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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So today been messed about buy 2 people is there actually any decent people left on here? That don't fuck about and meet when they say there going to? Pretty pissed off is and understatement |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Did you get to know these people proerly first"
well no was just last min meets but that's not the point the point is if you say your going to meet someone you should meet them unlessyou have a valid reason. Not just ignore there messages when they are on the street you told them to meet you on
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"Did you get to know these people proerly first well no was just last min meets but that's not the point the point is if you say your going to meet someone you should meet them unlessyou have a valid reason. Not just ignore there messages when they are on the street you told them to meet you on "
get to know them better next time then
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Did you get to know these people proerly first well no was just last min meets but that's not the point the point is if you say your going to meet someone you should meet them unlessyou have a valid reason. Not just ignore there messages when they are on the street you told them to meet you on get to know them better next time then"
I do know how to meet people iv been here long enough! You seem to be missing the point really
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Did you get to know these people proerly first well no was just last min meets but that's not the point the point is if you say your going to meet someone you should meet them unlessyou have a valid reason. Not just ignore there messages when they are on the street you told them to meet you on get to know them better next time then I do know how to meet people iv been here long enough! You seem to be missing the point really "
I think the point that was being made is that you do up the odds of being messed about if you don't make appropriate checks? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Did you get to know these people proerly first well no was just last min meets but that's not the point the point is if you say your going to meet someone you should meet them unlessyou have a valid reason. Not just ignore there messages when they are on the street you told them to meet you on get to know them better next time then I do know how to meet people iv been here long enough! You seem to be missing the point really
I think the point that was being made is that you do up the odds of being messed about if you don't make appropriate checks?"
iv found out the hard way I guess I'm just in a mood coz wasted my time traveling to 2 different places to get to there street and be ignored |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So today been messed about buy 2 people is there actually any decent people left on here? That don't fuck about and meet when they say there going to? Pretty pissed off is and understatement "
don't blame you mate bloody Waste of time the lot of em ,I know what you mean tho
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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Sounds like they had no intention of meeting. They probably gave you a fake address. The chance of this happening again will reduce if you're more careful and less desperate for a shag. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So today been messed about buy 2 people is there actually any decent people left on here? That don't fuck about and meet when they say there going to? Pretty pissed off is and understatement "
I'm decent, very decent actually.
Not to get your hopes up though, I don't want to meet you....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That would annoy me also !!
If I say I'm going to meet I show up, I've only pulled out of a meet once, I had a valid reason and gave them plenty of notice so they could make other plans !!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP - it sucks mate, I've also just been stood up and it's rude, regardless of how well you know someone, the least they can do is let you know they are changing the plans.
Good luck in future |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP - it sucks mate, I've also just been stood up and it's rude, regardless of how well you know someone, the least they can do is let you know they are changing the plans.
Good luck in future"
 I was on there street is what makes it worse I messaged them for the number of house and it was read but no reply on both people. I wouldn't dream of messing someone about like that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP - it sucks mate, I've also just been stood up and it's rude, regardless of how well you know someone, the least they can do is let you know they are changing the plans.
Good luck in future
I was on there street is what makes it worse I messaged them for the number of house and it was read but no reply on both people. I wouldn't dream of messing someone about like that! "
Don't let it happen a third time.
No one condones people making arrangements and then bottling out but there are measures that you can take to reduce the chances of that happening. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"OP - it sucks mate, I've also just been stood up and it's rude, regardless of how well you know someone, the least they can do is let you know they are changing the plans.
Good luck in future
I was on there street is what makes it worse I messaged them for the number of house and it was read but no reply on both people. I wouldn't dream of messing someone about like that!
Don't let it happen a third time.
No one condones people making arrangements and then bottling out but there are measures that you can take to reduce the chances of that happening."
I'm sure it puts a lot of people off I hate time wasters should be banned soon as reported x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP - it sucks mate, I've also just been stood up and it's rude, regardless of how well you know someone, the least they can do is let you know they are changing the plans.
