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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What is it with people online... Suddenly manners go out the window.. Anyone else have a bug bear with the lack of manners ? Its mostly but not limited to new members... But one or two established swingers appear to have lost the ability to be polite too.... I pride myself on respect for others shame not everyone shares my outlook... Is it just me ? Who else finds this irritating ???  |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
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We could take a different view after looking at your profile to us the phrase "hairy beavers" is insulting, therefore impolite.
That is part of the problem what one person thinks impolite another thinks is fine |
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"What is it with people online... Suddenly manners go out the window.. Anyone else have a bug bear with the lack of manners ? Its mostly but not limited to new members... But one or two established swingers appear to have lost the ability to be polite too.... I pride myself on respect for others shame not everyone shares my outlook... Is it just me ? Who else finds this irritating ??? "
Oh the irony! Some people truly lack self awareness!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What is it with people online... Suddenly manners go out the window.. Anyone else have a bug bear with the lack of manners ? Its mostly but not limited to new members... But one or two established swingers appear to have lost the ability to be polite too.... I pride myself on respect for others shame not everyone shares my outlook... Is it just me ? Who else finds this irritating ???
Oh the irony! Some people truly lack self awareness! "
That is a matter of perspective... |
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"What is it with people online... Suddenly manners go out the window.. Anyone else have a bug bear with the lack of manners ? Its mostly but not limited to new members... But one or two established swingers appear to have lost the ability to be polite too.... I pride myself on respect for others shame not everyone shares my outlook... Is it just me ? Who else finds this irritating ???
Oh the irony! Some people truly lack self awareness!
That is a matter of perspective..."
...like manners. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This has got to be a wind up thread? I'd assume being married is bad manners for some, you call others hair bears, and you're being slightly judgemental in your initial post.  |
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"This has got to be a wind up thread? I'd assume being married is bad manners for some, you call others hair bears, and you're being slightly judgemental in your initial post. "
You spotted the irony too hey! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This has got to be a wind up thread? I'd assume being married is bad manners for some, you call others hair bears, and you're being slightly judgemental in your initial post.
You spotted the irony too hey!"
Married... That has zero to do with it...that has bugger all to fo with general manners.. And judgemental... Call me judge Rinder |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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A person has to be worth respecting to get respect from me. A person should behave in a way to deserve politeness and manners. If you're consistently not getting any, examine your own behaviour. |
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"This has got to be a wind up thread? I'd assume being married is bad manners for some, you call others hair bears, and you're being slightly judgemental in your initial post. "
Yep...definitely a wind up  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This has got to be a wind up thread? I'd assume being married is bad manners for some, you call others hair bears, and you're being slightly judgemental in your initial post.
Yep...definitely a wind up "
Not a wind up... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is it with people online... Suddenly manners go out the window.. Anyone else have a bug bear with the lack of manners ? Its mostly but not limited to new members... But one or two established swingers appear to have lost the ability to be polite too.... I pride myself on respect for others shame not everyone shares my outlook... Is it just me ? Who else finds this irritating ??? "
The so called manners of others doesn't bother us.We joined a swingers site for swingers,not a good manners site.if we find someone in any way offensive or disagreeable we pass them by and move on to someone else.
Complaining about the manners of others I think is ill mannered. |
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"This has got to be a wind up thread? I'd assume being married is bad manners for some, you call others hair bears, and you're being slightly judgemental in your initial post. "
hairy bears My son once called me a grisly bear. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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As an example :
Lady says : do you have a face picture...
Reply. Yes i do. Do you ?
Lady: can i see it ?
Repky: You may, if you send yours too.
Lady: Sure i will.
Reply: here i am x now your turn...
Lady : Not for me...
That is a typical example of manners... It is exactly the kind of thing that annoys me.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What is it with people online... Suddenly manners go out the window.. Anyone else have a bug bear with the lack of manners ? Its mostly but not limited to new members... But one or two established swingers appear to have lost the ability to be polite too.... I pride myself on respect for others shame not everyone shares my outlook... Is it just me ? Who else finds this irritating ???
The so called manners of others doesn't bother us.We joined a swingers site for swingers,not a good manners site.if we find someone in any way offensive or disagreeable we pass them by and move on to someone else.
Complaining about the manners of others I think is ill mannered."
Thats is incoherent and there is no sense in your post. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As an example :
Lady says : do you have a face picture...
Reply. Yes i do. Do you ?
Lady: can i see it ?
Repky: You may, if you send yours too.
Lady: Sure i will.
Reply: here i am x now your turn...
Lady : Not for me...
That is a typical example of manners... It is exactly the kind of thing that annoys me.
