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Why can't he accommodate?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I'm guessing in over half of cases...probably more it's because he's in a relationship.

The majority of single guys out there, over 30 live alone or at least house share etc.

And add to that no face pic! What's everyone's thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

i can accommodate

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By *odareyouMan  over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

All of the reasons levelled at single guys can just as easily be levelled at any other demographic.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman  over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

There's certainly many reasons why someone can't accommodate,it makes me very wary though and I tend to move on from those that can't

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"All of the reasons levelled at single guys can just as easily be levelled at any other demographic. "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Very wide statement if I may say?

I am single by choice as the woman of my dreams has yet to seek me out. I work away a lot so this life suits me. I have a nice home and have invited a number of Fabsters to it for an evening of adult interaction!

Just saying!

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"I'm guessing in over half of cases...probably more it's because he's in a relationship.

The majority of single guys out there, over 30 live alone or at least house share etc.

And add to that no face pic! What's everyone's thoughts? "

My thoughts are if a profile doesn't suit your requirements move on to one that does. We don't accommodate and have no face pictures

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman  over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"There's certainly many reasons why someone can't accommodate,it makes me very wary though and I tend to move on from those that can't "

or won't for that matter,if I'm not welcome in your home you're not welcome in mine

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My children would find it weird. "Mummy, why is daddy eating that lady out in the lounge? I'm trying to watch gumball!". You know, that sort of thing.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm guessing in over half of cases...probably more it's because he's in a relationship.

The majority of single guys out there, over 30 live alone or at least house share etc.

And add to that no face pic! What's everyone's thoughts? "

My thoughts are it's more fun when you don't play Sherlock Holmes on every single profile you come across. If you need someone who accommodates, find someone who can and stop worrying about those who can't.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It makes me wary, but I wouldn't not meet someone because of it. I can't accommodate either, but I'm not attached, just down personal circumstances.

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By *andybeachWoman  over a year ago

In the middle

I don't accom either, I have no thoughts on how people set up their meets tbh

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman  over a year ago
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My Own Little World

Because it is his choice.

He doesn't want complete strangers in his home.

If a woman can't accom you don't see people starting she must be cheating BS. No you get it is her home her choice, maybe she has kids, wouldn't feel safe.

Why the double standard?

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By *isselvieWoman  over a year ago

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Helps when he can accom cause I can't with 2 housemates

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Because it is his choice.

He doesn't want complete strangers in his home.

If a woman can't accom you don't see people starting she must be cheating BS. No you get it is her home her choice, maybe she has kids, wouldn't feel safe.

Why the double standard?"

Because there are far more single men on here, so a blanket ban on whose who can't or won't accomodate still leaves lots of options.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"All of the reasons levelled at single guys can just as easily be levelled at any other demographic. "

This!! Plenty of 'single' women cant accommodate either.. never seems to be a problem there though. Odd that. Lol

Couples too.. plenty of examples of that. Lol

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By *all and ChainWoman  over a year ago

Truro


"I'm guessing in over half of cases...probably more it's because he's in a relationship.

The majority of single guys out there, over 30 live alone or at least house share etc.

And add to that no face pic! What's everyone's thoughts? "

Because he (whoever he is) doesn't want to.

This is Fab, everyone is free to do as they please, including not ever bringing anyone back to your home address or ever having anyone know your home address.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If people spent as much effort finding people they did want to meet as the did criticising and judging people they don't want to me, they wouldn't have the energy to write posts like this...

I can't accommodate. Must be married then eh? Sheesh.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm guessing in over half of cases...probably more it's because he's in a relationship.

The majority of single guys out there, over 30 live alone or at least house share etc.

And add to that no face pic! What's everyone's thoughts? "

Well I know I carnt accom sometimes because of my lodger, I have one as I can't afford to live alone in my house at the min, some guys have kids that live with them and some are just lime some of you gals who just don't accom for their own safety

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

"Why can't he accommodate?"

Maybe I'm being too simplistic to suggest asking him why? Is there an instant suspicion that someone is lying when he can't accommodate?

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple  over a year ago

Halifax

On its own it doesnt mean anything,i only assume someone is attached if they only want daytime meets and won't meet in public etc.We all have our own reasons and some men genuinely live with family or have children with them.

Miss.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Because it is his choice.

He doesn't want complete strangers in his home.

If a woman can't accom you don't see people starting she must be cheating BS. No you get it is her home her choice, maybe she has kids, wouldn't feel safe.

Why the double standard?"

Exactly this!

There could be many reasons. Children at home, lodgers, aged parents. Or simply the person would rather not involve his home.

This quick to judge men malarkey does my nut in.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"All of the reasons levelled at single guys can just as easily be levelled at any other demographic.

This!! Plenty of 'single' women cant accommodate either.. never seems to be a problem there though. Odd that. Lol

Couples too.. plenty of examples of that. Lol "

I've also noticed this...and I've noticed its also perfectly fine for a woman on here to say "I'm not a coming for my own reasons" but lads have to be piers or cheats if we carnt

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If people spent as much effort finding people they did want to meet as the did criticising and judging people they don't want to me, they wouldn't have the energy to write posts like this...

I can't accommodate. Must be married then eh? Sheesh."

I feel your pain mate.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Maybe the guy in question is a single parent or had a bad stalker experience

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By *ilmiss75Woman  over a year ago

Thornton

Maybe he just doesn't want to.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

He is probably concerned that youll be a bunny boiler and after a meet will continue to stalk and harrass him.. or maybe he just does not want his private home life interfered with!!

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By *umpPumpyMan  over a year ago

London

My own personal reasons are because I have my children live with me and I don't want anybody knowing where I live until I'm comfortable with them.

I negotiate this by being happy to book a hotel if the lady can't host either.

I'm not worried about my safety but that of my children.

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By *iewMan  over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

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By *iewMan  over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

I live alone and I could accommodate. I did but I don't now.

I allowed too many to come to my home and the lack of discretion is my main reason.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Because my home is my castle

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I choose not to accomodate, I am not attached though or married and only send face photos to people I'm interested in. Though yeah I've had a few men prejudge that I must be attached or married. So it does go both ways!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Are men not allowed to be discreet?

