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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I was never fussy whenni was single...i take my rejection how it comes 
Still do in fact  "
Awww! I'd only reject you if you didn't provide chocolate buttons.  |
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A no thanks with a bit of a reason to me if someone has taken time to write a decent message - a fancy a fuck deserves what it gets but if I've taken time to read the profile check for key words to include, attach photos and write a half decent message I think the least I want is a no thanks due to....
That said I realise how many messages women and couples receive...
Who fucking knows lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No thanks. It's clear polite and respectful. End of and NEXT x For me a no reply/delete/ ignore just gets blocked after a 3 day wait with a note added against profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was never fussy whenni was single...i take my rejection how it comes
Still do in fact
Awww! I'd only reject you if you didn't provide chocolate buttons. "
stockpiling them as we speak! Gonna heap 'em up into a big melty bed |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP. what would you prefer?"
Women don't get rejected
But in all honesty, I'd prefer a no thanks so I'd know not to bother them again. Granted, if someone sends a polite message I'll reply back if I'm not interested. If it's a graphic, the same copy paste message the same user has sent before or just plain repulsive, I'll probably delete the message & block the person. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I was never fussy whenni was single...i take my rejection how it comes
Still do in fact
Awww! I'd only reject you if you didn't provide chocolate buttons.
stockpiling them as we speak! Gonna heap 'em up into a big melty bed "
You're strange |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's nice to know if they're not interested by a "no thanks", but never expect a reply to be honest, I certainly wouldn't send a second message if I've had nothing from the first. A no reply also means a no thanks to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP. what would you prefer?
Women don't get rejected
But in all honesty, I'd prefer a no thanks so I'd know not to bother them again. Granted, if someone sends a polite message I'll reply back if I'm not interested. If it's a graphic, the same copy paste message the same user has sent before or just plain repulsive, I'll probably delete the message & block the person."
OP. you can't be fairer than that.
you got a good policy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was never fussy whenni was single...i take my rejection how it comes
Still do in fact
Awww! I'd only reject you if you didn't provide chocolate buttons.
stockpiling them as we speak! Gonna heap 'em up into a big melty bed
You're strange "
And also chocolaty |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I was never fussy whenni was single...i take my rejection how it comes
Still do in fact
Awww! I'd only reject you if you didn't provide chocolate buttons.
stockpiling them as we speak! Gonna heap 'em up into a big melty bed
You're strange
And also chocolaty "
You do not want to get melted chocolate matted into your body hair! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was never fussy whenni was single...i take my rejection how it comes
Still do in fact
Awww! I'd only reject you if you didn't provide chocolate buttons.
stockpiling them as we speak! Gonna heap 'em up into a big melty bed
You're strange
And also chocolaty
You do not want to get melted chocolate matted into your body hair!"
The tender bits are shaved...it's cool |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's always nice to get a thanks but no thanks or a your not my type. To which I usually send a thanks for your reply.
But I don't actually expect to get a reply if they are not interested. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What would you prefer - a non-reply or a "no thanks"?"
If I send an unsolicited message and no reply, no problem. In fact probably better no reply. If I look on a profile and it days I messaged them 2 months ago but no reply I know not to message again. If replies I might think we had a bit of banter that fizzled out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The amount of messages a single woman gets from single guys is ridiculous, to reply to each message would take ages. Xx"
filters filters or block all, do your own search |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The amount of messages a single woman gets from single guys is ridiculous, to reply to each message would take ages. Xx"
Not all single women get 100s of messages a day though. |
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"What would you prefer - a non-reply or a "no thanks"?"
Can't say it really matters as both lead to the same result anyway eh?
To be honest when I used to make an effort I rarely ever went around cold messaging people on here, most off the women/couples I spoke to where mainly people I spoke with off the forums/chat rooms or the forum social I went to once..
Aside from that well It's rare for me to approach/flirt with anyone in real life let alone on fab too so....it's all the same really if their not interested in everyday life it's not going to be any different on here now is it?
More important things in life to worry about anyway if you ask me... |
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"No thanks. It's clear polite and respectful. End of and NEXT x For me a no reply/delete/ ignore just gets blocked after a 3 day wait with a note added against profile."
But what if I go away on a long weekend??  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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When we've not got filters on, we usually copy and paste a polite no thanks message, saves typing it out each time.
That often leads to a counter message saying thanks for the reply, which is filling our inbox up as we're trying to empty it.
It then opens up our inbox to more and more people when the filters are on.
There's a lot more to not replying than just being ignorant as a lot of people see it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I was never fussy whenni was single...i take my rejection how it comes
Still do in fact
Awww! I'd only reject you if you didn't provide chocolate buttons.
stockpiling them as we speak! Gonna heap 'em up into a big melty bed
You're strange
And also chocolaty
You do not want to get melted chocolate matted into your body hair!
The tender bits are shaved...it's cool "
I just have a mental image of you with melted chocolate in every nook & cranny. You've ruined me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was never fussy whenni was single...i take my rejection how it comes
Still do in fact
Awww! I'd only reject you if you didn't provide chocolate buttons.
stockpiling them as we speak! Gonna heap 'em up into a big melty bed
You're strange
And also chocolaty
You do not want to get melted chocolate matted into your body hair!
