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By *uperboaby OP Man over a year ago

Glasgow

Just read a status from a females profile saying "I want to get pregnant"

The profile goes on to read she wants men to ejaculate inside her with no names needed.

How, if serious, can people put themselves at risk like that?

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By *enard ArgenteMan over a year ago

London and France

It's fairly common.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What bothers you more....the bareback or she wants to get pregnant x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It may just be a fantasy, the breeders will like it, I've seen over 50's with that status. So I just assume they like bareback. No different to messages saying, id like to make you pregnant really is it?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

Not a new low.

Let people be comfortable as adults to enjoy what works for them.

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple over a year ago

Andover

What risk?

The risk of getting pregnant?

Clearly that's exactley what she wants.

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By *ire_bladeMan over a year ago

Manchester

It's nothing new. Ether they like bareback as already said or possibly just genuinely desperate for kids who knows. Could also be shock value I suppose

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By *eavenscentitCouple over a year ago

barnstaple

I can understand it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I raised this a few weeks ago and voiced my concerns

The usual human rights campaigners telling me it's their choice

Unbelievable

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Also some women are not looking for lots of men just 1 or 2 to cum up them regular becaus that's what they enjoy.

The pregnant bit is probably a bloke pretending to be a female and more than likely sits here wanking over the messages that he's getting with offers to spunk up him

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By *eavenscentitCouple over a year ago

barnstaple

Knowing I could get pregnant with my husband was a real turn on back in the day. Really erotic

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I raised this a few weeks ago and voiced my concerns

The usual human rights campaigners telling me it's their choice

Unbelievable "

Do you believe it's real though? And is it different to going to a pub and pulling anyone ? Really ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I raised this a few weeks ago and voiced my concerns

The usual human rights campaigners telling me it's their choice

Unbelievable

Do you believe it's real though? And is it different to going to a pub and pulling anyone ? Really ? "

Yeah I think it's real

I also think it's very wrong

A baby born from no love

Would a guy really be that desperate for a shag ????

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By *eccymanMan over a year ago

Gateshead

It'll be a married man fantasist. They've always populated sites like this.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I raised this a few weeks ago and voiced my concerns

The usual human rights campaigners telling me it's their choice

Unbelievable

Do you believe it's real though? And is it different to going to a pub and pulling anyone ? Really ?

Yeah I think it's real

I also think it's very wrong

A baby born from no love

Would a guy really be that desperate for a shag ????"

The mother would love it? Or the couple? I'm not saying it's my thing but if you want a baby and can't have one, if it's real, well it's a lot easier than other options isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I raised this a few weeks ago and voiced my concerns

The usual human rights campaigners telling me it's their choice

Unbelievable

Do you believe it's real though? And is it different to going to a pub and pulling anyone ? Really ?

Yeah I think it's real

I also think it's very wrong

A baby born from no love

Would a guy really be that desperate for a shag ????"

Oh good God get over yourself. Do you really believe all babies are conceived in a Disney movie? Many a baby was conceived in a quick shufty in an alley behind a pub. Doesn't mean the baby is any less loved when its born. If two consenting adults do something legal together then good luck to them. Doesn't affect me or you.

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By *enard ArgenteMan over a year ago

London and France

"I raised this a few weeks ago and voiced my concerns

The usual human rights campaigners telling me it's their choice

Unbelievable

Do you believe it's real though? And is it different to going to a pub and pulling anyone ? Really ?

Yeah I think it's real

I also think it's very wrong

A baby born from no love

Would a guy really be that desperate for a shag ????"

I have known a few women who really want a baby, but don't want a man in their life .

Or perhaps she is married and husband is sterile?

Here seems a good place to look if you don't want future contact or involvement.

Very possible it's real .

Equally possible it isn't .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Who knows why other people do things that are not for us....cause everyones different op. X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I raised this a few weeks ago and voiced my concerns

The usual human rights campaigners telling me it's their choice

Unbelievable

Do you believe it's real though? And is it different to going to a pub and pulling anyone ? Really ?

Yeah I think it's real

I also think it's very wrong

A baby born from no love

Would a guy really be that desperate for a shag ????

My 'opinion' is wrong????

It's supposed to be a discussion

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

See what I mean

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I couldn't do it. Knowing there was the possibility of my flesh and blood out there and not knowing what they looked like, imparting my wisdom, missing growth goals and milestones, and growing up and seeing them turn into adults, as well as not having a choice or ability to do my fatherly duties and responsibilities would eat me up inside.

Really never understood any bloke that can father a child and happily walk away from all that..

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I think the ladies partner might not be able to get her pregnant and they are desperate for a baby.

Or it might be a fetish.

Or it might be a wind up.

Or it might be a scam to get dosh from the dad.

Basically.....if you don't like it and it doesn't affect you, don't worry about it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I couldn't do it. Knowing there was the possibility of my flesh and blood out there and not knowing what they looked like, imparting my wisdom, missing growth goals and milestones, and growing up and seeing them turn into adults, as well as not having a choice or ability to do my fatherly duties and responsibilities would eat me up inside.

Really never understood any bloke that can father a child and happily walk away from all that.."

Words of wisdom

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I raised this a few weeks ago and voiced my concerns

The usual human rights campaigners telling me it's their choice

Unbelievable "

but thats exactly what this place is all about -personal choice -

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just read a status from a females profile saying "I want to get pregnant"

The profile goes on to read she wants men to ejaculate inside her with no names needed.

How, if serious, can people put themselves at risk like that?"

I assume with the risk part u mean if she was serious about wanting to be pregnant is if she was the potential fathers could have any std that could affect the pregnancy and health of the baby also other health issues that could be genetic and life threatening if u don't have the medical history. That I agree with because I personally couldn't do it but if it works for her let her crack on

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By *eccymanMan over a year ago

Gateshead

I'd be no use to this person as I've done all the contributing to the gene pool I'm doing. Snip snip

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *arry247Couple over a year ago

Wakefield

"Just read a status from a females profile saying "I want to get pregnant"

The profile goes on to read she wants men to ejaculate inside her with no names needed.

How, if serious, can people put themselves at risk like that?"

Just what we like a non judgement thread!

We no nothing about the circumstances of those females making such requests.

They may be in a group of heterosexuals who have tried to get pregnant and cannot for whatever reason.

They may be in a civil partnership or marriage but have been refused access to artificial insemination or have exceeded the number of attempts allowed.

Just because a woman is open and states she wants to get pregnant does not mean she is irresponsible

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I raised this a few weeks ago and voiced my concerns

The usual human rights campaigners telling me it's their choice

Unbelievable

Do you believe it's real though? And is it different to going to a pub and pulling anyone ? Really ?

Yeah I think it's real

I also think it's very wrong

A baby born from no love

Would a guy really be that desperate for a shag ????

My 'opinion' is wrong????

It's supposed to be a discussion "

It means my opinion differs from yours. That's the discussion part. Don'ttake it to heart, might agree on the next thread

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just read a status from a females profile saying "I want to get pregnant"

The profile goes on to read she wants men to ejaculate inside her with no names needed.

How, if serious, can people put themselves at risk like that?

Just what we like a non judgement thread!

We no nothing about the circumstances of those females making such requests.

They may be in a group of heterosexuals who have tried to get pregnant and cannot for whatever reason.

They may be in a civil partnership or marriage but have been refused access to artificial insemination or have exceeded the number of attempts allowed.

Just because a woman is open and states she wants to get pregnant does not mean she is irresponsible

So you'd father a child and walk away????

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If two consenting adults do something legal together then good luck to them. Doesn't affect me or you. "

What a sociopathic view! With a serious lack of morales.

And here was me thinking humans we're the top of the intelligence chain on the planet. What you describe and seem to endorse is no more than an animalistic social morale stance.

Creating life carries a huge level of responsibility. A child s completely innocent and is utterly reliant on its parents and its environment to thrive and grow.

By purposefully creating a child (or not taking the necessary precautions to prevent a child being born) with a complete stranger your are still responsible for that life, wether you take responsibility or not.

What if that stranger is mentally unstable? has psychological issues? Hasn't the ability, intelligence or character? Is an abuser of children? A paedophile or psychotic? Can't provide enough financially, emotionally? You have created that child and left it to that environment and subjected it to abuse!

Just because you can, doesn't mean you should.

Your attitude is indicative as to why society is diving head first into the toilet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I raised this a few weeks ago and voiced my concerns

The usual human rights campaigners telling me it's their choice

Unbelievable

Do you believe it's real though? And is it different to going to a pub and pulling anyone ? Really ?

Yeah I think it's real

I also think it's very wrong

A baby born from no love

Would a guy really be that desperate for a shag ????

My 'opinion' is wrong????

It's supposed to be a discussion

It means my opinion differs from yours. That's the discussion part. Don'ttake it to heart, might agree on the next thread

Ohhhhhh no I won't !!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just read a status from a females profile saying "I want to get pregnant"

The profile goes on to read she wants men to ejaculate inside her with no names needed.

How, if serious, can people put themselves at risk like that?

Just what we like a non judgement thread!

We no nothing about the circumstances of those females making such requests.

They may be in a group of heterosexuals who have tried to get pregnant and cannot for whatever reason.

They may be in a civil partnership or marriage but have been refused access to artificial insemination or have exceeded the number of attempts allowed.

Just because a woman is open and states she wants to get pregnant does not mean she is irresponsible

Neither does it mean she is responsible, or able and without knowing that person well, how can you assess?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If two consenting adults do something legal together then good luck to them. Doesn't affect me or you.

What a sociopathic view! With a serious lack of morales.

And here was me thinking humans we're the top of the intelligence chain on the planet. What you describe and seem to endorse is no more than an animalistic social morale stance.

Creating life carries a huge level of responsibility. A child s completely innocent and is utterly reliant on its parents and its environment to thrive and grow.

Just because you can, doesn't mean you should.

