have full sex with another female, but that's not usually going to be a fair arrangement to the couple involved so we keep it to soft unless they make it plain they are happy to have it unbalanced.
Which is why we would generally prefer single females, but unfortunately most of them are either fakes or flakes, so we have widened our scope. And to be fair the couple we are meeting tonight are lovely so we have no issues there |
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By *xxxMan
over a year ago
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"It's the only way we play with couples, well I say that like it's present tense, our first one is tonight.
Everyone has their own boundaries, neither L nor I are interested in sharing full penetration with another male.
L is happy for me to have full sex with another female, but that's not usually going to be a fair arrangement to the couple involved so we keep it to soft unless they make it plain they are happy to have it unbalanced.
Which is why we would generally prefer single females, but unfortunately most of them are either fakes or flakes, so we have widened our scope. And to be fair the couple we are meeting tonight are lovely so we have no issues there "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's the only way we play with couples, well I say that like it's present tense, our first one is tonight.
Everyone has their own boundaries, neither L nor I are interested in sharing full penetration with another male.
L is happy for me to have full sex with another female, but that's not usually going to be a fair arrangement to the couple involved so we keep it to soft unless they make it plain they are happy to have it unbalanced.
Which is why we would generally prefer single females, but unfortunately most of them are either fakes or flakes, so we have widened our scope. And to be fair the couple we are meeting tonight are lovely so we have no issues there "
Mrs: Same here, unless the other girl wants to share my Mr  |
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We are soft swap only now and find the meets to be the better ones, we do shares single fems but i let Mrs p4k run the show in that situation.. unfortunatley you do get get tarnished as a soft swinger, most want all or nothing and they can be super interested in you until you mention you do not full swap, then they can be outright rude in most cases, generally find its the guys who get shitty as they just want to fuck everyone else Mrs and not there own!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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i prefer soft swing as i find guys tend to take longer over the foreplay if theres no shag to come
A lot of guys i was meeting just wanted a blow job, give a token two licks then onto non stop fucking till they cum, which wasnt really cutting it for me as i love a lot of oral and foreplay, both ways, so i found by only meeting soft swing it either put off the type of guys i didnt want anyway or i got more fulfilling session |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are soft swap only now and find the meets to be the better ones, we do shares single fems but i let Mrs p4k run the show in that situation.. unfortunatley you do get get tarnished as a soft swinger, most want all or nothing and they can be super interested in you until you mention you do not full swap, then they can be outright rude in most cases, generally find its the guys who get shitty as they just want to fuck everyone else Mrs and not there own! "
Yeah that's an attitude I've seen a lot. Wouldn't say it's been most for us, a small minority, but I hear it a lot for others.
Fact is, yes, for another couple our ideal meet would be selfish. That's exactly WHY we make it soft only. To make it fair to all parties. They don't seem to see it that way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The other advantage is it stretches the play to several hours usually "
That's laziness on any man's part. That should happen naturally anyways IMO on any meet or its a bit of a let down for both parties. It's why I won't do short quick meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are soft swap only now and find the meets to be the better ones, we do shares single fems but i let Mrs p4k run the show in that situation.. unfortunatley you do get get tarnished as a soft swinger, most want all or nothing and they can be super interested in you until you mention you do not full swap, then they can be outright rude in most cases, generally find its the guys who get shitty as they just want to fuck everyone else Mrs and not there own!
Yeah that's an attitude I've seen a lot. Wouldn't say it's been most for us, a small minority, but I hear it a lot for others.
Fact is, yes, for another couple our ideal meet would be selfish. That's exactly WHY we make it soft only. To make it fair to all parties. They don't seem to see it that way."
Absolutley, sorry didnt want to generalise but its most cases for us.. infact its happened today.. wink wink, message sent, oh soft swap, ignored lol.. never mind  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally I think its lazy. If you're going to make the effort to go all the way to the park then make the most of the swings I say.
Be sensible its was a serious question
Sorry OP
Let you off but if you would of carried on you would be over my knee getting a red arse "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"pointless
Typical male response, just out to get his wick wet!! "
Typical couples reply. ..not generalising or stereotyping in any respect...but if a couple just want to have a play thing come along then that's the type or response I'd expect.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We like it .
It involves pretty much everything except penetrative sex.
We enjoy swinging in all its guises, from voyeurism in clubs to full swap, except separate rooms.
Never separate rooms for us either, that would change things completely.
Nita"
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