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Personality or Looks? Which one turns you on most?
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By *llebWoman
over a year ago
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So when trawling through this site , perhaps on a search, what entices you to stop and contact.
Something they wrote in their profile?
Can you honestly say that when searching looks has nothing to do with what you're looking for ?
Being honest, I have to say the eye candy element and location has a lot to do with who I contact and respond to
Oh and cock size isn't a deal breaker as I'm so sick of seeing the cock compared to a can of deodorant  |
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"So when trawling through this site , perhaps on a search, what entices you to stop and contact.
Something they wrote in their profile?
Can you honestly say that when searching looks has nothing to do with what you're looking for ?
Being honest, I have to say the eye candy element and location has a lot to do with who I contact and respond to
Oh and cock size isn't a deal breaker as I'm so sick of seeing the cock compared to a can of deodorant "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So when trawling through this site , perhaps on a search, what entices you to stop and contact.
Something they wrote in their profile?
Can you honestly say that when searching looks has nothing to do with what you're looking for ?
Being honest, I have to say the eye candy element and location has a lot to do with who I contact and respond to
Oh and cock size isn't a deal breaker as I'm so sick of seeing the cock compared to a can of deodorant "
A profile with no pics but text I like will attract me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Looks will attract me initially, but the personality will keep me attracted. "
Same here its building up conversation and getting to know some.one and having a chuckle |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"looks like I'm screwed on both fronts as I don't have looks or personality "
You are exactly the type I'd mail. I read profiles. Don't put yourself down. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its good to know that you could look like a cows backside but most of the fab ladies dont mind as long as you can make them laugh  "
Ha ha !!!
Love it 
Honesty is always the best policy , unless you want to be the odd one out and tell it like it is .
Of course looks are a major part , if not the only part initially .
If the looks are good and the personality matches it's a bonus , but if they look like a cows backside we ain't gonna find out if they make us laugh 
There would be nothing worse than having a meet with someone who wasn't physically gonna do it for you would there ? It's alright for women , a bit of lube applied on the sly and no ones the wiser , but for us guys ? All the viagra in the world won't do a thing if she doesn't do it for us is it ?
And that would be embarressing and demeaning for everyone . Very poor etiquette indeed .
So let's be honest , how many people would happily jump into bed with anyone who they didn't find physically attractive ?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its good to know that you could look like a cows backside but most of the fab ladies dont mind as long as you can make them laugh
Ha ha !!!
Love it
Honesty is always the best policy , unless you want to be the odd one out and tell it like it is .
Of course looks are a major part , if not the only part initially .
If the looks are good and the personality matches it's a bonus , but if they look like a cows backside we ain't gonna find out if they make us laugh
There would be nothing worse than having a meet with someone who wasn't physically gonna do it for you would there ? It's alright for women , a bit of lube applied on the sly and no ones the wiser , but for us guys ? All the viagra in the world won't do a thing if she doesn't do it for us is it ?
And that would be embarressing and demeaning for everyone . Very poor etiquette indeed .
So let's be honest , how many people would happily jump into bed with anyone who they didn't find physically attractive ?
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"Its good to know that you could look like a cows backside but most of the fab ladies dont mind as long as you can make them laugh "
Why I often flop my cock out...never fails to create a giggle. |
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"Its good to know that you could look like a cows backside but most of the fab ladies dont mind as long as you can make them laugh
Why I often flop my cock out...never fails to create a giggle. "
You don't look like a cows backside though! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So when trawling through this site , perhaps on a search, what entices you to stop and contact.
Something they wrote in their profile?
Can you honestly say that when searching looks has nothing to do with what you're looking for ?
Being honest, I have to say the eye candy element and location has a lot to do with who I contact and respond to
Oh and cock size isn't a deal breaker as I'm so sick of seeing the cock compared to a can of deodorant "
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"Is it better to have sex with a person who has a great personality or looks great? Tell me your experiences"
In a pub club supermarket etc situation there has to be that initial attraction of the look to get you interested but in say a work environment there might be a slow burner where someone's personality makes you interested.
In my local there is a girl that comes in all tits and make up and a lot of the guys flock to her, but to me her attitude is unattractive so I talk to a plain jane with a great soh and we have a brilliant night |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Both, if I don't fancy them it's never going to happen but if after talking for a while we have little connection they don't look so good. On here I'm very shallow but when looking for a relationship personality wins the day, I've dated some odd looking men  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I couldn't choose. One without the other wouldn't turn me on.....unless i was going to be blindfolded (if i didn't find them attractive) or they were going to be gagged (if i didn't like their personality)! |
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"I need both to some extent. Both looks and personality need to appeal.
