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Hi there, I have been approached by a couple asking me to be their plaything/slave. This is to include anal from both he and she. How painful is anal? Any advice? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi there, I have been approached by a couple asking me to be their plaything/slave. This is to include anal from both he and she. How painful is anal? Any advice?"
Depends if you are lubed or not
Give it a ago and let us know |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I find it too painful but it might be down to the fact I just can't relax. But if your willing to try it go for it, you won't know unless you try just use plenty of lube, take it slow and relax |
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"Hi there, I have been approached by a couple asking me to be their plaything/slave. This is to include anal from both he and she. How painful is anal? Any advice?"
Really really depends...
Long story short... It hurts.
It also feels awesome. I LOVE being pegged but need a fair bit of lube. I also can't take anything too big (the strap in the photos is my absolute limit at the moment). But you can train yourself with butt plugs to take more.
I'd say meet up, have a couple of sessions and see how it goes.
Nothing to lose... Aside from the full use of your sphincter of course  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi there, I have been approached by a couple asking me to be their plaything/slave. This is to include anal from both he and she. How painful is anal? Any advice?
Really really depends...
Long story short... It hurts.
It also feels awesome. I LOVE being pegged but need a fair bit of lube. I also can't take anything too big (the strap in the photos is my absolute limit at the moment). But you can train yourself with butt plugs to take more.
I'd say meet up, have a couple of sessions and see how it goes.
Nothing to lose... Aside from the full use of your sphincter of course "
That strap on is pretty big |
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There is no need for pain. You'll likely find it unusual at first but your first time doesn't need to be having a 12" strap-on or cock slammed dry right into you.
Prepare in advance by getting used to being penetrated. Use loads of lube and relax. Developing relaxation down there will vastly increase your pleasure and it will become a habit, if practiced enough.
Discuss your being new with them, so you can experiment to make it easier and more pleasurable.
If you haven't got dildos, love honey could help or consider having another meet with someone, if you've time, to remove first time stress.
Aim to do it when you're most aroused and consider having a good workout first. I think a rugby team, after a game, would find getting fucked more of a doddle. |
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"Hi there, I have been approached by a couple asking me to be their plaything/slave. This is to include anal from both he and she. How painful is anal? Any advice?"
if your to be their play thing I will not matter if it hurts you should just thank them for giving you pleasure |
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If you haven't ever played there before I would suggest you do before going for full anal. Use some toys to get you started and work up in size slowly. Loads of decent lube will help too  |
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"There is no need for pain. You'll likely find it unusual at first but your first time doesn't need to be having a 12" strap-on or cock slammed dry right into you.
Prepare in advance by getting used to being penetrated. Use loads of lube and relax. Developing relaxation down there will vastly increase your pleasure and it will become a habit, if practiced enough.
Discuss your being new with them, so you can experiment to make it easier and more pleasurable.
If you haven't got dildos, love honey could help or consider having another meet with someone, if you've time, to remove first time stress.
Aim to do it when you're most aroused and consider having a good workout first. I think a rugby team, after a game, would find getting fucked more of a doddle. "
Great answer Sophie.
If it hurts then either you are not relaxed enough or you haven't used enough lube.
Anal should not hurt and if it does stop!
We both enjoy anal play but there has to be preparation.
Nita |
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Get them to lube you, insert fingers one at a time until used to it. Then another finger , get them to try to massage prostate as well. Do that you'll relax more lube then try cock . feel resistance push down as if going for poop should help |
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