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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I exchanged maybe 30 messages with this girl and we decided pretty quickly we both wanted to hook up and make it happen.
Anyway, she came around, jumped in the shower got fresh and then came out in a towel. Very small words exchanged before before I pushed her on the bed and started kissing her... We fucked but for like the next 2-3 hours, she was so limp and lazy, she text me following saying she had a great time and wants to do it again... I said to her, a few times you've got to move (to that effect).
She didn't look lazy! She looked great, but she just wanted to lay there, even in doggy style she kept adjusting to be even lazier haha... I ended up punishing her for it (spanks and all that).
This was earlier tonight, scratching my head... Are some people just lazy and expect all the work to be done for them?
Also, don't think I'm a fan of meets without some form of a connection prior, felt too cold for me. |
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Don't take this as a dig mate as it's far from it. Maybe your growing up. I've been like that for years now it used to be I wanted to have as much sex as possible and any holes a goal so to speak but now I knock back more than I take because I want quality rather than quantity. Just a thought |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Uh I have never been lazy and found some of the times I have done the work whilst they lay there .... It's not a nice feeling at all and I agree it's shit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had meets where it feels incredibly one sided. Twice with one guy, I felt like he was being too lazy. His excuse was that he's tired.
No problem...just don't invite me round for sex if you want to lay still... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I exchanged maybe 30 messages with this girl and we decided pretty quickly we both wanted to hook up and make it happen.
Anyway, she came around, jumped in the shower got fresh and then came out in a towel. Very small words exchanged before before I pushed her on the bed and started kissing her... We fucked but for like the next 2-3 hours, she was so limp and lazy, she text me following saying she had a great time and wants to do it again... I said to her, a few times you've got to move (to that effect).
She didn't look lazy! She looked great, but she just wanted to lay there, even in doggy style she kept adjusting to be even lazier haha... I ended up punishing her for it (spanks and all that).
This was earlier tonight, scratching my head... Are some people just lazy and expect all the work to be done for them?
Also, don't think I'm a fan of meets without some form of a connection prior, felt too cold for me. "
you say you exchanged 30 messages there must have been a connection..? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe that's the way she 'does' sex - mind you being told a few times 'you've gotta move' might sound like criticism and hardly gonna help things.
Maybe you just didn't 'hit the spot'?
Anyway, if she's from here I'm sure she'll be delighted to be critiqued all over the Internet |
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"Maybe she was bored
Did u shag for the full 3 hours?
No stopping in between for foreplay etc ?
Yes sometimes it is boring if youre not with the right man."
Except she asked for another meet so she must have enjoyed it.
Some people are just lazy. I've seen tons of disinterested looking people at clubs,I've even had meets where the guy is pretty lazy and happy for me to do the work. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe that's her way of doing sex!
People need encouragement to explore different positions, made to feel turned on & sexier enough to try something new.
I'm not keen on fucking for hours, I like it mixed up with foreplay, chatting, eating & laughing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe nerves took over her? I know I'm the past when I've met New people I get nerves, and as you don't know likes and dislikes it's difficult to communicate what you want.
Did you suggest different positions, ask her what she wanted, what she likes?
But yes some people can be just lazy in bed as well but as we weren't there we can't tell  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If she reads the forums she won't feel great about it will she? First meet you're sussing each other out, maybe she's used to someone doing it all. Maybe she is unconfident at taking the lead sometimes ?
She sent a nice text after to say she had a great time, so I'd take the compliment. if I'm tired maybe I'm lazy but other times not. Lazy sex can be lovely sometimes. I'll have to survey Mr G in a bit.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sex for 2 to 3 hours and you didn't stop for afternoon tea, some cake and The Archers? No wonder she just laid there.... Joking aside she was probably running through the 30 messages in her head see if you were really into her.  |
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"Maybe she was bored
Did u shag for the full 3 hours?
No stopping in between for foreplay etc ?
Yes sometimes it is boring if youre not with the right man.
Except she asked for another meet so she must have enjoyed it.
Some people are just lazy. I've seen tons of disinterested looking people at clubs,I've even had meets where the guy is pretty lazy and happy for me to do the work. "
Maybe she wanted to meet him again because shes lonely or cant find anyone else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If she thought you were so good...and wanted to do it again then it's a shame she hadn't verified you....or is that just another sign of her laziness? (If what you say is correct about her?) |
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"If she thought you were so good...and wanted to do it again then it's a shame she hadn't verified you....or is that just another sign of her laziness? (If what you say is correct about her?)"
