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By *igal17 OP Man
over a year ago
Ayr SW Scotland |
This is maybe an impossible question, but what is sex appeal and do you agree some have it and some don’t?
For instance this lass (my next door neighbour actually, but say nowt); she’s good looking, the lumps and bumps are nicely rounded and all in the right place, but… (to me) all the sex appeal of a squashed frog. I just cannot imagine any fantasy that involves her. And believe me I’ve tried.
Conversely you can meet a girl, not great looking, no great shakes in the body department and all you want to do is tear her clothes off and ravage her. Twice. Daily.
Why is it that some girls just ooze this allure? Body language? Eye contact? Would most think the same or could my examples be the other way round to some people?
And is it the same with guys for the lovely ladies out there? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is maybe an impossible question, but what is sex appeal and do you agree some have it and some don’t?
For instance this lass (my next door neighbour actually, but say nowt); she’s good looking, the lumps and bumps are nicely rounded and all in the right place, but… (to me) all the sex appeal of a squashed frog. I just cannot imagine any fantasy that involves her. And believe me I’ve tried.
Conversely you can meet a girl, not great looking, no great shakes in the body department and all you want to do is tear her clothes off and ravage her. Twice. Daily.
Why is it that some girls just ooze this allure? Body language? Eye contact? Would most think the same or could my examples be the other way round to some people?
And is it the same with guys for the lovely ladies out there?"
According to the advertising, she's wearing Impulse.....
In men it's the Lynx affect.
Allegedly....... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Of course it all depends. For sex appeal a person's attitude and general demeanour can be almost as important as their physical appearance. It also depends on the perceivor. |
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Before the term got hijacked we use to call it the X factor.
That special something about sow one that you may not be able to put your finger on but which rings all the right bells for you.
In reality, it is probably simply chemistry.
Two people with the right contrasting balance of pheromones that means they click and the best thing about it is that it means someone that does nothing for you may be amazing to someone else.
(Mods, for the sake of clarity, I am in no way suggesting that Simon Cowel is sexually atractive or has and any kind of chemical influence over others.
No need for any ban here. Move along. Other threads to check. Move along)
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is maybe an impossible question, but what is sex appeal and do you agree some have it and some don’t?
For instance this lass (my next door neighbour actually, but say nowt); she’s good looking, the lumps and bumps are nicely rounded and all in the right place, but… (to me) all the sex appeal of a squashed frog. I just cannot imagine any fantasy that involves her. And believe me I’ve tried.
Conversely you can meet a girl, not great looking, no great shakes in the body department and all you want to do is tear her clothes off and ravage her. Twice. Daily.
Why is it that some girls just ooze this allure? Body language? Eye contact? Would most think the same or could my examples be the other way round to some people?
And is it the same with guys for the lovely ladies out there?"
It's all about the body language.
When you enter a room you say way more than when you open mouth!
What you feel inside exudes to others.Some mask it well others can t.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's the unknown element that we 'i hope will never be able to define'.
It is undefinable, some have more of it than others, some just don't seem to have any at all
Dreams |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When someone has "it" - its bloody obvious.
You can watch the eyes track them crossing a room...
Their body language changing if that person is nearby...
It can be scary even.
But fuck is it sexy
Mx |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"Before the term got hijacked we use to call it the X factor.
That special something about sow one that you may not be able to put your finger on but which rings all the right bells for you.
In reality, it is probably simply chemistry.
Two people with the right contrasting balance of pheromones that means they click and the best thing about it is that it means someone that does nothing for you may be amazing to someone else.
(Mods, for the sake of clarity, I am in no way suggesting that Simon Cowel is sexually atractive or has and any kind of chemical influence over others.
No need for any ban here. Move along. Other threads to check. Move along)
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I think I need to add this little line at the end for the mods aswell  |
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By *woOfaKindCouple
over a year ago
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It's rare, but I have actually physically felt sex appeal before. It's almost as if I felt a magnetic pull towards the female. I suppose it could have been my imagination, but it seemed like something in the air.
Otherwise, I think a lot of it depends on how a person carries themself, how they dress, talk, and act, and even their confidence level. Just looking great isn't enough.
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By *igal17 OP Man
over a year ago
Ayr SW Scotland |
"When someone has "it" - its bloody obvious.
You can watch the eyes track them crossing a room...
Their body language changing if that person is nearby...
It can be scary even.
But fuck is it sexy
Mx"
My thoughts exactly. But worded better.  |
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"When someone has "it" - its bloody obvious.
You can watch the eyes track them crossing a room...
Mx"
I get this a lot but it usualy I've forgotten to put my cock away after a trip to the gents.