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How is that showing a lack of manners? She is not interested so why waste both your time further by sending her face pic? She has been polite and said you are not for her, end of surely? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is it with people online... Suddenly manners go out the window.. Anyone else have a bug bear with the lack of manners ? Its mostly but not limited to new members... But one or two established swingers appear to have lost the ability to be polite too.... I pride myself on respect for others shame not everyone shares my outlook... Is it just me ? Who else finds this irritating ??? "
What is it that they are doing that irritates you ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thats the point she wasnt polite... Interested or not if you say you will do something follow it through."
What's the point in wasting your time further? Blimey, such drama over nothing! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As an example :
Lady says : do you have a face picture...
Reply. Yes i do. Do you ?
Lady: can i see it ?
Repky: You may, if you send yours too.
Lady: Sure i will.
Reply: here i am x now your turn...
Lady : Not for me...
That is a typical example of manners... It is exactly the kind of thing that annoys me.
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I'm in agreement with you that if someone asks for a face pic they should send theirs with the request. If someone had played it with me how you suggest in this post I'd have stopped engaging with that person.
If I make initial contact with a woman I usually send a face pic with the first few messages anyway though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thats the point she wasnt polite... Interested or not if you say you will do something follow it through."
Why wasn't she polite? I do the same as her. OMG I'm an utter BITCH! |
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"As an example :
Lady says : do you have a face picture...
Reply. Yes i do. Do you ?
Lady: can i see it ?
Repky: You may, if you send yours too.
Lady: Sure i will.
Reply: here i am x now your turn...
Lady : Not for me...
That is a typical example of manners... It is exactly the kind of thing that annoys me.
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It can hardly be considered ti be bad manners if she received your picture and then decided that she had no interest in you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As an example :
Lady says : do you have a face picture...
Reply. Yes i do. Do you ?
Lady: can i see it ?
Repky: You may, if you send yours too.
Lady: Sure i will.
Reply: here i am x now your turn...
Lady : Not for me...
That is a typical example of manners... It is exactly the kind of thing that annoys me.
It can hardly be considered ti be bad manners if she received your picture and then decided that she had no interest in you. "
Exactly my thoughts. Now if she'd have said no way you ugly f*ck pig, that would have been bad manners |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thats the point she wasnt polite... Interested or not if you say you will do something follow it through.
Why wasn't she polite? I do the same as her. OMG I'm an utter BITCH!  "
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"As an example :
Lady says : do you have a face picture...
Reply. Yes i do. Do you ?
Lady: can i see it ?
Repky: You may, if you send yours too.
Lady: Sure i will.
Reply: here i am x now your turn...
Lady : Not for me...
That is a typical example of manners... It is exactly the kind of thing that annoys me.
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Do you need to see the pic of a woman you won't be meeting?
At least she replied. Many would just block if they didn't fancy you. |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
Catthorpe |
She messaged you first and didn't send a face pic, is that what you're saying? Just us but the onus we feel is for the person who initiated contact to send the first face pic, if one wasn't forthcoming even with a gentle hint we'd cease the convo and leave it at that. No big deal but that's just us. |
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Van you are such a naughty boy I message you and you delete without reading ha ha
just reading the thread on this
Love the ladies responses Im going to sit on the fence for a while and watch the fall out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thats the point she wasnt polite... Interested or not if you say you will do something follow it through."
.... she took a look at you're pic, didn't like what she saw. Told you so. That somehow makes her impolite? Sounds like she was being honest, and decided she wouldn't waste any more time. As a matter of interest op, why would you want a pic of someone who clearly had no interest in you?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"She messaged you first and didn't send a face pic, is that what you're saying? Just us but the onus we feel is for the person who initiated contact to send the first face pic, if one wasn't forthcoming even with a gentle hint we'd cease the convo and leave it at that. No big deal but that's just us. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thats the point she wasnt polite... Interested or not if you say you will do something follow it through. .... she took a look at you're pic, didn't like what she saw. Told you so. That somehow makes her impolite? Sounds like she was being honest, and decided she wouldn't waste any more time. As a matter of interest op, why would you want a pic of someone who clearly had no interest in you? "
To have the last word and say fine, don't fancy you anyway?! |
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"As an example :
Lady says : do you have a face picture...
Reply. Yes i do. Do you ?
Lady: can i see it ?
Repky: You may, if you send yours too.
Lady: Sure i will.
Reply: here i am x now your turn...
Lady : Not for me...
That is a typical example of manners... It is exactly the kind of thing that annoys me.
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I have done this...lol. If I don't like your face there is no point. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thats the point she wasnt polite... Interested or not if you say you will do something follow it through. .... she took a look at you're pic, didn't like what she saw. Told you so. That somehow makes her impolite? Sounds like she was being honest, and decided she wouldn't waste any more time. As a matter of interest op, why would you want a pic of someone who clearly had no interest in you?
To have the last word and say fine, don't fancy you anyway?! "
. ..lol...we've had a few of those...now there's an idea for a thread....best rejection replies ever... |
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"Thats the point she wasnt polite... Interested or not if you say you will do something follow it through. .... she took a look at you're pic, didn't like what she saw. Told you so. That somehow makes her impolite? Sounds like she was being honest, and decided she wouldn't waste any more time. As a matter of interest op, why would you want a pic of someone who clearly had no interest in you?
