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over a year ago
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Hate the title bbw ,i concider myself to be a larger female,now i see there are ssbbws ,Super sized big beautiful woman,that sounds awful,the slimmer ladies dont have a title,i feel this title really separates,we are all women ,i would rather bbw stood for blonde buxom wench lol ,i put it on my profile that I'm a bbw ,so i dont have to keep explaining myself . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hate the title bbw ,i concider myself to be a larger female,now i see there are ssbbws ,Super sized big beautiful woman,that sounds awful,the slimmer ladies dont have a title,i feel this title really separates,we are all women ,i would rather bbw stood for blonde buxom wench lol ,i put it on my profile that I'm a bbw ,so i dont have to keep explaining myself ."
you have a fantastic figure hun and you are beautiful xx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hate the title bbw ,i concider myself to be a larger female,now i see there are ssbbws ,Super sized big beautiful woman,that sounds awful,the slimmer ladies dont have a title,i feel this title really separates,we are all women ,i would rather bbw stood for blonde buxom wench lol ,i put it on my profile that I'm a bbw ,so i dont have to keep explaining myself ."
This makes no sense. Why would you label yourself as something you don't agree with? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hate the title bbw ,i concider myself to be a larger female,now i see there are ssbbws ,Super sized big beautiful woman,that sounds awful,the slimmer ladies dont have a title,i feel this title really separates,we are all women ,i would rather bbw stood for blonde buxom wench lol ,i put it on my profile that I'm a bbw ,so i dont have to keep explaining myself . you have a fantastic figure hun and you are beautiful xx "
ha ha yeah ok lol nice of you to say though  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hate the title bbw ,i concider myself to be a larger female,now i see there are ssbbws ,Super sized big beautiful woman,that sounds awful,the slimmer ladies dont have a title,i feel this title really separates,we are all women ,i would rather bbw stood for blonde buxom wench lol ,i put it on my profile that I'm a bbw ,so i dont have to keep explaining myself .
This makes no sense. Why would you label yourself as something you don't agree with? "
Because the men always say ,you dont look big in your pictures,so just being honest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hate the term bbw too I've just put that I'm fat (that covers me ) as others have said don't put it if you don't like it think of something you do like instead xx |
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"Don't label yourself with a name you don't like. Feel like i have to as a lot of the male members are not into bbws ."
Your choice of course but I don't feel the need to describe my body type other than in the stats section because it's clear from my photos. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you don't like the term don't use it. I just think it's a term, just a short hand way of describing one self but some people have real problems with the term. But if you don't like it, don't use it, just describe yourself in another way. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hate the term bbw too I've just put that I'm fat (that covers me ) as others have said don't put it if you don't like it think of something you do like instead xx"
But your not fat ,well i dont think so  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hate the title bbw ,i concider myself to be a larger female,now i see there are ssbbws ,Super sized big beautiful woman,that sounds awful,the slimmer ladies dont have a title,i feel this title really separates,we are all women ,i would rather bbw stood for blonde buxom wench lol ,i put it on my profile that I'm a bbw ,so i dont have to keep explaining myself .
This makes no sense. Why would you label yourself as something you don't agree with? Because the men always say ,you dont look big in your pictures,so just being honest."
Nope. I still don't get it. Take some full body shots if you think your images don't represent you properly rather than use a label you don't like, would be my advice. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you don't like the term don't use it. I just think it's a term, just a short hand way of describing one self but some people have real problems with the term. But if you don't like it, don't use it, just describe yourself in another way. "
I never use to until i saw other big females did  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hate the title bbw ,i concider myself to be a larger female,now i see there are ssbbws ,Super sized big beautiful woman,that sounds awful,the slimmer ladies dont have a title,i feel this title really separates,we are all women ,i would rather bbw stood for blonde buxom wench lol ,i put it on my profile that I'm a bbw ,so i dont have to keep explaining myself .
This makes no sense. Why would you label yourself as something you don't agree with? Because the men always say ,you dont look big in your pictures,so just being honest.
Nope. I still don't get it. Take some full body shots if you think your images don't represent you properly rather than use a label you don't like, would be my advice."
jeez the page wouldn't be big enough to handle it lol |
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"If you don't like the term don't use it. I just think it's a term, just a short hand way of describing one self but some people have real problems with the term. But if you don't like it, don't use it, just describe yourself in another way. I never use to until i saw other big females did "
You should do what you want. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hate the title bbw ,i concider myself to be a larger female,now i see there are ssbbws ,Super sized big beautiful woman,that sounds awful,the slimmer ladies dont have a title,i feel this title really separates,we are all women ,i would rather bbw stood for blonde buxom wench lol ,i put it on my profile that I'm a bbw ,so i dont have to keep explaining myself .
This makes no sense. Why would you label yourself as something you don't agree with? Because the men always say ,you dont look big in your pictures,so just being honest.