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By *ee VianteWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

In many cases can't accommodate means attached, for men and women.

This is one of the situations in which men are treated unfairly on here and a clear double standard exists. Nobody ever posts these threads about women. It's never questioned why women can't accommodate.

I used to automatically assume that can't accommodate meant cheating but then a discussion here made me realise I was being unfair.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"My children would find it weird. "Mummy, why is daddy eating that lady out in the lounge? I'm trying to watch gumball!". You know, that sort of thing."
Yes, these little people - they do get in the way, don't they?! And they never seem to organise their social activities to our advantage. Grrr.... More sleepovers/ school trips needed please!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Are men not allowed to be discreet? "

Not on fab. Only women

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman  over a year ago

little house on the praire

Doesnt matter if they can or not as i can

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Even if they accommodate doesn't mean they're single

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I *can* accommodate. I just choose not to. I have kids, it's my home, blah blah.

As a result I'm happy with hotel meets or clubs. And I'd never go back to a guys without having met him publicly first anyways.

It's really not an issue. If you only want to meet people who can accom, search for that?!

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By *ee VianteWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I get quite a few guys contacting me and, without even asking, just assume I'll accommodate.

If they can't accommodate, I explain to them I won't accommodate for new meets, and won't usually accommodate in situations where the guy wouldn't do the same for me, and ask where they suggest meeting. 99% of the time they suggest outdoors or in a car.

That annoys me a bit, the assumption they can come round to my place to fuck me and contacting me without even considering where we go and being willing to offer to go halves on a cheap hotel room.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I *can* accommodate. I just choose not to. I have kids, it's my home, blah blah.

As a result I'm happy with hotel meets or clubs. And I'd never go back to a guys without having met him publicly first anyways.

It's really not an issue. If you only want to meet people who can accom, search for that?!"

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By *VBethTV/TS  over a year ago

Chester

I'm very happily single but can't accom due to where I live. It's explained on my profile but we all know nobody reads those....

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By *pace_Cowboy_BrumMan  over a year ago

Kings Norton, Birmingham, B30

I can't as still live with mother of my young son. We still share a bed albeit for sleeping reasons.

She knows I'm on here and we still have a couples profile (but not used other than to keep in touch with friends).

Does make it difficult not being able to accommodate but just the way it is for me I'm afraid and it's probably me that loses out but I just accept and respect others points of _iew on it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I get quite a few guys contacting me and, without even asking, just assume I'll accommodate.

If they can't accommodate, I explain to them I won't accommodate for new meets, and won't usually accommodate in situations where the guy wouldn't do the same for me, and ask where they suggest meeting. 99% of the time they suggest outdoors or in a car.

That annoys me a bit, the assumption they can come round to my place to fuck me and contacting me without even considering where we go and being willing to offer to go halves on a cheap hotel room."

What's wrong with a car?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I would explain on my profile but tbh i cant be arsed,if women dont want to meet me then fine

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I get quite a few guys contacting me and, without even asking, just assume I'll accommodate.

If they can't accommodate, I explain to them I won't accommodate for new meets, and won't usually accommodate in situations where the guy wouldn't do the same for me, and ask where they suggest meeting. 99% of the time they suggest outdoors or in a car.

That annoys me a bit, the assumption they can come round to my place to fuck me and contacting me without even considering where we go and being willing to offer to go halves on a cheap hotel room."

I have no problem with going halves on a hotel room. Done it enough times. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Its because we're married, in relationship, haven't cut apron strings or live in a shit pit

Look somewhere else...simple!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I can accommodate I just have to plan it well that's all. I have grown up kids who turn up as and when they please so I like to know what they're up to before I'd commit to inviting a lady over to mine. Although saying that, if my boys turned up and interrupted me they'd just high five me and leave me to it.

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By *ilacWoman  over a year ago

Cheshire


"Because my home is my castle

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By *ikki ShooterTV/TS  over a year ago

Epsom

If he "is" single it's most likely because his place looks like a tip, he doesn't want strangers finding his stash of porn or the female attire he likes to slip into when alone......

Just saying

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"My children would find it weird. "Mummy, why is daddy eating that lady out in the lounge? I'm trying to watch gumball!". You know, that sort of thing."

That pretty much sums things up, plus my 17 year old bigun walking in whenever she wants...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"All of the reasons levelled at single guys can just as easily be levelled at any other demographic.

This!! Plenty of 'single' women cant accommodate either.. never seems to be a problem there though. Odd that. Lol

Couples too.. plenty of examples of that. Lol

I've also noticed this...and I've noticed its also perfectly fine for a woman on here to say "I'm not a coming for my own reasons" but lads have to be piers or cheats if we carnt"

Yup good point.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"i can accommodate "
i can't either.. Not yet as i'm still flushing body parts down the toilet.. Oops.. The fact is you judge people by prior experiences.. E.g one is a cheat= they all are cheating.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman  over a year ago

stourbridge area


"Maybe the guy in question is a single parent or had a bad stalker experience "

Im watching you Toby j ...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There's certainly many reasons why someone can't accommodate,it makes me very wary though and I tend to move on from those that can't "
fine! Thats your decision.. Jog on.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm guessing in over half of cases...probably more it's because he's in a relationship.

The majority of single guys out there, over 30 live alone or at least house share etc.

And add to that no face pic! What's everyone's thoughts?

Because he (whoever he is) doesn't want to.

This is Fab, everyone is free to do as they please, including not ever bringing anyone back to your home address or ever having anyone know your home address."

But still.. the men are damned because of it. Annoying.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It makes me wary, but I wouldn't not meet someone because of it. I can't accommodate either, but I'm not attached, just down personal circumstances.

"
your lying! You must be married.. You evil person!! I hate you hate you you.. You beast.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Accommodate?

Let someone come here?

After last time?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Truth be told I really just can't be arsed to tidy up

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By *ee VianteWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I get quite a few guys contacting me and, without even asking, just assume I'll accommodate.

