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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I recently talked to a guy who wouldn't meet a woman if she'd been with a bi guy. However 2 of his verifications are from bi women. He said that's different.
What's your opinion? |
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By *ax1971Man
over a year ago
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It is double standards... But I guess I've also got double standards... I'll watch ff porn.. Or real thing if I'm lucky... But I won't watch mm... I know it doesn't Answer your question... But it's a messed up world... X x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I come across a profile saying "... and if you've ever slept with a bi man pass us by!" I block them. I'd block them even if I hadn't have had sex with a bi man.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It is different think about it.
Its up to him isn't it."
Yes it's up to him
My question is do you think it's double standards. I'm trying to gage if people think bi men and bi women are different. I don't but seems some do |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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Its hypocrisy, pure and simple, but its practiced on here by the majority of men and quite a few women, so best thing to do is just shrug, hope he treads on a plug one day, and move on. |
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"It is different think about it.
Its up to him isn't it.
Yes it's up to him
My question is do you think it's double standards. I'm trying to gage if people think bi men and bi women are different. I don't but seems some do "
Sorry no I don't think its double standards and of course bi men are different to bi women. How could they be the same. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I come across a profile saying "... and if you've ever slept with a bi man pass us by!" I block them. I'd block them even if I hadn't have had sex with a bi man. "
Hypocracy and narrow mindedness! You'd have thought that somewhere like should would show a more inclusive liberal group of people...as if! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why do people bother to insult other people for their preferences.
If he had such preference its up to him, why the need to insult him for it."
Read again. I'm asking if you consider it double standards |
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"I recently talked to a guy who wouldn't meet a woman if she'd been with a bi guy. However 2 of his verifications are from bi women. He said that's different.
What's your opinion? "
How would he know?
It's his choice at the end of the day but unless all of his meets keep meticulous records of who they fuck he would never know for sure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I recently talked to a guy who wouldn't meet a woman if she'd been with a bi guy. However 2 of his verifications are from bi women. He said that's different.
What's your opinion? "
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I'd say he's a numpty!!!  |
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"It is different think about it.
Its up to him isn't it.
Yes it's up to him
My question is do you think it's double standards. I'm trying to gage if people think bi men and bi women are different. I don't but seems some do
Sorry no I don't think its double standards and of course bi men are different to bi women. How could they be the same."
Why do you feel they are different? Less risk or are you simply thinking of the different genitals? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do people bother to insult other people for their preferences.
If he had such preference its up to him, why the need to insult him for it.
Read again. I'm asking if you consider it double standards "
I wasn't quoting you OP, apologies if it seemed that way. |
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"It is different think about it.
Its up to him isn't it.
Yes it's up to him
My question is do you think it's double standards. I'm trying to gage if people think bi men and bi women are different. I don't but seems some do
Sorry no I don't think its double standards and of course bi men are different to bi women. How could they be the same."
For me the classic double standard on this site is from people who will not reply to messages if you don't have a face pic but when you look to their profile they have no face pics. Sometimes no pics at all and may even have hidden their entire profile.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why do people bother to insult other people for their preferences.
If he had such preference its up to him, why the need to insult him for it.
Read again. I'm asking if you consider it double standards
I wasn't quoting you OP, apologies if it seemed that way."
No problem
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It is different think about it.
Its up to him isn't it.
Yes it's up to him
My question is do you think it's double standards. I'm trying to gage if people think bi men and bi women are different. I don't but seems some do
Sorry no I don't think its double standards and of course bi men are different to bi women. How could they be the same.
Why do you feel they are different? Less risk or are you simply thinking of the different genitals? "
This is what I'm trying to gather let's be honest men whether straight bi or gay like anal. Is this more unsafe than two women "tribbing" thread up and running. Safe sex or not we're all at risk if we don't play safe so what makes a bi man and bi woman different. Bi women if they do this can't play safe |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do people bother to insult other people for their preferences.
If he had such preference its up to him, why the need to insult him for it.
Read again. I'm asking if you consider it double standards "
Yes I do think it is, the assumption of increased risk from bi guys supposes an awful lot of what ifs, unless of course he's just a bigot. But I guess that is his choice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not related but I always chuckle when I see profiles from couples saying they won't meet bi guys, then you look at some of the Veris and do a little diggin and guess what |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It is different think about it.