Your attitude is indicative as to why society is diving head first into the toilet"

How do we know that they won't meet the person a number of times and ask lots of questions? Do we know ? No we don't. We are, as usual making massive assumptions.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just read a status from a females profile saying "I want to get pregnant"

The profile goes on to read she wants men to ejaculate inside her with no names needed.

How, if serious, can people put themselves at risk like that?

Just what we like a non judgement thread!

We no nothing about the circumstances of those females making such requests.

They may be in a group of heterosexuals who have tried to get pregnant and cannot for whatever reason.

They may be in a civil partnership or marriage but have been refused access to artificial insemination or have exceeded the number of attempts allowed.

Just because a woman is open and states she wants to get pregnant does not mean she is irresponsible

Neither does it mean she is responsible, or able and without knowing that person well, how can you assess? "

I don't think anyone can really know the motive, however coming on the forum and vilifying said member is a little crass, no? Or has swinging entered a new age of judgement and outrage?

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By *enard ArgenteMan over a year ago

London and France

"I raised this a few weeks ago and voiced my concerns

The usual human rights campaigners telling me it's their choice

Unbelievable

Do you believe it's real though? And is it different to going to a pub and pulling anyone ? Really ?

Yeah I think it's real

I also think it's very wrong

A baby born from no love

Would a guy really be that desperate for a shag ????

My 'opinion' is wrong????

It's supposed to be a discussion "

It's an opinion. That's what opinion is

You opinion is that it's wrong

Others opinion may be that it's right

Others opinion is that it's none of their business.

Opinions are not right or wrong ( unless they are based on incorrect facts.)

None of us know the exact situation of the person. We can only surmise .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If two consenting adults do something legal together then good luck to them. Doesn't affect me or you.

What a sociopathic view! With a serious lack of morales.

And here was me thinking humans we're the top of the intelligence chain on the planet. What you describe and seem to endorse is no more than an animalistic social morale stance.

Creating life carries a huge level of responsibility. A child s completely innocent and is utterly reliant on its parents and its environment to thrive and grow.

Just because you can, doesn't mean you should.

Your attitude is indicative as to why society is diving head first into the toilet"

Perfect

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If two consenting adults do something legal together then good luck to them. Doesn't affect me or you.

What a sociopathic view! With a serious lack of morales.

And here was me thinking humans we're the top of the intelligence chain on the planet. What you describe and seem to endorse is no more than an animalistic social morale stance.

Creating life carries a huge level of responsibility. A child s completely innocent and is utterly reliant on its parents and its environment to thrive and grow.

Just because you can, doesn't mean you should.

Your attitude is indicative as to why society is diving head first into the toilet"

I'm sociopathic, you're judgemental with zero knowledge of the people involved. You say potato I say potahto let's call the whole thing off.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Seen worse.

Been asked for worse.

Not new, not the lowest.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's a breeding fetish, or maybe it isn't. It's their body and if they can find others to join in then that's up to them. Would I do it? Hell no! Is it my place to sit in judgement on them? Hell no! As a very wise person said to me yesterday; not my circus, not my monkeys.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Seen worse.

Been asked for worse.

Not new, not the lowest."

Really? Whats worse than the risk of being impregnated by a diseased psycopathic criminal?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Seen worse.

Been asked for worse.

Not new, not the lowest.

Really? Whats worse than the risk of being impregnated by a diseased psycopathic criminal?"

Or inpregnating a diseased psycopathic crimal

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

Here's an admission..

occasionally i listen to woman's hour on R4 and during one such occasion they did a piece on the levels of children born within a relationship in the UK to another biological father and the figure as i recall was 11%..

that was the historical figure over several decades that the researchers had concluded..

so it does and will go on and the pertinent question for myself would be about how that child was raised after, are they loved, cared for in a stable environment where they can develop etc..

because if they are that's the main issue because as we all know too well there are many that don't have that in their lives sadly..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a breeding fetish, or maybe it isn't. It's their body and if they can find others to join in then that's up to them. Would I do it? Hell no! Is it my place to sit in judgement on them? Hell no! As a very wise person said to me yesterday; not my circus, not my monkeys. "

Spot on. Does me no harm, up to them. At least she's being open about it. Wouldn't be the first woman to pretend to be taking the pill etc to con a man into impregnating her.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Seen worse.

Been asked for worse.

Not new, not the lowest.

Really? Whats worse than the risk of being impregnated by a diseased psycopathic criminal?"

So that's the kind of people on this website is it? Disease ridden crimial psychpathics..... as opposed to the guys having a tu'penny upright down an alley?

Fuck me this site.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So we are all happy that a woman who joins a swinging site and openly advertises the fact she wants to be made pregnant by some random guy who will gladly walk away after he's had his fuck

That this lady has solid morals and is a responsible human being ???

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By *eccymanMan over a year ago

Gateshead

A child should not be produced from the outcome of a swinging fantasy. Castigate me for saying that but my position is clear on this and anyone who sets out to achieve conception through swinging is the absolute wrong person to be a parent.

Parenting is hard enough as it is but conceiving a child without knowing the father's background or family history is fraught with danger.

The father is also responsible financially for the child and what on earth do you tell that child when it grows up and circumstance happens to inform him or her that the 'dad' he or she knew wasn't daddy at all.

This is a human being we're talking about here, not a puppy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Seen worse.

Been asked for worse.

Not new, not the lowest.

Really? Whats worse than the risk of being impregnated by a diseased psycopathic criminal?

So that's the kind of people on this website is it? Disease ridden crimial psychpathics..... as opposed to the guys having a tu'penny upright down an alley?

Fuck me this site.....

Can you tell me that there aren't any?

Why open yourself up to the risk? Is "being a fetish" enough justification for putting a child born with disease at risk?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A child should not be produced from the outcome of a swinging fantasy. Castigate me for saying that but my position is clear on this and anyone who sets out to achieve conception through swinging is the absolute wrong person to be a parent.

Parenting is hard enough as it is but conceiving a child without knowing the father's background or family history is fraught with danger.

This is a human being we're talking about here, not a puppy."

Round of applause

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It means my opinion differs from yours. That's the discussion part. Don'ttake it to heart, might agree on the next thread

Ohhhhhh no I won't !!!!!!!

Wow. You don't even know what the next issue is but you've decided you disagree with me on it. It's about ice cream and I think it's nice.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So we are all happy that a woman who joins a swinging site and openly advertises the fact she wants to be made pregnant by some random guy who will gladly walk away after he's had his fuck

That this lady has solid morals and is a responsible human being ???

I am happy not judging other people....especially as I am on a swinging site having sex with people I barely know; sometimes with their husband present....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Seen worse.

Been asked for worse.

Not new, not the lowest.

Really? Whats worse than the risk of being impregnated by a diseased psycopathic criminal?"

This reads like a daily mail headline! Tea everywhere! If it's meant as a joke then brilliant, if not then I worry what you think of people on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So many spelling mistakes... eek.

Okay why is everyone so judgemental. 7.3 billion people on this planet, how many conceived after a CRB and GUM check?

You have no idea how this woman will "select" her baby father. Yet you assume that she will have no regard for her own sexual health or safety.... whilst I don't condone the woman's approach; I have no right to condemn or imply that a percentage of the members of this site are criminal psychopaths with disease...

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By *enard ArgenteMan over a year ago

London and France

"So we are all happy that a woman who joins a swinging site and openly advertises the fact she wants to be made pregnant by some random guy who will gladly walk away after he's had his fuck

That this lady has solid morals and is a responsible human being ???

Yes, very happy; if she is genuine.

Who has the say on morals? Are you the Archbishop of Canterbury? Or the Pope? Or God?

There are plenty of people " out there" in the real world who would say that everyone on fab have no morals. Eh? Random shagging? NSA?

Terrible. Disgusting. They should be locked away, all of them .

She probably has very high morals.

Just wants a child, but no partner;

Perhaps she is a widow; can't imagine having another love of her life after her husband,

Perhaps her partner is infertile?

Perhaps she is in a same sexy relationship ( oh, of course, that's really disgustingly immoral, too, isn't it ? Perhaps she should be shot for being queer)

What is irresponsible? She probably has a good income, a nice house, loving personality, and will make a fantastic mother.

You are judging something when you know nothing of the real facts.

To be honest, finding someone to inseminate her here is possibly safer than picking up random blokes in pubs; she can assess if the person is " right".

And with artificial insemination ( or is that also "immoral"?) she gets no more than a very basic genetic idea.

If she wants a tall dark handsome child, or an intelligent child then she can pick a tall dark handsome bloke or an intelligent bloke off here and have a chance at hoping his genes follow through.

Get off your high horse.

Or as we say over here:

" Garde-toi tes onions"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just read a status from a females profile saying "I want to get pregnant"

The profile goes on to read she wants men to ejaculate inside her with no names needed.

Did she turn you down....?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So we are all happy that a woman who joins a swinging site and openly advertises the fact she wants to be made pregnant by some random guy who will gladly walk away after he's had his fuck

That this lady has solid morals and is a responsible human being ???

Yes, very happy; if she is genuine.

Who has the say on morals? Are you the Archbishop of Canterbury? Or the Pope? Or God?

There are plenty of people " out there" in the real world who would say that everyone on fab have no morals. Eh? Random shagging? NSA?

Terrible. Disgusting. They should be locked away, all of them .

She probably has very high morals.

Just wants a child, but no partner;

Perhaps she is a widow; can't imagine having another love of her life after her husband,

Perhaps her partner is infertile?

Perhaps she is in a same sexy relationship ( oh, of course, that's really disgustingly immoral, too, isn't it ? Perhaps she should be shot for being queer)

What is irresponsible? She probably has a good income, a nice house, loving personality, and will make a fantastic mother.

You are judging something when you know nothing of the real facts.

To be honest, finding someone to inseminate her here is possibly safer than picking up random blokes in pubs; she can assess if the person is " right".

And with artificial insemination ( or is that also "immoral"?) she gets no more than a very basic genetic idea.