If they can't accommodate, I explain to them I won't accommodate for new meets, and won't usually accommodate in situations where the guy wouldn't do the same for me, and ask where they suggest meeting. 99% of the time they suggest outdoors or in a car.

That annoys me a bit, the assumption they can come round to my place to fuck me and contacting me without even considering where we go and being willing to offer to go halves on a cheap hotel room.

What's wrong with a car? "

Nothing if it's for getting from A to B.

For sex? Not my thing (and my profile says so). Ditto outdoors.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman  over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"There's certainly many reasons why someone can't accommodate,it makes me very wary though and I tend to move on from those that can't fine! Thats your decision.. Jog on. "

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By *U1966Man  over a year ago

Devon

Don't accommodate because have my daughter in the house a lot of the time my choice like it is others not desperate for meets so do as i wish

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Just done a quick search of single ladies (including those attached) within 20 miles of my post code and 90% cannot accommodate. Should I be concerned?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There's certainly many reasons why someone can't accommodate,it makes me very wary though and I tend to move on from those that can't fine! Thats your decision.. Jog on.

"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just done a quick search of single ladies (including those attached) within 20 miles of my post code and 90% cannot accommodate. Should I be concerned?"

To be honest, anyone who invited a stranger round to their house for a first meet is courting disaster. There are some VERY sketchy types on fab and a single lady inviting a guy round smacks of trouble

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By *anky_PankyWoman  over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

There are lots of reasons why people don't accomodate - some genuine, some not so much. Best bet is to ask

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I used to be able to accommodate but now my teenage kids, who live here part time, have their own keys. Fab is only part of my life.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman  over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Just done a quick search of single ladies (including those attached) within 20 miles of my post code and 90% cannot accommodate. Should I be concerned?

To be honest, anyone who invited a stranger round to their house for a first meet is courting disaster. There are some VERY sketchy types on fab and a single lady inviting a guy round smacks of trouble"

There are some VERY sketchy types on fab and a single man inviting a woman round smacks of trouble...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I can't because my house is currently about 5 bricks high

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just done a quick search of single ladies (including those attached) within 20 miles of my post code and 90% cannot accommodate. Should I be concerned?

To be honest, anyone who invited a stranger round to their house for a first meet is courting disaster. There are some VERY sketchy types on fab and a single lady inviting a guy round smacks of trouble

There are some VERY sketchy types on fab and a single man inviting a woman round smacks of trouble..."
Maybe those of with no sketchy or ulterior motives are being naive or gullible!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just done a quick search of single ladies (including those attached) within 20 miles of my post code and 90% cannot accommodate. Should I be concerned?

To be honest, anyone who invited a stranger round to their house for a first meet is courting disaster. There are some VERY sketchy types on fab and a single lady inviting a guy round smacks of trouble

There are some VERY sketchy types on fab and a single man inviting a woman round smacks of trouble..."

Nah i can deck a woman pretty easily

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By *ee VianteWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Just done a quick search of single ladies (including those attached) within 20 miles of my post code and 90% cannot accommodate. Should I be concerned?

To be honest, anyone who invited a stranger round to their house for a first meet is courting disaster. There are some VERY sketchy types on fab and a single lady inviting a guy round smacks of trouble

There are some VERY sketchy types on fab and a single man inviting a woman round smacks of trouble...

Nah i can deck a woman pretty easily"

That statement may not help you get meets!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"All of the reasons levelled at single guys can just as easily be levelled at any other demographic. "

Yep...often levelled in speculation because they won't meet the other. I can't for a few reasons and that's my business.

If someone says in their profile the cannot accommodate I nornally just skip over unless they really do catch my attention then I might try and work something out otherwise it becomes too expensive.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There are lots of reasons why people don't accomodate - some genuine, some not so much. Best bet is to ask "

Yep. That way we're not all presumed to be married or fakes.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just done a quick search of single ladies (including those attached) within 20 miles of my post code and 90% cannot accommodate. Should I be concerned?

To be honest, anyone who invited a stranger round to their house for a first meet is courting disaster. There are some VERY sketchy types on fab and a single lady inviting a guy round smacks of trouble

There are some VERY sketchy types on fab and a single man inviting a woman round smacks of trouble...

Nah i can deck a woman pretty easily

That statement may not help you get meets! "

Or it will get me some very kinky meets

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Loads of reasons people might not want to. I think its very trusting to meet at your home first time x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

lots of reasons cant accom - but some say can when they just mean hotel - does it really matter -

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By *GHertsCouple  over a year ago

North Herts

We're a couple who choose not to accommodate and I expect some of the reasons for that might just as easily apply to a single guy. First off we live in a very quiet location where comings and goings at odd hours might be noticed - our immediate neighbours are lovely, but retired, and quite 'observant' IYKWIM. The last thing I'd want to do is give them any cause for concern and/or open ourselves up to embarrassment. We also have children at home and though we would never play while they were in the house, equally, it would still feel 'wrong', to me personally to play when they weren't there ... I know others may feel differently but I just want to keep their home entirely separate from our 'other' life. More generally speaking, we already have enough trouble with a noisy bed banging on the party wall (only place to put it!) and want to feel as uninhibited as possible when playing rather than being pre-occupied with what noise might be carrying!

So ... nothing sinister behind our stance.

Ms G

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


""Why can't he accommodate?"

Maybe I'm being too simplistic to suggest asking him why? Is there an instant suspicion that someone is lying when he can't accommodate?"

It's in their nature to be suspicious.... call it protection....call it hurt...call distrust...call what you like but we guys have to live with that aspect regularly too but we still manage to meet and some of us regularly.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman  over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Just done a quick search of single ladies (including those attached) within 20 miles of my post code and 90% cannot accommodate. Should I be concerned?

To be honest, anyone who invited a stranger round to their house for a first meet is courting disaster. There are some VERY sketchy types on fab and a single lady inviting a guy round smacks of trouble

There are some VERY sketchy types on fab and a single man inviting a woman round smacks of trouble...

Nah i can deck a woman pretty easily"

and I have some very sharp knives at hand! I just found the comment slightly patronising

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"lots of reasons cant accom - but some say can when they just mean hotel - does it really matter - "

They must be married

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just done a quick search of single ladies (including those attached) within 20 miles of my post code and 90% cannot accommodate. Should I be concerned?

