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over a year ago
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"Lots of things. From being clearly older and larger than their photo to having a sniggering, school boy /girl attitude to sex and swinging and a whole raft of odd little things in between  "
he he I can see your boobies |
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Tiny hairy cocks, buried in there somewhere amongst all that growth is a little worm trying to get out. YUCK I feel sick thinking about it, not to mention bad breath, BO and looking like a complete slob. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"British accents
American accents 
We could meet but not talk.....my ideal meet  "
That's perfect, if you would answer the door with a blindfold.... That would be better  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wearing a polo shirt and jogging bottoms. Add a baseball cap and I'm out of there.
Someone met me once wearing a skiing base layer thing  "
Did you still shag him x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What just wondering does anyone have a instant turn off. If you went for a social and you seen the person your meeting what is it that would make you think. ..
Nope not my type. ..
X x"
an EU t shirt .  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"British accents
American accents
We could meet but not talk.....my ideal meet
That's perfect, if you would answer the door with a blindfold.... That would be better "
I'll leave the door on the latch..you'll have to find me  |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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"Wearing a polo shirt and jogging bottoms. Add a baseball cap and I'm out of there.
Someone met me once wearing a skiing base layer thing
Did you still shag him x"
That was for a social!!
I watched someone in my wing mirror walk towards my car once. He was a 'nope' to |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What just wondering does anyone have a instant turn off. If you went for a social and you seen the person your meeting what is it that would make you think. ..
Nope not my type. ..
X x"
If they cant hold a conversation and they smell. Though I might let them off if they had a great arse and good legs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wearing a polo shirt and jogging bottoms. Add a baseball cap and I'm out of there.
Someone met me once wearing a skiing base layer thing
Did you still shag him x
That was for a social!!
I watched someone in my wing mirror walk towards my car once. He was a 'nope' to "
Did you speed off just as he got there. Lovely pics btw x |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
No end of things. I was once at a social and was chatting to a chap who seemed ok. He then started waxing lyrical on various dubious political beliefs. I couldn't abandon him fast enough.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If they are stood up and I can see right over their head "
I've had that happen to me before, wasn't sure whether I should pat him on the head or give him a peck on the cheek |
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"Lots of things. From being clearly older and larger than their photo to having a sniggering, school boy /girl attitude to sex and swinging and a whole raft of odd little things in between
he he I can see your boobies "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If they are stood up and I can see right over their head
I've had that happen to me before, wasn't sure whether I should pat him on the head or give him a peck on the cheek "
I'd have patted him on the head  |
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Arrogant, smug, exceptionally different to their introduction, a disinclination to pursue my satisfaction, rabid swivel eyed right-winger, a flat earth society member in all likelihood, devoid of empathy and charity - amongst the traits I'd be uninterested in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bad breath...greasy hair...nasty shoes (please ..white trainers and jeans ?!?!)...and ones that say...oh I left my wallet at home can you buy the drinks.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Arrogant, smug, exceptionally different to their introduction, a disinclination to pursue my satisfaction, rabid swivel eyed right-winger, a flat earth society member in all likelihood, devoid of empathy and charity - amongst the traits I'd be uninterested in."
Surely you would have ascertained their interests prior to arranging a social? |
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By *igal17Man
over a year ago
Ayr SW Scotland |
"Scruffs that can not be bothered to make an effort. And guys that try to hard to turn me on, Which completley turns me off. "
I'll have you wet in no time.
Would you like to see my cock?
I have a picture of it when I'm wearing my old joggers and crocs. |
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"Scruffs that can not be bothered to make an effort. And guys that try to hard to turn me on, Which completley turns me off.
I'll have you wet in no time.
Would you like to see my cock?
I have a picture of it when I'm wearing my old joggers and crocs."
Yes and them too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Blocking my 3 stalking profiles when I have made a good attempt to sound different in each one... oh wait. That doesn't put me off, it just makes me give up.