If she wants a tall dark handsome child, or an intelligent child then she can pick a tall dark handsome bloke or an intelligent bloke off here and have a chance at hoping his genes follow through.

Get off your high horse.

Or as we say over here:

" Garde-toi tes onions""

Indeed or people in glass houses shouldn't throw stones, let he who is without sin cast the first stone... There's an awful lot of people throwing rocks... But I think you get my point

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By *eccymanMan over a year ago

Gateshead

"So we are all happy that a woman who joins a swinging site and openly advertises the fact she wants to be made pregnant by some random guy who will gladly walk away after he's had his fuck

That this lady has solid morals and is a responsible human being ???

Yes, very happy; if she is genuine.

Who has the say on morals? Are you the Archbishop of Canterbury? Or the Pope? Or God?

There are plenty of people " out there" in the real world who would say that everyone on fab have no morals. Eh? Random shagging? NSA?

Terrible. Disgusting. They should be locked away, all of them .

She probably has very high morals.

Just wants a child, but no partner;

Perhaps she is a widow; can't imagine having another love of her life after her husband,

Perhaps her partner is infertile?

Perhaps she is in a same sexy relationship ( oh, of course, that's really disgustingly immoral, too, isn't it ? Perhaps she should be shot for being queer)

What is irresponsible? She probably has a good income, a nice house, loving personality, and will make a fantastic mother.

You are judging something when you know nothing of the real facts.

To be honest, finding someone to inseminate her here is possibly safer than picking up random blokes in pubs; she can assess if the person is " right".

And with artificial insemination ( or is that also "immoral"?) she gets no more than a very basic genetic idea.

If she wants a tall dark handsome child, or an intelligent child then she can pick a tall dark handsome bloke or an intelligent bloke off here and have a chance at hoping his genes follow through.

Get off your high horse.

Or as we say over here:

" Garde-toi tes onions""

It is oddly fitting on this occasion that assumption is the mother of all fuck ups.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So we are all happy that a woman who joins a swinging site and openly advertises the fact she wants to be made pregnant by some random guy who will gladly walk away after he's had his fuck

That this lady has solid morals and is a responsible human being ???

Yes, very happy; if she is genuine.

Who has the say on morals? Are you the Archbishop of Canterbury? Or the Pope? Or God?

There are plenty of people " out there" in the real world who would say that everyone on fab have no morals. Eh? Random shagging? NSA?

Terrible. Disgusting. They should be locked away, all of them .

She probably has very high morals.

Just wants a child, but no partner;

Perhaps she is a widow; can't imagine having another love of her life after her husband,

Perhaps her partner is infertile?

Perhaps she is in a same sexy relationship ( oh, of course, that's really disgustingly immoral, too, isn't it ? Perhaps she should be shot for being queer)

What is irresponsible? She probably has a good income, a nice house, loving personality, and will make a fantastic mother.

You are judging something when you know nothing of the real facts.

To be honest, finding someone to inseminate her here is possibly safer than picking up random blokes in pubs; she can assess if the person is " right".

And with artificial insemination ( or is that also "immoral"?) she gets no more than a very basic genetic idea.

If she wants a tall dark handsome child, or an intelligent child then she can pick a tall dark handsome bloke or an intelligent bloke off here and have a chance at hoping his genes follow through.

Get off your high horse.

Or as we say over here:

" Garde-toi tes onions""

Do you have children ?

Oh and thanks for having a really condiscending tone

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Spot on. Does me no harm, up to them. At least she's being open about it. Wouldn't be the first woman to pretend to be taking the pill etc to con a man into impregnating her."

Ahh, so on that ethos Recent terrorist actions and atrocities are perfectly ok then? they've been open and honest about what they've done, and guess by that your sat typing away on this site suggests they've done YOU no harm, all is good?

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

"So we are all happy that a woman who joins a swinging site and openly advertises the fact she wants to be made pregnant by some random guy who will gladly walk away after he's had his fuck

That this lady has solid morals and is a responsible human being ???

Yes, very happy; if she is genuine.

Who has the say on morals? Are you the Archbishop of Canterbury? Or the Pope? Or God?

There are plenty of people " out there" in the real world who would say that everyone on fab have no morals. Eh? Random shagging? NSA?

Terrible. Disgusting. They should be locked away, all of them .

She probably has very high morals.

Just wants a child, but no partner;

Perhaps she is a widow; can't imagine having another love of her life after her husband,

Perhaps her partner is infertile?

Perhaps she is in a same sexy relationship ( oh, of course, that's really disgustingly immoral, too, isn't it ? Perhaps she should be shot for being queer)

What is irresponsible? She probably has a good income, a nice house, loving personality, and will make a fantastic mother.

You are judging something when you know nothing of the real facts.

To be honest, finding someone to inseminate her here is possibly safer than picking up random blokes in pubs; she can assess if the person is " right".

And with artificial insemination ( or is that also "immoral"?) she gets no more than a very basic genetic idea.

If she wants a tall dark handsome child, or an intelligent child then she can pick a tall dark handsome bloke or an intelligent bloke off here and have a chance at hoping his genes follow through.

Get off your high horse.

Or as we say over here:

" Garde-toi tes onions""

largely agree..

although i sort of thought that the God thing would have been raised earlier by some other contributors..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So we are all happy that a woman who joins a swinging site and openly advertises the fact she wants to be made pregnant by some random guy who will gladly walk away after he's had his fuck

That this lady has solid morals and is a responsible human being ???

Yes, very happy; if she is genuine.

Who has the say on morals? Are you the Archbishop of Canterbury? Or the Pope? Or God?

There are plenty of people " out there" in the real world who would say that everyone on fab have no morals. Eh? Random shagging? NSA?

Terrible. Disgusting. They should be locked away, all of them .

She probably has very high morals.

Just wants a child, but no partner;

Perhaps she is a widow; can't imagine having another love of her life after her husband,

Perhaps her partner is infertile?

Perhaps she is in a same sexy relationship ( oh, of course, that's really disgustingly immoral, too, isn't it ? Perhaps she should be shot for being queer)

What is irresponsible? She probably has a good income, a nice house, loving personality, and will make a fantastic mother.

You are judging something when you know nothing of the real facts.

To be honest, finding someone to inseminate her here is possibly safer than picking up random blokes in pubs; she can assess if the person is " right".

And with artificial insemination ( or is that also "immoral"?) she gets no more than a very basic genetic idea.

If she wants a tall dark handsome child, or an intelligent child then she can pick a tall dark handsome bloke or an intelligent bloke off here and have a chance at hoping his genes follow through.

Get off your high horse.

Or as we say over here:

" Garde-toi tes onions"

largely agree..

although i sort of thought that the God thing would have been raised earlier by some other contributors..

Yep agree as well. But I don't understand taking risks with your health. Surely we all want to stay safe until we know its all clean, right?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Spot on. Does me no harm, up to them. At least she's being open about it. Wouldn't be the first woman to pretend to be taking the pill etc to con a man into impregnating her.

Well that's quite a leap. From a lass looking to conceive a child to mass murder....

Enter The Strawman:: Tremendously exaggerating your opponent’s position and then claiming to fight against a position they don’t hold is always a great way to dodge the issues.

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By *enard ArgenteMan over a year ago

London and France

"So we are all happy that a woman who joins a swinging site and openly advertises the fact she wants to be made pregnant by some random guy who will gladly walk away after he's had his fuck

That this lady has solid morals and is a responsible human being ???

Yes, very happy; if she is genuine.

Who has the say on morals? Are you the Archbishop of Canterbury? Or the Pope? Or God?

There are plenty of people " out there" in the real world who would say that everyone on fab have no morals. Eh? Random shagging? NSA?

Terrible. Disgusting. They should be locked away, all of them .

She probably has very high morals.

Just wants a child, but no partner;

Perhaps she is a widow; can't imagine having another love of her life after her husband,

Perhaps her partner is infertile?

Perhaps she is in a same sexy relationship ( oh, of course, that's really disgustingly immoral, too, isn't it ? Perhaps she should be shot for being queer)

What is irresponsible? She probably has a good income, a nice house, loving personality, and will make a fantastic mother.

You are judging something when you know nothing of the real facts.

To be honest, finding someone to inseminate her here is possibly safer than picking up random blokes in pubs; she can assess if the person is " right".

And with artificial insemination ( or is that also "immoral"?) she gets no more than a very basic genetic idea.

If she wants a tall dark handsome child, or an intelligent child then she can pick a tall dark handsome bloke or an intelligent bloke off here and have a chance at hoping his genes follow through.

Get off your high horse.

Or as we say over here:

" Garde-toi tes onions"

largely agree..

although i sort of thought that the God thing would have been raised earlier by some other contributors..

Yep agree as well. But I don't understand taking risks with your health. Surely we all want to stay safe until we know its all clean, right?

That's a risk assessment that individuals must make.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Spot on. Does me no harm, up to them. At least she's being open about it. Wouldn't be the first woman to pretend to be taking the pill etc to con a man into impregnating her.

I don't think you can assume that because peoole are not judging the actions of this woman, which will have no consequences for ANY OF US, they we all agree with someone strapping a bomb to themselves and blowing up a load of innocents...

I think the problem here is that some people are judging this woman and what she does with her body as if they have a right to do that...

Some people assume that she is impoverished, a chat and that she has limited intelligence... because they watch toouch Jeremy Kyle...

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

"So we are all happy that a woman who joins a swinging site and openly advertises the fact she wants to be made pregnant by some random guy who will gladly walk away after he's had his fuck

That this lady has solid morals and is a responsible human being ???

Yes, very happy; if she is genuine.

Who has the say on morals? Are you the Archbishop of Canterbury? Or the Pope? Or God?

There are plenty of people " out there" in the real world who would say that everyone on fab have no morals. Eh? Random shagging? NSA?

Terrible. Disgusting. They should be locked away, all of them .

She probably has very high morals.

Just wants a child, but no partner;

Perhaps she is a widow; can't imagine having another love of her life after her husband,

Perhaps her partner is infertile?

