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whats your first experience at a swinging club?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i think your very brave to go to a club alone at 18, not many people your age would have the balls
the first time i went to a club i stood outside in the car park for an hour talking myself into it before turning round and going home so good on you  |
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By *ty31Man
over a year ago
NW London |
I was lucky to go with a couple that I met thru here so I guess it was maybe a little less daunting. Still though there was nothing really to be concerned about, I found people there to be friendly (especially the staff) and going to a club was definitely an experience I'm glad to have had.
Just go with the right attitude and make sure you make the effort to instigate conversations, you will be fine on your own.
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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago
North Herts |
Ours can only be described as "rabbits in headlights" and several visits more since we're slowly (but surely) moving on from that 
Just go with no expectations of anything happening, be prepared to chat, and show respect, to people and take no to mean no and you'll be fine. Although as others have said, check age restrictions first.
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By *ty31Man
over a year ago
NW London |
"I think I would prefer find someone to go with first time, I'm a bit shy at first haha"
In that case maybe check out the club ads page if the forum and find an event that you want to attend. Some organisers publish the guest lists so you could message and get chatting to a few people so you'll know someone to chat to beforehand. |
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Hi man and I know it sounds hard but I would say go on your own I did it and it's so much better it forces you to get to know others and talk rather then sitting with some one just talking. One thing I beg of you your young yes and that's fine just please don't be like most 18 year olds(I have seen) who go in the act like children or as if it's a whore house or put on the swag and ten men walk and talk. Anyway that's enough of me bitching best of luck to you |
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