(Mods, for the sake of clarity, I am not recommending or advocating exposing I self in public for the purpose odlf distressing others.
No ban required. Move along) |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
I know it when I see it. Other than that I can't pin it down. The last person I saw that had that effect on me I saw in profile and from behind first and it was just instant. The magic though was when he turned around and that spark was reciprocal. Both our faces lit up. |
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By *igal17 OP Man
over a year ago
Ayr SW Scotland |
I think I must have it as I often have women chasing me...
Although that could be my career as a bag snatcher.
I'M NOT REALLY!!! (Having read some comments I'm worried about getting banned now) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a bit of a dobber and wouldn't win any beauty contests.
I am, however, confident without being cocky, am easy to talk with and have a decent ability to make people chuckle.
I've never done that bad when it comes to arranging meets, so I'm guessing the pros outweigh the cons  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Of course it all depends. For sex appeal a person's attitude and general demeanour can be almost as important as their physical appearance. It also depends on the perceivor."
It depends on me and them both, if we click. The combined chemistry. Not just them or just me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Before the term got hijacked we use to call it the X factor.
That special something about sow one that you may not be able to put your finger on but which rings all the right bells for you.
In reality, it is probably simply chemistry.
Two people with the right contrasting balance of pheromones that means they click and the best thing about it is that it means someone that does nothing for you may be amazing to someone else.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's rare, but I have actually physically felt sex appeal before. It's almost as if I felt a magnetic pull towards the female. I suppose it could have been my imagination, but it seemed like something in the air.
Otherwise, I think a lot of it depends on how a person carries themself, how they dress, talk, and act, and even their confidence level. Just looking great isn't enough.
-JD"
I've had this with a couple of men. I was in the pub once with my ex husband and these two men came in and I looked at one and I got a physical reaction to him.
It turned out they both worked with my ex and we spent the evening with them. They actually became good friends but not acting on that feeling was incredibly difficult
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I definitely have it  an you call me arrogant  "
sex appeal and being aware of your sexuality comes from within, so I am the only one who is qualified to say whether I definitely have it or not! That's not being arrogant, that's being truthful
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"I definitely have it an you call me arrogant
sex appeal and being aware of your sexuality comes from within, so I am the only one who is qualified to say whether I definitely have it or not! That's not being arrogant, that's being truthful
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pfft seems ill gave to educate you again it should be the other way around considering your age sex appeal unless you are conventionally and universally attractive is subjective and relative. Average looking people like myself included sex appeal can be debateable. For instance I don't think you have sex appeal an you probly same the same about me, just because you believe doesn't make it so and sex sites like this aren't really a good judge as men will tell you anything for sex most of the time. That's why some women on here have false inflated ego's |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I definitely have it an you call me arrogant
sex appeal and being aware of your sexuality comes from within, so I am the only one who is qualified to say whether I definitely have it or not! That's not being arrogant, that's being truthful
pfft seems ill gave to educate you again it should be the other way around considering your age sex appeal unless you are conventionally and universally attractive is subjective and relative. Average looking people like myself included sex appeal can be debateable. For instance I don't think you have sex appeal an you probly same the same about me, just because you believe doesn't make it so and sex sites like this aren't really a good judge as men will tell you anything for sex most of the time. That's why some women on here have false inflated ego's "
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"I definitely have it an you call me arrogant
sex appeal and being aware of your sexuality comes from within, so I am the only one who is qualified to say whether I definitely have it or not! That's not being arrogant, that's being truthful
pfft seems ill gave to educate you again it should be the other way around considering your age sex appeal unless you are conventionally and universally attractive is subjective and relative. Average looking people like myself included sex appeal can be debateable. For instance I don't think you have sex appeal an you probly same the same about me, just because you believe doesn't make it so and sex sites like this aren't really a good judge as men will tell you anything for sex most of the time. That's why some women on here have false inflated ego's
Lol "
you not got a legitimate response? Is it because I'm right again like I am most of the time  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sex appeal is dependent on drinking and drug use...
When in a pub at 10 pm and woman would be considered a 3 on sex appeal scale.
But after a few drinks that same woman at 3am is now a perfect 10 on a sex appeal scale... |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"Sex appeal is dependent on drinking and drug use...
When in a pub at 10 pm and woman would be considered a 3 on sex appeal scale.
But after a few drinks that same woman at 3am is now a perfect 10 on a sex appeal scale... "
there should be a fab sex appeal women who are like 3's 4's 5's suddenly become 7's 8's 9's on here when men just want to fuck them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sex appeal is dependent on drinking and drug use...
When in a pub at 10 pm and woman would be considered a 3 on sex appeal scale.