To be honest, anyone who invited a stranger round to their house for a first meet is courting disaster. There are some VERY sketchy types on fab and a single lady inviting a guy round smacks of trouble

There are some VERY sketchy types on fab and a single man inviting a woman round smacks of trouble...

Nah i can deck a woman pretty easily

and I have some very sharp knives at hand! I just found the comment slightly patronising "

Where do you live now

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We're a couple who choose not to accommodate and I expect some of the reasons for that might just as easily apply to a single guy. First off we live in a very quiet location where comings and goings at odd hours might be noticed - our immediate neighbours are lovely, but retired, and quite 'observant' IYKWIM. The last thing I'd want to do is give them any cause for concern and/or open ourselves up to embarrassment. We also have children at home and though we would never play while they were in the house, equally, it would still feel 'wrong', to me personally to play when they weren't there ... I know others may feel differently but I just want to keep their home entirely separate from our 'other' life. More generally speaking, we already have enough trouble with a noisy bed banging on the party wall (only place to put it!) and want to feel as uninhibited as possible when playing rather than being pre-occupied with what noise might be carrying!

So ... nothing sinister behind our stance.

Ms G"

Thinks that sums up most of the genuine one nicely...Thank you.

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By *anky_PankyWoman  over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"There are lots of reasons why people don't accomodate - some genuine, some not so much. Best bet is to ask

Yep. That way we're not all presumed to be married or fakes. "

Yup. I am married but it does clearly say that on my profile. Even if I wasn't I still couldn't accom due to my son and chances are I wouldn't invite a stranger into my house anyway.....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"lots of reasons cant accom - but some say can when they just mean hotel - does it really matter -

They must be married "

not at all

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just done a quick search of single ladies (including those attached) within 20 miles of my post code and 90% cannot accommodate. Should I be concerned?

To be honest, anyone who invited a stranger round to their house for a first meet is courting disaster. There are some VERY sketchy types on fab and a single lady inviting a guy round smacks of trouble

There are some VERY sketchy types on fab and a single man inviting a woman round smacks of trouble...

Nah i can deck a woman pretty easily

and I have some very sharp knives at hand! I just found the comment slightly patronising "

Haha people who know me might be chuckling at this comment

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The amount of times wen i tell a women I can't accommodate and I say the truth which is my brother is in and out all the time or I have visitors they call me a liar so can't fucking win

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The amount of times wen i tell a women I can't accommodate and I say the truth which is my brother is in and out all the time or I have visitors they call me a liar so can't fucking win "

that does sound a pretty shakey ass reason.

You never have a night to yourself?

Can you not text him "im with a girl dont come over"

Or i dunno put a sock on the door?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"lots of reasons cant accom - but some say can when they just mean hotel - does it really matter -

They must be married

not at all"

A lot of single ladies appear to want discretion due to be attached!!

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman  over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Just done a quick search of single ladies (including those attached) within 20 miles of my post code and 90% cannot accommodate. Should I be concerned?

To be honest, anyone who invited a stranger round to their house for a first meet is courting disaster. There are some VERY sketchy types on fab and a single lady inviting a guy round smacks of trouble

There are some VERY sketchy types on fab and a single man inviting a woman round smacks of trouble...

Nah i can deck a woman pretty easily

and I have some very sharp knives at hand! I just found the comment slightly patronising

Haha people who know me might be chuckling at this comment "

Oh I didn't mean your comment by the way I meant the one I was responding to!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"All of the reasons levelled at single guys can just as easily be levelled at any other demographic. "

Of course but it's a personal question & im looking at single guys x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There are lots of reasons why people don't accomodate - some genuine, some not so much. Best bet is to ask

Yep. That way we're not all presumed to be married or fakes.

Yup. I am married but it does clearly say that on my profile. Even if I wasn't I still couldn't accom due to my son and chances are I wouldn't invite a stranger into my house anyway....."

But Fab forums are by nature such a distrusting place a few read the profiles properly and fewer believe them. I had people even question my veris... but simple answer is ...'you could always ask them if you want to!' Lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"My children would find it weird. "Mummy, why is daddy eating that lady out in the lounge? I'm trying to watch gumball!". You know, that sort of thing."

Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"If people spent as much effort finding people they did want to meet as the did criticising and judging people they don't want to me, they wouldn't have the energy to write posts like this...

I can't accommodate. Must be married then eh? Sheesh."

It's a question as I'm new. Don't bother replying if you can't give any advice

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

All who have been invited to mine have all had a good time in fact I ask them regularly as they still reside with me under the floor boards...............

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

fact is - you will often not know for sure if anybody is married or not - you chat - you meet you get on and maybe get intimate once or twice and then drift and never really know what the rest of the deal is - it isnt difficult to find an excuse to say i have to use a hotel not home - or just meet at clubs -

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"All of the reasons levelled at single guys can just as easily be levelled at any other demographic.

Of course but it's a personal question & im looking at single guys x"

I notice you won't accommodate but looking for 1 person for lots of fun times...yet state don't message if you can accommodate unless you're willing to pay for hotels.... that's going to be a very expensive liason. ..

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By *icketysplitsWoman  over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Even if they accommodate doesn't mean they're single "

That was my experience. I won't meet at someone's home and they can't come to mine until I know them very well.

I get annoyed with those that assume the female should accommodate. It acts as another filter.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Its because we're married, in relationship, haven't cut apron strings or live in a shit pit

Look somewhere else...simple! "

Haha made me laugh this!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Because it is his choice.

He doesn't want complete strangers in his home.

If a woman can't accom you don't see people starting she must be cheating BS. No you get it is her home her choice, maybe she has kids, wouldn't feel safe.

Why the double standard?

Because there are far more single men on here, so a blanket ban on whose who can't or won't accomodate still leaves lots of options."

Am I reading your post correctly?

You want a blanket ban on any man who can't or won't accommodate?

Literally, what the fuck......

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just done a quick search of single ladies (including those attached) within 20 miles of my post code and 90% cannot accommodate. Should I be concerned?

