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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why do you 'swing'? I realise that people are here and meet others for the sex, but what beyond that do you get out of it, what motivates you to meet others and to continue? |
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By *ty31Man
over a year ago
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I don't swing. I enjoy socialising, having fun and banter, meeting people and new experiences, sometimes sexually with a lady whom I am not in a monogamous relationship with. I don't regard myself as being a swinger. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't swing. I enjoy socialising, having fun and banter, meeting people and new experiences, sometimes sexually with a lady whom I am not in a monogamous relationship with. I don't regard myself as being a swinger."
That's why I used the 'swing'
However, names and terms are fluid, you're a member of a swinging site, even in its loosest term that makes you a swinger, but I don't want to get into semantics |
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By *ty31Man
over a year ago
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"I don't swing. I enjoy socialising, having fun and banter, meeting people and new experiences, sometimes sexually with a lady whom I am not in a monogamous relationship with. I don't regard myself as being a swinger.
That's why I used the 'swing'
However, names and terms are fluid, you're a member of a swinging site, even in its loosest term that makes you a swinger, but I don't want to get into semantics"
Fair enough point.
I do this because I'm not in a relationship but still want a sex life and there's things I'd like to try sexually and experiences which I couldn't realistically do elsewhere.
I believe that life is for living and whilst I have the opportunity to try something it makes sense to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest with you I have never really considered my self to be a swinger...... I am just a single lad on here for some good gut wrenching NSA sex with like minded females...... This is now my 3rd profile on here in the last 6yrs..... When I get into a relationship off line with a woman then I delete my profile as I think it only fair to start off a new relationship all fair and square and a complete fresh start..... Plus I am not a twat like that and never cheat if I am with some one, so the profile goes.......... I did meet a girl on here a few years ago and we both deleted our profiles and decided to give it a go at a full time relationship. Was ok for a couple of years but then it went tits up and I was single again and back on here with a new profile......... This site works ok for me as a single lad if I am honest as I am on here to make friends with a couple of regular females for frendship, banter, good one to one personal contact and conversation and a blimmin good regular sessions of gut wrenching NSA sex with tons and tons of passionate snoggin and hmmmmmmmm I best behave or I will get horny, haha |
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Have had monogamous relationships in the past and now I'm young free & single I find being on here another way to meet ladies as well as "pulling down the boozer". I don't consider myself to be a swinger though, what's in a username  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do you 'swing'? I realise that people are here and meet others for the sex, but what beyond that do you get out of it, what motivates you to meet others and to continue? "
I'm in it for the culture |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why do you 'swing'? I realise that people are here and meet others for the sex, but what beyond that do you get out of it, what motivates you to meet others and to continue?
I'm in it for the culture "
A lot of people do it for the social aspect of things too I think, but I find the deeper motivation interesting too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do you 'swing'? I realise that people are here and meet others for the sex, but what beyond that do you get out of it, what motivates you to meet others and to continue? "
Why do you,OP? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The social aspect, getting to know lots of happy, open people. Swinging allows us both to experience and indulge in our bi sides which a monogamous relationship wouldn't, we both love group sex so swinging is an obvious choice  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why do you 'swing'? I realise that people are here and meet others for the sex, but what beyond that do you get out of it, what motivates you to meet others and to continue?
Why do you,OP?"
After my marriage failed Id missed the intimacy of adult sexual contact and I kind of fell into it all. Now I enjoy the variety of nsa and the greater journey that I seem to have found myself on |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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because i like to live my life with total freedom and impeccability. i bring this perception to my physical expression, including my sensuality and sexuality. Being myself, makes me happy and, a life with inner contentment, is a life with purpose x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just for sex,nobody has anything else to offer...
Erm, excuse me, but I have tea to offer. So ner.
Like I say nothing to offer,I hate tea,coffee on the other hand..."
Hate tea? I think I need a lie down. |
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"Just for sex,nobody has anything else to offer...
Erm, excuse me, but I have tea to offer. So ner.