To have the last word and say fine, don't fancy you anyway?! . ..lol...we've had a few of those...now there's an idea for a thread....best rejection replies ever... "
we had an "well you ain't all that anyway" message today after a polite no! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thats the point she wasnt polite... Interested or not if you say you will do something follow it through. .... she took a look at you're pic, didn't like what she saw. Told you so. That somehow makes her impolite? Sounds like she was being honest, and decided she wouldn't waste any more time. As a matter of interest op, why would you want a pic of someone who clearly had no interest in you?
To have the last word and say fine, don't fancy you anyway?! . ..lol...we've had a few of those...now there's an idea for a thread....best rejection replies ever... we had an "well you ain't all that anyway" message today after a polite no!"
Bitterness and immaturity, sooooo attractive!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As an example :
Lady says : do you have a face picture...
Reply. Yes i do. Do you ?
Lady: can i see it ?
Repky: You may, if you send yours too.
Lady: Sure i will.
Reply: here i am x now your turn...
Lady : Not for me...
That is a typical example of manners... It is exactly the kind of thing that annoys me.
I have done this...lol. If I don't like your face there is no point. "
Fab is a woman's world so men have to play by their rules . Nothing wrong or impolite about that |
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"Thats the point she wasnt polite... Interested or not if you say you will do something follow it through. .... she took a look at you're pic, didn't like what she saw. Told you so. That somehow makes her impolite? Sounds like she was being honest, and decided she wouldn't waste any more time. As a matter of interest op, why would you want a pic of someone who clearly had no interest in you?
To have the last word and say fine, don't fancy you anyway?! . ..lol...we've had a few of those...now there's an idea for a thread....best rejection replies ever... we had an "well you ain't all that anyway" message today after a polite no!
Bitterness and immaturity, sooooo attractive!!"
That's almost poetic, love it! Good name for a band actually |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thats the point she wasnt polite... Interested or not if you say you will do something follow it through. .... she took a look at you're pic, didn't like what she saw. Told you so. That somehow makes her impolite? Sounds like she was being honest, and decided she wouldn't waste any more time. As a matter of interest op, why would you want a pic of someone who clearly had no interest in you?
To have the last word and say fine, don't fancy you anyway?! . ..lol...we've had a few of those...now there's an idea for a thread....best rejection replies ever... we had an "well you ain't all that anyway" message today after a polite no!
Bitterness and immaturity, sooooo attractive!!"
.... we just wonder why people take rejection so personally. ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thats the point she wasnt polite... Interested or not if you say you will do something follow it through. .... she took a look at you're pic, didn't like what she saw. Told you so. That somehow makes her impolite? Sounds like she was being honest, and decided she wouldn't waste any more time. As a matter of interest op, why would you want a pic of someone who clearly had no interest in you?
To have the last word and say fine, don't fancy you anyway?! . ..lol...we've had a few of those...now there's an idea for a thread....best rejection replies ever... we had an "well you ain't all that anyway" message today after a polite no!
Bitterness and immaturity, sooooo attractive!!.... we just wonder why people take rejection so personally. ? "
Lack of self confidence and respect? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As an example :
Lady says : do you have a face picture...
Reply. Yes i do. Do you ?
Lady: can i see it ?
Repky: You may, if you send yours too.
Lady: Sure i will.
Reply: here i am x now your turn...
Lady : Not for me...
That is a typical example of manners... It is exactly the kind of thing that annoys me.
I have done this...lol. If I don't like your face there is no point.
Fab is a woman's world so men have to play by their rules . Nothing wrong or impolite about that "
Where is my bullshit button... |
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"As an example :
Lady says : do you have a face picture...
Reply. Yes i do. Do you ?
Lady: can i see it ?
Repky: You may, if you send yours too.
Lady: Sure i will.
Reply: here i am x now your turn...
Lady : Not for me...
That is a typical example of manners... It is exactly the kind of thing that annoys me.
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How is that bad manners?
She's not interested so why waste further time? |
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"As an example :
Lady says : do you have a face picture...
Reply. Yes i do. Do you ?
Lady: can i see it ?
Repky: You may, if you send yours too.
Lady: Sure i will.
Reply: here i am x now your turn...
Lady : Not for me...
That is a typical example of manners... It is exactly the kind of thing that annoys me.
How is that showing a lack of manners? She is not interested so why waste both your time further by sending her face pic? She has been polite and said you are not for her, end of surely?"
Exactly! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have noticed a few people come on here who appear to just look for posts to have a go at
Some seem to just need to reply to every thread even though they have nothing to say on the subject so instead seem to look for faults in what others have written or decide to throw in a profile criticism for no reason other than they had nothing to say but had to say something |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"As an example :
Lady says : do you have a face picture...