Perhaps she is in a same sexy relationship ( oh, of course, that's really disgustingly immoral, too, isn't it ? Perhaps she should be shot for being queer)

What is irresponsible? She probably has a good income, a nice house, loving personality, and will make a fantastic mother.

You are judging something when you know nothing of the real facts.

To be honest, finding someone to inseminate her here is possibly safer than picking up random blokes in pubs; she can assess if the person is " right".

And with artificial insemination ( or is that also "immoral"?) she gets no more than a very basic genetic idea.

If she wants a tall dark handsome child, or an intelligent child then she can pick a tall dark handsome bloke or an intelligent bloke off here and have a chance at hoping his genes follow through.

Get off your high horse.

Or as we say over here:

" Garde-toi tes onions"

largely agree..

although i sort of thought that the God thing would have been raised earlier by some other contributors..

Yep agree as well. But I don't understand taking risks with your health. Surely we all want to stay safe until we know its all clean, right?

i think when it comes to what is for some NSA sex the only thing one can do is treat all others as if they may not be so 'clean' and look after ones own sexual health..

may sound a bit harsh but similar to if one cycles or has rode a motorbike, assume every other road user has you in their sights and ride accordingly..

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By *enard ArgenteMan over a year ago

London and France

"So we are all happy that a woman who joins a swinging site and openly advertises the fact she wants to be made pregnant by some random guy who will gladly walk away after he's had his fuck

That this lady has solid morals and is a responsible human being ???

Yes, very happy; if she is genuine.

Who has the say on morals? Are you the Archbishop of Canterbury? Or the Pope? Or God?

There are plenty of people " out there" in the real world who would say that everyone on fab have no morals. Eh? Random shagging? NSA?

Terrible. Disgusting. They should be locked away, all of them .

She probably has very high morals.

Just wants a child, but no partner;

Perhaps she is a widow; can't imagine having another love of her life after her husband,

Perhaps her partner is infertile?

Perhaps she is in a same sexy relationship ( oh, of course, that's really disgustingly immoral, too, isn't it ? Perhaps she should be shot for being queer)

What is irresponsible? She probably has a good income, a nice house, loving personality, and will make a fantastic mother.

You are judging something when you know nothing of the real facts.

To be honest, finding someone to inseminate her here is possibly safer than picking up random blokes in pubs; she can assess if the person is " right".

And with artificial insemination ( or is that also "immoral"?) she gets no more than a very basic genetic idea.

If she wants a tall dark handsome child, or an intelligent child then she can pick a tall dark handsome bloke or an intelligent bloke off here and have a chance at hoping his genes follow through.

Get off your high horse.

Or as we say over here:

" Garde-toi tes onions"

Do you have children ?

Oh and thanks for having a really condiscending tone "

Glad you appreciate it.

( condescending, BTW).

You earned it by your moralising tone; and by assuming that your opinion was the only one that was correct:

And by moralising on something you know nothing about, nor do you know the woman's actual circumstances.

And by the way, I have two single mother freinds, successful in their careers, who did exactly this, and their children have no idea who their fathers are. And who are themselves beautiful, well adjusted, successful young people.

Contrasted with some divorcees, who had their children " properly", whose children have been severely damaged by the marital issues and divorces.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's nothing new. Ether they like bareback as already said or possibly just genuinely desperate for kids who knows. Could also be shock value I suppose "

Agree with the latter comment

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What bothers you more....the bareback or she wants to get pregnant x"

They aren't mutually exclusive

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Who has the say on morals? Are you the Archbishop of Canterbury? Or the Pope? Or God?" Society has the say, as evolved creatures we have morales and use them and work them into our social interaction. Also the humans rights act is based on morale standing and understanding, or should we just lose that act and let everyone do what they wish without worry or care? What an awesome world and society that would be eh????

"There are plenty of people " out there" in the real world who would say that everyone on fab have no morals. Eh? Random shagging? NSA?

Terrible. Disgusting. They should be locked away, all of them ." Swinging involves consenting adults that does not affect or involve other people at all, when done the right way with the right ethos of course.

"She probably has very high morals." Equally possible she probably hasn't.

"Just wants a child, but no partner;" I know a few paedophiles who feel the same.

"she is a widow; can't imagine having another love of her life after her husband," she's part of an organised paedophile ring.

"Perhaps her partner is infertile?" Perhaps her partner is an abusive d*unk?

"Perhaps she is in a same sexy relationship ( oh, of course, that's really disgustingly immoral, too, isn't it ? Perhaps she should be shot for being queer)" Perhaps she isn't?

"What is irresponsible?" having an obligation to do something, or having control over or care for someone, as part of one's job or role.

"the cabinet minister responsible for Education"

synonyms: in charge of, in control of, at the helm of, accountable for, liable for, charged with; More

being the primary cause of something and so able to be blamed or credited for it.

"Gooch was responsible for 198 of his side's 542 runs"

synonyms: accountable, answerable, to blame; More

"She probably has a good income, a nice house, loving personality, and will make a fantastic mother." She equally probably piss poor, on state benefit, living in squalor, emotionally damaged from years of an abusive relationship or childhood, who only wants a baby to find unconditional love because she hasn't had it, but completely incapable of looking after a child, and doesn't really care how she does that hoping to find a horny man who doesn't care about creating a life and abandoning it to fate.

"You are judging something when you know nothing of the real facts." You are endorsing an act without knowing the facts, but seem to think it's ok that such facts are likely to be ignored when creating a life.

"To be honest, finding someone to inseminate her here is possibly safer than picking up random blokes in pubs; she can assess if the person is " right". " Disagree, meeting someone face to face and having actual social interaction with someone is far easier to assess suitability than from some words on a screen.

"And with artificial insemination ( or is that also "immoral"?) she gets no more than a very basic genetic idea." But she will be assessed for suitability as a parent.

"If she wants a tall dark handsome child, or an intelligent child then she can pick a tall dark handsome bloke or an intelligent bloke off here and have a chance at hoping his genes follow through.

Get off your high horse.

Or as we say over here:

" Garde-toi tes onions""

"conscience sociale"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Really never understood any bloke that can father a child and happily walk away from all that.."

Exactly, the poor bastard would have an irresponsible father and probably a very selfish mother. Great start to life.

Yes it does effect me because I'm a taxpayer and we end up paying for the bottom of society which is usually where people with traumatic childhoods end up.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So we are all happy that a woman who joins a swinging site and openly advertises the fact she wants to be made pregnant by some random guy who will gladly walk away after he's had his fuck

That this lady has solid morals and is a responsible human being ???

Yes, very happy; if she is genuine.

Who has the say on morals? Are you the Archbishop of Canterbury? Or the Pope? Or God?

There are plenty of people " out there" in the real world who would say that everyone on fab have no morals. Eh? Random shagging? NSA?

Terrible. Disgusting. They should be locked away, all of them .

She probably has very high morals.

Just wants a child, but no partner;

Perhaps she is a widow; can't imagine having another love of her life after her husband,

Perhaps her partner is infertile?

Perhaps she is in a same sexy relationship ( oh, of course, that's really disgustingly immoral, too, isn't it ? Perhaps she should be shot for being queer)

What is irresponsible? She probably has a good income, a nice house, loving personality, and will make a fantastic mother.

You are judging something when you know nothing of the real facts.

To be honest, finding someone to inseminate her here is possibly safer than picking up random blokes in pubs; she can assess if the person is " right".

And with artificial insemination ( or is that also "immoral"?) she gets no more than a very basic genetic idea.

If she wants a tall dark handsome child, or an intelligent child then she can pick a tall dark handsome bloke or an intelligent bloke off here and have a chance at hoping his genes follow through.

Get off your high horse.

Or as we say over here:

" Garde-toi tes onions"

Do you have children ?

Oh and thanks for having a really condiscending tone

Glad you appreciate it.

( condescending, BTW).

You earned it by your moralising tone; and by assuming that your opinion was the only one that was correct:

And by moralising on something you know nothing about, nor do you know the woman's actual circumstances.

Contrasted with some divorcees, who had their children " properly", whose children have been severely damaged by the marital issues and divorces.

Funnily enough

Through your wordy nonsense you chose not to answer my question

Yes it's my opinion and my opinion is just this

You have yours

However there is also a moral issue here

I am sure your friends have done a fabulous job raising these children

But they missed out on having not a father but a 'dad'

Massive difference

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By *arry247Couple over a year ago

Wakefield

Parenting is hard enough as it is but conceiving a child without knowing the father's background or family history is fraught with danger.

This is a human being we're talking about here, not a puppy."

We do not know if those women asking to be made pregnant are indulging in a swinging fantasy as you put it.

As we stated in an earlier post she could be part of a childless couple desperate for a child who the NHS have been unable to help.

We do not know.

The man who provides the sperm to father the child does not have to be part of the child’s life, many couples have children by artificial insemination and the child is brought up in a stable family relationship.

A mother in those circumstances knows nothing about the donor’s background or family history.

Many children are told daily that the 'dad' he or she knew wasn't daddy at all, it takes more that sperm to be a 'dad' to a child, the sperm donor is just that a sperm donor.

When we married we had been courting long distance for about two years we actually knew very little about each other and had only spent a total of about two weeks in each others company over that time.

We are still happily married 36 years later with adult children.

If we had listened to your argument our children would not be here today, life is not as simple or as perfect as some here imagine.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Spot on. Does me no harm, up to them. At least she's being open about it. Wouldn't be the first woman to pretend to be taking the pill etc to con a man into impregnating her.

Well that's quite a leap. From a lass looking to conceive a child to mass murder....

Enter The Strawman:: Tremendously exaggerating your opponent’s position and then claiming to fight against a position they don’t hold is always a great way to dodge the issues.

Not at all, it carries the same ethos to which you are suggesting is ok. I see can't argue against the point though, just criticise the manner in which the debate is conducted against you, which is also indicative that you can't summon an intelligent retort to the contrary.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Spot on. Does me no harm, up to them. At least she's being open about it. Wouldn't be the first woman to pretend to be taking the pill etc to con a man into impregnating her.

