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Why do people hide who they been with
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Makes me laugh when you see the green tick. But not displayed. Who cares if a male went with another male but says he's straight.
Or a woman goes with a man she said wouldn't go with because of previous. But does cause he can accomadate.
Who cares. Display then it gives everyone else disclosure of honesty
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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We're not 'hiding' verifications, we're choosing not to show them.
I got two verifications from a guy I met at two consecutive socials. I only show one because the second is redundant to me. |
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"Makes me laugh when you see the green tick. But not displayed. Who cares if a male went with another male but says he's straight.
Or a woman goes with a man she said wouldn't go with because of previous. But does cause he can accomadate.
Who cares. Display then it gives everyone else disclosure of honesty
Rant over"
Because it's no one's business but my own. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Whats the green tick thingy  "
The circle with a tick in on profiles means they have been verified by a person on the site.
The green flag means photo verified by Admin. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Because some people stick their nose into other people's business and mischief make  "
Yeap had this happen just a few weeks ago and some people like to make things their business so I now just keep mine hidden |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because some people stick their nose into other people's business and mischief make
Exactly. Well said View."
Yep, I don't like the attention good and bad, that comes with verifications being displayed. No.ones business tbg  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had loads of my verification
Some people are just to graphic and I don't like showing such verification, I also don't show verification if they show my real name
It's not always cynical |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Whats the green tick thingy
The circle with a tick in on profiles means they have been verified by a person on the site.
The green flag means photo verified by Admin. "
Thankyou  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have multiple profiles. You'd never know who I have or haven't met.
So your Tina Titz  
Tina is much hotter than me! I wish I was her. "
ive met both scarlet and tina titz... i can confirm they are different people... although.. hmmmm didnt see them together
op I only show one of mine due to nosey bitches |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. I shan't. It's not anyone else's business and i won't meet anyone who thinks it is.  "
Me too ....my life is private and if that's a problem with anyone ...then we wont meet......period. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some people like to keep their meets between themselves and those they have met. Be that solely for discretion, for the avoidance of unwarranted drama or attention, or simply because they can't display any due to "unlos" so be it; so long as you know you're having fun what does it matter to someone else?
I know I have a few of mine displayed but that's solely because I feel it beneficial as a single guy to do so.
I read them all regularly and have a good giggle reminiscing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hide the fact that I've met one person due to other people attempting to make that their business. I can't be arsed with the silly drama and bullshit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Makes me laugh when you see the green tick. But not displayed. Who cares if a male went with another male but says he's straight.
Or a woman goes with a man she said wouldn't go with because of previous. But does cause he can accomadate.
Who cares. Display then it gives everyone else disclosure of honesty
Rant over"
Because sadly my verifications get Jealous of each other .
Some of my veries show my verifications so people can still see who I've met with them . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I recently moved a lot of veris away from _iew simply because some are old or repeat meets, i think you'll find that the vast majority keeps theirs close to their chest simply because it's no ones business but their own. I've been verified, I'm real, I don't need a trip advisor rating |
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"I recently moved a lot of veris away from _iew simply because some are old or repeat meets, i think you'll find that the vast majority keeps theirs close to their chest simply because it's no ones business but their own. I've been verified, I'm real, I don't need a trip advisor rating"
that's a shame and there I was going to give you one purely for Thor's hammer |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have multiple profiles. You'd never know who I have or haven't met. So your Tina Titz "
Nope - she's me!
Noticed you never see us both in the same place at the same time? |
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I had almost all mine hidden because some twat of a loser man assumed if a certain lady had had sex with ne then surely she would want him and she didn't. It caused some issues. She's left fab now so they are all on show.
Including the 'Steve is a shit shag' one! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have to admit we've never been particularly worried about people on the swing scene knowing who we've played with. Besides so many of our swinging friends have played with the same people as us, and probably at the same parties, so there's very little privacy for us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I recently moved a lot of veris away from _iew simply because some are old or repeat meets, i think you'll find that the vast majority keeps theirs close to their chest simply because it's no ones business but their own. I've been verified, I'm real, I don't need a trip advisor rating that's a shame and there I was going to give you one purely for Thor's hammer "
Feel free! I'm also a fan of a bad veri too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Makes me laugh when you see the green tick. But not displayed. Who cares if a male went with another male but says he's straight.
