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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've never really mastered it.
What do you do to attract the attention of someone you like?
I usually get tongue tied OR ramble nonsensically until I run out of air or the other person kisses me to shhh me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm with you on this OP, I'm a woeful flirt. Shit at sending signals and reading them too (apparently I've been told later - in truth I can't believe anyone would actually try and flirt with me)
Just doesn't come naturally - yet for others they don't even need to try and come across naturally flirty. S'not fair is it! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm with you on this OP, I'm a woeful flirt. Shit at sending signals and reading them too (apparently I've been told later - in truth I can't believe anyone would actually try and flirt with me)
Just doesn't come naturally - yet for others they don't even need to try and come across naturally flirty. S'not fair is it!"
Someone told me recently he's fancied me for ages but is awful at flirting.
I'd have to say in fairness he's definitely worse than me as I had NO clue.
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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago
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This is something we both struggle with every time we go to a club - how to put across your interest, or even register that someone else is interested in us unless they make it blatantly obvious.
We've had some fantastic times, but they've all either been when the other couple/person have taken the initiative, or where we've literally fallen into a situation by chance. Neither of us seem capable of being the one to take the initiative. The times we've driven away saying "why didn't we go and talk to.....".
One of these days we'll get the hang of it, then watch out world!!
Mr G |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This is something we both struggle with every time we go to a club - how to put across your interest, or even register that someone else is interested in us unless they make it blatantly obvious.
We've had some fantastic times, but they've all either been when the other couple/person have taken the initiative, or where we've literally fallen into a situation by chance. Neither of us seem capable of being the one to take the initiative. The times we've driven away saying "why didn't we go and talk to.....".
One of these days we'll get the hang of it, then watch out world!!
Mr G"
That's exactly what I'm like!
I find it difficult to approach.
Gawd.
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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago
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"This is something we both struggle with every time we go to a club - how to put across your interest, or even register that someone else is interested in us unless they make it blatantly obvious.
We've had some fantastic times, but they've all either been when the other couple/person have taken the initiative, or where we've literally fallen into a situation by chance. Neither of us seem capable of being the one to take the initiative. The times we've driven away saying "why didn't we go and talk to.....".
One of these days we'll get the hang of it, then watch out world!!
Mr G
That's exactly what I'm like!
I find it difficult to approach.
Gawd.
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Perhaps the clubs should forget hosting Bi/Fetish/BBW/Greedy Girl etc nights and have a "Crap Flirters" night.....oh wait that wouldn't work would it!!
Mr G |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This is something we both struggle with every time we go to a club - how to put across your interest, or even register that someone else is interested in us unless they make it blatantly obvious.
We've had some fantastic times, but they've all either been when the other couple/person have taken the initiative, or where we've literally fallen into a situation by chance. Neither of us seem capable of being the one to take the initiative. The times we've driven away saying "why didn't we go and talk to.....".
One of these days we'll get the hang of it, then watch out world!!
Mr G
That's exactly what I'm like!
I find it difficult to approach.
Gawd.
Perhaps the clubs should forget hosting Bi/Fetish/BBW/Greedy Girl etc nights and have a "Crap Flirters" night.....oh wait that wouldn't work would it!!
Mr G"
I can see flashcards working.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I didn't realise that someone was actually flirting with me, in a club a couple of weeks ago.
I can flirt online but shit in person  "
I think I flirt through taking the mick.
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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago
North Herts |
"This is something we both struggle with every time we go to a club - how to put across your interest, or even register that someone else is interested in us unless they make it blatantly obvious.
We've had some fantastic times, but they've all either been when the other couple/person have taken the initiative, or where we've literally fallen into a situation by chance. Neither of us seem capable of being the one to take the initiative. The times we've driven away saying "why didn't we go and talk to.....".
One of these days we'll get the hang of it, then watch out world!!
Mr G
That's exactly what I'm like!
I find it difficult to approach.
Gawd.
Perhaps the clubs should forget hosting Bi/Fetish/BBW/Greedy Girl etc nights and have a "Crap Flirters" night.....oh wait that wouldn't work would it!!
Mr G
I can see flashcards working.
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Ooohh flashcards, now there's an idea....best I could come up with was the old school sterotype of car keys in a pot but that wouldn't work unless you could keep putting them back till you got someone you fancied!!
Mr G |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This is something we both struggle with every time we go to a club - how to put across your interest, or even register that someone else is interested in us unless they make it blatantly obvious.
We've had some fantastic times, but they've all either been when the other couple/person have taken the initiative, or where we've literally fallen into a situation by chance. Neither of us seem capable of being the one to take the initiative. The times we've driven away saying "why didn't we go and talk to.....".
One of these days we'll get the hang of it, then watch out world!!
Mr G
That's exactly what I'm like!
I find it difficult to approach.
Gawd.
Perhaps the clubs should forget hosting Bi/Fetish/BBW/Greedy Girl etc nights and have a "Crap Flirters" night.....oh wait that wouldn't work would it!!
Mr G
I can see flashcards working.
Ooohh flashcards, now there's an idea....best I could come up with was the old school sterotype of car keys in a pot but that wouldn't work unless you could keep putting them back till you got someone you fancied!!
Mr G"
I don't drive, a bike lock really wouldn't work eh? |
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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago
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" Perhaps the clubs should forget hosting Bi/Fetish/BBW/Greedy Girl etc nights and have a "Crap Flirters" night.....oh wait that wouldn't work would it!!
Mr G
I can see flashcards working.
Ooohh flashcards, now there's an idea....best I could come up with was the old school sterotype of car keys in a pot but that wouldn't work unless you could keep putting them back till you got someone you fancied!!
Mr G
I don't drive, a bike lock really wouldn't work eh?"
Maybe if you went cavewoman style and clonked them over the head with it?
Mr G |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a shoot from the hip kind of girl, if I like someone I just say it, then there's no confusion "
That's the best kind.
I'm more likely to make jokes until you take the hint and make a move  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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" Perhaps the clubs should forget hosting Bi/Fetish/BBW/Greedy Girl etc nights and have a "Crap Flirters" night.....oh wait that wouldn't work would it!!
Mr G
I can see flashcards working.
Ooohh flashcards, now there's an idea....best I could come up with was the old school sterotype of car keys in a pot but that wouldn't work unless you could keep putting them back till you got someone you fancied!!
Mr G
I don't drive, a bike lock really wouldn't work eh?
Maybe if you went cavewoman style and clonked them over the head with it?
Mr G"
I want them at least semi conscious.
My bike lock is fecking heavy. |
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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago
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" Perhaps the clubs should forget hosting Bi/Fetish/BBW/Greedy Girl etc nights and have a "Crap Flirters" night.....oh wait that wouldn't work would it!!
Mr G
I can see flashcards working.
Ooohh flashcards, now there's an idea....best I could come up with was the old school sterotype of car keys in a pot but that wouldn't work unless you could keep putting them back till you got someone you fancied!!
Mr G
I don't drive, a bike lock really wouldn't work eh?
Maybe if you went cavewoman style and clonked them over the head with it?
Mr G
I want them at least semi conscious.
My bike lock is fecking heavy."
Maybe just a tap then!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm a shoot from the hip kind of girl, if I like someone I just say it, then there's no confusion
That's the best kind.
I'm more likely to make jokes until you take the hint and make a move "
Too many jokes = friend zone lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a shoot from the hip kind of girl, if I like someone I just say it, then there's no confusion
That's the best kind.
I'm more likely to make jokes until you take the hint and make a move
Too many jokes = friend zone lol"
Story of my life |
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