Well that's quite a leap. From a lass looking to conceive a child to mass murder....

Enter The Strawman:: Tremendously exaggerating your opponent’s position and then claiming to fight against a position they don’t hold is always a great way to dodge the issues.

Are we not debating to your rules of debate in a way that you can't argue against our point? Awe diddums, shall we pick that dummy up for you you just threw out the pram?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Spot on. Does me no harm, up to them. At least she's being open about it. Wouldn't be the first woman to pretend to be taking the pill etc to con a man into impregnating her.

Well that's quite a leap. From a lass looking to conceive a child to mass murder....

Enter The Strawman:: Tremendously exaggerating your opponent’s position and then claiming to fight against a position they don’t hold is always a great way to dodge the issues.

Are we not debating to your rules of debate in a way that you can't argue against our point? Awe diddums, shall we pick that dummy up for you you just threw out the pram?

Mature

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

there is a shit load of assumptions being put out about people who choose a lifestyle choice which we know fuck all about..

making further assumptions to support them are equally without foundation..

the circumstances that lead some people to go down that avenue and the circumstances that they may have taken into account for after may be all well and good for them and any child that may result, financially, emotionally etc..

we don't live in a perfect world and people are not perfect in their choices which ironically includes each and every one of us when one (and others) starts to judge other's based on ones own personal morals..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My issue here is using a swinging site to raise a child without a father

Is she wants a child but no father surely there are alternative routes to go down

Visit a gp

Family planning

Adoption

That way

She is vetted for suitability

As is the donor

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By *illwill69uMan over a year ago

moston

"there is a shit load of assumptions being put out about people who choose a lifestyle choice which we know fuck all about..

making further assumptions to support them are equally without foundation..

Indeed! In fact I would say for anyone to denounce someone for being open and honest about their wish to get pregnant is the real low here. OP, what would you rather the lady do, deceive those who contact her and potentially con someone into fathering her child?

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By *enard ArgenteMan over a year ago

London and France

"So we are all happy that a woman who joins a swinging site and openly advertises the fact she wants to be made pregnant by some random guy who will gladly walk away after he's had his fuck

That this lady has solid morals and is a responsible human being ???

Yes, very happy; if she is genuine.

Who has the say on morals? Are you the Archbishop of Canterbury? Or the Pope? Or God?

There are plenty of people " out there" in the real world who would say that everyone on fab have no morals. Eh? Random shagging? NSA?

Terrible. Disgusting. They should be locked away, all of them .

She probably has very high morals.

Just wants a child, but no partner;

Perhaps she is a widow; can't imagine having another love of her life after her husband,

Perhaps her partner is infertile?

Perhaps she is in a same sexy relationship ( oh, of course, that's really disgustingly immoral, too, isn't it ? Perhaps she should be shot for being queer)

What is irresponsible? She probably has a good income, a nice house, loving personality, and will make a fantastic mother.

You are judging something when you know nothing of the real facts.

To be honest, finding someone to inseminate her here is possibly safer than picking up random blokes in pubs; she can assess if the person is " right".

And with artificial insemination ( or is that also "immoral"?) she gets no more than a very basic genetic idea.

If she wants a tall dark handsome child, or an intelligent child then she can pick a tall dark handsome bloke or an intelligent bloke off here and have a chance at hoping his genes follow through.

Get off your high horse.

Or as we say over here:

" Garde-toi tes onions"

Do you have children ?

Oh and thanks for having a really condiscending tone

Glad you appreciate it.

( condescending, BTW).

You earned it by your moralising tone; and by assuming that your opinion was the only one that was correct:

And by moralising on something you know nothing about, nor do you know the woman's actual circumstances.

Contrasted with some divorcees, who had their children " properly", whose children have been severely damaged by the marital issues and divorces.

Funnily enough

Through your wordy nonsense you chose not to answer my question

Yes it's my opinion and my opinion is just this

You have yours

However there is also a moral issue here

I am sure your friends have done a fabulous job raising these children

But they missed out on having not a father but a 'dad'

Massive difference "

Just to not answer your question; it is irrelevant to the debate whether I have children or not. And none of your business. Hence why I am not discussing that point.

As usual, there are people making assumptions and moralising and judging a person and situation about whom and which they know nothing.

And there are reasonable people who accept that there are many possible explanations;and thus a judgement cannot be made.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"there is a shit load of assumptions being put out about people who choose a lifestyle choice which we know fuck all about..

making further assumptions to support them are equally without foundation..

I want to commit crimes that will affect people's lives forever

It's ok

I'm being open and honest

So it's acceptable

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Are we not debating to your rules of debate in a way that you can't argue against our point? Awe diddums, shall we pick that dummy up for you you just threw out the pram?"

Oh dear, name calling now, we really have it the bottom of the barrel haven't we?

Knowing nothing about the lass, we can't judge. She's capable of having a baby another way from a one night stand at any time as all women are. She's chosen to try get to know her one night stand beforehand, which suggests pre thought and an intelligent approach, as well as informing the prospective father what the situation and circumstances are. An indication of honesty and integrity.

Not for me, and not for me to judge.

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By *enard ArgenteMan over a year ago

London and France

"there is a shit load of assumptions being put out about people who choose a lifestyle choice which we know fuck all about..

making further assumptions to support them are equally without foundation..

I want to commit crimes that will affect people's lives forever

It's ok

I'm being open and honest

So it's acceptable "

So you want to commit crimes?

Then that is a criminal ( thus socially immoral) act. Crime is not socially acceptable.

The lady is not contemplating committing a crime. ( last time I looked, it wasn't a crime to have children)

Now you are using a common tactic of conflating two different things as one.

And comparing committing crime to a personal lifestyle ( and non- criminal) choice .

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

What if that stranger is mentally unstable? has psychological issues? Hasn't the ability, intelligence or character? Is an abuser of children? A paedophile or psychotic? "

If I had to use a sperm donor to get pregnant I would want screening for genetic illnesses at the very least, and preferably a thorough background check.

But who knows what the story is here - too little information to make any kind of judgement.

And however low you think something is on fabs, I guarantee you you will see something lower, just give it time.

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By *oncupiscentTonyMan over a year ago

Kent

Does seem a bit grotty though, whichever way you look at it

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By *ngel n tedCouple over a year ago

maidstone

there's nothing like a bareback breeding grenade tossed into the forum for maximum moral combustion

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By *inaTitzTV/TS over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

there's nothing like a bareback breeding grenade tossed into the forum for maximum moral combustion

Anyone got an opinion on whether the EU/UKIP have any position on this?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

there's nothing like a bareback breeding grenade tossed into the forum for maximum moral combustion

Anyone got an opinion on whether the EU/UKIP have any position on this?

Not sure

But I'm starting a 'shake it all about' group

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What a crap thread

"Someone doesn't live up to my moral ideals and therefore are the "lowest" form of human.....

Live and let live, don't like, walk away? Don't like that other people don't judge? Walk away. Don't make a thread condemning a person that absolutely nobody knows (in this thread) and then assume that because you hold this "moral" highground, people will form a shield wall around you.

We get it, you don't like someone having freedom over their own body, fine, you don't like that they are honest enough to post that in a status message, fine.......

Resulting to insults a) about the woman in question and b0 about people that do not judge said woman, says a lot more about how "low" this website has become. Lets kick the people that don't wish to "defend" themselves (god knows why they would have to) and compare them to terrorists.....

Theirs morals and theirs stupidity, normally by shouting about the former, one exposes the latter...

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By *ngel n tedCouple over a year ago

maidstone

there's nothing like a bareback breeding grenade tossed into the forum for maximum moral combustion

Anyone got an opinion on whether the EU/UKIP have any position on this?

From behind? Some maybe standing around flapping the old boy around, waiting there turn

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What a crap thread

"Someone doesn't live up to my moral ideals and therefore are the "lowest" form of human.....

We get it, you don't like someone having freedom over their own body, fine, you don't like that they are honest enough to post that in a status message, fine.......

Theirs morals and theirs stupidity, normally by shouting about the former, one exposes the latter..."

This is why we need an applause smiley. Three thumbs up will have to do.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So we are all happy that a woman who joins a swinging site and openly advertises the fact she wants to be made pregnant by some random guy who will gladly walk away after he's had his fuck

That this lady has solid morals and is a responsible human being ???

Ecstatic!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What a crap thread

"Someone doesn't live up to my moral ideals and therefore are the "lowest" form of human.....

We get it, you don't like someone having freedom over their own body, fine, you don't like that they are honest enough to post that in a status message, fine.......

Theirs morals and theirs stupidity, normally by shouting about the former, one exposes the latter...

This is why we need an applause smiley. Three thumbs up will have to do.

AI spelt "there's" as "theirs" fcuk knows why, no applause for poor spelling, I am so ashamed..

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By *uited staffs guyMan over a year ago

staffordshire

"Just read a status from a females profile saying "I want to get pregnant"

The profile goes on to read she wants men to ejaculate inside her with no names needed.

How, if serious, can people put themselves at risk like that?"

You've clearly never been out of a Saturday night in most British cities - this sort of stuff goes on all the time and has done for years!

Indeed popular Swedish pop combo 'Ace of Bass' once wrote a hit song about it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So we are all happy that a woman who joins a swinging site and openly advertises the fact she wants to be made pregnant by some random guy who will gladly walk away after he's had his fuck

That this lady has solid morals and is a responsible human being ???

Ecstatic!

I know this is controversial, but swinging site.....moral judgement.....? So....... fucking someone elses wife? thats okay is it?

This place be getting all twisty...... the woman is being honest and for that, she is being slated...... I always thought honesty was the highest moral....

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman over a year ago

Lyndhurst

you get all sorts on here, nothing surprises me.

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By *herbert fountainWoman over a year ago

Hanley

Has anyone considered the option that she may be on the pill but indulging guys who have a breeding fetish?