Nope. I still don't get it. Take some full body shots if you think your images don't represent you properly rather than use a label you don't like, would be my advice. jeez the page wouldn't be big enough to handle it lol "
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"If you don't like the term don't use it. I just think it's a term, just a short hand way of describing one self but some people have real problems with the term. But if you don't like it, don't use it, just describe yourself in another way. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hate the term bbw too I've just put that I'm fat (that covers me ) as others have said don't put it if you don't like it think of something you do like instead xx"
You don't look fat too me....you're smaller than I am and I'm fat lol  |
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"If you don't like the term don't use it. I just think it's a term, just a short hand way of describing one self but some people have real problems with the term. But if you don't like it, don't use it, just describe yourself in another way. I never use to until i saw other big females did "
Have a mind of your own and do what suits you. It's a term I personally dislike and don't use.
How others describe themselves have no bearing on me. |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
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I am fat I don't call myself a BBW because I am not.....I am a W the B's are subjective I have plenty of pics on the profile so people can decide for themselves if they want to meet or not and if they choose to label me that's fine....but I won't label myself  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Slimer females have title too. They are called SB - skinny bitches.
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And there are plenty of terms for rude, disrespectful people too. Though I shall rise above your frankly offensive attitude and not risk a spell on the naughty step.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Slimer females have title too. They are called SB - skinny bitches.
And there are plenty of terms for rude, disrespectful people too. Though I shall rise above your frankly offensive attitude and not risk a spell on the naughty step.
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That's not actually you rising above is it |
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"Slimer females have title too. They are called SB - skinny bitches.
And there are plenty of terms for rude, disrespectful people too. Though I shall rise above your frankly offensive attitude and not risk a spell on the naughty step.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I first joined fab some years ago I put myself down as BBW but this time around I have put average but after seeing a few posts I have wondered if I need to change it to large.
I'm a size 16 with wobbly bits.
Every bodies idea of BBW differs but don't label yourself with something you do not like or believe xx |
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By *lackXealMan
over a year ago
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"Slimer females have title too. They are called SB - skinny bitches.
And there are plenty of terms for rude, disrespectful people too. Though I shall rise above your frankly offensive attitude and not risk a spell on the naughty step.
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Hahaha meghan Trainor used that word ( skinny bitches ) in her song "it's all about the bass) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Slimer females have title too. They are called SB - skinny bitches.
And there are plenty of terms for rude, disrespectful people too. Though I shall rise above your frankly offensive attitude and not risk a spell on the naughty step.
Hahaha meghan Trainor used that word ( skinny bitches ) in her song "it's all about the bass) "
Obviously that makes it alright then, I shall use the Meghan Trainor made me say it defence more often  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I first joined fab some years ago I put myself down as BBW but this time around I have put average but after seeing a few posts I have wondered if I need to change it to large.
I'm a size 16 with wobbly bits.
Every bodies idea of BBW differs but don't label yourself with something you do not like or believe xx "
Nooooooooooo you don't need to call yourself a Large, no way x |
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"Slimer females have title too. They are called SB - skinny bitches.
Nooooooooo that's horrible "
It is horrible and offensive,so I don't know why you used ' '. If you dislike the term bbw why do you use it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hate the title bbw ,i concider myself to be a larger female,now i see there are ssbbws ,Super sized big beautiful woman,that sounds awful,the slimmer ladies dont have a title,i feel this title really separates,we are all women ,i would rather bbw stood for blonde buxom wench lol ,i put it on my profile that I'm a bbw ,so i dont have to keep explaining myself ."
Thinly veiled.
Just put what You want on your profile. That would be the normal thing to do. |
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"Slimer females have title too. They are called SB - skinny bitches.
And there are plenty of terms for rude, disrespectful people too. Though I shall rise above your frankly offensive attitude and not risk a spell on the naughty step.
Hahaha meghan Trainor used that word ( skinny bitches ) in her song "it's all about the bass) "
I'll make up a song with the words 'fat bitches'in would that be acceptable? I'm fairly sure it wouldn't be. |
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By *lackXealMan
over a year ago
Middlesbrough |
"Slimer females have title too. They are called SB - skinny bitches.
And there are plenty of terms for rude, disrespectful people too. Though I shall rise above your frankly offensive attitude and not risk a spell on the naughty step.
Hahaha meghan Trainor used that word ( skinny bitches ) in her song "it's all about the bass)
I'll make up a song with the words 'fat bitches'in would that be acceptable? I'm fairly sure it wouldn't be."
Now you are taking it personal |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would have thought women who label themselves BBW 'buy' into whole scene that surrounds the term.
Anyone else if we're looking in fab terms would be large upwards.... |
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"Slimer females have title too. They are called SB - skinny bitches.
And there are plenty of terms for rude, disrespectful people too. Though I shall rise above your frankly offensive attitude and not risk a spell on the naughty step.
Hahaha meghan Trainor used that word ( skinny bitches ) in her song "it's all about the bass)
I'll make up a song with the words 'fat bitches'in would that be acceptable? I'm fairly sure it wouldn't be.
Now you are taking it personal "
I am,because quite frankly I'm pissed off with people thinking it's acceptable to insult the slimmer woman. I've alway's been made out to feel like some kind of freak for how my body is naturally and now we're hearing it from someone the kids look up to. I was talking about that song with my girl's in the car when they were singing along to it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Slimer females have title too. They are called SB - skinny bitches.