Reply. Yes i do. Do you ?
Lady: can i see it ?
Repky: You may, if you send yours too.
Lady: Sure i will.
Reply: here i am x now your turn...
Lady : Not for me...
That is a typical example of manners... It is exactly the kind of thing that annoys me.
How is that showing a lack of manners? She is not interested so why waste both your time further by sending her face pic? She has been polite and said you are not for her, end of surely?
Exactly! "
Lack of manners because she agreed to send a face picture... Just because she isnt interested does not excuse her from keeping to her promise. And as she initiated the conversation she should have been forthcoming before wanting to see mine... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As an example :
Lady says : do you have a face picture...
Reply. Yes i do. Do you ?
Lady: can i see it ?
Repky: You may, if you send yours too.
Lady: Sure i will.
Reply: here i am x now your turn...
Lady : Not for me...
That is a typical example of manners... It is exactly the kind of thing that annoys me.
How is that showing a lack of manners? She is not interested so why waste both your time further by sending her face pic? She has been polite and said you are not for her, end of surely?
Exactly! "
If a guy sent you a face pic and you didn't like him, would not sending him a pic of you anyway be sending out the wrong message, some may see that as she must be a bit interested or why send the pic?
I'd find somebody who said to me sorry your not my type but here a pic of me anyway a little odd |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have noticed a few people come on here who appear to just look for posts to have a go at
Some seem to just need to reply to every thread even though they have nothing to say on the subject so instead seem to look for faults in what others have written or decide to throw in a profile criticism for no reason other than they had nothing to say but had to say something "
Yes i have noticed that too...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As an example :
Lady says : do you have a face picture...
Reply. Yes i do. Do you ?
Lady: can i see it ?
Repky: You may, if you send yours too.
Lady: Sure i will.
Reply: here i am x now your turn...
Lady : Not for me...
That is a typical example of manners... It is exactly the kind of thing that annoys me.
How is that showing a lack of manners? She is not interested so why waste both your time further by sending her face pic? She has been polite and said you are not for her, end of surely?
Exactly!
Lack of manners because she agreed to send a face picture... Just because she isnt interested does not excuse her from keeping to her promise. And as she initiated the conversation she should have been forthcoming before wanting to see mine... "
To me, this doesn't seem to be about manners, you seem bitter she hasn't sent a face pic when you did. Life really is too short, get over it my lovely, no need to get worked up by such insignificant things you have no control over. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As an example :
Lady says : do you have a face picture...
Reply. Yes i do. Do you ?
Lady: can i see it ?
Repky: You may, if you send yours too.
Lady: Sure i will.
Reply: here i am x now your turn...
Lady : Not for me...
That is a typical example of manners... It is exactly the kind of thing that annoys me.
How is that showing a lack of manners? She is not interested so why waste both your time further by sending her face pic? She has been polite and said you are not for her, end of surely?
Exactly!
Lack of manners because she agreed to send a face picture... Just because she isnt interested does not excuse her from keeping to her promise. And as she initiated the conversation she should have been forthcoming before wanting to see mine... "
Let me tell you what would happen here in most cases
I get loads of mail from men and I say no thanks to many so know how a lot react
You send me a face pic
I don't like it so say sorry your not my type but here's a pic of me because I promised you one
You reply back telling me I'm a ugly cunt anyway
That how most guys react in here, so can you blame them for not sending a pic back to some they have just turned down |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Lack of manners because she agreed to send a face picture... Just because she isnt interested does not excuse her from keeping to her promise. And as she initiated the conversation she should have been forthcoming before wanting to see mine... "
What promise?
You're not entitled to anything on here. You're not entitled to a view, a message, a photo, a reply, a meet, a shag, or a verification. Once you understand that you'll enjoy this site a lot more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As an example :
Lady says : do you have a face picture...
Reply. Yes i do. Do you ?
Lady: can i see it ?
Repky: You may, if you send yours too.
Lady: Sure i will.
Reply: here i am x now your turn...
Lady : Not for me...
That is a typical example of manners... It is exactly the kind of thing that annoys me.
How is that showing a lack of manners? She is not interested so why waste both your time further by sending her face pic? She has been polite and said you are not for her, end of surely?
Exactly!
If a guy sent you a face pic and you didn't like him, would not sending him a pic of you anyway be sending out the wrong message, some may see that as she must be a bit interested or why send the pic?
I'd find somebody who said to me sorry your not my type but here a pic of me anyway a little odd "
I do this
But then again I am a little odd |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As an example :
Lady says : do you have a face picture...
Reply. Yes i do. Do you ?
Lady: can i see it ?
Repky: You may, if you send yours too.
Lady: Sure i will.
Reply: here i am x now your turn...
Lady : Not for me...
That is a typical example of manners... It is exactly the kind of thing that annoys me.
