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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Seriously ladies, does the word "stunning" in a guy's opening message irritate you? 80% of guys say it without even knowing what your face looks like! It annoys the shit out of me!
Anyone have any other pet hates? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seriously ladies, does the word "stunning" in a guy's opening message irritate you? 80% of guys say it without even knowing what your face looks like! It annoys the shit out of me!
Anyone have any other pet hates?"
Being called babe , hun, sweetie, darling etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Haha! Literally just received a "stunning babes!" message 
It's just people who don't read profiles that bother me. If you can put in 3 minutes of effort reading about someone I think it speaks volumes about the effort you'd make between the sheets haha |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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It doesn't annoy me. It's quite useful as a language tool since it tells me that they haven't even bothered to look at my pics since I have no face pic on display (let alone read my profile), which then leads me to think it's a scattergun copy and paste message and can be ignored with impunity. |
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"I get an awful lot of messages telling me I'm gorgeous, awesome, stunning, have amazing pics etc etc. I am impressed that they can tell from one picture of my back."
I get them too. Sometimes I ask how they manage to tell from just a nipple! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think most messages that used to bother me don't anymore. I just stopped caring in general.
Although the ones saying how gorgeous I am when they've never seen my face do make me laugh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get an awful lot of messages telling me I'm gorgeous, awesome, stunning, have amazing pics etc etc. I am impressed that they can tell from one picture of my back.
I get them too. Sometimes I ask how they manage to tell from just a nipple!"
You'd be surprised at what you can discern from a nipple.
It's a gift that very few men possess.  |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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"I get an awful lot of messages telling me I'm gorgeous, awesome, stunning, have amazing pics etc etc. I am impressed that they can tell from one picture of my back.
I get them too. Sometimes I ask how they manage to tell from just a nipple!
You'd be surprised at what you can discern from a nipple.
It's a gift that very few men possess. "
Is it like reading braille?! |
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I think some of the women on here are suffering a serious case of compliment overload.
You don't need to see a woman's face to think she looks attractive. A good body pic, nice arse or great chest can all be enough. Ok the face can be the topping on the cake (or not sometimes) but a guy can still be stunned by the others.
As for the OP, having looked at your 2 pics I think you do look pretty dam attractive, if I ever get to see your face that may make me think you're even more beautiful or possibly not. But what I can see does look pretty stunning to me. Whether others are bullshiting or not, doing a scatter gun copy & paste, I don't know and don't really care. Not every compliment is said by every guy just to get a girls nickers off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get an awful lot of messages telling me I'm gorgeous, awesome, stunning, have amazing pics etc etc. I am impressed that they can tell from one picture of my back.
I get them too. Sometimes I ask how they manage to tell from just a nipple!
You'd be surprised at what you can discern from a nipple.
It's a gift that very few men possess.
Is it like reading braille?! "
More like palm reading once we have read them we can tell a ladies future.....well her immediate future. It involves a man and sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think I've been here too long as it really doesn't bother me anymore what people say I'm opening line.
I like the word stunning if it's used in the right context, can make me feel like a million dollars  |
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"Seriously ladies, does the word "stunning" in a guy's opening message irritate you? 80% of guys say it without even knowing what your face looks like! It annoys the shit out of me!
Anyone have any other pet hates?"
So as one of those foolish men who sometimes outs the word stunning in a message. How would you describe yourself if you were me? |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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"Personally my pet hate is repeat messages cause you ignored or just haven't read the first one yet! 
 .... One guy mailed me the same message three time yday & another msg twice today. Wish he wld take the bloody hint I am not interested x"
They're the ones that get blocked lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Saving me the hassle of individually messaging you one by one, please consider this post as a personal message to each and every one of the ladies on this thread.
Mmmmmmmmm
babes You are stunningly awesome and well hot.
It's like you is one of a kind hun.
Gorgeously stunning photos darling
Fancy a fuck bae? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Saving me the hassle of individually messaging you one by one, please consider this post as a personal message to each and every one of the ladies on this thread.
Mmmmmmmmm
babes You are stunningly awesome and well hot.
It's like you is one of a kind hun.