She is lazy. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"If she thought you were so good...and wanted to do it again then it's a shame she hadn't verified you....or is that just another sign of her laziness? (If what you say is correct about her?)"
Not everyone measures the success of their sex life by the number off verifications they have. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I exchanged maybe 30 messages with this girl and we decided pretty quickly we both wanted to hook up and make it happen.
Anyway, she came around, jumped in the shower got fresh and then came out in a towel. Very small words exchanged before before I pushed her on the bed and started kissing her... We fucked but for like the next 2-3 hours, she was so limp and lazy, she text me following saying she had a great time and wants to do it again... I said to her, a few times you've got to move (to that effect).
She didn't look lazy! She looked great, but she just wanted to lay there, even in doggy style she kept adjusting to be even lazier haha... I ended up punishing her for it (spanks and all that).
This was earlier tonight, scratching my head... Are some people just lazy and expect all the work to be done for them?
Also, don't think I'm a fan of meets without some form of a connection prior, felt too cold for me. "
yep some people are just lasy ive met a few guys who have just laid there and wanted me to alternate between riding them and sucking them and they have never got off their back or touched me, one guy even passed me the condom, he couldnt even open and put on his own bloody condom
i tend to get dressed and leave in situations like there, theres no way i'm still there 2 or 3 hours later
you just have to make a note not to meet them again |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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After reading your profile I'm thinking after all the mini novels etc when it came down to it she was a little underwhelmed.
It's nice to have a bit of a build up to a meet but in reality if there's no spark there it will be disappointing.
I do hope she's not on fab OP. |
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I've met a couple of people who've seemed limited in their willingness to apply themselves actively in sex. It just didn't work for us, it was a mutual incompatibility.
A social meet first may help you as may a shorter shag time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some people are good at sex some people arnt. Maybe even tho you put the effort in there just wasn't the connection there, good sex is partly about skill partly about effort but mostly about chemistry.
I've known women just want to be fucked, with out any audience participation, while others have literally molested me
See her again maybe next time she will be a little more animated now she knows you a little better. |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"She was probably inexperienced and you have your outed her OP, due to inexperience.
nah some people are just lazy  "
There are, who doesn't shower before a meet - she probably took one as a way to get undressed as she was shy and get him instantly hard. It obviously worked as he lasted for 2-3 hours without chucking her out. |
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sometimes when you meet someone you aren't in the mood or you don't really fancy them but you cant really say so, just hope they cum quick then want to leave. If you aren't really enjoying having sex you cant just say so.
Although I have enjoyed having sex with men I didn't really fancy as well a few times. You just never know how it will turn out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"She was probably inexperienced and you have your outed her OP, due to inexperience.
nah some people are just lazy
There are, who doesn't shower before a meet - she probably took one as a way to get undressed as she was shy and get him instantly hard. It obviously worked as he lasted for 2-3 hours without chucking her out."
yeah i must admit i did think if he was still at it 3 hours later she couldnt have been that bad, id have left way before them
no comment on the shower bit, i always shower before a meet but if ive been sat on a hot train etc i will also shower again when i get there |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"She was probably inexperienced and you have your outed her OP, due to inexperience.
nah some people are just lazy
There are, who doesn't shower before a meet - she probably took one as a way to get undressed as she was shy and get him instantly hard. It obviously worked as he lasted for 2-3 hours without chucking her out.
yeah i must admit i did think if he was still at it 3 hours later she couldnt have been that bad, id have left way before them
no comment on the shower bit, i always shower before a meet but if ive been sat on a hot train etc i will also shower again when i get there"
Hes meant to leave his own house? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"She was probably inexperienced and you have your outed her OP, due to inexperience.
nah some people are just lazy
There are, who doesn't shower before a meet - she probably took one as a way to get undressed as she was shy and get him instantly hard. It obviously worked as he lasted for 2-3 hours without chucking her out."