How is that showing a lack of manners? She is not interested so why waste both your time further by sending her face pic? She has been polite and said you are not for her, end of surely?
Exactly!
If a guy sent you a face pic and you didn't like him, would not sending him a pic of you anyway be sending out the wrong message, some may see that as she must be a bit interested or why send the pic?
I'd find somebody who said to me sorry your not my type but here a pic of me anyway a little odd
I do this
But then again I am a little odd "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"As an example :
Lady says : do you have a face picture...
Reply. Yes i do. Do you ?
Lady: can i see it ?
Repky: You may, if you send yours too.
Lady: Sure i will.
Reply: here i am x now your turn...
Lady : Not for me...
That is a typical example of manners... It is exactly the kind of thing that annoys me.
How is that showing a lack of manners? She is not interested so why waste both your time further by sending her face pic? She has been polite and said you are not for her, end of surely?
Exactly!
Lack of manners because she agreed to send a face picture... Just because she isnt interested does not excuse her from keeping to her promise. And as she initiated the conversation she should have been forthcoming before wanting to see mine...
To me, this doesn't seem to be about manners, you seem bitter she hasn't sent a face pic when you did. Life really is too short, get over it my lovely, no need to get worked up by such insignificant things you have no control over. "
It happens a lot this was just one example PLEASE dont get hung up on this one example i have given.. I am honestly not bitter but i do find it infuriating .. It just shows no respect and its not weird if you say thanks i am not interested but out of curtosy here is my face... X |
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"Lack of manners because she agreed to send a face picture... Just because she isnt interested does not excuse her from keeping to her promise. And as she initiated the conversation she should have been forthcoming before wanting to see mine...
What promise?
You're not entitled to anything on here. You're not entitled to a view, a message, a photo, a reply, a meet, a shag, or a verification. Once you understand that you'll enjoy this site a lot more."
Who said entitled ?? Your words not mine...your not on topic and irrelevant post |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As an example :
Lady says : do you have a face picture...
Reply. Yes i do. Do you ?
Lady: can i see it ?
Repky: You may, if you send yours too.
Lady: Sure i will.
Reply: here i am x now your turn...
Lady : Not for me...
That is a typical example of manners... It is exactly the kind of thing that annoys me.
How is that showing a lack of manners? She is not interested so why waste both your time further by sending her face pic? She has been polite and said you are not for her, end of surely?
Exactly!
Lack of manners because she agreed to send a face picture... Just because she isnt interested does not excuse her from keeping to her promise. And as she initiated the conversation she should have been forthcoming before wanting to see mine...
Let me tell you what would happen here in most cases
I get loads of mail from men and I say no thanks to many so know how a lot react
You send me a face pic
I don't like it so say sorry your not my type but here's a pic of me because I promised you one
You reply back telling me I'm a ugly cunt anyway
That how most guys react in here, so can you blame them for not sending a pic back to some they have just turned down "
Well most men are Neanderthals... I however am not. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Lack of manners because she agreed to send a face picture... Just because she isnt interested does not excuse her from keeping to her promise. And as she initiated the conversation she should have been forthcoming before wanting to see mine...
What promise?
You're not entitled to anything on here. You're not entitled to a view, a message, a photo, a reply, a meet, a shag, or a verification. Once you understand that you'll enjoy this site a lot more.
Who said entitled ?? Your words not mine...your not on topic and irrelevant post "
You posts on this thread come across as entitled. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As an example :
Lady says : do you have a face picture...
Reply. Yes i do. Do you ?
Lady: can i see it ?
Repky: You may, if you send yours too.
Lady: Sure i will.
Reply: here i am x now your turn...
Lady : Not for me...
That is a typical example of manners... It is exactly the kind of thing that annoys me.
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Oh the amount of times thats happened to me. Lol |
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"As an example :
Lady says : do you have a face picture...
Reply. Yes i do. Do you ?
Lady: can i see it ?
Repky: You may, if you send yours too.
Lady: Sure i will.
Reply: here i am x now your turn...
Lady : Not for me...
That is a typical example of manners... It is exactly the kind of thing that annoys me.
How is that showing a lack of manners? She is not interested so why waste both your time further by sending her face pic? She has been polite and said you are not for her, end of surely?
Exactly!
Lack of manners because she agreed to send a face picture... Just because she isnt interested does not excuse her from keeping to her promise. And as she initiated the conversation she should have been forthcoming before wanting to see mine...
Let me tell you what would happen here in most cases
I get loads of mail from men and I say no thanks to many so know how a lot react
You send me a face pic
I don't like it so say sorry your not my type but here's a pic of me because I promised you one
You reply back telling me I'm a ugly cunt anyway
That how most guys react in here, so can you blame them for not sending a pic back to some they have just turned down
Well most men are Neanderthals... I however am not. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lack of manners because she agreed to send a face picture... Just because she isnt interested does not excuse her from keeping to her promise. And as she initiated the conversation she should have been forthcoming before wanting to see mine...