If one aspect appeals very strongly, however, I can be more flexible on the other."
Exactly. When window shopping on a website obviously the physical is usually what attracts initially, but I can be 'caught' by wit and charm, or something entirely unexpected. |
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"Personality, please.
A profile that hints at intelligence, humour and a lack of cynicism is more beautiful than any picture."
Wow, aren't you a gem among men lol! I love what you've written actually, shame you're so far away.  |
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I am attracted to a beautiful bloke. He turns out to be a boring , self obsessed, uneducated, dull dull dull bastard. = NO SEX.
I am NOT attracted to an ordinary looking bloke. He turns out to be a laugh a minute, astute at keying in to others, conniving, sweetly manipulative, charming , safe, knowledgable , chirpy , non desperate take me or leave me type. = Sex ....
So ...personality in the end I guess. |
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Both please. The wrong looks or personality can kill it.
And the right looks or personality can take me to heaven - assuming there's more than an adequate provision of the other.
It's hard for many of us to really reveal much more than a whisper of our personality within a short profile text. (will fill in later, etc). So having a chat helps me connect to the person, sensing their warmth and traits that I like.
The forum does let us have a reasonable go at finding the gist of someone, so is a good place to find people that you'd be drawn to. Hello my lovelies |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am attracted to a beautiful bloke. He turns out to be a boring , self obsessed, uneducated, dull dull dull bastard. = NO SEX.
I am NOT attracted to an ordinary looking bloke. He turns out to be a laugh a minute, astute at keying in to others, conniving, sweetly manipulative, charming , safe, knowledgable , chirpy , non desperate take me or leave me type. = Sex ....
So ...personality in the end I guess."
Ok , I totally get the ordinary guy and there may not be a physical attraction until he turns out to have an engaging personality .
But what if he is truly unattractive to you ?
Not ordinary , but everything you dislike physically ?
Would his personality still be enough ? |
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"I am attracted to a beautiful bloke. He turns out to be a boring , self obsessed, uneducated, dull dull dull bastard. = NO SEX.
I am NOT attracted to an ordinary looking bloke. He turns out to be a laugh a minute, astute at keying in to others, conniving, sweetly manipulative, charming , safe, knowledgable , chirpy , non desperate take me or leave me type. = Sex ....
So ...personality in the end I guess.
Ok , I totally get the ordinary guy and there may not be a physical attraction until he turns out to have an engaging personality .
But what if he is truly unattractive to you ?
Not ordinary , but everything you dislike physically ?
Would his personality still be enough ? "
Good question. No.
But mine might be dependent on the kink... the dirty aspect rather than the attraction one.....
It's all kinds of complicated now! |
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On here initially it's all about the looks but personality kicks in when you start to actually talk or meet. If you don't click, if there's no chemistry, then that's the end surely.
Much the same in real life but it's easier to talk and so personality becomes more important. Thankfully ') |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Call me Shallow Hal but I ain't having sex with someone I don't find physically attractive.
Saying that if they're as dull as ditch water they ain't getting in my knickers even if they do look like an Adonis.
#FussyFucker
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I'm going to meet someone I have to be attracted to both, personality and looks.
If she lacks personality then might as well meet up with a starfish.
I don't find her attractive, then I don't find her attractive... |
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By *hav02Man
over a year ago
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Well having chatted all day with a woman including her adding me as a friend, I'd say i have a good personality.
But the moment i send her a pic, I'm blocked. Either she's a racist c*nt or shallow. either way, she wasn't a looker anyway so I'm better off
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've always found a great personality always caught my attention more so than just looks.
"‘You know when sometimes you meet someone so beautiful and then you actually talk to them, and five minutes later they’re as dull as a brick. Then there’s other people, and you meet them and think, not bad, they’re okay. And then you get to know them, and their face just sort of becomes them, like their personality’s written all over it. And they just turn into something so beautiful." |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Try as I might (I've tried) I can't get with anyone if they are devoid of wit and charm.
Even in clubs, I find there has to be an element of fun and humour before we get naked. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Has to be personality, but that only works once you've got to know them, we all base an initial attraction on the physical side, I'd sooner be with a really funny average looking person than a boring stunner!... the personality will make the average looking person stunning |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Firstly looks because he can be the funniest and most articulate person ever but if I don't fancy him....it's not going to happen. I haven't really met anyone with a dull personality...just a few that don't like to chat too much...just like to fuck!!! |
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