To be honest, anyone who invited a stranger round to their house for a first meet is courting disaster. There are some VERY sketchy types on fab and a single lady inviting a guy round smacks of trouble

There are some VERY sketchy types on fab and a single man inviting a woman round smacks of trouble...

Nah i can deck a woman pretty easily"

Not if your unconscious. What is it you drink?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just done a quick search of single ladies (including those attached) within 20 miles of my post code and 90% cannot accommodate. Should I be concerned?

To be honest, anyone who invited a stranger round to their house for a first meet is courting disaster. There are some VERY sketchy types on fab and a single lady inviting a guy round smacks of trouble

There are some VERY sketchy types on fab and a single man inviting a woman round smacks of trouble...

Nah i can deck a woman pretty easily

Not if your unconscious. What is it you drink?"

A rhohypnol and usually has the desired effect!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"All of the reasons levelled at single guys can just as easily be levelled at any other demographic.

Of course but it's a personal question & im looking at single guys x

I notice you won't accommodate but looking for 1 person for lots of fun times...yet state don't message if you can accommodate unless you're willing to pay for hotels.... that's going to be a very expensive liason. .. "

If you read my profile I can accommodate but am not prepared for someone to come to mine a few tines a week, mess my bedding up, probably have a brew etc and go home.

It's a 2 way street!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Because it is his choice.

He doesn't want complete strangers in his home.

If a woman can't accom you don't see people starting she must be cheating BS. No you get it is her home her choice, maybe she has kids, wouldn't feel safe.

Why the double standard?

Because there are far more single men on here, so a blanket ban on whose who can't or won't accomodate still leaves lots of options.

Am I reading your post correctly?

You want a blanket ban on any man who can't or won't accommodate?

Literally, what the fuck......"

Who on Earth said that? I can't find the original comment. I'd be booted off and I'm single but can't accommodate. I don't fancy anyone bumping into my huge,6ft 4 son on the way to the bathroom.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just done a quick search of single ladies (including those attached) within 20 miles of my post code and 90% cannot accommodate. Should I be concerned?

To be honest, anyone who invited a stranger round to their house for a first meet is courting disaster. There are some VERY sketchy types on fab and a single lady inviting a guy round smacks of trouble

There are some VERY sketchy types on fab and a single man inviting a woman round smacks of trouble...

Nah i can deck a woman pretty easily

and I have some very sharp knives at hand! I just found the comment slightly patronising "

patronising? How so? I'm simply offering a reason as to why so many single ladies won't accommodate

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just done a quick search of single ladies (including those attached) within 20 miles of my post code and 90% cannot accommodate. Should I be concerned?

To be honest, anyone who invited a stranger round to their house for a first meet is courting disaster. There are some VERY sketchy types on fab and a single lady inviting a guy round smacks of trouble

There are some VERY sketchy types on fab and a single man inviting a woman round smacks of trouble...

Nah i can deck a woman pretty easily

Not if your unconscious. What is it you drink?

A rhohypnol and usually has the desired effect!"

Won't be decking anyone then will he

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If you read my profile I can accommodate but am not prepared for someone to come to mine a few tines a week, mess my bedding up, probably have a brew etc and go home.

And they say romance is dead!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I bloody wish I could live alone.

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My wife won't let me (I jest).

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm guessing in over half of cases...probably more it's because he's in a relationship.

The majority of single guys out there, over 30 live alone or at least house share etc.

And add to that no face pic! What's everyone's thoughts? "

I dont accom but im single and i have facepics but not on show... everyone has a different reason and its their choice

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

For ladies personal safety is paramount and I dare say for gents too.

So I understand that to be invited to a ladies house needs a lot of trust!

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By *icketysplitsWoman  over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"fact is - you will often not know for sure if anybody is married or not - you chat - you meet you get on and maybe get intimate once or twice and then drift and never really know what the rest of the deal is - it isnt difficult to find an excuse to say i have to use a hotel not home - or just meet at clubs - "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"For ladies personal safety is paramount and I dare say for gents too.

So I understand that to be invited to a ladies house needs a lot of trust!

"

This! The only people I've ever had back at mine are a couple I met and now consider some of my best friends. We socialise outside of fab too tho.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman  over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Just done a quick search of single ladies (including those attached) within 20 miles of my post code and 90% cannot accommodate. Should I be concerned?

To be honest, anyone who invited a stranger round to their house for a first meet is courting disaster. There are some VERY sketchy types on fab and a single lady inviting a guy round smacks of trouble

There are some VERY sketchy types on fab and a single man inviting a woman round smacks of trouble...

Nah i can deck a woman pretty easily

and I have some very sharp knives at hand! I just found the comment slightly patronising

patronising? How so? I'm simply offering a reason as to why so many single ladies won't accommodate "

because you specifically said if a woman invites anyone around,it shouldn't matter whether you are a man or a woman should?!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just done a quick search of single ladies (including those attached) within 20 miles of my post code and 90% cannot accommodate. Should I be concerned?

To be honest, anyone who invited a stranger round to their house for a first meet is courting disaster. There are some VERY sketchy types on fab and a single lady inviting a guy round smacks of trouble

There are some VERY sketchy types on fab and a single man inviting a woman round smacks of trouble...

Nah i can deck a woman pretty easily

and I have some very sharp knives at hand! I just found the comment slightly patronising

patronising? How so? I'm simply offering a reason as to why so many single ladies won't accommodate "

I've been to quite a few men's homes and on a couple of occasions was left alone while they went shop or to the laundry room. Some people are trusting,some are trustworthy.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just done a quick search of single ladies (including those attached) within 20 miles of my post code and 90% cannot accommodate. Should I be concerned?"

Shh..sweep that under the carpet. It doesnt apply to fems.. remember?

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By *ee VianteWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I'd meet almost exclusively at clubs, if I had a club nearer to me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"All of the reasons levelled at single guys can just as easily be levelled at any other demographic.

Of course but it's a personal question & im looking at single guys x

I notice you won't accommodate but looking for 1 person for lots of fun times...yet state don't message if you can accommodate unless you're willing to pay for hotels.... that's going to be a very expensive liason. ..