And there are plenty of terms for rude, disrespectful people too. Though I shall rise above your frankly offensive attitude and not risk a spell on the naughty step.
Hahaha meghan Trainor used that word ( skinny bitches ) in her song "it's all about the bass) "
Hahaha  how old are you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Slimer females have title too. They are called SB - skinny bitches.
And there are plenty of terms for rude, disrespectful people too. Though I shall rise above your frankly offensive attitude and not risk a spell on the naughty step.
Hahaha meghan Trainor used that word ( skinny bitches ) in her song "it's all about the bass)
I'll make up a song with the words 'fat bitches'in would that be acceptable? I'm fairly sure it wouldn't be.
Now you are taking it personal
I am,because quite frankly I'm pissed off with people thinking it's acceptable to insult the slimmer woman. I've alway's been made out to feel like some kind of freak for how my body is naturally and now we're hearing it from someone the kids look up to. I was talking about that song with my girl's in the car when they were singing along to it."
Sadly there is labels for all of us.
Body shaming is nasty and effects us all.
We are all unique and should embrace ourselves but very hard when there is label for every size.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hate the title bbw ,i concider myself to be a larger female,now i see there are ssbbws ,Super sized big beautiful woman,that sounds awful,the slimmer ladies dont have a title,i feel this title really separates,we are all women ,i would rather bbw stood for blonde buxom wench lol ,i put it on my profile that I'm a bbw ,so i dont have to keep explaining myself ."
its not a title, its a label and if you don't like it there is absolutely no need to use it...
in fact why even have it on your profile if you don't like the connotations that come with it? just say you are a larger than average lady, I am sure the men on here are astute enough to know what that means |
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"It's a porn and modelling term. I'm neither a porn star or a model so I don't identity with the label and won't respond to anyone calling me bbw. "
Err no...it is not a porn term. The term dates back to BBW magazine in the 70s which was a fashion and lifestyle mag. During the 80s it spread as a more respectful descriptor than "fat" and a whole scene evolved including night clubs, magazines and later online forums etc.
Of course there is BBW porn and are BBW modelling sites but they are not the origin or most common use of the term.
If you prefer a different descriptor by all means use one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have pictures on my profile and it clearly states Im a weeble so I let people make up their own minds .
As to body shaming I hate it. If your slim or average or large that is what you are. All lovely in someones eyes.
You can appreciate one without shaming another. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't label yourself with a name you don't like. Feel like i have to as a lot of the male members are not into bbws ."
I find a lot of guys ARE into BBW's rather then not its all down to preferences |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Slimer females have title too. They are called SB - skinny bitches.
Nooooooooo that's horrible
It is horrible and offensive,so I don't know why you used ' '. If you dislike the term bbw why do you use it? i was referring to the term skinny bitches "
So, why is the term "skinny bitches" funny to you and not offensive? |
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"Don't label yourself with a name you don't like. Feel like i have to as a lot of the male members are not into bbws .
I find a lot of guys ARE into BBW's rather then not its all down to preferences "
Hand up as an adorer of curves.
Of course not everybody is. But my wife and BBW friends certainly get plenty of interest. There are BBW nights at some clubs too where you arw guaranteed admirers. |
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"Slimer females have title too. They are called SB - skinny bitches.
Nooooooooo that's horrible
It is horrible and offensive,so I don't know why you used ' '. If you dislike the term bbw why do you use it? i was referring to the term skinny bitches
So, why is the term "skinny bitches" funny to you and not offensive?"
I was going to ask that,but I don't think I'm getting my point across. |
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"Slimer females have title too. They are called SB - skinny bitches.
Nooooooooo that's horrible
It is horrible and offensive,so I don't know why you used ' '. If you dislike the term bbw why do you use it? i was referring to the term skinny bitches
So, why is the term "skinny bitches" funny to you and not offensive?"
Thats why i said its horrible to be called skinny bitches i dont find it funny at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't label yourself with a name you don't like. Feel like i have to as a lot of the male members are not into bbws ."
But why?
I hate the term and state in my profile I'm a larger lady
I hate the label bbw so won't put it on my profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to really really care about how I described myself, I don't care to much these days, I've got hips and ass and a wobbly tummy...I would like to put my dress size on our profile but the mr disagrees....I think if u have pics up etc it shouldn't be a problem...I get nervous when we meet people though because I don't want them to be disappointed but then I also don't want to be like "hey you sure u wanna fuck me I'm a size 12-14 with a wobbley tummy" I mean surely that's a turn off? The lack of confidence of nothing else? |
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By *lackXealMan
over a year ago
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"Slimer females have title too. They are called SB - skinny bitches.
We couldn't have one bbw post without someone insulting thin women. "
I wasn't insulting thin women. I was only quoting meghan Trainor lyrics in its all about the bass |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Anyone...who ever they are that insults another human being over their size looks or anything else ,has a very small mind and very immature,we cant all be perfect people as they dont exist,every body is somebody,i get insulted on here quite a lot but just block and move on . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I picked the body size from the tick box that seemed the most relevant.
Other than that I just send a pic and they can decide for themselves if they want to fuck me or not when we meet in person. |
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as u stated hence the question