Good luck in future
I was on there street is what makes it worse I messaged them for the number of house and it was read but no reply on both people. I wouldn't dream of messing someone about like that! "
Personally I wouldn't have even gone to the street without a house number to find, if your getting an address there's no reason not to give out the whole address. Sorry but to me it seems there was no notion on their part of meeting in the first place. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So today been messed about buy 2 people is there actually any decent people left on here? That don't fuck about and meet when they say there going to? Pretty pissed off is and understatement "
If both of them had arranged the meet at the same time..which one would you have picked and which one would you have let down? X |
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"So today been messed about buy 2 people is there actually any decent people left on here? That don't fuck about and meet when they say there going to? Pretty pissed off is and understatement
If both of them had arranged the meet at the same time..which one would you have picked and which one would you have let down? X"
Or maybe he had one meet arranged, they didn't turn up so he arranged another....who didn't turn up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't dream of meeting like that so have never experienced it. But I'd be very wary of anyone who just hands out addresses to random strangers so quickly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So today been messed about buy 2 people is there actually any decent people left on here? That don't fuck about and meet when they say there going to? Pretty pissed off is and understatement
If both of them had arranged the meet at the same time..which one would you have picked and which one would you have let down? X
Or maybe he had one meet arranged, they didn't turn up so he arranged another....who didn't turn up."
Sure he did  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's just courtesy really. I've met people who have only given a post code and then their full address when you're there.
If someone bottles it, that's cool, we've all been there, but it takes 2 mins to cancel properly. I thinks that what the OP is annoyed about. |
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"So today been messed about buy 2 people is there actually any decent people left on here? That don't fuck about and meet when they say there going to? Pretty pissed off is and understatement
If both of them had arranged the meet at the same time..which one would you have picked and which one would you have let down? X
Or maybe he had one meet arranged, they didn't turn up so he arranged another....who didn't turn up.
Sure he did x"
Stranger things have happened.
Like England being shit at football.... oh wait....  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So today been messed about buy 2 people is there actually any decent people left on here? That don't fuck about and meet when they say there going to? Pretty pissed off is and understatement
If both of them had arranged the meet at the same time..which one would you have picked and which one would you have let down? X
Or maybe he had one meet arranged, they didn't turn up so he arranged another....who didn't turn up."
that's exactly ryt I was stood up so rearranged another meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's happened to me before. What's with all the 'don't let it happen again. Did you know them?'
Course he didn't know them. They are strangers from fab. He didn't ask to waste his time travelling etc.
I feel sorry for you mate. Some selfish gits our there xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't dream of meeting like that so have never experienced it. But I'd be very wary of anyone who just hands out addresses to random strangers so quickly"
And this is one of the reasons we always follow the advice given by most sites. Always arrange a meeting to start in a public place. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think if this was a woman getting stood up off a guy the response on here would be different.happens all the time..pointless posting about it..."
Yeah suppose,i wouldn put on here if a woman didnt show |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think if this was a woman getting stood up off a guy the response on here would be different.happens all the time..pointless posting about it..."
Seriously? You got stood up?! Then they were mad!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So today been messed about buy 2 people is there actually any decent people left on here? That don't fuck about and meet when they say there going to? Pretty pissed off is and understatement
If both of them had arranged the meet at the same time..which one would you have picked and which one would you have let down? X
Or maybe he had one meet arranged, they didn't turn up so he arranged another....who didn't turn up. that's exactly ryt I was stood up so rearranged another meet "
By 1pm ffs your a fast worker x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unless I have a full address I wouldn't leave my own house, these people who say they will give you a number once you get to a street are clearly out to fuck you about, I'd never fall for that myself.
Just call it a lesson learnt and be more vigilant when selecting a meet, look out for the red flags. |
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"OP - it sucks mate, I've also just been stood up and it's rude, regardless of how well you know someone, the least they can do is let you know they are changing the plans.
Good luck in future
I was on there street is what makes it worse I messaged them for the number of house and it was read but no reply on both people. I wouldn't dream of messing someone about like that! "
Sounds very much like the same person on two profiles giving you the run around. Perhaps your wife? |
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Ah don't worry. Happens to us all. I gave had loads cancel on me at the last minute! I guess it's better than turning up and noone there but last minute cancellations are not fun after you made arrangements etc..
I think guys chicken out. Not sure....
I think I am a nice woman and it's only a social lol! Although that might be why!  |
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We have been let down on a number of occasions.. pisses us off more as we have to arrange childcare so we can play as a couple then the meet does not message or get in touch..and yes we have got to know these people..so we are then at a loose end.. luckily.. it's normally a weekend meet so we just go to a club. But I understand your frustration OP xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive had a few people let me down, id rather them let me know a day or so before so im not sat waiting around like a fool for someone to not turn up
Its made me realise its their loss not mine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" iv found out the hard way I guess I'm just in a mood coz wasted my time traveling to 2 different places to get to there street and be ignored "
Time travelling?
Hop back in your tardis so your time isn't wasted!
Sorry op, know your pissed off.
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