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By *rinking-in-laCouple over a year ago

Bristol

"I raised this a few weeks ago and voiced my concerns

The usual human rights campaigners telling me it's their choice

Unbelievable "

Aye, much better to tell people what they can and cannot do with their bodies. That will make everything better.

Not everyone sees the world in the same way. People who disagree with you are not wrong. They are different.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Cheaper than IVF and they are cutting it down on the nhs x

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By *rinking-in-laCouple over a year ago

Bristol

"Does seem a bit grotty though, whichever way you look at it"

Only to you and those who share your views. Even if they are in the majority, it doesn't mean that any other views are wrong.

I would never carry out what the post in question was requesting as I don't like it. But that only means that I and she are of differing opinions. It does not mean that opinions which differ to mine are wrong or their holders are inferior. Just different. No one is getting harmed.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Does seem a bit grotty though, whichever way you look at it"

I'm sure there are plenty of people who say the same of swingers. It's a question of them not knowing who and what they're talking about.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love the phrase

'No one is getting harmed'

Just a fatherless child

No biggy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I love the phrase

'No one is getting harmed'

Just a fatherless child

No biggy"

Single mum here dad walked away x

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"I love the phrase

'No one is getting harmed'

Just a fatherless child

No biggy"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I raised this a few weeks ago and voiced my concerns

The usual human rights campaigners telling me it's their choice

Unbelievable

Do you believe it's real though? And is it different to going to a pub and pulling anyone ? Really ?

Yeah I think it's real

I also think it's very wrong

A baby born from no love

Would a guy really be that desperate for a shag ????"

I wasn't born out of love but I am loved. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There are so many fakes on here it's in real! And some 'genuine types' have more than one profile !?! This is probably old news to you guys in this forum.... but yes this site sometimes it is shocking. I recently arranged a meet with someone who revealed to me ( just before the meet ) she was in fact 11 weeks pregnant! Off course I declined her offer but things like this raise serious questions. Is there more fab can do to prevent things like this happening in future??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Parenting is hard enough as it is but conceiving a child without knowing the father's background or family history is fraught with danger.

This is a human being we're talking about here, not a puppy."

So where does that put adopted children???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

people seem a bit too non-judgmental onhere at times

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

just saying

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Parenting is hard enough as it is but conceiving a child without knowing the father's background or family history is fraught with danger.

This is a human being we're talking about here, not a puppy.

So where does that put adopted children???"

Adopted children don't appear in Utopia where ALL children are planned and conceived by two people that will stay together until the turning of the world......

The judgement in this thread, backed up by alarmist and insulting comparisons is beyond the pale...

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

"people seem a bit too non-judgmental onhere at times

i wouldn't assume that to be the case i would suggest that some who appear to come across that way will have a view on most things but will reserve judgement till they know more..

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By *eccymanMan over a year ago

Gateshead

Parenting is hard enough as it is but conceiving a child without knowing the father's background or family history is fraught with danger.

This is a human being we're talking about here, not a puppy.

So where does that put adopted children???"

I fail to see any synergy between adopted children and what we're discussing on this thread.

I'm sure the adoption service carry out background checks on the children they are placing with families where possible as well as checks on the prospective parents.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Really never understood any bloke that can father a child and happily walk away from all that..

Exactly, the poor bastard would have an irresponsible father and probably a very selfish mother. Great start to life.

Yes it does effect me because I'm a taxpayer and we end up paying for the bottom of society which is usually where people with traumatic childhoods end up. "

Thanks for that insite. I assume your perfect?

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"people seem a bit too non-judgmental onhere at times

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Rite I'm outta this thread! Think carfully boys and girls about what you type before you type it cos NONE OF YOU no each others backgrounds.

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By *nleashedCrakenMan over a year ago

Widnes

"I raised this a few weeks ago and voiced my concerns

The usual human rights campaigners telling me it's their choice

Unbelievable "

So what you suggest be done then?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Parenting is hard enough as it is but conceiving a child without knowing the father's background or family history is fraught with danger.

This is a human being we're talking about here, not a puppy.

So where does that put adopted children???

Adopted children don't appear in Utopia where ALL children are planned and conceived by two people that will stay together until the turning of the world......

The judgement in this thread, backed up by alarmist and insulting comparisons is beyond the pale..."

xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I raised this a few weeks ago and voiced my concerns

The usual human rights campaigners telling me it's their choice

Unbelievable

So what you suggest be done then?"

https://youtu.be/yI2oS2hoL0k

Obviously.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Parenting is hard enough as it is but conceiving a child without knowing the father's background or family history is fraught with danger.

This is a human being we're talking about here, not a puppy.

So where does that put adopted children???

I fail to see any synergy between adopted children and what we're discussing on this thread.

I'm sure the adoption service carry out background checks on the children they are placing with families where possible as well as checks on the prospective parents. "

My point is adopted children don't know thier backgrounds either.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I raised this a few weeks ago and voiced my concerns

The usual human rights campaigners telling me it's their choice

Unbelievable

So what you suggest be done then?"

Oh I think not using a swinging site to find a donor would be a reasonable start

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I see the terminally offended are out in force today.

Stupid woman, stupid fetish.

Stupid getting offended over some strangers weird ideas.

Lots of stupid about today!

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By *nleashedCrakenMan over a year ago

Widnes

"See what I mean "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"See what I mean

No"

Great input into the debate

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So we are all happy that a woman who joins a swinging site and openly advertises the fact she wants to be made pregnant by some random guy who will gladly walk away after he's had his fuck

That this lady has solid morals and is a responsible human being ???

Yes, very happy; if she is genuine.

Who has the say on morals? Are you the Archbishop of Canterbury? Or the Pope? Or God?

There are plenty of people " out there" in the real world who would say that everyone on fab have no morals. Eh? Random shagging? NSA?

Terrible. Disgusting. They should be locked away, all of them .

She probably has very high morals.

Just wants a child, but no partner;

Perhaps she is a widow; can't imagine having another love of her life after her husband,

Perhaps her partner is infertile?

Perhaps she is in a same sexy relationship ( oh, of course, that's really disgustingly immoral, too, isn't it ? Perhaps she should be shot for being queer)

What is irresponsible? She probably has a good income, a nice house, loving personality, and will make a fantastic mother.

You are judging something when you know nothing of the real facts.

To be honest, finding someone to inseminate her here is possibly safer than picking up random blokes in pubs; she can assess if the person is " right".

And with artificial insemination ( or is that also "immoral"?) she gets no more than a very basic genetic idea.

If she wants a tall dark handsome child, or an intelligent child then she can pick a tall dark handsome bloke or an intelligent bloke off here and have a chance at hoping his genes follow through.

Get off your high horse.

Or as we say over here:

" Garde-toi tes onions"

Do you have children ?

Oh and thanks for having a really condiscending tone

Glad you appreciate it.

( condescending, BTW).

You earned it by your moralising tone; and by assuming that your opinion was the only one that was correct:

And by moralising on something you know nothing about, nor do you know the woman's actual circumstances.

Contrasted with some divorcees, who had their children " properly", whose children have been severely damaged by the marital issues and divorces.

Funnily enough

Through your wordy nonsense you chose not to answer my question

Yes it's my opinion and my opinion is just this

You have yours

However there is also a moral issue here

I am sure your friends have done a fabulous job raising these children

But they missed out on having not a father but a 'dad'

Massive difference "

Bullshit! Dad father are just words! Names! Nothing to do with how children are brought up. Put your Clinton cards mug away!

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By *nleashedCrakenMan over a year ago

Widnes

"I raised this a few weeks ago and voiced my concerns

The usual human rights campaigners telling me it's their choice

Unbelievable

Do you believe it's real though? And is it different to going to a pub and pulling anyone ? Really ?

Yeah I think it's real

I also think it's very wrong

A baby born from no love

Would a guy really be that desperate for a shag ????

My 'opinion' is wrong????

It's supposed to be a discussion "

In mine and many other peoples opinion it is. If we all agreed with your opinion there would be no discussion. You're entitled to your opinion and you're entitled to express it but equally we are entitled to ours and our opinion is that your opinion is wrong. And we are equally entitled to say so.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So we are all happy that a woman who joins a swinging site and openly advertises the fact she wants to be made pregnant by some random guy who will gladly walk away after he's had his fuck

That this lady has solid morals and is a responsible human being ???

Yes, very happy; if she is genuine.

Who has the say on morals? Are you the Archbishop of Canterbury? Or the Pope? Or God?

There are plenty of people " out there" in the real world who would say that everyone on fab have no morals. Eh? Random shagging? NSA?

Terrible. Disgusting. They should be locked away, all of them .

She probably has very high morals.

Just wants a child, but no partner;

Perhaps she is a widow; can't imagine having another love of her life after her husband,

Perhaps her partner is infertile?

Perhaps she is in a same sexy relationship ( oh, of course, that's really disgustingly immoral, too, isn't it ? Perhaps she should be shot for being queer)

What is irresponsible? She probably has a good income, a nice house, loving personality, and will make a fantastic mother.

You are judging something when you know nothing of the real facts.

To be honest, finding someone to inseminate her here is possibly safer than picking up random blokes in pubs; she can assess if the person is " right".

And with artificial insemination ( or is that also "immoral"?) she gets no more than a very basic genetic idea.

If she wants a tall dark handsome child, or an intelligent child then she can pick a tall dark handsome bloke or an intelligent bloke off here and have a chance at hoping his genes follow through.

Get off your high horse.

Or as we say over here:

" Garde-toi tes onions"

Do you have children ?

Oh and thanks for having a really condiscending tone

Glad you appreciate it.

( condescending, BTW).

You earned it by your moralising tone; and by assuming that your opinion was the only one that was correct:

And by moralising on something you know nothing about, nor do you know the woman's actual circumstances.

Contrasted with some divorcees, who had their children " properly", whose children have been severely damaged by the marital issues and divorces.