Request thread exit visa, please... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"oh I left my wallet at home can you buy the drinks.... "
What's wrong with this? You can buy a guy a drink or coffee.... It's ok we won't think less of you.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If no sex appeal i leave it as just a social. We need to click mentally its not about just looks for me. Another one however is smelling of fags and bad teeth.  |
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"Tories :/
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It's like this really cute ginger French guy I used to know. Pinned him down to a rematch and the pre-fuck convo consisted of him going off on a right-wing rant about this n' that...
I was just like, dude, shut up, it's *not* sexy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"oh I left my wallet at home can you buy the drinks....
What's wrong with this? You can buy a guy a drink or coffee.... It's ok we won't think less of you. "
Haha I didn't mind...it was the fact that he had clearly set it up so...That's the part I didn't like. I am all for equality lol...although he was also wearing jeans and white trainers....so was a drink bought begrudgingly as didn't do it for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All the above as well as this: on a social, the guy leaned over, leered and made a comment about not only was he skilled with his fingers and tongue, he had very nimble and agile toes too! I have no idea if he thought that was sexy, but I cut the social short and declined to meet ever again. (He was doing ok until he mentioned his toes!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Voice!
I met someone without speaking on the phone. He looked like Daniel Craig but sounded like Joe Pasquale.
I don't meet anyone without speaking on the phone now."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wearing a polo shirt and jogging bottoms. Add a baseball cap and I'm out of there.
Iv got a little kink for grey Nike joggers "
Me too, especially when they're worn just off the hips..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wearing a polo shirt and jogging bottoms. Add a baseball cap and I'm out of there.
Iv got a little kink for grey Nike joggers
Me too, especially when they're worn just off the hips..... "
with a tight crisp white t shirt.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wearing a polo shirt and jogging bottoms. Add a baseball cap and I'm out of there.
Iv got a little kink for grey Nike joggers
Me too, especially when they're worn just off the hips.....
with a tight crisp white t shirt.. "
hubba hubba |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wearing a polo shirt and jogging bottoms. Add a baseball cap and I'm out of there.
Iv got a little kink for grey Nike joggers
Me too, especially when they're worn just off the hips.....
with a tight crisp white t shirt..
hubba hubba "
Mmmmmmmm... feel free to make your selves known boys who rock This look  |
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By *woOfaKindCouple
over a year ago
Lancaster area |
Interesting thread!
Well, the basic stuff like really bad teeth or bad hygiene goes without saying.
Personally, I'm a bit put off with people who have to be the center of attention.
My wife doesn't care for really short or obese men.
-JD |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What just wondering does anyone have a instant turn off. If you went for a social and you seen the person your meeting what is it that would make you think. ..
Nope not my type. ..
X x"
His shoes, had a meet once and the minute he walked in i was put off, unironed jeans and old non fashion trainers (yup did i mention im picky), he was a nice guy though so carried on the meet til he came 2 mins into it.. never met again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wearing a polo shirt and jogging bottoms. Add a baseball cap and I'm out of there.
Iv got a little kink for grey Nike joggers
Me too, especially when they're worn just off the hips.....
with a tight crisp white t shirt..
hubba hubba
Mmmmmmmm... feel free to make your selves known boys who rock This look "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wearing a polo shirt and jogging bottoms. Add a baseball cap and I'm out of there.
Iv got a little kink for grey Nike joggers
Me too, especially when they're worn just off the hips..... "
Tight tshirt and some trendy trainers.. oh yes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think it would be fair to say an instant turn off based purely on looks alone,maybe no sexual attraction,but arrogance is a character trait which is an instant turn off for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Smelling of cigarettes
Wine or cider breath
Me, me, me attitudes
Grabbing my cock without so much as a 'hello'
People who try too hard to please
Those that assume a meet, any meet, will lead to sex
Mitherers / Needy people
Ugg boot wearers
Overly flirtatious people
There are more ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Smelling of cigarettes
Wine or cider breath
Me, me, me attitudes
Grabbing my cock without so much as a 'hello'
People who try too hard to please
Those that assume a meet, any meet, will lead to sex
Mitherers / Needy people
Ugg boot wearers
Overly flirtatious people
There are more ..."