Blimey,you do like to make things up in your head don't you
What if she's just a boring,lazy fuck? A wet kipper between the sheets? Some people are and no matter what you do they don't liven up. We needed to be there to see them both in action to be able to make declarations like that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm an incredibly lazy fuck. Just push my legs together when you've finished.  "
And pull your nighty down too
I'm a lazy Fuck... well they call me that all the time at work. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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To clarify, she's not on here hence why I felt okay to post about it. I wouldn't do otherwise. Though I did want to get alternative perspectives on it, all my previous sexual experiences have been with either girlfriends or a fuckbuddy, there had always been conversational chemistry there. Generally I enjoy the build up and gives insight into likes and dislikes. It was my first meet where it was pretty much straight sex, no build. So I guess I'm thinking harder on this one and looking to learn.
I did suggest let's get a drink/dinner before hand, she wasn't keen on it. I'll suggest that if / when we meet again - if it was nerves then some good chat and chill, hopefully would help.
I did think maybe she wasn't into it, though it wasn't three hours of straight sex, there was fourplay and some chat mixed in the there. The lazy vibe was right off the bat lol. It may just be how she likes to have sex. It felt like to me at least her heart wasn't really in it.
Sorry to clarify, I didn't say to her "you've got to move" in a critical way, I encouraged her to do so, I phrased it very differently.
On the revenge boyfriend thing, maybe there was more to it like that - haha that would've made it hotter for me if I knew that lol, she did seem very sweet in our brief chats.
Thanks for the different _iew points, helpful to have other people's perspectives and experiences. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"sometimes when you meet someone you aren't in the mood or you don't really fancy them but you cant really say so, just hope they cum quick then want to leave. If you aren't really enjoying having sex you cant just say so.
Although I have enjoyed having sex with men I didn't really fancy as well a few times. You just never know how it will turn out."
If there's no spark it's rubbish. No-one's fault, just incompatible. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Only one way to really find out OP - invite her back and see how quick she finds an excuse not to come? One of those 'yeah it was great, we'll have to do it again!' replies.. "
Haha very true! She may be like "Ah I'm washing my hair all week  ." |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"After reading your profile I'm thinking after all the mini novels etc when it came down to it she was a little underwhelmed.
It's nice to have a bit of a build up to a meet but in reality if there's no spark there it will be disappointing.
I do hope she's not on fab OP."
Haha that's funny haha, sadly we didn't exchange any novels in the build up. Those brief messages were very to the point.
Though you may be right on the spark point, also she's not on here. Definitely wouldn't post if she was. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Don't take this as a dig mate as it's far from it. Maybe your growing up. I've been like that for years now it used to be I wanted to have as much sex as possible and any holes a goal so to speak but now I knock back more than I take because I want quality rather than quantity. Just a thought"
I definitely hear you on that and that's for the feedback, i'm thinking about that too. I've never been one for sex before I can feel some real chemistry at work. This was my first instance overriding that rule - it may be its just not for me, I'm exploring all things sexual, so I'll give it another few tries I reckon. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Mind you a lazy fuck is better than being asked are you nearly finished yet or are you going to take much longer "
Haha goodness, I haven't had that yet!
She could've done, I didn't cum - I changed condom brand and they robbed all feeling from my penis (bastards - intimate feel my foot) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"She was probably inexperienced and you have your outed her OP, due to inexperience.
nah some people are just lazy
There are, who doesn't shower before a meet - she probably took one as a way to get undressed as she was shy and get him instantly hard. It obviously worked as he lasted for 2-3 hours without chucking her out.
yeah i must admit i did think if he was still at it 3 hours later she couldnt have been that bad, id have left way before them
no comment on the shower bit, i always shower before a meet but if ive been sat on a hot train etc i will also shower again when i get there
Hes meant to leave his own house?"
dont be silly
i'm just talking about me i dont accommodate so id be the one leaving
if your in your own house obviously you ask them to leave |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't take this as a dig mate as it's far from it. Maybe your growing up. I've been like that for years now it used to be I wanted to have as much sex as possible and any holes a goal so to speak but now I knock back more than I take because I want quality rather than quantity. Just a thought"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"She was probably inexperienced and you have your outed her OP, due to inexperience.
nah some people are just lazy
There are, who doesn't shower before a meet - she probably took one as a way to get undressed as she was shy and get him instantly hard. It obviously worked as he lasted for 2-3 hours without chucking her out.
yeah i must admit i did think if he was still at it 3 hours later she couldnt have been that bad, id have left way before them
no comment on the shower bit, i always shower before a meet but if ive been sat on a hot train etc i will also shower again when i get there
Hes meant to leave his own house?
dont be silly
i'm just talking about me i dont accommodate so id be the one leaving
if your in your own house obviously you ask them to leave "
Haha, I accommodated via a hotel room not too far from where she lives. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Finally a woman "uses" a man for sex
What is the world coming to?"