But after a few drinks that same woman at 3am is now a perfect 10 on a sex appeal scale... there should be a fab sex appeal women who are like 3's 4's 5's suddenly become 7's 8's 9's on here when men just want to fuck them "
I've seen a few profiles like that... They want a slim , athletic / muscular guy that's above 6 feet , with all his teeth... Then I look at their Verifactions and they actually get these guys to have sex 
Fab is like the Amazon kingdom... Women rule |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is maybe an impossible question, but what is sex appeal and do you agree some have it and some don’t?
For instance this lass (my next door neighbour actually, but say nowt); she’s good looking, the lumps and bumps are nicely rounded and all in the right place, but… (to me) all the sex appeal of a squashed frog. I just cannot imagine any fantasy that involves her. And believe me I’ve tried.
Conversely you can meet a girl, not great looking, no great shakes in the body department and all you want to do is tear her clothes off and ravage her. Twice. Daily.
Why is it that some girls just ooze this allure? Body language? Eye contact? Would most think the same or could my examples be the other way round to some people?
And is it the same with guys for the lovely ladies out there?"
Not a clue what it is. For some reason I don't understand even at my age and with my lumps and bumps I get more action than my younger slimmer friend on here. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"Sex appeal is dependent on drinking and drug use...
When in a pub at 10 pm and woman would be considered a 3 on sex appeal scale.
But after a few drinks that same woman at 3am is now a perfect 10 on a sex appeal scale... there should be a fab sex appeal women who are like 3's 4's 5's suddenly become 7's 8's 9's on here when men just want to fuck them
I've seen a few profiles like that... They want a slim , athletic / muscular guy that's above 6 feet , with all his teeth... Then I look at their Verifactions and they actually get these guys to have sex
Fab is like the Amazon kingdom... Women rule "
desperate times desperate measures perhaps |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sex appeal is dependent on drinking and drug use...
When in a pub at 10 pm and woman would be considered a 3 on sex appeal scale.
But after a few drinks that same woman at 3am is now a perfect 10 on a sex appeal scale... there should be a fab sex appeal women who are like 3's 4's 5's suddenly become 7's 8's 9's on here when men just want to fuck them
I've seen a few profiles like that... They want a slim , athletic / muscular guy that's above 6 feet , with all his teeth... Then I look at their Verifactions and they actually get these guys to have sex
Fab is like the Amazon kingdom... Women rule "
If I'm a 3/4 who can be seen on fab as a 7/8 and can pull guys who are 9/10, then I'll take the Amazon kingdom any day. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"Sex appeal is dependent on drinking and drug use...
When in a pub at 10 pm and woman would be considered a 3 on sex appeal scale.
But after a few drinks that same woman at 3am is now a perfect 10 on a sex appeal scale... there should be a fab sex appeal women who are like 3's 4's 5's suddenly become 7's 8's 9's on here when men just want to fuck them
I've seen a few profiles like that... They want a slim , athletic / muscular guy that's above 6 feet , with all his teeth... Then I look at their Verifactions and they actually get these guys to have sex
Fab is like the Amazon kingdom... Women rule
If I'm a 3/4 who can be seen on fab as a 7/8 and can pull guys who are 9/10, then I'll take the Amazon kingdom any day. "
yeah you can't blame them in not saying you can, just don't get carried away when there not on fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sex appeal is dependent on drinking and drug use...
When in a pub at 10 pm and woman would be considered a 3 on sex appeal scale.
But after a few drinks that same woman at 3am is now a perfect 10 on a sex appeal scale... "
I never leave the house till 2.45am. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
Dear heavens above.
Is no thread safe from the usual bitter, twisted suspects belittling and slagging off women?
Nobody called for the bringing women down a peg or two police.
Actively trying to undermine a woman's self confidence and feelings of worth is a shitty and pathetic thing to do. |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
Filthy Fuckeryville |
"This is maybe an impossible question, but what is sex appeal and do you agree some have it and some don’t?
For instance this lass (my next door neighbour actually, but say nowt); she’s good looking, the lumps and bumps are nicely rounded and all in the right place, but… (to me) all the sex appeal of a squashed frog. I just cannot imagine any fantasy that involves her. And believe me I’ve tried.
Conversely you can meet a girl, not great looking, no great shakes in the body department and all you want to do is tear her clothes off and ravage her. Twice. Daily.
Why is it that some girls just ooze this allure? Body language? Eye contact? Would most think the same or could my examples be the other way round to some people?
And is it the same with guys for the lovely ladies out there?"
I completely know what you mean and would bottle it and sell it if I could put my finger on what it is that hits that spot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dear heavens above.