Funnily enough

Through your wordy nonsense you chose not to answer my question

Yes it's my opinion and my opinion is just this

You have yours

However there is also a moral issue here

I am sure your friends have done a fabulous job raising these children

But they missed out on having not a father but a 'dad'

Massive difference

Bullshit! Dad father are just words! Names! Nothing to do with how children are brought up. Put your Clinton cards mug away!"

A father is the donor

A dad is the man who brings his children up

I'm a dad

Not a father

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Are we not debating to your rules of debate in a way that you can't argue against our point? Awe diddums, shall we pick that dummy up for you you just threw out the pram?

Oh dear, name calling now, we really have it the bottom of the barrel haven't we?

Not for me, and not for me to judge."

Which is far more than some baby get. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So we are all happy that a woman who joins a swinging site and openly advertises the fact she wants to be made pregnant by some random guy who will gladly walk away after he's had his fuck

That this lady has solid morals and is a responsible human being ???

Yes, very happy; if she is genuine.

Who has the say on morals? Are you the Archbishop of Canterbury? Or the Pope? Or God?

There are plenty of people " out there" in the real world who would say that everyone on fab have no morals. Eh? Random shagging? NSA?

Terrible. Disgusting. They should be locked away, all of them .

She probably has very high morals.

Just wants a child, but no partner;

Perhaps she is a widow; can't imagine having another love of her life after her husband,

Perhaps her partner is infertile?

Perhaps she is in a same sexy relationship ( oh, of course, that's really disgustingly immoral, too, isn't it ? Perhaps she should be shot for being queer)

What is irresponsible? She probably has a good income, a nice house, loving personality, and will make a fantastic mother.

You are judging something when you know nothing of the real facts.

To be honest, finding someone to inseminate her here is possibly safer than picking up random blokes in pubs; she can assess if the person is " right".

And with artificial insemination ( or is that also "immoral"?) she gets no more than a very basic genetic idea.

If she wants a tall dark handsome child, or an intelligent child then she can pick a tall dark handsome bloke or an intelligent bloke off here and have a chance at hoping his genes follow through.

Get off your high horse.

Or as we say over here:

" Garde-toi tes onions"

Do you have children ?

Oh and thanks for having a really condiscending tone

Glad you appreciate it.

( condescending, BTW).

You earned it by your moralising tone; and by assuming that your opinion was the only one that was correct:

And by moralising on something you know nothing about, nor do you know the woman's actual circumstances.

Contrasted with some divorcees, who had their children " properly", whose children have been severely damaged by the marital issues and divorces.

Funnily enough

Through your wordy nonsense you chose not to answer my question

Yes it's my opinion and my opinion is just this

You have yours

However there is also a moral issue here

I am sure your friends have done a fabulous job raising these children

But they missed out on having not a father but a 'dad'

Massive difference

Bullshit! Dad father are just words! Names! Nothing to do with how children are brought up. Put your Clinton cards mug away!

A father is the donor

A dad is the man who brings his children up

I'm a dad

Not a father "

Ok I'll phone my dad/father n tell him he ain't my dad/father cos he didn't create me!!!!!!

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

"I raised this a few weeks ago and voiced my concerns

The usual human rights campaigners telling me it's their choice

Unbelievable

So what you suggest be done then?

Oh I think not using a swinging site to find a donor would be a reasonable start "

why?

is it any more to your preference than a pub, club etc..

some people who choose to use a 'stranger' for this may not be able to afford or wish to have their details on the public record by using some of the options you have referred to..

the issue seems to be on the act of conception and that there is not some nirvana type environment at that point and its the later stages in that child's life and how they are raised in a secure, loving environment that is what will matter most for them in their lives..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So we are all happy that a woman who joins a swinging site and openly advertises the fact she wants to be made pregnant by some random guy who will gladly walk away after he's had his fuck

That this lady has solid morals and is a responsible human being ???

Yes, very happy; if she is genuine.

Who has the say on morals? Are you the Archbishop of Canterbury? Or the Pope? Or God?

There are plenty of people " out there" in the real world who would say that everyone on fab have no morals. Eh? Random shagging? NSA?

Terrible. Disgusting. They should be locked away, all of them .

She probably has very high morals.

Just wants a child, but no partner;

Perhaps she is a widow; can't imagine having another love of her life after her husband,

Perhaps her partner is infertile?

Perhaps she is in a same sexy relationship ( oh, of course, that's really disgustingly immoral, too, isn't it ? Perhaps she should be shot for being queer)

What is irresponsible? She probably has a good income, a nice house, loving personality, and will make a fantastic mother.

You are judging something when you know nothing of the real facts.

To be honest, finding someone to inseminate her here is possibly safer than picking up random blokes in pubs; she can assess if the person is " right".

And with artificial insemination ( or is that also "immoral"?) she gets no more than a very basic genetic idea.

If she wants a tall dark handsome child, or an intelligent child then she can pick a tall dark handsome bloke or an intelligent bloke off here and have a chance at hoping his genes follow through.

Get off your high horse.

Or as we say over here:

" Garde-toi tes onions"

Do you have children ?

Oh and thanks for having a really condiscending tone

Glad you appreciate it.

( condescending, BTW).

You earned it by your moralising tone; and by assuming that your opinion was the only one that was correct:

And by moralising on something you know nothing about, nor do you know the woman's actual circumstances.

Contrasted with some divorcees, who had their children " properly", whose children have been severely damaged by the marital issues and divorces.

Funnily enough

Through your wordy nonsense you chose not to answer my question

Yes it's my opinion and my opinion is just this

You have yours

However there is also a moral issue here

I am sure your friends have done a fabulous job raising these children

But they missed out on having not a father but a 'dad'

Massive difference

Bullshit! Dad father are just words! Names! Nothing to do with how children are brought up. Put your Clinton cards mug away!

A father is the donor

A dad is the man who brings his children up

I'm a dad

Not a father "

Oh n btw my "sperm donor" was a rapist and pedofile!

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By *nleashedCrakenMan over a year ago

Widnes

"Seen worse.

Been asked for worse.

Not new, not the lowest.

Really? Whats worse than the risk of being impregnated by a diseased psycopathic criminal?"

Impregnating a diseased psychopathic criminal, maybe.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Time to walk away

Stupids taking over

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan over a year ago

London

I just read a status where the male half of the couple was openly inviting people to come to his work place a well known shop on Oxford Street to "flash his colleagues and see what happens"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh is the witch hunt over? Have swingers stopped judging other peoples morals and creating terrible, hideous scenarios for a random stranger based on a status message....

Okay Snog, Fuck or Avoid.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've just seen a toilet roll

Didn't know they could do that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok

Time to walk away

Stupids taking over "

Stupid because they don't agree with you ?

Oh well .....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok

Time to walk away

Stupids taking over "

This

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Seen worse.

Been asked for worse.

Not new, not the lowest.

Really? Whats worse than the risk of being impregnated by a diseased psycopathic criminal?

Or inpregnating a diseased psycopathic crimal"

Being the offspring of a diseased,psychopathic criminal.

"Mum,who's me da?"

"Fuck knows love (drags on a roll up) I had a breeding fetish and let loads of men spunk up me 10 years ago,it's ok though,I still luv ya (grabs a can of Stella)"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok

Time to walk away

Stupids taking over

Stupid because they don't agree with you ?

Oh well .....

I rest my case

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh is the witch hunt over? Have swingers stopped judging other peoples morals and creating terrible, hideous scenarios for a random stranger based on a status message....

Okay Snog, Fuck or Avoid....."

Hey,can't we be free to make our thoughts on unusual sexual practices known? Should we have to agree with everything everyone does on here,I know I don't.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I know quite a lot of children who don't have a dad,or lost him somehow. Mums do the best they can but they still miss having a dad,it's natural. Which is why many go looking when they get old enough.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I just read a status where the male half of the couple was openly inviting people to come to his work place a well known shop on Oxford Street to "flash his colleagues and see what happens"

lol that's sumit id do.

xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh is the witch hunt over? Have swingers stopped judging other peoples morals and creating terrible, hideous scenarios for a random stranger based on a status message....

Okay Snog, Fuck or Avoid.....

Hey,can't we be free to make our thoughts on unusual sexual practices known? Should we have to agree with everything everyone does on here,I know I don't. "

We can of course make our thoughts and opinions available to all; however singling out one member (and please don't say she is anonymous, anyone that knows where the OP lives can do a search and soon "discover" her) and then vilifying them on a forum is terrible... truly terrible

I can't ever agree to that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is nothing new..

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By *eccymanMan over a year ago

Gateshead

What some of us are trying to say is that if a child can be conceived inside a loving family unit then surely that is the best environment to raise that child in. Sure, things don't work out between some couples (I have three children from two marriages) but those kids are still loved. If a man decides to walk away entirely he is still financially responsible for his offspring.

To come onto a site like this to specifically get pregnant is morally irresponsible at best and I would seriously question the mental capacity of anyone involved in accomplishing it.

And what about the poor child produced as a result? What if it's mother at some point in the future suffered a mental breakdown and blasted out to her child "you were the result of a swinging fantasy. I don't even know your dad's real name, Mr FunkySpunkBubble I think."

(Apologies if someone actually has that username lol)

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By *rinking-in-laCouple over a year ago

Bristol

"I love the phrase

'No one is getting harmed'

Just a fatherless child

No biggy"

How do you know that there would be no father for the child and how do you know that having one parent harms a child?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What some of us are trying to say is that if a child can be conceived inside a loving family unit then surely that is the best environment to raise that child in. Sure, things don't work out between some couples (I have three children from two marriages) but those kids are still loved. If a man decides to walk away entirely he is still financially responsible for his offspring.

To come onto a site like this to specifically get pregnant is morally irresponsible at best and I would seriously question the mental capacity of anyone involved in accomplishing it.