Or a woman goes with a man she said wouldn't go with because of previous. But does cause he can accomadate.
Who cares. Display then it gives everyone else disclosure of honesty
Rant over"
What's it got to do with you what we do !!! |
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Additionally, some people made erroneous assumptions believing that because I'm bi and from Brighton, that I had had sex with loads of men (based on numbers in the summary), however, most of them were socials so showed them to prove that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because some people stick their nose into other people's business and mischief make "
This is very true....I am not going into details, but this has happened to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Aww do you have green tick envy op  this for single women and couples they don't mean as much but for single guys they are paramount!"
I haven't always shown all of mine. Particularly in previous profile.....would have run to three pages lol!
Plus....if a member who verified you then leaves the sute...you keep the green tick but cannot show the wording even if you want to! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Whats the green tick thingy
The circle with a tick in on profiles means they have been verified by a person on the site.
The green flag means photo verified by Admin.
Thankyou "
Might have dreamt this but can you actually verify yourself? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We show what we want to show and hide what we want to hide. Just because the site allows verifications and for them to be public doesn't mean we feel like we have to show them.
We do what we want. |
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"I recently moved a lot of veris away from _iew simply because some are old or repeat meets, i think you'll find that the vast majority keeps theirs close to their chest simply because it's no ones business but their own. I've been verified, I'm real, I don't need a trip advisor rating that's a shame and there I was going to give you one purely for Thor's hammer
Feel free! I'm also a fan of a bad veri too"
now who said it was gonna be a bad un? Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not bad 46 replies in 15 mins"
I suspect that the OP is just trying to improve his chances of being looked at and contacted by posting something...anything on here. I am certain that a gentleman of his age and experience will be fully aware how this site operates, even if he has only been on here for 8 weeks. A system is in place to show verifications in full, and or a summary or nothing at all, if someone doesn't want to. The fact is, that we all have different reasons for what we share and what we don't and frankly, if someone doesn't like what they see or don't see on my profile, then move along. |
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"Makes me laugh when you see the green tick. But not displayed. Who cares if a male went with another male but says he's straight.
Or a woman goes with a man she said wouldn't go with because of previous. But does cause he can accomadate.
Who cares. Display then it gives everyone else disclosure of honesty
Rant over"
Oooh the irony! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fuck-Advisor (tm) style re_iews are certainly not for us... definately wouldn't display such things...
"They turned up on time and look like their pics".... that's the only requirement really.... and you only need one of those. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fuck-Advisor (tm) style re_iews are certainly not for us... definately wouldn't display such things...
"They turned up on time and look like their pics".... that's the only requirement really.... and you only need one of those."
What if they were smelly and rude and verified you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We show just a few of ours , the site wouldn't have the space for them all
To be honest we have never had any grief from showing them though , as some have eluded to .
Those who show none at all could have just a cam veri and we would be none the wiser ... Which is a negative in our eyes .
But then again , it's none of our business is it ?
So we will leave it there , and carry on having fun - showing a few veris here and there |
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"Makes me laugh when you see the green tick. But not displayed. Who cares if a male went with another male but says he's straight.
Or a woman goes with a man she said wouldn't go with because of previous. But does cause he can accomadate.
Who cares. Display then it gives everyone else disclosure of honesty
Rant over"
Straight (yeah right) having a veri from a TV or bloke, could stop them from meeting a woman or couple. |
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"Makes me laugh when you see the green tick. But not displayed. Who cares if a male went with another male but says he's straight.
Or a woman goes with a man she said wouldn't go with because of previous. But does cause he can accomadate.
Who cares. Display then it gives everyone else disclosure of honesty
Rant over"
It's no-one's business who I have met.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Makes me laugh when you see the green tick. But not displayed. Who cares if a male went with another male but says he's straight.
Or a woman goes with a man she said wouldn't go with because of previous. But does cause he can accomadate.
Who cares. Display then it gives everyone else disclosure of honesty
Rant over"
Because it's no-one elses business.
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