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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Imagine you found someone on here living within a couple of mins walk of you.
Would you? Wouldn't you?
Personally I think it just sounds extreamly conveinient  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Imagine you found someone on here living within a couple of mins walk of you.
Would you? Wouldn't you?
Personally I think it just sounds extreamly conveinient "
It would depend on how trustworthy the person seemed.I'd still insist on meeting in a public place,they might not need me to give them detailed directions about 15 times though.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Imagine you found someone on here living within a couple of mins walk of you.
Would you? Wouldn't you?
Personally I think it just sounds extreamly conveinient "
never shit on your own doorstep
personally I would rather not know so I block everyone within a 20 mile radius  |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"No way!! Lol but if you don't mind people knowing you are on here then why not!?
But as a couple living in a tiny village lol we wouldn't be popular!  "
yeah entirely different for say a single lady and a couple compared to a single man with the stigma in society. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Imagine you found someone on here living within a couple of mins walk of you.
Would you? Wouldn't you?
Personally I think it just sounds extreamly conveinient
It would depend on how trustworthy the person seemed.I'd still insist on meeting in a public place,they might not need me to give them detailed directions about 15 times though. "
Trustworthiness would apply no matter the distance though surely? And as for directions, surely that's what sat Mac was invented for?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Imagine you found someone on here living within a couple of mins walk of you.
Would you? Wouldn't you?
Personally I think it just sounds extreamly conveinient
never shit on your own doorstep
personally I would rather not know so I block everyone within a 20 mile radius "
You can do that?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Imagine you found someone on here living within a couple of mins walk of you.
Would you? Wouldn't you?
Personally I think it just sounds extreamly conveinient "
I'd still apply the same criteria to decide if we wanted to meet them...wouldn't just fuck them because it was convenient nor would we assume they would want us... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Imagine you found someone on here living within a couple of mins walk of you.
Would you? Wouldn't you?
Personally I think it just sounds extreamly conveinient my sentiments exactly  "
And ours , as long as they are fit and match our criteria |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Imagine you found someone on here living within a couple of mins walk of you.
Would you? Wouldn't you?
Personally I think it just sounds extreamly conveinient
I'd still apply the same criteria to decide if we wanted to meet them...wouldn't just fuck them because it was convenient nor would we assume they would want us..."
Oh I couldn't agree more! I was making the assumption that comparability would be there.
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
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"No way!! Lol but if you don't mind people knowing you are on here then why not!?
But as a couple living in a tiny village lol we wouldn't be popular! "
Or very popular in the village where I grew up there were loads of 'wife swapping parties'.
My mum always felt left out and an outsider to the village. Only since her passing I discovered why my and dad weren't in the clique no one dared ask her because she way the village lay reader. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We would skip people within a few miles radius
For what reason? Simply not wanting to bump into them in real life situations? Discretion.... "
That's fair enough.
I just figure, they are here too, so it works both ways. But I understand your reasons. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I bump into guys I've been with on occasion, not normally phased by it but if I'm with my kids it's a bit different!!!
Guess I've been lucky to not have met any nutters
I wouldn't want anyone at my kids school tho, that could be awkward!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I bump into guys I've been with on occasion, not normally phased by it but if I'm with my kids it's a bit different!!!
Guess I've been lucky to not have met any nutters
I wouldn't want anyone at my kids school tho, that could be awkward!!! "
I don't know mind, there's a couple of seriously sexy mothers at my kids school I could cope with the awkwardness for! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I personally wouldn't want anyone to know my address having previously had a weirdo drive by at 3am asking why my lights were still on  "
Well that's just weird. |
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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago
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I think it would be fine IF all went well and was a likely repeat event, but IF it didn't, or worse still you didn't want to meet again but they did, bumping into them in Tesco or the local pub etc could be a little awkward.
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Nope, won't meet anyone within 20 miles of where I live. All it takes is one indiscreet person and knowing how gossipy my small town can be, there are things my kids don't need to know about their mother. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We would skip people within a few miles radius
For what reason? Simply not wanting to bump into them in real life situations? Discretion....
That's fair enough.
I just figure, they are here too, so it works both ways. But I understand your reasons. "
Its different for singles,unfortunately thats what 80 per cent of this site is,If i was single and the next door neighbour was then thats different.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I bump into guys I've been with on occasion, not normally phased by it but if I'm with my kids it's a bit different!!!
Guess I've been lucky to not have met any nutters
I wouldn't want anyone at my kids school tho, that could be awkward!!!
I don't know mind, there's a couple of seriously sexy mothers at my kids school I could cope with the awkwardness for! "
Your lucky, the dads at my kids school are mostly awful and then there's their wives!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I bump into guys I've been with on occasion, not normally phased by it but if I'm with my kids it's a bit different!!!
Guess I've been lucky to not have met any nutters
I wouldn't want anyone at my kids school tho, that could be awkward!!!
I don't know mind, there's a couple of seriously sexy mothers at my kids school I could cope with the awkwardness for!
Your lucky, the dads at my kids school are mostly awful and then there's their wives!!! "
There are a couple of yummy dads at my kids schools  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No way!! Lol but if you don't mind people knowing you are on here then why not!?
But as a couple living in a tiny village lol we wouldn't be popular! "
I know every one in my small village that is on here although never played it's fun to share the knowing smile in the pub. Especially when I take a meet in there for a social. We're all adults after all and doing nothing illegal. Well most of the time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Imagine you found someone on here living within a couple of mins walk of you.
Would you? Wouldn't you?
Personally I think it just sounds extreamly conveinient "
I had a guy mail me who came up as within half a mile, he gave me his address and told me to come round, his street was literally two streets away from me
I said no because it was to close for comfort, he didn't see a problem in fact he saw finding a woman who was only two streets away as a bonus
But I never went, he still mails me from time to time to see if I've changed my mind |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Imagine you found someone on here living within a couple of mins walk of you.
Would you? Wouldn't you?
Personally I think it just sounds extreamly conveinient "
I did and it was someone I shouldn't have got involved with but did....for a while. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If things go wrong then you'll find out how close your 'neighbour' actually lives and won't like it a bit!
Have been contacted a while ago by someone I found out lives on the same street. I didn't wait to find out anything else. Face photo did it all. Blocked. Sorry... too close to home as they say! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been tempted, but it is too big a risk in a small village when someone could say something to your kids. I do cast a wistful glance towards some of the hot mums in the playground and sexy couples in the local. |
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