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over a year ago
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"How are you ment to meet people if nobody reads your messages? "
Your profile meet counter says you met a couple and a single female in the 7 weeks you been here so you must be doing something ok? |
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"How are you ment to make it better if u haven't had the chance to experiment yet? "
Read other people's profiles and see what they've done better than you. There are some really good profiles out there.
Cal |
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"How? If ur to blunt it just gets deleted "
Most ladies will read your profile before they read your message (so they tell us). Having a good profile will certainly help.
Then the message, women like to know that you've read their profile. They like character and humour, and they like to know that you're messaging them because you actually find them attractive... rather than just feeling that you've messaged everyone hoping that one of them will respond. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"How? If ur to blunt it just gets deleted
Most ladies will read your profile before they read your message (so they tell us). Having a good profile will certainly help.
Then the message, women like to know that you've read their profile. They like character and humour, and they like to know that you're messaging them because you actually find them attractive... rather than just feeling that you've messaged everyone hoping that one of them will respond."
Thank u so much. Looks like I have to work on my profile then. Is it really that boring? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You could try improving your grammar , seriously ....."
I'm sorry I'm not the smartest of people to many bangs to the head from boxing but didn't realise this was an English lesson! |
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over a year ago
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"You've had 2 meets in 7 weeks
That's pretty good going for a newbie single male
It should be you giving the advice out, not asking for it ..."
Really 2 meets in 7 weeks is rubbish just seems every1 u talk to have atleast 11 meets in less the. That. How do they do it? |
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I'll read and reply to your messages op.
Otherwise it's about having as great a profile as you can. People usually look at profiles of people sending them messages. And tons here get so many messages that it's impractical to reply to them all.
Make some friends and hang in there.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You've had 2 meets in 7 weeks
That's pretty good going for a newbie single male
It should be you giving the advice out, not asking for it ...
Really 2 meets in 7 weeks is rubbish just seems every1 u talk to have atleast 11 meets in less the. That. How do they do it? "
If they have that many veris in such a time then they most likely are members returning and friends verifying them again, they go to clubs and socials and meet people, and have a couple of private meets. That is why we have so many in 8 weeks  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Men join and think all us ladies are waiting gagging for you !
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That sums it up.
I dont think that?
Because you are a gentleman.
I'm not a lady 
Fancy a fuck? 
MrsSB  "
Think i'll let you're heal first dont want you hopping around |
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"Men join and think all us ladies are waiting gagging for you !
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That sums it up.
I dont think that?
Because you are a gentleman.
I'm not a lady
Fancy a fuck?
MrsSB
Think i'll let you're heal first dont want you hopping around"
Toe* |
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"Men join and think all us ladies are waiting gagging for you !
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That sums it up.
I dont think that?
Because you are a gentleman.
I'm not a lady
Fancy a fuck?
MrsSB
Think i'll let you're heal first dont want you hopping around
Toe*"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I havnt met in over a year,and im not that bothered tbh, if i do get one then fine if i dont then fine
Mmmm you look lovely xx
Nice shoe
Smooth  "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You've had 2 meets in 7 weeks
That's pretty good going for a newbie single male
It should be you giving the advice out, not asking for it ...
Really 2 meets in 7 weeks is rubbish just seems every1 u talk to have atleast 11 meets in less the. That. How do they do it? "
I think, if anything, you are ahead of the game.
Most single guys struggle to get anywhere until they lose the expectation (and sometimes the entitlement) that they join with.
Those with large numbers of meets in a short period are exceptional cases who, as someone else has said, are likely to be mostly re verified as opposed to newly verified.
Besides, for many, swinging is not a numbers game, it is a lifestyle choice.
Just chill and enjoy
If you make it a quest, you're inevitably going to find more disappointment than you are fun. |
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