If you read my profile I can accommodate but am not prepared for someone to come to mine a few tines a week, mess my bedding up, probably have a brew etc and go home.

It's a 2 way street! "

sorry my misread..

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman  over a year ago
Forum Mod

My Own Little World


"Because it is his choice.

He doesn't want complete strangers in his home.

If a woman can't accom you don't see people starting she must be cheating BS. No you get it is her home her choice, maybe she has kids, wouldn't feel safe.

Why the double standard?

Because there are far more single men on here, so a blanket ban on whose who can't or won't accomodate still leaves lots of options.

Am I reading your post correctly?

You want a blanket ban on any man who can't or won't accommodate?

Literally, what the fuck......

Who on Earth said that? I can't find the original comment. I'd be booted off and I'm single but can't accommodate. I don't fancy anyone bumping into my huge,6ft 4 son on the way to the bathroom."

Well the original comment was mine...up to the double standard bit, then it got quoted.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Because it is his choice.

He doesn't want complete strangers in his home.

If a woman can't accom you don't see people starting she must be cheating BS. No you get it is her home her choice, maybe she has kids, wouldn't feel safe.

Why the double standard?

Because there are far more single men on here, so a blanket ban on whose who can't or won't accomodate still leaves lots of options.

Am I reading your post correctly?

You want a blanket ban on any man who can't or won't accommodate?

Literally, what the fuck......

Who on Earth said that? I can't find the original comment. I'd be booted off and I'm single but can't accommodate. I don't fancy anyone bumping into my huge,6ft 4 son on the way to the bathroom."

You would be OK, he only wants single males who cant/won't accomodate banned.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just done a quick search of single ladies (including those attached) within 20 miles of my post code and 90% cannot accommodate. Should I be concerned?

Shh..sweep that under the carpet. It doesnt apply to fems.. remember? "
Do you mean that there are different rules of engagement for us single chaps? I am astounded!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Because it is his choice.

He doesn't want complete strangers in his home.

If a woman can't accom you don't see people starting she must be cheating BS. No you get it is her home her choice, maybe she has kids, wouldn't feel safe.

Why the double standard?

Because there are far more single men on here, so a blanket ban on whose who can't or won't accomodate still leaves lots of options.

Am I reading your post correctly?

You want a blanket ban on any man who can't or won't accommodate?

Literally, what the fuck......"

I think they mean thier own personal blanket ban ie if they decide never to meet men who cant acxom theres still 500 choices in 30 miles :p

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just done a quick search of single ladies (including those attached) within 20 miles of my post code and 90% cannot accommodate. Should I be concerned?

To be honest, anyone who invited a stranger round to their house for a first meet is courting disaster. There are some VERY sketchy types on fab and a single lady inviting a guy round smacks of trouble

There are some VERY sketchy types on fab and a single man inviting a woman round smacks of trouble...

Nah i can deck a woman pretty easily

and I have some very sharp knives at hand! I just found the comment slightly patronising

patronising? How so? I'm simply offering a reason as to why so many single ladies won't accommodate

I've been to quite a few men's homes and on a couple of occasions was left alone while they went shop or to the laundry room. Some people are trusting,some are trustworthy. "

I just recently met a lady at her home ..first meet...stayed till Sunday evening....she had to go to work for 4 hrs on the sat....gave me a key if I wanted to go out...yes there are some...but we had chatted for a few weeks...bot listening to gut feeling. I'm not advocating it but just giving an example of it happens. It's not first time with me either. There are some other stories which would cause major distrust too.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just done a quick search of single ladies (including those attached) within 20 miles of my post code and 90% cannot accommodate. Should I be concerned?

To be honest, anyone who invited a stranger round to their house for a first meet is courting disaster. There are some VERY sketchy types on fab and a single lady inviting a guy round smacks of trouble

There are some VERY sketchy types on fab and a single man inviting a woman round smacks of trouble...

Nah i can deck a woman pretty easily

and I have some very sharp knives at hand! I just found the comment slightly patronising

patronising? How so? I'm simply offering a reason as to why so many single ladies won't accommodate

I've been to quite a few men's homes and on a couple of occasions was left alone while they went shop or to the laundry room. Some people are trusting,some are trustworthy. "

So that's why you tried to sell me a load of silver cutlery and a dvd player!

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By *iscean MaleMan  over a year ago

Darlaston

i can accomodate and have brought people to mine on first date.. not necesarily for sex and i have no bad stories... yes maybe different for others.

as for face showing i want to keep this life private

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just done a quick search of single ladies (including those attached) within 20 miles of my post code and 90% cannot accommodate. Should I be concerned?

To be honest, anyone who invited a stranger round to their house for a first meet is courting disaster. There are some VERY sketchy types on fab and a single lady inviting a guy round smacks of trouble

There are some VERY sketchy types on fab and a single man inviting a woman round smacks of trouble...

Nah i can deck a woman pretty easily

and I have some very sharp knives at hand! I just found the comment slightly patronising

patronising? How so? I'm simply offering a reason as to why so many single ladies won't accommodate

I've been to quite a few men's homes and on a couple of occasions was left alone while they went shop or to the laundry room. Some people are trusting,some are trustworthy.

I just recently met a lady at her home ..first meet...stayed till Sunday evening....she had to go to work for 4 hrs on the sat....gave me a key if I wanted to go out...yes there are some...but we had chatted for a few weeks...bot listening to gut feeling. I'm not advocating it but just giving an example of it happens. It's not first time with me either. There are some other stories which would cause major distrust too."

Same here. It happens, sometimes people are on the same wavelength and the trust is there. Its happened to me on multiple occasions.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Maybe they house share I know I did in the past and couldn't accommodate x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

This is a tedious site when all said and done!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just done a quick search of single ladies (including those attached) within 20 miles of my post code and 90% cannot accommodate. Should I be concerned?

To be honest, anyone who invited a stranger round to their house for a first meet is courting disaster. There are some VERY sketchy types on fab and a single lady inviting a guy round smacks of trouble

There are some VERY sketchy types on fab and a single man inviting a woman round smacks of trouble...

