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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm been swinging on and off for almost 10 years. When I first started the average couples age was 45 , and a younger couple would be considered 30-35.
Now I see many couples in their 20's and guys that are 18-25.
To these couples and younger single guys and girls.. What attracted you to swinging?
At 18-25 I was swimming in sex at university  |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"I'm been swinging on and off for almost 10 years. When I first started the average couples age was 45 , and a younger couple would be considered 30-35.
Now I see many couples in their 20's and guys that are 18-25.
To these couples and younger single guys and girls.. What attracted you to swinging?
At 18-25 I was swimming in sex at university "
well I'm a sex addict who isn't looking for a relationship because I struggle with them and like the nsa with swinging because most of the women I fuck have a husband already so it seemed a good fit. I wouldn't say it was mainstream if you saw some of the responses I get on tinder when I suggest to take a girl to a swinging club though.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont know if we count as a "younger couple" but we were drawn to it because we talked about fantasies and researched it and found that it isn't that hard to make them a reality.
It makes sense that generations become progressively more sexually liberated and compared to 20/30 years ago I would expect it to be more common.
Would I say it's mainstream? Certainly not. If it were I wouldn't be hiding my face.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm been swinging on and off for almost 10 years. When I first started the average couples age was 45 , and a younger couple would be considered 30-35.
Now I see many couples in their 20's and guys that are 18-25.
To these couples and younger single guys and girls.. What attracted you to swinging?
At 18-25 I was swimming in sex at university well I'm a sex addict who isn't looking for a relationship because I struggle with them and like the nsa with swinging because most of the women I fuck have a husband already so it seemed a good fit. I wouldn't say it was mainstream if you saw some of the responses I get on tinder when I suggest to take a girl to a swinging club though. "
But at 27 , can't you still pull at the bar/club? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"everyone is a user of other people these days. seems like it anyway, dunno why it happened like that. 
Please smile today.... "
no.
just a little one then.
*strains* |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"everyone is a user of other people these days. seems like it anyway, dunno why it happened like that.
Please smile today....
no.
just a little one then.
*strains*"
Thank you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dont know if we count as a "younger couple" but we were drawn to it because we talked about fantasies and researched it and found that it isn't that hard to make them a reality.
It makes sense that generations become progressively more sexually liberated and compared to 20/30 years ago I would expect it to be more common.
Would I say it's mainstream? Certainly not. If it were I wouldn't be hiding my face. "
Maybe you should show your face for 24 hours? It'll be like a good old fashioned protest again the man |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Blame the Internet  "
True
I was doing this in my 20s but it was much harder back them
You had to send letters and photos and wait for the post man for a reply
It was long winded so wasn't attractive to the masses
Plus not everybody wanted to be seen buying contact magazines
Now days it's all the click of a button |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"I'm been swinging on and off for almost 10 years. When I first started the average couples age was 45 , and a younger couple would be considered 30-35.
Now I see many couples in their 20's and guys that are 18-25.
To these couples and younger single guys and girls.. What attracted you to swinging?
At 18-25 I was swimming in sex at university well I'm a sex addict who isn't looking for a relationship because I struggle with them and like the nsa with swinging because most of the women I fuck have a husband already so it seemed a good fit. I wouldn't say it was mainstream if you saw some of the responses I get on tinder when I suggest to take a girl to a swinging club though.
But at 27 , can't you still pull at the bar/club?"
yes an I do, not easy getting 1 night stands though as a lot want the romance wining and dining etc and it can be more expensive a night out compared to going a swingers club where I can play with multiple women in 1 night doing things normal girls wouldn't let me aswell for relatively cheap entrance fee. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm been swinging on and off for almost 10 years. When I first started the average couples age was 45 , and a younger couple would be considered 30-35.
Now I see many couples in their 20's and guys that are 18-25.
To these couples and younger single guys and girls.. What attracted you to swinging?