Its up to him isn't it.
Yes it's up to him
My question is do you think it's double standards. I'm trying to gage if people think bi men and bi women are different. I don't but seems some do
Sorry no I don't think its double standards and of course bi men are different to bi women. How could they be the same."
This.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"or he believes bi guys are a higher risk"
Exactly what I was going to say, truthfully Bi guys are higher risk than Bi ladies. I don't meet Bi guys or anyone who has met them. Personal preference XXX |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"Why do people bother to insult other people for their preferences.
If he had such preference its up to him, why the need to insult him for it.
Read again. I'm asking if you consider it double standards "
what if a woman had been with a bi guy but on here he said he was straight..?? i would say the guy is being unrealistic in his thinking that girls who like guys, dont ever go with bi men, known or unknown...i would say hes shortening his odds quite considerably..
as for double standards...any preference is a preference on here..doesnt make sense to me, but im sure he has his 'reasons' x |
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"I recently talked to a guy who wouldn't meet a woman if she'd been with a bi guy. However 2 of his verifications are from bi women. He said that's different.
What's your opinion? "
I'd say you had a lucky escape |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"or he believes bi guys are a higher risk"
It will no doubt be that ..... Clinics do make a point of saying bi guys are the riskiest group .
We used to pay heed to this advice until about a year ago , then relaxed our rule . Started meeting bi guys and TVs and we've never had so much fun !
And still sti free  |
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"or he believes bi guys are a higher risk
Exactly what I was going to say, truthfully Bi guys are higher risk than Bi ladies. I don't meet Bi guys or anyone who has met them. Personal preference XXX"
You don't know really whether you have met a bi guy or not,so many don't advertise it trust me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"or he believes bi guys are a higher risk
Exactly what I was going to say, truthfully Bi guys are higher risk than Bi ladies. I don't meet Bi guys or anyone who has met them. Personal preference XXX"
Surely risk is down to the individual
I'd say a bi guy who always practice's safe sex is a lot lower risk than a woman who fucks a straight guy who does not always practice safe sex
Thing is you just don't know who does and who does not use condoms so you could meet somebody who never has any contact with bi guys but like the odd bareback session and give you something
The trick is to realise every single person you meet has the potential to have something so just protect yourself the best you can
I've met loads of bi guys and never cought anything of any of them |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"or he believes bi guys are a higher risk
It will no doubt be that ..... Clinics do make a point of saying bi guys are the riskiest group .
We used to pay heed to this advice until about a year ago , then relaxed our rule . Started meeting bi guys and TVs and we've never had so much fun !
And still sti free "
I agree with this
My best sessions have always involved bi guys |
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"I recently talked to a guy who wouldn't meet a woman if she'd been with a bi guy. However 2 of his verifications are from bi women. He said that's different.
What's your opinion? "
Maybe he is scared of catching the male version of gay second hand, where as everyone knows the female version can't be caught by men xxx |
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"I recently talked to a guy who wouldn't meet a woman if she'd been with a bi guy. However 2 of his verifications are from bi women. He said that's different.
What's your opinion?
Maybe he is scared of catching the male version of gay second hand, where as everyone knows the female version can't be caught by men xxx"
Are you sure men can't catch second hand gay from women?
When I was younger I kissed a girl who had kissed a girl and I've liked kissing females ever since! |
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"I recently talked to a guy who wouldn't meet a woman if she'd been with a bi guy. However 2 of his verifications are from bi women. He said that's different.
What's your opinion?
I'd say you had a lucky escape "
From what? |
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"I recently talked to a guy who wouldn't meet a woman if she'd been with a bi guy. However 2 of his verifications are from bi women. He said that's different.
What's your opinion?
I'd say you had a lucky escape
From what? "
From a guy with different attitude to the one which the lady who posted has so not an ideal match for sex |
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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago
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"I recently talked to a guy who wouldn't meet a woman if she'd been with a bi guy. However 2 of his verifications are from bi women. He said that's different.
What's your opinion? "
People are just strange |
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