Nah i can deck a woman pretty easily

Not if your unconscious. What is it you drink?"

*buys hip flask and lives like mad eye moody*

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I can accom but not all time as I've got my adult son live at home with me so I have too fit it in around him. #thatsmyexcuseanyhow lol but I am genuinely single.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

So the time has come to leave the world of FAB.

Three weeks of a fun and amazement but enough already!

Byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!

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By *ee VianteWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

No! Come back! We need you!

Pssst who was it?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Who was that?

Did they mean to mske a thread

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman  over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"So the time has come to leave the world of FAB.

Three weeks of a fun and amazement but enough already!

Byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!"

Cheerio...

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By *icketysplitsWoman  over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"So the time has come to leave the world of FAB.

Three weeks of a fun and amazement but enough already!

Byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!"

Short and long on eeeees. Who was that masked wo/man?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So the time has come to leave the world of FAB.

Three weeks of a fun and amazement but enough already!

Byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!"

3 weeks you will never get back

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By *risky_MareWoman  over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"No! Come back! We need you!

Pssst who was it?"

Macca mate I think he was called - no pics.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman  over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Who was that?

Did they mean to mske a thread"

Some guy...

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By *inaTitzTV/TS  over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"I'd meet almost exclusively at clubs, if I had a club nearer to me."

I meet at clubs. I find that a lot of the chancers and timewasters either lose interest at that point, or if they don't show, then there are plenty of other victims there for me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No! Come back! We need you!

Pssst who was it?

Macca mate I think he was called - no pics."

it was cos he posted on my huge tick thread - i think its a fella who keeps returning and refers to where i live often - gawd wish some people would grow up

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman  over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"So the time has come to leave the world of FAB.

Three weeks of a fun and amazement but enough already!

Byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!

Cheerio..."

Sorry for not answering your message I was getting around to it...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So the time has come to leave the world of FAB.

Three weeks of a fun and amazement but enough already!

Byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!

Short and long on eeeees. Who was that masked wo/man?"

No idea but they can't accommodate

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Makes me wary too and usually I find out I should have been as they are married or in relationships

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

But hotel meets are just super sexy!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"But hotel meets are just super sexy!! "

Can't play 'exchange sexual favours for visits to the fridge ' though....

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By *uerido55Man  over a year ago

Manchester


"Because it is his choice.

He doesn't want complete strangers in his home.

If a woman can't accom you don't see people starting she must be cheating BS. No you get it is her home her choice, maybe she has kids, wouldn't feel safe.

Why the double standard?

Because there are far more single men on here, so a blanket ban on whose who can't or won't accomodate still leaves lots of options."

I simply cannot see how numbers justifies the double standard.

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By *icketysplitsWoman  over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"But hotel meets are just super sexy!! "

I am less inhibited knowing I don't know the neighbours.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm guessing in over half of cases...probably more it's because he's in a relationship.

The majority of single guys out there, over 30 live alone or at least house share etc.

And add to that no face pic! What's everyone's thoughts? "

WE can't accommodate, and we are a very much genuine couple.

It's not always as easy as people think, we have a dog that HATES people, enter at your own risk... oh and 2 cats, one is scared of his own shadow, will claw the fuck out if you if you dare to look at him... and then there's the parrot! Put finger in cage, return with it bitten in half!

So.... Anyone wanna come round for a coffee??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just done a quick search of single ladies (including those attached) within 20 miles of my post code and 90% cannot accommodate. Should I be concerned?

To be honest, anyone who invited a stranger round to their house for a first meet is courting disaster. There are some VERY sketchy types on fab and a single lady inviting a guy round smacks of trouble

There are some VERY sketchy types on fab and a single man inviting a woman round smacks of trouble...

Nah i can deck a woman pretty easily

Not if your unconscious. What is it you drink?

*buys hip flask and lives like mad eye moody*

"

Oh COME ON... how can I resist the lead for a naff joke?

Why did Barty Crouch Jr stop drinking...? Because it made him Moody.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just done a quick search of single ladies (including those attached) within 20 miles of my post code and 90% cannot accommodate. Should I be concerned?

To be honest, anyone who invited a stranger round to their house for a first meet is courting disaster. There are some VERY sketchy types on fab and a single lady inviting a guy round smacks of trouble

There are some VERY sketchy types on fab and a single man inviting a woman round smacks of trouble...

Nah i can deck a woman pretty easily

Not if your unconscious. What is it you drink?

*buys hip flask and lives like mad eye moody*

"

I just realised I wrote your instead of you're and no one corrected me! What is this place coming to!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm guessing in over half of cases...probably more it's because he's in a relationship.

The majority of single guys out there, over 30 live alone or at least house share etc.

And add to that no face pic! What's everyone's thoughts?

WE can't accommodate, and we are a very much genuine couple.

It's not always as easy as people think, we have a dog that HATES people, enter at your own risk... oh and 2 cats, one is scared of his own shadow, will claw the fuck out if you if you dare to look at him... and then there's the parrot! Put finger in cage, return with it bitten in half!

So.... Anyone wanna come round for a coffee?? "

What do your animals drink?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Sigh......

In going to go with maybe they don't want to invite strangers off the internet into their home.

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By *icketysplitsWoman  over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Just done a quick search of single ladies (including those attached) within 20 miles of my post code and 90% cannot accommodate. Should I be concerned?

To be honest, anyone who invited a stranger round to their house for a first meet is courting disaster. There are some VERY sketchy types on fab and a single lady inviting a guy round smacks of trouble

There are some VERY sketchy types on fab and a single man inviting a woman round smacks of trouble...

Nah i can deck a woman pretty easily

Not if your unconscious. What is it you drink?

*buys hip flask and lives like mad eye moody*

Oh COME ON... how can I resist the lead for a naff joke?

Why did Barty Crouch Jr stop drinking...? Because it made him Moody. "

How did you make this so big?

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By *iss_tressWoman  over a year ago

London


"I'm guessing in over half of cases...probably more it's because he's in a relationship.

The majority of single guys out there, over 30 live alone or at least house share etc.

