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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Okay I'm not new to swinging, I had a previous profile with my ex but I'm finding this so much harder as a single female. I'm supposed to be going to a party Saturday and the nerves are already kicking in. I've been to a party at the couples house before and I know some of the couples that are going. Am I not ready for meets?  |
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I think it'd be unusual to not have butterflies before a meet or party 
That's all part of the excitement, if I didn't get them then I would probably start to think that this would all be boring and routine 
Having attended them before, and knowing the organisers, I'm sure you'll be fine  |
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"Okay I'm not new to swinging, I had a previous profile with my ex but I'm finding this so much harder as a single female. I'm supposed to be going to a party Saturday and the nerves are already kicking in. I've been to a party at the couples house before and I know some of the couples that are going. Am I not ready for meets? "
thinks you will be fine once there.Going out on your own is hard but get easyer. |
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Just natural nerves I think and since youve met the couple and others at the party before I'm sure that you will be fine when you get there.
Feel the fear and do it anyway... lol |
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"Okay I'm not new to swinging, I had a previous profile with my ex but I'm finding this so much harder as a single female. I'm supposed to be going to a party Saturday and the nerves are already kicking in. I've been to a party at the couples house before and I know some of the couples that are going. Am I not ready for meets? "
its all part of the fun |
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"Okay I'm not new to swinging, I had a previous profile with my ex but I'm finding this so much harder as a single female. I'm supposed to be going to a party Saturday and the nerves are already kicking in. I've been to a party at the couples house before and I know some of the couples that are going. Am I not ready for meets? "
I would sit down and think about who I'm doing this for.
What is it you're nervous about?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Okay I'm not new to swinging, I had a previous profile with my ex but I'm finding this so much harder as a single female. I'm supposed to be going to a party Saturday and the nerves are already kicking in. I've been to a party at the couples house before and I know some of the couples that are going. Am I not ready for meets?
I would sit down and think about who I'm doing this for.
What is it you're nervous about?
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Do you really want to go OP? Sex is great but if it makes you feel crap a wank is more fun.  x |
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"Is there a friend you could with from here?
I am going with a single female friend from here but I'm still worried beyond belief xx"
You'll be just fine, the parties I've attended have been so down to earth and lovely you all become friends!
The best bit is having a play then standing around afterwards sipping wine and chatting.
Enjoy and please let us know how you get on xx |
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