The tender bits are shaved...it's cool
I just have a mental image of you with melted chocolate in every nook & cranny. You've ruined me! "
Correction... He WANTS to |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I was never fussy whenni was single...i take my rejection how it comes
Still do in fact
Awww! I'd only reject you if you didn't provide chocolate buttons.
stockpiling them as we speak! Gonna heap 'em up into a big melty bed
You're strange
And also chocolaty
You do not want to get melted chocolate matted into your body hair!
The tender bits are shaved...it's cool
I just have a mental image of you with melted chocolate in every nook & cranny. You've ruined me!
Correction... He WANTS to "
It's like you're implying that he's a pervert! As IF. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was never fussy whenni was single...i take my rejection how it comes
Still do in fact
Awww! I'd only reject you if you didn't provide chocolate buttons.
stockpiling them as we speak! Gonna heap 'em up into a big melty bed
You're strange
And also chocolaty
You do not want to get melted chocolate matted into your body hair!
The tender bits are shaved...it's cool
I just have a mental image of you with melted chocolate in every nook & cranny. You've ruined me!
Correction... He WANTS to
It's like you're implying that he's a pervert! As IF. "
Implying? Heaven forbid no...
We KNOW he is |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I was never fussy whenni was single...i take my rejection how it comes
Still do in fact
Awww! I'd only reject you if you didn't provide chocolate buttons.
stockpiling them as we speak! Gonna heap 'em up into a big melty bed
You're strange
And also chocolaty
You do not want to get melted chocolate matted into your body hair!
The tender bits are shaved...it's cool
I just have a mental image of you with melted chocolate in every nook & cranny. You've ruined me!
Correction... He WANTS to
It's like you're implying that he's a pervert! As IF.
Implying? Heaven forbid no...
We KNOW he is "
He's an angel.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was never fussy whenni was single...i take my rejection how it comes
Still do in fact
Awww! I'd only reject you if you didn't provide chocolate buttons.
stockpiling them as we speak! Gonna heap 'em up into a big melty bed
You're strange
And also chocolaty
You do not want to get melted chocolate matted into your body hair!
The tender bits are shaved...it's cool
I just have a mental image of you with melted chocolate in every nook & cranny. You've ruined me!
Correction... He WANTS to
It's like you're implying that he's a pervert! As IF.
Implying? Heaven forbid no...
We KNOW he is "
Whoa whoa whoa! What's happened here?!
I've been bloody rumbled aint i?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was never fussy whenni was single...i take my rejection how it comes
Still do in fact
Awww! I'd only reject you if you didn't provide chocolate buttons.
stockpiling them as we speak! Gonna heap 'em up into a big melty bed
You're strange
And also chocolaty
You do not want to get melted chocolate matted into your body hair!
The tender bits are shaved...it's cool
I just have a mental image of you with melted chocolate in every nook & cranny. You've ruined me!
Correction... He WANTS to
It's like you're implying that he's a pervert! As IF.
Implying? Heaven forbid no...
We KNOW he is
He's an angel.
"
Errrr...yeah...angel and that eh That's definitely me...yup...wings the lot  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I was never fussy whenni was single...i take my rejection how it comes
Still do in fact
Awww! I'd only reject you if you didn't provide chocolate buttons.
stockpiling them as we speak! Gonna heap 'em up into a big melty bed
You're strange
And also chocolaty
You do not want to get melted chocolate matted into your body hair!
The tender bits are shaved...it's cool
I just have a mental image of you with melted chocolate in every nook & cranny. You've ruined me!
Correction... He WANTS to
It's like you're implying that he's a pervert! As IF.
Implying? Heaven forbid no...
We KNOW he is
He's an angel.
Errrr...yeah...angel and that eh That's definitely me...yup...wings the lot "
I knew it. I was trying to protect your virtue.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was never fussy whenni was single...i take my rejection how it comes
Still do in fact
Awww! I'd only reject you if you didn't provide chocolate buttons.
stockpiling them as we speak! Gonna heap 'em up into a big melty bed
You're strange
And also chocolaty
You do not want to get melted chocolate matted into your body hair!
The tender bits are shaved...it's cool
I just have a mental image of you with melted chocolate in every nook & cranny. You've ruined me!
Correction... He WANTS to
It's like you're implying that he's a pervert! As IF.
Implying? Heaven forbid no...
We KNOW he is
He's an angel.
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So's Lucifer
Mx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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See I'm a really nice polite girl and find it hard not to reply. It's not in my nature. But I get sooooo many messages a day and even when you say no thanks it's never the end.
So as hard as it may be I just don't reply. And if I send a message and don't get a reply it really doesn't bother me at all. |
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As a single woman that does do the searching and send the ice breaking first message I don't mind if I don't get a reply. I've always looked at it in the way of why waste your time chatting to someone that you're not going to meet, especially when in my case my time to meet is limited
If I want to have a serious chat/debate or just chat random shit, that's what the forums are for |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What would you prefer - a non-reply or a "no thanks"?"
non reply.. In the months ahead i may forget i mailed you and will get a caution message. Wheras if you reply it cancels it out
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I'd love to send a no thanks, with a pair of my special nickers for good measure. But it ain't happening. It's painful to be on sometimes and see the inbox inflate.
Sometimes I feel like death warmed up - though probably just a degree or so up - and they want to be around fucking me even more senseless within a couple of minutes. I've heard of bags over the head but I'm not stooping to a body bag, because I'm semi conscious and rough as. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think it should be personal choice! I think no thanks would be better as I know I don't have to bother you again whereas if you don't reply I might think you have saved the message for the future reply and will message some day :P But usally I would prefer yes please :P |
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