Gorgeously stunning photos darling
Fancy a fuck bae?"
Oh, I just came  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Saving me the hassle of individually messaging you one by one, please consider this post as a personal message to each and every one of the ladies on this thread.
Mmmmmmmmm
babes You are stunningly awesome and well hot.
It's like you is one of a kind hun.
Gorgeously stunning photos darling
Fancy a fuck bae?
Oh, I just came "
I was worried the message might be to much to handle. I'll reward and tone it down in the future. What pushed you over the edge? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think some of the women on here are suffering a serious case of compliment overload.
You don't need to see a woman's face to think she looks attractive. A good body pic, nice arse or great chest can all be enough. Ok the face can be the topping on the cake (or not sometimes) but a guy can still be stunned by the others.
As for the OP, having looked at your 2 pics I think you do look pretty dam attractive, if I ever get to see your face that may make me think you're even more beautiful or possibly not. But what I can see does look pretty stunning to me. Whether others are bullshiting or not, doing a scatter gun copy & paste, I don't know and don't really care. Not every compliment is said by every guy just to get a girls nickers off."
What about a foot? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hate it when a guy practically begs even after you've said no enough times
Then adds how he will "pay". Getting that a lot lately "
Lol - the one tonight didn't offer a payment (although have had that before) just kept asking and I kept saying no then said meet me for a drink and let me show you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi, how are you, mmmmmm, stunning, love to lick you, how are you find the site? meet now? "
That's pretty much my opening mail to most ladies on here, can't see the problem? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get an awful lot of messages telling me I'm gorgeous, awesome, stunning, have amazing pics etc etc. I am impressed that they can tell from one picture of my back."
Oh and here was me thinking they were just saying that to me!!
I'm gorgeous, sexy, well hot, fit as...... Which is flattering considering I've a face like a slapped arse lol  |
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By *eccymanMan
over a year ago
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In defence of men, stunning doesn't solely apply to a woman's face. Her body can be stunning too. I tend to use beautiful if I see a face I like but I'd use stunning if she has a body I'd like to explore.
Cut us some slack, all compliments are good aren't they? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seriously ladies, does the word "stunning" in a guy's opening message irritate you? 80% of guys say it without even knowing what your face looks like! It annoys the shit out of me!
Anyone have any other pet hates?
Being called babe , hun, sweetie, darling etc "
Agree with this especially as we are a couple  |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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"Ohhh I like that word Will never get bored with it 
Yet when they say 'You're best looking girl on here' I'm like 'wtf?! Just on here?! Not in the whole world  Piss off  '
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But they told me that too!
**goes for quiet cry in the corner**!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ohhh I like that word Will never get bored with it
Yet when they say 'You're best looking girl on here' I'm like 'wtf?! Just on here?! Not in the whole world Piss off '
But they told me that too!
**goes for quiet cry in the corner**!
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But men don't lie |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Saving me the hassle of individually messaging you one by one, please consider this post as a personal message to each and every one of the ladies on this thread.
Mmmmmmmmm
babes You are stunningly awesome and well hot.
It's like you is one of a kind hun.
Gorgeously stunning photos darling
Fancy a fuck bae?
Oh, I just came
I was worried the message might be to much to handle. I'll reward and tone it down in the future. What pushed you over the edge?"
It was the "babes you are stunningly awesome" bit. Just poetic. |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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"Ohhh I like that word Will never get bored with it
Yet when they say 'You're best looking girl on here' I'm like 'wtf?! Just on here?! Not in the whole world Piss off '
But they told me that too!
**goes for quiet cry in the corner**!
But men don't lie "
They have rulers and measuring tapes that do though..... |
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"Seriously ladies, does the word "stunning" in a guy's opening message irritate you? 80% of guys say it without even knowing what your face looks like! It annoys the shit out of me!
Anyone have any other pet hates?"
Stunning boobs tho xxx lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest I don't mind what men put in their opening message as long as there's at least one word with more than one syllable so I can see they have a functioning brain!
Any woman who's been on the site more than a week should be immune to the bullshit compliments by now!