What promise?
You're not entitled to anything on here. You're not entitled to a view, a message, a photo, a reply, a meet, a shag, or a verification. Once you understand that you'll enjoy this site a lot more.
Who said entitled ?? Your words not mine...your not on topic and irrelevant post
You posts on this thread come across as entitled."
POV... your the only person to say entitled... No one else mentioned this. As i said off topic |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As an example :
Lady says : do you have a face picture...
Reply. Yes i do. Do you ?
Lady: can i see it ?
Repky: You may, if you send yours too.
Lady: Sure i will.
Reply: here i am x now your turn...
Lady : Not for me...
That is a typical example of manners... It is exactly the kind of thing that annoys me.
How is that showing a lack of manners? She is not interested so why waste both your time further by sending her face pic? She has been polite and said you are not for her, end of surely?
Exactly!
Lack of manners because she agreed to send a face picture... Just because she isnt interested does not excuse her from keeping to her promise. And as she initiated the conversation she should have been forthcoming before wanting to see mine...
Let me tell you what would happen here in most cases
I get loads of mail from men and I say no thanks to many so know how a lot react
You send me a face pic
I don't like it so say sorry your not my type but here's a pic of me because I promised you one
You reply back telling me I'm a ugly cunt anyway
That how most guys react in here, so can you blame them for not sending a pic back to some they have just turned down
Well most men are Neanderthals... I however am not.
Do you decide they are Neanderthals before or after you see their face pic?"
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"Op..do you not think being "infuriated "by something so trivial,is a bit of an overreaction? "
I guess i have posted because i wanted to highlight the point, make people think and hopefully plant that seed that next time they contact a fab member they think about their manners...
Trivia... To quote a film i love... "Manners, makith the Man"... What film is it ??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've rather be talking to a cheeky asshole than a nice (almost too nice) fake polite person
The polite ones are usually well behaved at first...and then show their true colours anyway at one point so....what's that circus for |
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I guess the bottom line is, whatever you may think is bad manners (as lets face it, what some think is bad manners others may think is just brutal honesty), leave them to it. I don't wish to meet someone I feel is ill mannered and to be honest, I'm really too laid back to give a shit anyway! Wasting time on what you perceive as ill mannered people is just pointless. |
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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago
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"Manners cost nothing and something so simple as this can makes someone's day.
I would also class manners as holing a door open for a lady even though it's just courtesy "
Literally, the other day, I held a door open for a lady and said "Ladies First, after you" and motioned her through.
Her response of "A Gentleman, rarely seen these days" really made my day.
Manners cost nothing. |
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"I guess the bottom line is, whatever you may think is bad manners (as lets face it, what some think is bad manners others may think is just brutal honesty), leave them to it. I don't wish to meet someone I feel is ill mannered and to be honest, I'm really too laid back to give a shit anyway! Wasting time on what you perceive as ill mannered people is just pointless. "
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"Manners cost nothing and something so simple as this can makes someone's day.
I would also class manners as holing a door open for a lady even though it's just courtesy
Literally, the other day, I held a door open for a lady and said "Ladies First, after you" and motioned her through.
Her response of "A Gentleman, rarely seen these days" really made my day.
Manners cost nothing."
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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"As an example :
Lady says : do you have a face picture...
Reply. Yes i do. Do you ?
Lady: can i see it ?
Repky: You may, if you send yours too.
Lady: Sure i will.
Reply: here i am x now your turn...
Lady : Not for me
Lack of manners because she agreed to send a face picture... Just because she isnt interested does not excuse her from keeping to her promise. And as she initiated the conversation she should have been forthcoming before wanting to see mine... "
But you chose to send her your pic first. You could have said something along the lines of 'just wondered if you'd sent an attachment with your post as I didn't see one', putting the onus on her to send you a pic. You'll either not get a follow up message or get a message with a pic, one not forthcoming you can then end the convo on terms that suit you. Just out of interest, if she'd sent you the pic and you didn't find her in anyway attractive would you have sent her a face pic? |
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"Manners cost nothing and something so simple as this can makes someone's day.
I would also class manners as holing a door open for a lady even though it's just courtesy
Literally, the other day, I held a door open for a lady and said "Ladies First, after you" and motioned her through.
Her response of "A Gentleman, rarely seen these days" really made my day.
Manners cost nothing."
But I hold doors open for everyone, Male and Female |
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"As an example :
Lady says : do you have a face picture...
Reply. Yes i do. Do you ?
Lady: can i see it ?
Repky: You may, if you send yours too.
Lady: Sure i will.
Reply: here i am x now your turn...
Lady : Not for me...
That is a typical example of manners... It is exactly the kind of thing that annoys me.
How is that showing a lack of manners? She is not interested so why waste both your time further by sending her face pic? She has been polite and said you are not for her, end of surely?
Exactly!