Is no thread safe from the usual bitter, twisted suspects belittling and slagging off women?
Nobody called for the bringing women down a peg or two police.
Actively trying to undermine a woman's self confidence and feelings of worth is a shitty and pathetic thing to do."
Seriously, though, who cares what they think? You and I can continue to fuck those 9/10 guys regardless of what others think. You can take the 9 though, cuz I want the 10. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"Dear heavens above.
Is no thread safe from the usual bitter, twisted suspects belittling and slagging off women?
Nobody called for the bringing women down a peg or two police.
Actively trying to undermine a woman's self confidence and feelings of worth is a shitty and pathetic thing to do."
I think your over reacting again I was merely educating somebody in a constructive manner, I didn't slag anybody off I'm just telling it like it is. Trying to bring some realism to fab which seems more fantasy than game of thrones |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I definitely have it an you call me arrogant
sex appeal and being aware of your sexuality comes from within, so I am the only one who is qualified to say whether I definitely have it or not! That's not being arrogant, that's being truthful
pfft seems ill gave to educate you again it should be the other way around considering your age sex appeal unless you are conventionally and universally attractive is subjective and relative. Average looking people like myself included sex appeal can be debateable. For instance I don't think you have sex appeal an you probly same the same about me, just because you believe doesn't make it so and sex sites like this aren't really a good judge as men will tell you anything for sex most of the time. That's why some women on here have false inflated ego's
Lol you not got a legitimate response? Is it because I'm right again like I am most of the time "
oh jeepers....I didn't know it was all about one upmanship...
I'm that case I'm out with my dignity intact whilst you show yourself up for the disrespectful, arrogant person you appear to be! well done |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sex appeal is dependent on drinking and drug use...
When in a pub at 10 pm and woman would be considered a 3 on sex appeal scale.
But after a few drinks that same woman at 3am is now a perfect 10 on a sex appeal scale...
I never leave the house till 2.45am. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"sex appeal
you either got it or you dont
whichever it is its not something YOU decide yes true because that would be arrogant"
you can obviously not tell when a post is tongue in cheek either... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dear heavens above.
Is no thread safe from the usual bitter, twisted suspects belittling and slagging off women?
Nobody called for the bringing women down a peg or two police.
Actively trying to undermine a woman's self confidence and feelings of worth is a shitty and pathetic thing to do."
I like your fire on the forums... Try to take things with a pinch of salt... I'm sure no woman is reading the forums crying because they can't get a shag... Try to be happy that women rule fab and embrace your inner Amazon |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"sex appeal
you either got it or you dont
whichever it is its not something YOU decide yes true because that would be arrogant
you can obviously not tell when a post is tongue in cheek either... "
you just gave an explanation why you thought you had sex appeal before an now your contradicting yourself because you realise you were wrong again! make your mind up will ya, or stop breaking my balls an ill stop breaking yours |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Dear heavens above.
Is no thread safe from the usual bitter, twisted suspects belittling and slagging off women?
Nobody called for the bringing women down a peg or two police.
Actively trying to undermine a woman's self confidence and feelings of worth is a shitty and pathetic thing to do.
I like your fire on the forums... Try to take things with a pinch of salt... I'm sure no woman is reading the forums crying because they can't get a shag... Try to be happy that women rule fab and embrace your inner Amazon "
are you a merkin |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Dear heavens above.
Is no thread safe from the usual bitter, twisted suspects belittling and slagging off women?
Nobody called for the bringing women down a peg or two police.
Actively trying to undermine a woman's self confidence and feelings of worth is a shitty and pathetic thing to do.
I like your fire on the forums... Try to take things with a pinch of salt... I'm sure no woman is reading the forums crying because they can't get a shag... Try to be happy that women rule fab and embrace your inner Amazon
are you a merkin "
I would love to be a merkin... But the lady would have to like a Brillo bush  |
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"Dear heavens above.
Is no thread safe from the usual bitter, twisted suspects belittling and slagging off women?
Nobody called for the bringing women down a peg or two police.
Actively trying to undermine a woman's self confidence and feelings of worth is a shitty and pathetic thing to do.
I like your fire on the forums... Try to take things with a pinch of salt... I'm sure no woman is reading the forums crying because they can't get a shag... Try to be happy that women rule fab and embrace your inner Amazon
are you a merkin
I would love to be a merkin... But the lady would have to like a Brillo bush "
eeeooooow  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yeah i think some people have sex appeal it does tend to start with their body, and if the face is alright, they got an air of conidence without arrogance, and are just interesting people then they got a whole package.
tend to find most people who you initially notice have sex appeal aren't that nice of a person once you get to know them. |
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