At 18-25 I was swimming in sex at university well I'm a sex addict who isn't looking for a relationship because I struggle with them and like the nsa with swinging because most of the women I fuck have a husband already so it seemed a good fit. I wouldn't say it was mainstream if you saw some of the responses I get on tinder when I suggest to take a girl to a swinging club though.
But at 27 , can't you still pull at the bar/club? yes an I do, not easy getting 1 night stands though as a lot want the romance wining and dining etc and it can be more expensive a night out compared to going a swingers club where I can play with multiple women in 1 night doing things normal girls wouldn't let me aswell for relatively cheap entrance fee."
One meets a different class of lady at AbFabs vrs weatherspoons |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm been swinging on and off for almost 10 years. When I first started the average couples age was 45 , and a younger couple would be considered 30-35.
Now I see many couples in their 20's and guys that are 18-25.
To these couples and younger single guys and girls.. What attracted you to swinging?
At 18-25 I was swimming in sex at university well I'm a sex addict who isn't looking for a relationship because I struggle with them and like the nsa with swinging because most of the women I fuck have a husband already so it seemed a good fit. I wouldn't say it was mainstream if you saw some of the responses I get on tinder when I suggest to take a girl to a swinging club though.
But at 27 , can't you still pull at the bar/club? yes an I do, not easy getting 1 night stands though as a lot want the romance wining and dining etc and it can be more expensive a night out compared to going a swingers club where I can play with multiple women in 1 night doing things normal girls wouldn't let me aswell for relatively cheap entrance fee.
One meets a different class of lady at AbFabs vrs weatherspoons "
Yeah they are normal girls in weatherspoons |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The Internet had made it much more accessible and numbers have consequently grown. I wouldn't go as far to say it is mainstream but people now have more avenues to explore their sexuality from a younger age. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guess nowadays people see it as an easy way to meet people. I wouldn't have dreamt about actively searching out strangers for sex in my younger years. I wouldn't have had the time as i had a strong friendship base and i didn't spend many evenings at home during my late teens and 20s. I think i only went home to eat (sometimes) sleep (sometimes) and get changed! I think times have changed with the widespread use of the internet. It's easier to follow this lifestyle and easier to find out about what's out there. I doubt i would ever have had the courage to answer an ad in a magazine! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm been swinging on and off for almost 10 years. When I first started the average couples age was 45 , and a younger couple would be considered 30-35.
Now I see many couples in their 20's and guys that are 18-25.
To these couples and younger single guys and girls.. What attracted you to swinging?
At 18-25 I was swimming in sex at university well I'm a sex addict who isn't looking for a relationship because I struggle with them and like the nsa with swinging because most of the women I fuck have a husband already so it seemed a good fit. I wouldn't say it was mainstream if you saw some of the responses I get on tinder when I suggest to take a girl to a swinging club though.
But at 27 , can't you still pull at the bar/club? yes an I do, not easy getting 1 night stands though as a lot want the romance wining and dining etc and it can be more expensive a night out compared to going a swingers club where I can play with multiple women in 1 night doing things normal girls wouldn't let me aswell for relatively cheap entrance fee.
One meets a different class of lady at AbFabs vrs weatherspoons
Yeah they are normal girls in weatherspoons "
And nice looking |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm been swinging on and off for almost 10 years. When I first started the average couples age was 45 , and a younger couple would be considered 30-35.
Now I see many couples in their 20's and guys that are 18-25.
To these couples and younger single guys and girls.. What attracted you to swinging?
At 18-25 I was swimming in sex at university well I'm a sex addict who isn't looking for a relationship because I struggle with them and like the nsa with swinging because most of the women I fuck have a husband already so it seemed a good fit. I wouldn't say it was mainstream if you saw some of the responses I get on tinder when I suggest to take a girl to a swinging club though.
But at 27 , can't you still pull at the bar/club? yes an I do, not easy getting 1 night stands though as a lot want the romance wining and dining etc and it can be more expensive a night out compared to going a swingers club where I can play with multiple women in 1 night doing things normal girls wouldn't let me aswell for relatively cheap entrance fee.