I thought i was fussy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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over weight,,bad teeth,bad manners,,,ffs the list goes on,,silly question,,lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Smelling of cigarettes
Wine or cider breath
Me, me, me attitudes
Grabbing my cock without so much as a 'hello'
People who try too hard to please
Those that assume a meet, any meet, will lead to sex
Mitherers / Needy people
Ugg boot wearers
Overly flirtatious people
There are more ...
I thought i was fussy "
ugg boot wearers,,lol,,yea,,shoot them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Someone who can't hold a conversation or all they talk about is sex
It also annoys me when one sits across the table from u in a busy place and near enough shouts out 'so what bought u to the swinging world' (or something like that); so much for discretion assured, knob!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wearing a polo shirt and jogging bottoms. Add a baseball cap and I'm out of there.
Someone met me once wearing a skiing base layer thing "
Wasnt me was it? :p
In summer being on the bike im usualy learher jacket then a proskin long sleeve very thin baselayer ^_^
Although these days ive changed to uniqlo's airsim t shirts.
I dont cope well with heat  |
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By *woOfaKindCouple
over a year ago
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"Someone who can't hold a conversation or all they talk about is sex
It also annoys me when one sits across the table from u in a busy place and near enough shouts out 'so what bought u to the swinging world' (or something like that); so much for discretion assured, knob!!! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Chatting to a guy , met him in a pub still in high viz from work both of us there ,then he says can we hurry up I haven't got long !, need to get home to the wife! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Chatting to a guy , met him in a pub still in high viz from work both of us there ,then he says can we hurry up I haven't got long !, need to get home to the wife!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had a social meet in a lovely country pub,he sat there and drank pint after pint after pint until he could hardly stand up ,so i took him home,put him to bed and left ,and left his car keys beside him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Arrogance..some people think they've some kind of entitlement to being a complete tw@t.
I had a date once and she was beautiful but turned out to be so rude. In the end I asked the waitress over, apologised for my dates rudeness, got up and left her there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I didn't think j had any but it appears I do.
Littering, I fancied a woman till I saw her throw a packet a fags in the street.
And I don't like big feet on a girl. Size 6 or below. |
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Just reading all this...wondering how much of this is hypothetical & how much of this has happened in reality?
Some things you couldn't know until you met, but a lot of things mentioned could have been anticipated…surely?
Its not a very attractive advert for the site
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just reading all this...wondering how much of this is hypothetical & how much of this has happened in reality?
Some things you couldn't know until you met, but a lot of things mentioned could have been anticipated…surely?
Its not a very attractive advert for the site
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You make a fair point but we all know what we dont want to experience.
Personally I dislike bad manners, loudness,and generally lack of class and decorum....I alter my dislikes once I'm in private apart from the manners!
There are lots of other things too but that's the gist of it. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"I didn't think j had any but it appears I do.
Littering, I fancied a woman till I saw her throw a packet a fags in the street.
And I don't like big feet on a girl. Size 6 or below. "
You measure a woman's feet before you shag them?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I didn't think j had any but it appears I do.
Littering, I fancied a woman till I saw her throw a packet a fags in the street.
And I don't like big feet on a girl. Size 6 or below.
You measure a woman's feet before you shag them? "
No I'm too polite. I ask.
"What size feet are you?" Haha. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"I didn't think j had any but it appears I do.
Littering, I fancied a woman till I saw her throw a packet a fags in the street.
And I don't like big feet on a girl. Size 6 or below.
You measure a woman's feet before you shag them?
No I'm too polite. I ask.
"What size feet are you?" Haha. "
So you can't actually tell but you have a firm cut off you consider too big? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I didn't think j had any but it appears I do.
Littering, I fancied a woman till I saw her throw a packet a fags in the street.
And I don't like big feet on a girl. Size 6 or below.
You measure a woman's feet before you shag them?
No I'm too polite. I ask.
"What size feet are you?" Haha.
So you can't actually tell but you have a firm cut off you consider too big? "
Your trying to pick my unreasonable 'put off' to pieces, aren't you? Haha. I feel I should say, "any feet that look like clowns feet." |
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