Lack of manners because she agreed to send a face picture... Just because she isnt interested does not excuse her from keeping to her promise. And as she initiated the conversation she should have been forthcoming before wanting to see mine...
To me, this doesn't seem to be about manners, you seem bitter she hasn't sent a face pic when you did. Life really is too short, get over it my lovely, no need to get worked up by such insignificant things you have no control over.
It happens a lot this was just one example PLEASE dont get hung up on this one example i have given.. I am honestly not bitter but i do find it infuriating .. It just shows no respect and its not weird if you say thanks i am not interested but out of curtosy here is my face... X"
Now that would be wierd |
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over a year ago
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"As an example :
Lady says : do you have a face picture...
Reply. Yes i do. Do you ?
Lady: can i see it ?
Repky: You may, if you send yours too.
Lady: Sure i will.
Reply: here i am x now your turn...
Lady : Not for me...
That is a typical example of manners... It is exactly the kind of thing that annoys me.
"
If she liked you she was have sent hers. Is there any point you seeing her if you aren't going to carry on the conversation? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As an example :
Lady says : do you have a face picture...
Reply. Yes i do. Do you ?
Lady: can i see it ?
Repky: You may, if you send yours too.
Lady: Sure i will.
Reply: here i am x now your turn...
Lady : Not for me
Lack of manners because she agreed to send a face picture... Just because she isnt interested does not excuse her from keeping to her promise. And as she initiated the conversation she should have been forthcoming before wanting to see mine...
But you chose to send her your pic first. You could have said something along the lines of 'just wondered if you'd sent an attachment with your post as I didn't see one', putting the onus on her to send you a pic. You'll either not get a follow up message or get a message with a pic, one not forthcoming you can then end the convo on terms that suit you. Just out of interest, if she'd sent you the pic and you didn't find her in anyway attractive would you have sent her a face pic? "
Yes i would as I'm polite... But i take your point good to know for future x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wow just wasted 10 mins of my life
I get 100s of messages every day from the ladies and I always without fail send a face body and cock pick back when I turn them down just so they have something to mastabate over while they cry I'm just that nice |
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Sending a face pic to someone you're not interested in could lead them to believe you are interested,and if they are the stalker type you could have trouble on your hands |
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I'm not sure manners is a word I would use regarding the sending of face pics. However I see it as an unspoken etiquette that the person sending the first message should include a face pic. The recipient should then return a face pic if interested. If not interested then there is no obligation for the recipient to follow up. |
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over a year ago
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"Sending a face pic to someone you're not interested in could lead them to believe you are interested,and if they are the stalker type you could have trouble on your hands "
Exactly! She wasn't impolite in saying not for her and not sending a face pic. I better block the OP quickly cos it's exactly what I would do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Manners cost nothing and something so simple as this can makes someone's day.
I would also class manners as holing a door open for a lady even though it's just courtesy
Literally, the other day, I held a door open for a lady and said "Ladies First, after you" and motioned her through.
Her response of "A Gentleman, rarely seen these days" really made my day.
Manners cost nothing."
.....how do you equate this with sending a random stranger a face pic on a swingers site. |
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over a year ago
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I do get a bit twitchy with the expression a lot of single men throw about saying that their messages should be replied to 'even if it's a thanks but no thanks - manners cost nothing'. We are hugely big on manners, and any of our friends on the swing scene would regard us as extremely polite people. However, the requirement for every singe message from complete strangers, is manners going to far in my opinion. |
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"Sending a face pic to someone you're not interested in could lead them to believe you are interested,and if they are the stalker type you could have trouble on your hands
Exactly! She wasn't impolite in saying not for her and not sending a face pic. I better block the OP quickly cos it's exactly what I would do. "
But before doing so may I see your face please ? |
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"Sending a face pic to someone you're not interested in could lead them to believe you are interested,and if they are the stalker type you could have trouble on your hands
Exactly! She wasn't impolite in saying not for her and not sending a face pic. I better block the OP quickly cos it's exactly what I would do.
But before doing so may I see your face please ? "
Would a 'piss off' offend? Lol
See OP - THAT'S bad manners pmsl
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've had men ask to see my face after I've politely said no thank you. They either want to feel better about not meeting me,because I'm ugly,or gutted,because I'm beautiful,or they want to hunt me down and make me pay for rejecting them. Sometimes I do send one out of pity and look over my shoulder for the next month or so. |
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"And my thoughts are she could be a bunny boiler stalker just collecting mens face pics... Works both ways.m
Then why send one?"
If you contacted her first she hasn't stalked you and you should really send a face pic with your message. If I messaged someone first I would send one to save time talking to someone who isn't attracted to me. |
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"Sending a face pic to someone you're not interested in could lead them to believe you are interested,and if they are the stalker type you could have trouble on your hands
Exactly! She wasn't impolite in saying not for her and not sending a face pic. I better block the OP quickly cos it's exactly what I would do.
