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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
curious as to what puts people off when they receive a message. I don't respond well to guys stating they are looking for a mature lady.
For one I am usually neither and also it makes it sounds as if the main criteria is not who I am but just my advancing years.
What puts you off?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Text speak, if they've only bothered to put a couple of words ("hey wanna chat") and anything crude - I'll get on to that in my own time thanks, but it's not my preferred way to start a conversation. |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"Text speak, if they've only bothered to put a couple of words ("hey wanna chat") and anything crude - I'll get on to that in my own time thanks, but it's not my preferred way to start a conversation. "
actually that puts me off too  |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
North of The Wall - youll need your vest |
"Text speak, if they've only bothered to put a couple of words ("hey wanna chat") and anything crude - I'll get on to that in my own time thanks, but it's not my preferred way to start a conversation. "
My top 3 too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One liners that target Siren like I don't even exist, and then they stick a couple of xxx's at the end. I'll kiss another bloke but I gotta get to know him first, cheeky sods. |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"Blokes who write and say you SEEM nice in your pics. Are they recent?
Or the ones that ask if Ive had a boob job. "
whhoops the list of turn offs is getting longer and yes, that would disturb me too |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"copy and paste messages, cock avatars, "
Funny you should say that - cock pics dont bother me in teh right context but if that is all thats on offer like as an avatar with a one liner profile... yes I agree with you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being a single guy, I don't get that many (hint hint)
Seriously though, text speak and anything which is hard to read, messages etc should be easy to read. |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"One liners that target Siren like I don't even exist, and then they stick a couple of xxx's at the end. I'll kiss another bloke but I gotta get to know him first, cheeky sods. "
I can totally understand that and my partner feels the same when we are approached on couple profile and they only talk to me! |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"instant turn off are messages that either dont have a face pic attached or their profile has no face pics...
then again if they have attached a face pic more often than not that qualifies lol"
I like to see a person's face more than anything...maybe women are more drawnto faces initially? |
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ok have a small list
would you meet on your own .. NO
can i add you to see the rest of your pics ... NO
can meet tonite, you interested .. NO
can i fuck you .. NO
have only joined today, when would like to fuck .. GO AWAY
what r you into .. not you
more might be added  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ok have a small list
would you meet on your own .. NO
can i add you to see the rest of your pics ... NO
can meet tonite, you interested .. NO
can i fuck you .. NO
have only joined today, when would like to fuck .. GO AWAY
what r you into .. not you
more might be added "
Small list, hate to see your big list |
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By *heWolfMan
over a year ago
warwickshire |
hey if any v u old biddies fnacies a shag mail me ok u r sexy i lik fat birds 2 lolololol i hve a massv cock wanna snd me ur nmber right now saves tiem hun lets meet up 2nite i give u best sex EVA
There, that ought to do it. Now I needn't reply to anyone, they can just read this and form an orderly queue. I'm gonna be knee-deep in clunge in a few minutes, I know it. |
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"ok have a small list
would you meet on your own .. NO
can i add you to see the rest of your pics ... NO
can meet tonite, you interested .. NO
can i fuck you .. NO
have only joined today, when would like to fuck .. GO AWAY
what r you into .. not you
more might be added
Small list, hate to see your big list "
and im an easy going person as well lol |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"Just a pic of her pussy opened wide and text speak would put me off....oh and the bit about looking for a sugar daddy !  "
Actually that is really interesting from male perspective... can see where you are coming from |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"the ones stating they are up here for couple of days working and staying in a lovely hotel .obviouly not bothered reading profile lol! .....delete !!! "
Yeap! With you on that one, I just put back....and what part of my profile did you actually read?
They normally come back and say, none, cheeky bassa's  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"hey if any v u old biddies fnacies a shag mail me ok u r sexy i lik fat birds 2 lolololol i hve a massv cock wanna snd me ur nmber right now saves tiem hun lets meet up 2nite i give u best sex EVA
There, that ought to do it. Now I needn't reply to anyone, they can just read this and form an orderly queue. I'm gonna be knee-deep in clunge
in a few minutes, I know it."
sexy old fat biddie who likes massive cock here ....shame u are so far away i wanted the best sex eva  |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"hey if any v u old biddies fnacies a shag mail me ok u r sexy i lik fat birds 2 lolololol i hve a massv cock wanna snd me ur nmber right now saves tiem hun lets meet up 2nite i give u best sex EVA
There, that ought to do it. Now I needn't reply to anyone, they can just read this and form an orderly queue. I'm gonna be knee-deep in clunge in a few minutes, I know it."
If somebody said "i fancy a fat bird" ... I would probably direct the to the local organic poultry farm and ... while I am really quite laid back.. I might block them... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm in your area Wednesday and am free between 2 and 4pm, we can meet at my hotel or yours if you'd prefer..
I always reply saying their on the wrong site to book a whore  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm looking for my first experience with an older/mature woman, often from the 20's age group but I've had them from guys in their late 30's and 40's age group too
Guys that when I RAC where they live, its 2hrs 19 mins from me 
The guy that thinks he is hot and told me so
The guy with a couples profile that wanted me to join him on cam, guess his "wife" was busy
Text talk |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One liners that target Siren like I don't even exist, and then they stick a couple of xxx's at the end. I'll kiss another bloke but I gotta get to know him first, cheeky sods. "
It pisses me off sometimes when people ignore my role in this JOINT profile as if I don't exist.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Subject title with just a "Hi", with an equally simplistic one line message in the line of "How's are you?"; "Fancy a chat?" etc...
It shows that they have not bothered to read my profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me its
Can I spank you...
Hey slut, can I abuse you for your Master.
Wanna Fuck.
Can I piss on you.
That about sums it up for me.. sure there are a few more.. :D
Katie.x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Takes deep breath...
Wanna try black
Wanna stretch my arse?
Hi babe/sexy/hun
Text speak
Young men
Women wanting me to try my non existent bi side
Couples where the male wants to meet
Smokers
Inane messages: ie Subject X, Message xx...why?!!
One line messages with cock pic attached
Men in hotels too cheap to pay for porn thinking I'll do
...and breath!
I've not finished, but deep healing breath, deep healing breath... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"or "what do you like doing" - read the bliddy profile!!!!"
Yes ive had that and from people that I have exchanged more than the introductory message with too |
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"People who just have to tell you what their job is in their opening message like it is some sort of irresistible bait which will have you hooked.
Do people actually fall for it?"
You mean that all these pilots are fibbing?.... |
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"People who just have to tell you what their job is in their opening message like it is some sort of irresistible bait which will have you hooked.
Do people actually fall for it?"
'Hey baby I'm a sewer cleaner and part time fish monger'
Nah it's not doing it for me either. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"This might be a good time to remind everyone they have more filters now
http://www.fabswingers.com/my/filters
You mean we can filter the fish mongers now? Get in!!!!! "
Ok I have had a bad nights sleep and only one cup of tea up to now so my brain isn't on full speed..........what????? |
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