(Apologies if someone actually has that username lol)"

so we should instead throw insults at them until they leave? Burn the witch eh? Or perhaps we should impose our own morals on other people; like terrorists do? See what I did there?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know quite a lot of children who don't have a dad,or lost him somehow. Mums do the best they can but they still miss having a dad,it's natural. Which is why many go looking when they get old enough. "

but sadly that doest always work out for the best. But In my experience I don't regret going looking. In fact it made me stronger knowing my background. I personally think that although it's not an ideal way to have a baby it's better then some random at a bar or club because the male can be vetted to a certain degree. Xxx

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman over a year ago

Lyndhurst

To come onto a site like this to specifically get pregnant is morally irresponsible at best and I would seriously question the mental capacity of anyone involved in accomplishing it.

(Apologies if someone actually has that username lol)"

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

To come onto a site like this to specifically get pregnant is morally irresponsible at best and I would seriously question the mental capacity of anyone involved in accomplishing it.

(Apologies if someone actually has that username lol)"

its a fair point and well said but sadly some of the others who may share the same sentiment have presented their point of view in ways which are bound to prompt a response..

maybe that was their point..

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

fantasy wank fodder ..its probably a guy anyway

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh is the witch hunt over? Have swingers stopped judging other peoples morals and creating terrible, hideous scenarios for a random stranger based on a status message....

Okay Snog, Fuck or Avoid.....

Hey,can't we be free to make our thoughts on unusual sexual practices known? Should we have to agree with everything everyone does on here,I know I don't.

I can't ever agree to that "

She put it up there for all and sundry to see. It's hardly a secret,but I don't agree with picking out a person to have a dig at on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh is the witch hunt over? Have swingers stopped judging other peoples morals and creating terrible, hideous scenarios for a random stranger based on a status message....

Okay Snog, Fuck or Avoid.....

Hey,can't we be free to make our thoughts on unusual sexual practices known? Should we have to agree with everything everyone does on here,I know I don't.

I can't ever agree to that

She put it up there for all and sundry to see. It's hardly a secret,but I don't agree with picking out a person to have a dig at on here. "

She put it on her status, she didn't post it on the forum and invite comment.

I find this thread and some of the vitriolic condemnation on it the new "low" of fab..... when will people just leave other people alone? Without imposing their own morals on them?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"fantasy wank fodder ..its probably a guy anyway "

I was thinking that but I expect some women would do it to get pregnant.

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By *arksidesubCouple over a year ago

not far from you..

What about the child in all of this?..Crazy!!..

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan over a year ago

London

"I just read a status where the male half of the couple was openly inviting people to come to his work place a well known shop on Oxford Street to "flash his colleagues and see what happens"

lol that's sumit id do.

xxx"

So what happens if one the ladies don't give a positive reaction?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh is the witch hunt over? Have swingers stopped judging other peoples morals and creating terrible, hideous scenarios for a random stranger based on a status message....

Okay Snog, Fuck or Avoid.....

Hey,can't we be free to make our thoughts on unusual sexual practices known? Should we have to agree with everything everyone does on here,I know I don't.

I can't ever agree to that

She put it up there for all and sundry to see. It's hardly a secret,but I don't agree with picking out a person to have a dig at on here.

She put it on her status, she didn't post it on the forum and invite comment.

I find this thread and some of the vitriolic condemnation on it the new "low" of fab..... when will people just leave other people alone? Without imposing their own morals on them?"

True,but people like to discuss others and their sexual perversions.

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By *andy_tomMan over a year ago

wolverhampton

It happens ,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Really never understood any bloke that can father a child and happily walk away from all that..

Exactly, the poor bastard would have an irresponsible father and probably a very selfish mother. Great start to life.

Yes it does effect me because I'm a taxpayer and we end up paying for the bottom of society which is usually where people with traumatic childhoods end up.

Thanks for that insite. I assume your perfect?"

Being perfect is not a prerequisite for being able to judge the probability that a situation is going to turn out well.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh is the witch hunt over? Have swingers stopped judging other peoples morals and creating terrible, hideous scenarios for a random stranger based on a status message....

Okay Snog, Fuck or Avoid.....

Hey,can't we be free to make our thoughts on unusual sexual practices known? Should we have to agree with everything everyone does on here,I know I don't.

I can't ever agree to that

She put it up there for all and sundry to see. It's hardly a secret,but I don't agree with picking out a person to have a dig at on here.

She put it on her status, she didn't post it on the forum and invite comment.

I find this thread and some of the vitriolic condemnation on it the new "low" of fab..... when will people just leave other people alone? Without imposing their own morals on them?

True,but people like to discuss others and their sexual perversions. "

Discuss? Or bad mouth? Insult? condemn? Hey look, a healthy debate entitled "Is seeking a sperm donor on fab acceptable?" - fine, we can all have an opinion. Directly pointing out a "profile in my area, how disgusting".. unforgiveable....

I wonder how some people would feel if their status messages were discussed on the open forum for people to condemn?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Really never understood any bloke that can father a child and happily walk away from all that..

Exactly, the poor bastard would have an irresponsible father and probably a very selfish mother. Great start to life.

Yes it does effect me because I'm a taxpayer and we end up paying for the bottom of society which is usually where people with traumatic childhoods end up.

Thanks for that insite. I assume your perfect?

Being perfect is not a prerequisite for being able to judge the probability that a situation is going to turn out well. "

I thought that was quite good insight actually.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Knowing nothing about the lass, we can't judge.

Have you ever heard of probability?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh is the witch hunt over? Have swingers stopped judging other peoples morals and creating terrible, hideous scenarios for a random stranger based on a status message....

Okay Snog, Fuck or Avoid.....

Hey,can't we be free to make our thoughts on unusual sexual practices known? Should we have to agree with everything everyone does on here,I know I don't.

I can't ever agree to that

She put it up there for all and sundry to see. It's hardly a secret,but I don't agree with picking out a person to have a dig at on here.

She put it on her status, she didn't post it on the forum and invite comment.

I find this thread and some of the vitriolic condemnation on it the new "low" of fab..... when will people just leave other people alone? Without imposing their own morals on them?

True,but people like to discuss others and their sexual perversions.

I wonder how some people would feel if their status messages were discussed on the open forum for people to condemn?"

Me personally I wouldn't give a shit,especially if it was a controversial subject,because I would expect some negativity. I'm not saying it was right that the OP stated it was a status on here,but the subject matter is interesting to debate.

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By *andy_tomMan over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Cheaper than IVF and they are cutting it down on the nhs x"

very well said , its a lot cheeper than the NHS , lol cuts down on the waiting time ,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I guess cos some don't want to work lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I just read a status where the male half of the couple was openly inviting people to come to his work place a well known shop on Oxford Street to "flash his colleagues and see what happens"

lol that's sumit id do.

xxx

So what happens if one the ladies don't give a positive reaction?

I dunno I never flash ladies just builders

xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Really never understood any bloke that can father a child and happily walk away from all that..

Exactly, the poor bastard would have an irresponsible father and probably a very selfish mother. Great start to life.

Yes it does effect me because I'm a taxpayer and we end up paying for the bottom of society which is usually where people with traumatic childhoods end up.

Thanks for that insite. I assume your perfect?

Being perfect is not a prerequisite for being able to judge the probability that a situation is going to turn out well. "

No but not all children with absent fathers end up at the bottom of society plus not all people at the bottom of society are there out of their own means. X

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By *anchestercubMan over a year ago

manchester & NI

Would a guy really be that desperate for a shag ????"

I'm assuming that's a rhetorical question.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok

Time to walk away

Stupids taking over

Stupid because they don't agree with you ?

Oh well .....

No think I just shocked him into shutting up.

xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Really never understood any bloke that can father a child and happily walk away from all that..

Exactly, the poor bastard would have an irresponsible father and probably a very selfish mother. Great start to life.

Yes it does effect me because I'm a taxpayer and we end up paying for the bottom of society which is usually where people with traumatic childhoods end up.

Thanks for that insite. I assume your perfect?

Being perfect is not a prerequisite for being able to judge the probability that a situation is going to turn out well.

No but not all children with absent fathers end up at the bottom of society plus not all people at the bottom of society are there out of their own means. X"

That's why we talk about probability

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's very easy to assume that the lady who wants to become pregnant would be totally undiscerning about which men she asked to impregnate her,,it's easy to assume that she does not have the independent means to support the child without assistance from the sperm donor (I hesitate to say father) or from the welfare state.

But we all know what assumption is,don't we?

The lady wants a baby,,,she doesn't want a man in her life,that's all she's really said,it's not that uncommon and it's not impossible for that child to grow up in a loving environment.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Anyone having anything nice for dinner?

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By *anchestercubMan over a year ago

manchester & NI

Whoever she is I hope she's working.

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By *anchestercubMan over a year ago

manchester & NI

"Anyone having anything nice for dinner?

Chicken and broccoli.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Anyone having anything nice for dinner?

Liver,,,,,with fava beans and chianti.

You?

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I think a new low for this site would be if someone used fab on their mobile down a deep, deep mine and laid down on the floor.

Anyway, I think that's the end of this thread.

Just for reference, btw, next time I post on a fuck/avoid thread can you NOT say that I'm 'do-able'. I'm not a carrot, you know.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh is the witch hunt over? Have swingers stopped judging other peoples morals and creating terrible, hideous scenarios for a random stranger based on a status message....

Okay Snog, Fuck or Avoid.....

Hey,can't we be free to make our thoughts on unusual sexual practices known? Should we have to agree with everything everyone does on here,I know I don't.

I can't ever agree to that

She put it up there for all and sundry to see. It's hardly a secret,but I don't agree with picking out a person to have a dig at on here.

She put it on her status, she didn't post it on the forum and invite comment.

I find this thread and some of the vitriolic condemnation on it the new "low" of fab..... when will people just leave other people alone? Without imposing their own morals on them?

True,but people like to discuss others and their sexual perversions.

I wonder how some people would feel if their status messages were discussed on the open forum for people to condemn?

Nor would we give a shit ... A status is public domain .

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