Haha, I have no issue being used for sex - in fact I'm in favour of it lol, it just this was a new experience for me. I didn't feel used at all, first time having sex where the girl didn't seem to put any effort in. |
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By *dd269Man
over a year ago
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When I was younger it felt like one in every three girls I had went "starfish" on me - they stopped moving and just laid there. Even when they were on top, they hardly moved.
I put it down to inexperience on their part - nothing to take offence about. Common question: Are you cumming yet? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Finally a woman "uses" a man for sex
What is the world coming to?
Haha, I have no issue being used for sex - in fact I'm in favour of it lol, it just this was a new experience for me. I didn't feel used at all, first time having sex where the girl didn't seem to put any effort in. "
Too many times I've been on your end,where guys sit on a bed whack out their cock with a sheepish look as if to say.."it's not gonna suck itself"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Finally a woman "uses" a man for sex
What is the world coming to?
Haha, I have no issue being used for sex - in fact I'm in favour of it lol, it just this was a new experience for me. I didn't feel used at all, first time having sex where the girl didn't seem to put any effort in.
Too many times I've been on your end,where guys sit on a bed whack out their cock with a sheepish look as if to say.."it's not gonna suck itself"
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Hahah I guess I can finally relate to your pain. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Phew, I was a bit worried then, coz someone on another thread asked if this post was about me! Lol xxx"
Haha, I wouldn't do that to someone. It's only because she'd never see this I posted on here for some perspective. Haha are you the lazy in bed type?
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Last night i had a nice little shag and then he went to the shop at 'half' time to get me some goodies and i promptly fell asleep for three hours sunday different person and i think at one point i said can i just lay here |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I exchanged maybe 30 messages with this girl and we decided pretty quickly we both wanted to hook up and make it happen.
Anyway, she came around, jumped in the shower got fresh and then came out in a towel. Very small words exchanged before before I pushed her on the bed and started kissing her... We fucked but for like the next 2-3 hours, she was so limp and lazy, she text me following saying she had a great time and wants to do it again... I said to her, a few times you've got to move (to that effect).
She didn't look lazy! She looked great, but she just wanted to lay there, even in doggy style she kept adjusting to be even lazier haha... I ended up punishing her for it (spanks and all that).
This was earlier tonight, scratching my head... Are some people just lazy and expect all the work to be done for them?
Also, don't think I'm a fan of meets without some form of a connection prior, felt too cold for me. "
As you get older you start to notice certain tings..and one thing I have noticed is that I see women saying that "they want to be fucked good and proper" or something similar and when a man doesn't perform then he was a shit fuck etc..but i can count on one hand the amount of women that have actually fucked me in a way that I would call a really good seeing to. Having said that there's a lot men that will turn up and fuck the woman in various positions and not even say anything and then the woman in question can become lazy or maybe she just isn't confident being on top and all that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Phew, I was a bit worried then, coz someone on another thread asked if this post was about me! Lol xxx
Haha, I wouldn't do that to someone. It's only because she'd never see this I posted on here for some perspective. Haha are you the lazy in bed type?
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No but I posted a thread yesterday about my FWB falling asleep in the afternoon, I had been on top when it happened though.LoL XXX |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"'this isn't really working for me, not sure if we are sexually compatible'.......
that's what an adult may say during the meet"
I agree with you, up until the "adult" comment, insinuating I assume that less than that makes someone less mature than an adult. However I think a crucial part of being an adult is being willing to admit to mistakes, take responsibility, learn from those mistakes.
I'm being pedantic about this admittedly lol. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm an amazing fuck.
Just putting it out there 
Haha, can I steal you for the weekend?
I'm already fully booked this weekend,sorry "
Haha, I want to believe in angels again |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"'this isn't really working for me, not sure if we are sexually compatible'.......
that's what an adult may say during the meet
I agree with you, up until the "adult" comment, insinuating I assume that less than that makes someone less mature than an adult. However I think a crucial part of being an adult is being willing to admit to mistakes, take responsibility, learn from those mistakes.
I'm being pedantic about this admittedly lol. "
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