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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

...what does it mean when a woman says she is looking for a 'driven' or 'ambitious' person?

It's a trait that appears on a lot of dating profiles and I've always been quite confused by what you guys mean.

Does that translate to 'looking for a rich guy'?

..or something else?

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"...what does it mean when a woman says she is looking for a 'driven' or 'ambitious' person?

It's a trait that appears on a lot of dating profiles and I've always been quite confused by what you guys mean.

Does that translate to 'looking for a rich guy'?

..or something else?

On a dating site it means looking for a guy who will be able to afford her expensive shoes.

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Actually that's a bit unfair - it might be just someone with a good work ethic.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"...what does it mean when a woman says she is looking for a 'driven' or 'ambitious' person?

It's a trait that appears on a lot of dating profiles and I've always been quite confused by what you guys mean.

Does that translate to 'looking for a rich guy'?

..or something else?

On a dating site it means looking for a guy who will be able to afford her expensive shoes."

I had a date a few weeks back and she asked me what my ambitions were.

The alarm bells went off straight away.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Actually that's a bit unfair - it might be just someone with a good work ethic."

...maybe. now you see why I'm confused?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That's why I always go for the really hot girls, in the hope they will admire my ambition.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"That's why I always go for the really hot girls, in the hope they will admire my ambition.

Haha. Good one.

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By *olgateMan over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

She doesn't want a lazy fucker like me

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By *uxom redCouple over a year ago

Shrewsbury

She wants someone who wants to make the most out of life

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Actually that's a bit unfair - it might be just someone with a good work ethic."

This

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"That's why I always go for the really hot girls, in the hope they will admire my ambition.

Hope that's not a euphemism

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"She wants someone who wants to make the most out of life "

That's the answer I gave actually

I said being happy is my ambition and looking back on life one day knowing I've given it a good shot!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

She wants someone who isn't going to be cluttering up her house watching Jeremy kyle all day in his pants, moaning about how unfair life is while she is out working a full time job. That's the rough translation anyway

Mrs x

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

I wouldn't says it's about money or material gain for me The goal of a dating site should be to find a relationship, so you want someone with potential to put passion into themselves, you and your relationship.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"...what does it mean when a woman says she is looking for a 'driven' or 'ambitious' person?

It's a trait that appears on a lot of dating profiles and I've always been quite confused by what you guys mean.

Does that translate to 'looking for a rich guy'?

..or something else?

On a dating site it means looking for a guy who will be able to afford her expensive shoes."

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"She wants someone who isn't going to be cluttering up her house watching Jeremy kyle all day in his pants, moaning about how unfair life is while she is out working a full time job. That's the rough translation anyway

Mrs x"

Ew, Jeremy Vile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I wouldn't says it's about money or material gain for me The goal of a dating site should be to find a relationship, so you want someone with potential to put passion into themselves, you and your relationship. "

Makes perfect sense.

Thank you curvy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's code for ,"you must have money" lol

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By *ust RachelTV/TS over a year ago

Horsham

I think she wants someone who wants to better themselves, instead of stagnating where they are.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think she wants someone who wants to better themselves, instead of stagnating where they are."