As long as the message isn't terrible, it's the face and torso pics along with the profile that will decide my interest/lack of! Pet names don't bother me either - I use them a lot myself!
I think we're hard on single guys on this site though - I'm sure most spent ages reading profiles and composing original messages at first - only to have 99% ignored or deleted unread! Perhaps we should empathise rather than criticise? Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree
Also comments like "we seem to be well matched". Eh? How can you tell!, or one "are you into Funboy three!". I mean who the hell are they meant to be!!!! Ha ha! |
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"To be honest I don't mind what men put in their opening message as long as there's at least one word with more than one syllable so I can see they have a functioning brain!
Any woman who's been on the site more than a week should be immune to the bullshit compliments by now!
As long as the message isn't terrible, it's the face and torso pics along with the profile that will decide my interest/lack of! Pet names don't bother me either - I use them a lot myself!
I think we're hard on single guys on this site though - I'm sure most spent ages reading profiles and composing original messages at first - only to have 99% ignored or deleted unread! Perhaps we should empathise rather than criticise? Xx"
a balanced and well thought out post..
the web and dating and this aspect has brought new aspects to how we communicate, suppose with time it will be the norm... |
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"I think some of the women on here are suffering a serious case of compliment overload.
You don't need to see a woman's face to think she looks attractive. A good body pic, nice arse or great chest can all be enough. Ok the face can be the topping on the cake (or not sometimes) but a guy can still be stunned by the others.
As for the OP, having looked at your 2 pics I think you do look pretty dam attractive, if I ever get to see your face that may make me think you're even more beautiful or possibly not. But what I can see does look pretty stunning to me. Whether others are bullshiting or not, doing a scatter gun copy & paste, I don't know and don't really care. Not every compliment is said by every guy just to get a girls nickers off.
What about a foot? "
For me especially, that can work to. However your food shot is a little too glaring with the bright light hiding most of the detail, so difficult to tell how sexy, stunning or hot those feet actually are. But you do look pretty nice in the office pic. |
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"In defence of men, stunning doesn't solely apply to a woman's face. Her body can be stunning too. I tend to use beautiful if I see a face I like but I'd use stunning if she has a body I'd like to explore.
Cut us some slack, all compliments are good aren't they? "
Nice to find I can agree with you on something. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It amazes me when people say can we meet without seeing your fAces. Personally we have to see faces have to be attracted by this not just by bodies. Maybe we are too fussy |
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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago
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"To be honest I don't mind what men put in their opening message as long as there's at least one word with more than one syllable so I can see they have a functioning brain!
Any woman who's been on the site more than a week should be immune to the bullshit compliments by now!
Well said x
As long as the message isn't terrible, it's the face and torso pics along with the profile that will decide my interest/lack of! Pet names don't bother me either - I use them a lot myself!
I think we're hard on single guys on this site though - I'm sure most spent ages reading profiles and composing original messages at first - only to have 99% ignored or deleted unread! Perhaps we should empathise rather than criticise? Xx"
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"Ohhh I like that word Will never get bored with it
Yet when they say 'You're best looking girl on here' I'm like 'wtf?! Just on here?! Not in the whole world Piss off '
But they told me that too!
**goes for quiet cry in the corner**!
But men don't lie
They have rulers and measuring tapes that do though..... "
And mini-sized sky remotes. |
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"I think some of the women on here are suffering a serious case of compliment overload.
You don't need to see a woman's face to think she looks attractive. A good body pic, nice arse or great chest can all be enough. Ok the face can be the topping on the cake (or not sometimes) but a guy can still be stunned by the others.
As for the OP, having looked at your 2 pics I think you do look pretty dam attractive, if I ever get to see your face that may make me think you're even more beautiful or possibly not. But what I can see does look pretty stunning to me. Whether others are bullshiting or not, doing a scatter gun copy & paste, I don't know and don't really care. Not every compliment is said by every guy just to get a girls nickers off.
What about a foot?
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For me especially, that can work to. However your food shot is a little too glaring with the bright light hiding most of the detail, so difficult to tell how sexy, stunning or hot those feet actually are. But you do look pretty nice in the other pic.
Office grrr |
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