Like I say nothing to offer,I hate tea,coffee on the other hand...
Hate tea? I think I need a lie down. "
I have tea bags in for anyone that's really needs one,my 14 year old drinks it and sticks the cup under my nose it smells rank!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just for sex,nobody has anything else to offer...
Erm, excuse me, but I have tea to offer. So ner.
Like I say nothing to offer,I hate tea,coffee on the other hand...
Hate tea? I think I need a lie down.
I have tea bags in for anyone that's really needs one,my 14 year old drinks it and sticks the cup under my nose it smells rank! "
I hate tea too, Mr loves it but coffee is the way to go |
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"Just for sex,nobody has anything else to offer...
Erm, excuse me, but I have tea to offer. So ner.
Like I say nothing to offer,I hate tea,coffee on the other hand...
Hate tea? I think I need a lie down.
I have tea bags in for anyone that's really needs one,my 14 year old drinks it and sticks the cup under my nose it smells rank!
I hate tea too, Mr loves it but coffee is the way to go "
Woman of taste  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just for sex,nobody has anything else to offer...
Erm, excuse me, but I have tea to offer. So ner.
Like I say nothing to offer,I hate tea,coffee on the other hand...
Hate tea? I think I need a lie down.
I have tea bags in for anyone that's really needs one,my 14 year old drinks it and sticks the cup under my nose it smells rank! "
Aww well that's good of you. I don't think I even notice if tea has a smell. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just for sex,nobody has anything else to offer...
Erm, excuse me, but I have tea to offer. So ner.
Like I say nothing to offer,I hate tea,coffee on the other hand...
Hate tea? I think I need a lie down.
I have tea bags in for anyone that's really needs one,my 14 year old drinks it and sticks the cup under my nose it smells rank!
I hate tea too, Mr loves it but coffee is the way to go "
Bravo Mr. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To have the option of a sex life that provides me with an diminished amount guilt and self doubt as to whether denying on-going needs would be an acceptable scenario owing to extenuating circumstance that created my dilemma ......
Yeah that's about it....
Suffice to say had fate not played it's hand I wouldn't be a swinger....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In one word varety
No one person is able to give me everything i want"
This. Variety is the spice of life. We as a species are meant to interact with others on all levels. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The social aspect, getting to know lots of happy, open people. Swinging allows us both to experience and indulge in our bi sides which a monogamous relationship wouldn't, we both love group sex so swinging is an obvious choice
 All of the above reasons and can anyone think of a better way to spend a day/night/couple of hours (delete as appropriate) with like minded people enjoying each others bodies and minds."
And deffo this. |
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"Why do you 'swing'? I realise that people are here and meet others for the sex, but what beyond that do you get out of it, what motivates you to meet others and to continue? "
I mean this in the nicest way possible . You know op i think the world of you . But You brits are obsessed on putting people into categories. Someone is this or that. 
I get people say they bi or straight or tv/ts or what ever to help them find suitable sex partners.
But those it really matter. Just have fun. Meet people. Socialise.
MrsSB
PS fancy a fuck?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do you 'swing'? I realise that people are here and meet others for the sex, but what beyond that do you get out of it, what motivates you to meet others and to continue? "
Simple one for me. People intrigue me and I enjoy meeting new people.
Sex is just a bonus |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because after being in a relationship for 23 years it great to choose if you want to go out or you dont,and a great way of making new friends there are some wonderful people on fab |
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On paper the whole ethos behind swinging suits me totally. The openness and the sexual freedom of it all is right up my alley. Though I'd never call myself a swinger at all, I guess I just like the idea of the fun and the socialising without the waffle and nonsense that you get in regular relationships.
What motivates me to continue? Well, it turns out this has been more of a journey of self-discovery for me. I realised that very early on. The result of it all is now pretty irrelevant. It turns out the path is the destination, the path is the goal. It's given me the ability to be myself for the first time in my life. I'm enjoying the trip and I've made some lovely friends along the way. |
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