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By *kgemini OP Man
over a year ago
Southampton |
I'm on a course for a week, and there is someone on the course who I think is on here.
How do I say "are you that stunner on Fabswingers?" Without looking like a weirdo if they are that person or a bigger weirdo if it is not them!
I would have just asked on here but they have blocked Non-members (and I won't make use of membership to make it worth while) |
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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago
London |
I wouldn't do it. If someone did that to me I would be creeped out. Especially if:
1. I barely know them.
2. If I'm not attracted to them.
The moment 1 is gone and 2 becomes the opposite is the only time that revealing yourself or them could possible become a pleasant surprise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was out last night on a Fab social and I was messaged by someone today asking if I was in that pub.
I asked why they didn't come and say hello but thinking about it, I was with people and it could have been very awkward if I was with people who don't know about Fab so I think he was right to not approach me.
I think this, OP, is the same situation. Show some discretion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd feel really uncomfortable if someone asked me this in public so my advice to you would be to keep schtum.
Pay the £5 on here as a one off & message her ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd feel really uncomfortable if someone asked me this in public so my advice to you would be to keep schtum.
Pay the £5 on here as a one off & message her "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I see a few people on here going into the pubs where I work now and then, but you don't know if the people around them know about this side of their lives. So its best not to say anything. Although it was funny once when a lass on here came into a pub I was working once with a bloke, and just sighed when he just stood saying he was jealous of my beard lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd feel really uncomfortable if someone asked me this in public so my advice to you would be to keep schtum.
Pay the £5 on here as a one off & message her
its £5!!
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