One meets a different class of lady at AbFabs vrs weatherspoons
Yeah they are normal girls in weatherspoons
And nice looking "
You have obviously never been to the weatherspoons round here  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I dont know if we count as a "younger couple" but we were drawn to it because we talked about fantasies and researched it and found that it isn't that hard to make them a reality.
It makes sense that generations become progressively more sexually liberated and compared to 20/30 years ago I would expect it to be more common.
Would I say it's mainstream? Certainly not. If it were I wouldn't be hiding my face.
Maybe you should show your face for 24 hours? It'll be like a good old fashioned protest again the man"
If I showed my face , then I'd have the best the women away with a stick |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm been swinging on and off for almost 10 years. When I first started the average couples age was 45 , and a younger couple would be considered 30-35.
Now I see many couples in their 20's and guys that are 18-25.
To these couples and younger single guys and girls.. What attracted you to swinging?
At 18-25 I was swimming in sex at university well I'm a sex addict who isn't looking for a relationship because I struggle with them and like the nsa with swinging because most of the women I fuck have a husband already so it seemed a good fit. I wouldn't say it was mainstream if you saw some of the responses I get on tinder when I suggest to take a girl to a swinging club though.
But at 27 , can't you still pull at the bar/club? yes an I do, not easy getting 1 night stands though as a lot want the romance wining and dining etc and it can be more expensive a night out compared to going a swingers club where I can play with multiple women in 1 night doing things normal girls wouldn't let me aswell for relatively cheap entrance fee.
One meets a different class of lady at AbFabs vrs weatherspoons
Yeah they are normal girls in weatherspoons
And nice looking
You have obviously never been to the weatherspoons round here "
To be fair, some are nice looking. It's when they start talking that you get the problems... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Given that my mates who know what I do still respond with things like "You lucky bastard, how do you find girls into this stuff" I'd say it's still not mainstream |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dont know if we count as a "younger couple" but we were drawn to it because we talked about fantasies and researched it and found that it isn't that hard to make them a reality.
It makes sense that generations become progressively more sexually liberated and compared to 20/30 years ago I would expect it to be more common.
Would I say it's mainstream? Certainly not. If it were I wouldn't be hiding my face.
Maybe you should show your face for 24 hours? It'll be like a good old fashioned protest again the man
If I showed my face , then I'd have the best the women away with a stick "
It's ok we're all in the UK |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dont know if we count as a "younger couple" but we were drawn to it because we talked about fantasies and researched it and found that it isn't that hard to make them a reality.
It makes sense that generations become progressively more sexually liberated and compared to 20/30 years ago I would expect it to be more common.
Would I say it's mainstream? Certainly not. If it were I wouldn't be hiding my face.
Maybe you should show your face for 24 hours? It'll be like a good old fashioned protest again the man"
Haha. I've actually considered it.
But I know this is really just a trick so you can see my face. If you want it, just ask  |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"I'm been swinging on and off for almost 10 years. When I first started the average couples age was 45 , and a younger couple would be considered 30-35.
Now I see many couples in their 20's and guys that are 18-25.
To these couples and younger single guys and girls.. What attracted you to swinging?
At 18-25 I was swimming in sex at university well I'm a sex addict who isn't looking for a relationship because I struggle with them and like the nsa with swinging because most of the women I fuck have a husband already so it seemed a good fit. I wouldn't say it was mainstream if you saw some of the responses I get on tinder when I suggest to take a girl to a swinging club though.
But at 27 , can't you still pull at the bar/club? yes an I do, not easy getting 1 night stands though as a lot want the romance wining and dining etc and it can be more expensive a night out compared to going a swingers club where I can play with multiple women in 1 night doing things normal girls wouldn't let me aswell for relatively cheap entrance fee.