And add to that no face pic! What's everyone's thoughts? "

I don't assume anything or ask for clarification/justification. I only accommodate people who can also accommodate at home.

It's another filter.

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By *iss_tressWoman  over a year ago

London


"All of the reasons levelled at single guys can just as easily be levelled at any other demographic. "

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By *iss_tressWoman  over a year ago

London


"I'm guessing in over half of cases...probably more it's because he's in a relationship.

The majority of single guys out there, over 30 live alone or at least house share etc.

And add to that no face pic! What's everyone's thoughts?

My thoughts are if a profile doesn't suit your requirements move on to one that does. We don't accommodate and have no face pictures "

It really is this simple folks!

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By *iss_tressWoman  over a year ago

London


"There's certainly many reasons why someone can't accommodate,it makes me very wary though and I tend to move on from those that can't

or won't for that matter,if I'm not welcome in your home you're not welcome in mine "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just done a quick search of single ladies (including those attached) within 20 miles of my post code and 90% cannot accommodate. Should I be concerned?

To be honest, anyone who invited a stranger round to their house for a first meet is courting disaster. There are some VERY sketchy types on fab and a single lady inviting a guy round smacks of trouble

There are some VERY sketchy types on fab and a single man inviting a woman round smacks of trouble...

Nah i can deck a woman pretty easily

Not if your unconscious. What is it you drink?

*buys hip flask and lives like mad eye moody*

Oh COME ON... how can I resist the lead for a naff joke?

Why did Barty Crouch Jr stop drinking...? Because it made him Moody.

How did you make this so big?"

What so big?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm guessing in over half of cases...probably more it's because he's in a relationship.

The majority of single guys out there, over 30 live alone or at least house share etc.

And add to that no face pic! What's everyone's thoughts?

WE can't accommodate, and we are a very much genuine couple.

It's not always as easy as people think, we have a dog that HATES people, enter at your own risk... oh and 2 cats, one is scared of his own shadow, will claw the fuck out if you if you dare to look at him... and then there's the parrot! Put finger in cage, return with it bitten in half!

So.... Anyone wanna come round for a coffee?? "

I would but I don't meet couples...

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By *icketysplitsWoman  over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Just done a quick search of single ladies (including those attached) within 20 miles of my post code and 90% cannot accommodate. Should I be concerned?

To be honest, anyone who invited a stranger round to their house for a first meet is courting disaster. There are some VERY sketchy types on fab and a single lady inviting a guy round smacks of trouble

There are some VERY sketchy types on fab and a single man inviting a woman round smacks of trouble...

Nah i can deck a woman pretty easily

Not if your unconscious. What is it you drink?

*buys hip flask and lives like mad eye moody*

Oh COME ON... how can I resist the lead for a naff joke?

Why did Barty Crouch Jr stop drinking...? Because it made him Moody.

How did you make this so big?

What so big?"

Your post WAS in a larger font but it's not now.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I can accommodate, still don't get much attention though

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

What do your animals drink?"

People's blood mainly! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I live in a shared house and not always certain how long the house will be mine alone for

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm guessing in over half of cases...probably more it's because he's in a relationship.

The majority of single guys out there, over 30 live alone or at least house share etc.

And add to that no face pic! What's everyone's thoughts? "

Well my excuse is I'm a widower and still have two 20+'s living at home. My boy is out sowing his wild seed most of the time but my daughter is studying and is a home bird so not very often I can invite naughty friends round.

Not sure she'd appreciate dad running round the house naked with other naughty ppl's

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm guessing in over half of cases...probably more it's because he's in a relationship.

The majority of single guys out there, over 30 live alone or at least house share etc.

And add to that no face pic! What's everyone's thoughts?

WE can't accommodate, and we are a very much genuine couple.

It's not always as easy as people think, we have a dog that HATES people, enter at your own risk... oh and 2 cats, one is scared of his own shadow, will claw the fuck out if you if you dare to look at him... and then there's the parrot! Put finger in cage, return with it bitten in half!

So.... Anyone wanna come round for a coffee?? "

S'ok - he can bark at the Dragon......

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Dragon.... well I was thinking of getting a snake next... but Mrs M said she would never return to the house...... hmmm now there's an idea! Haha

(Love you really honey)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm guessing in over half of cases...probably more it's because he's in a relationship.

The majority of single guys out there, over 30 live alone or at least house share etc.

And add to that no face pic! What's everyone's thoughts? "

I haven't read the thread, however;

If you think there are nefarious reasons for him not having accommodation/face pic and that offends your principles, then that's your choice and don't screw him.

It's really that simple isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Well, I can accom sometimes but generally there's always someone home.

And by someone, I mean parents.

Saving to buy a home, but until then I'm having to live with me folks.

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By *ikeC81Man  over a year ago

harrow

I can't Accomodate because I live with parents

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just done a quick search of single ladies (including those attached) within 20 miles of my post code and 90% cannot accommodate. Should I be concerned?

To be honest, anyone who invited a stranger round to their house for a first meet is courting disaster. There are some VERY sketchy types on fab and a single lady inviting a guy round smacks of trouble

There are some VERY sketchy types on fab and a single man inviting a woman round smacks of trouble...

Nah i can deck a woman pretty easily

and I have some very sharp knives at hand! I just found the comment slightly patronising

patronising? How so? I'm simply offering a reason as to why so many single ladies won't accommodate

because you specifically said if a woman invites anyone around,it shouldn't matter whether you are a man or a woman should?! "

No but my reply was to a comment about ladies not accommodating hence the comment

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By *litheroevoyeurMan  over a year ago

Clitheroe

I think it is nobody's business but their own.

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By *icketysplitsWoman  over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I think it is nobody's business but their own."

I'm so glad you posted. I've been wondering if anyone from Clitheroe would use the name. I've been looking for a clit hero for some time.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

Nah i can deck a woman pretty easily"

Think I remember letting you sleep in my room for a few hours whilst I did my ironing and went for a drive with my friend in her new car, I did lock you in though!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Same as why women cant accomodate. They could still be living at parents or have kids or just dont want too lol.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The end.

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