But before doing so may I see your face please ?
Would a 'piss off' offend? Lol
See OP - THAT'S bad manners pmsl
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Only if you realky think it, yet you tell me I love a challenge |
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"And my thoughts are she could be a bunny boiler stalker just collecting mens face pics... Works both ways.m
Then why send one?
If you contacted her first she hasn't stalked you and you should really send a face pic with your message. If I messaged someone first I would send one to save time talking to someone who isn't attracted to me. "
This. I think its a little off to contact someone without attaching a face pic if you don't have one on your profile, you are introducing yourself and no time is wasted with messages only to find that awkward moment a face pic is sent there is no attraction. |
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"I do get a bit twitchy with the expression a lot of single men throw about saying that their messages should be replied to 'even if it's a thanks but no thanks - manners cost nothing'. We are hugely big on manners, and any of our friends on the swing scene would regard us as extremely polite people. However, the requirement for every singe message from complete strangers, is manners going to far in my opinion. "
I didnt say messages should be replied to. You have missed the point entirely |
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over a year ago
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Oh dear..... Moaning, entitlement, manners...
Site rules clearly state that no reply is acceptable.
First person to message sends pic is the accepted practice here.
I sense a great deal of butthurt......
TUP |
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"Oh dear..... Moaning, entitlement, manners...
Site rules clearly state that no reply is acceptable.
First person to message sends pic is the accepted practice here.
I sense a great deal of butthurt......
TUP"
No moaning... Just general curtosy for other site users. |
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over a year ago
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"I do get a bit twitchy with the expression a lot of single men throw about saying that their messages should be replied to 'even if it's a thanks but no thanks - manners cost nothing'. We are hugely big on manners, and any of our friends on the swing scene would regard us as extremely polite people. However, the requirement for every singe message from complete strangers, is manners going to far in my opinion.
I didnt say messages should be replied to. You have missed the point entirely"
I don't feel I have missed the point. The topic you posted was about how manners go out the window when on-line, and I was responding to your original posting with an example of something that some people consider bad manners. I certainly never thought or suggested that this was a matter you had an issue with. |
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"Oh dear..... Moaning, entitlement, manners...
Site rules clearly state that no reply is acceptable.
First person to message sends pic is the accepted practice here.
I sense a great deal of butthurt......
TUP"
I got the impression she messaged him first, asked for a face pic and said she would send one in return.
He sent a face pic, she wasn't interested and did not send a face pic like she said she would.
Personally, I wouldn't have sent a face pic in the first place if I was the OP. |
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"Oh dear..... Moaning, entitlement, manners...
Site rules clearly state that no reply is acceptable.
First person to message sends pic is the accepted practice here.
I sense a great deal of butthurt......
TUP
I got the impression she messaged him first, asked for a face pic and said she would send one in return.
He sent a face pic, she wasn't interested and did not send a face pic like she said she would.
Personally, I wouldn't have sent a face pic in the first place if I was the OP."
If she messaged him first, she should have included a face pic. He should not have had to ask. If he messaged her first then he should have included a face pic. If we don't get a face pic with first message, we move on, and we would not ask. |
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"Oh dear..... Moaning, entitlement, manners...
Site rules clearly state that no reply is acceptable.
First person to message sends pic is the accepted practice here.
I sense a great deal of butthurt......
TUP
I got the impression she messaged him first, asked for a face pic and said she would send one in return.
He sent a face pic, she wasn't interested and did not send a face pic like she said she would.
Personally, I wouldn't have sent a face pic in the first place if I was the OP.
If she messaged him first, she should have included a face pic. He should not have had to ask. If he messaged her first then he should have included a face pic. If we don't get a face pic with first message, we move on, and we would not ask."
This! |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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As someone who has met Van more than on more than one occasion, I vouch for him being an exceedingly polite, very delicious guy with more manners than your average finishing school!
He tongue in cheek comments and profile shouldn't be taken to literally - he is a top laugh although it's a humour not all may get - he and I have discussed munters at length though and I assure you - he is a great laugh |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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"As someone who has met Van more than on more than one occasion, I vouch for him being an exceedingly polite, very delicious guy with more manners than your average finishing school!
He tongue in cheek comments and profile shouldn't be taken to literally - he is a top laugh although it's a humour not all may get - he and I have discussed munters at length though and I assure you - he is a great laugh "
Having just reread this I realise I did indeed completely fook up the first line - oops! You get the gist though I'm sure lol |
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"As someone who has met Van more than on more than one occasion, I vouch for him being an exceedingly polite, very delicious guy with more manners than your average finishing school!
He tongue in cheek comments and profile shouldn't be taken to literally - he is a top laugh although it's a humour not all may get - he and I have discussed munters at length though and I assure you - he is a great laugh
Having just reread this I realise I did indeed completely fook up the first line - oops! You get the gist though I'm sure lol "
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