One meets a different class of lady at AbFabs vrs weatherspoons
Yeah they are normal girls in weatherspoons "
haha women who go there are easier to pull than women in a swingers club |
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As a teen & early twenties i enjoyed the chase if i spotted a lady i liked but now its easier to turn on the computer & pick people you want to have fun with.
I see more action now than i ever did when younger so if i had known about swinging then i would have jumped at the chance, 10 years back the average age was about 40 as most people that age were happy with their sex lives but wanted to experiment in naughtier things.
Starting too young in swinging could cause problems later because what else is there to try lol, internet & mobile devices have made swinging as easy as ordering a take away so i suppose people any age will take advantage of it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As a teen & early twenties i enjoyed the chase if i spotted a lady i liked but now its easier to turn on the computer & pick people you want to have fun with.
I see more action now than i ever did when younger so if i had known about swinging then i would have jumped at the chance, 10 years back the average age was about 40 as most people that age were happy with their sex lives but wanted to experiment in naughtier things.
Starting too young in swinging could cause problems later because what else is there to try."
More of the same!? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"everyone is a user of other people these days. seems like it anyway, dunno why it happened like that.
People used to love people and use things, now they use people and love things.  "
i love lamp.
i am finding more nice people tbh, used to avoid everyone but trusting people a bit more coz i'm sure not everyone is an arsehole but it's getting hard to find genuinely real people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"everyone is a user of other people these days. seems like it anyway, dunno why it happened like that.
People used to love people and use things, now they use people and love things. "
Only because the things they used to have were crap. I'd rather die than live without t'internet and computer games. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"As a teen & early twenties i enjoyed the chase if i spotted a lady i liked but now its easier to turn on the computer & pick people you want to have fun with.
I see more action now than i ever did when younger so if i had known about swinging then i would have jumped at the chance, 10 years back the average age was about 40 as most people that age were happy with their sex lives but wanted to experiment in naughtier things.
Starting too young in swinging could cause problems later because what else is there to try lol, internet & mobile devices have made swinging as easy as ordering a take away so i suppose people any age will take advantage of it."
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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I've always been a fan of nsa sex ever since college. I was never happy with only one sexual partner. I'm not sure its become more mainstream but, thanks to the internet, swinging is definitely coming out of the shadows. |
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"everyone is a user of other people these days. seems like it anyway, dunno why it happened like that.
People used to love people and use things, now they use people and love things.
Only because the things they used to have were crap. I'd rather die than live without t'internet and computer games. "
God I could, if I came home to just a good man and a good horse I'd be a happy bunny! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"everyone is a user of other people these days. seems like it anyway, dunno why it happened like that.
People used to love people and use things, now they use people and love things.
Only because the things they used to have were crap. I'd rather die than live without t'internet and computer games.
God I could, if I came home to just a good man and a good horse I'd be a happy bunny! "
Would you settle for a man that was hung like a horse? |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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When I first came on the scene it was an easy way of meeting the type of men I wanted to meet. If I tried to approach an older man in a club etc quite often they would think I was an escort/having a laugh. It helped me find people I was attracted to with out dealing with the ball ache of not being taken seriously! A couple of FFMs with older couples have come about from here and I don't think they would have without FAB. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I first came on the scene it was an easy way of meeting the type of men I wanted to meet. If I tried to approach an older man in a club etc quite often they would think I was an escort/having a laugh. It helped me find people I was attracted to with out dealing with the ball ache of not being taken seriously! A couple of FFMs with older couples have come about from here and I don't think they would have without FAB. "
You prefer older men? You must struggle around here... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"When I first came on the scene it was an easy way of meeting the type of men I wanted to meet. If I tried to approach an older man in a club etc quite often they would think I was an escort/having a laugh. It helped me find people I was attracted to with out dealing with the ball ache of not being taken seriously! A couple of FFMs with older couples have come about from here and I don't think they would have without FAB.
You prefer older men? You must struggle around here... "
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