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over a year ago
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"Do you women get so many messages? I don't get any replies, and I wouldn't say I'm ugly lol
I'm in Kent if anyone wants to chat x"
Yes I personally get too many to reply to all. I always look at the profile before I open a message. Your profile has no pics and nothing about you on it so unless the message was very good I doubt I would respond |
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"Do you women get so many messages? I don't get any replies, and I wouldn't say I'm ugly lol
I'm in Kent if anyone wants to chat x
Yes I personally get too many to reply to all. I always look at the profile before I open a message. Your profile has no pics and nothing about you on it so unless the message was very good I doubt I would respond "
Same....no public pics then I delete |
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I put in the same level of effort they do nowadays.
If their message is one or two words long and nothing on their profile /no pics then i will probably just delete.
If they make a short but polite message but I am not attracted to them then i send a short polite no thankyou.
If they put a lot of effort into writing to me and I still don't feel attracted to them or that they are what I seek... then I will put effort into a slighter longer message thanking them but with my apologies etc...
If someone writes to me and has obviously not read my profile because they are the total opposite of my stated preferences then i just delete with no reply.
Any stupidity /rudeness is blocked.
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I don't get many messages.
Because you've blocked couples otherwise you would 
MrsSB 
Well, I suspect one message more than usual. 
I bet more than one 
MrsSB "
Most couples are hard work, and I'm not bi so seems pointless to me. I do have some couples on my friendslist though. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"What should I write in my profile? I have to discreet that's why I don't have a pic"
Why do you have to be discreet? Yes no pics, we would just pass you by too. You should write in your profile what you have to offer to your meets and what you would like from a meet.  |
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"Suppose yeah, I will have to update it"
Additionally your status says you are bored.
You have no pics
2 very brief lines on your profile that say nothing really.
Your status says you are bored.
I don't mean to be harsh...but truthfully. ...you come across as lazy......and bored = boring! Sorry!
Even those of us with photos and lengthy profiles struggle sometimes. There are a LOT of women on here and a fair number of men! You have no chance with a profile like that. Sorry but you want the truth.
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"I don't get many messages.
Because you've blocked couples otherwise you would
MrsSB
Well, I suspect one message more than usual.
I bet more than one
MrsSB
Most couples are hard work, and I'm not bi so seems pointless to me. I do have some couples on my friendslist though."
Not need to explain. I'm just daft.
You are a witty stunning lady. Strong minded and with wicked sense of humour.
I know you are straight but I hit on all the hot ladies
MrsSB |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I don't get many messages.
Because you've blocked couples otherwise you would
MrsSB
Well, I suspect one message more than usual.
I bet more than one
MrsSB
Most couples are hard work, and I'm not bi so seems pointless to me. I do have some couples on my friendslist though.
Not need to explain. I'm just daft.
You are a witty stunning lady. Strong minded and with wicked sense of humour.
I know you are straight but I hit on all the hot ladies
MrsSB "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You don't have any public pics, that's a filter in its own right.
Make your profile an honest reflection of you, of what you like / looking for as well as what you can offer another person.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ahhhh thanks, maybe I should advertise on here, I get more replies ha ha "
Why do you think we come in here?
Apart from to pass the time and have a laugh?
Are you trying to be a dark horse OP? |
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"Do you women get so many messages? I don't get any replies, and I wouldn't say I'm ugly lol
I'm in Kent if anyone wants to chat x"
No profile pic, no public pics..you're only 4weeks old here lol,I hardly get lots of mail which doesn't really bother me coz I always feel lucky when I party,that's where I make connection,this place is a platform for me. |
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"Yeah maybe I will have to get to a party"
id definitely encourage you to party,I met two women who in person were far older than their profile age and nothing like the pics displayed it was a waste of both our time after endless chatting...I quit all that its why I opt for making that connection at parties....it works for me
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP if you use the reply+quote button people will know who you are responding to 
Wow you learn something new everyday x"
Top tip- if there's something on here that you don't know what it is- DON'T GOOGLE IT!! Or at least don't look at the pics.
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"OP if you use the reply+quote button people will know who you are responding to
Wow you learn something new everyday x
Top tip- if there's something on here that you don't know what it is- DON'T GOOGLE IT!! Or at least don't look at the pics.
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Belive me you'll never hear better advice on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you women get so many messages? I don't get any replies, and I wouldn't say I'm ugly lol
I'm in Kent if anyone wants to chat x
Yes I personally get too many to reply to all. I always look at the profile before I open a message. Your profile has no pics and nothing about you on it so unless the message was very good I doubt I would respond "
When's our wedding? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Uggly is reletive, wiggles says im not ugly and a few women agree with her, but others and myself say I am.
Dark rooms balance it "
I think men on this site need to stop putting themselves down so much. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Uggly is reletive, wiggles says im not ugly and a few women agree with her, but others and myself say I am.
Dark rooms balance it
I think men on this site need to stop putting themselves down so much. "
I'm not saying I'm ugly, just that everyone has there own opinions and I'm not everyone's cup of tea |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I filter only to manage mail.
I am sure OP you are not ugly just the ratio of ladies to gents on fab, means gents prob end up having to put more effort in.
Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I filter only to manage mail.
I am sure OP you are not ugly just the ratio of ladies to gents on fab, means gents prob end up having to put more effort in.
Good luck "
Thanks
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"I filter only to manage mail.
I am sure OP you are not ugly just the ratio of ladies to gents on fab, means gents prob end up having to put more effort in.
Good luck "
100% right,it's why I encourage single fellas to focus on partying other than relying on this site for a meet there are many good parties out there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know what the OP means. I put my face as profile pic, sent nice messages which get deleted. You see lots of blokes on here getting frustrated at it but its sheer numbers. Must be 200:1 ratio men to women! I just lurk and browse now..... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Inbox me then
Your profile is hidden x
Good point
You're a nice looking guy, just need to funk up your profile & get out there "
And how do I funk it up?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know what the OP means. I put my face as profile pic, sent nice messages which get deleted. You see lots of blokes on here getting frustrated at it but its sheer numbers. Must be 200:1 ratio men to women! I just lurk and browse now....."
200:1 is way way over estimated...however, women will always check a profile before opening a message...if theres nothing there,then theres no point them bothering to read the message..the numbers game is a very tired excuse... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know what the OP means. I put my face as profile pic, sent nice messages which get deleted. You see lots of blokes on here getting frustrated at it but its sheer numbers. Must be 200:1 ratio men to women! I just lurk and browse now.....
200:1 is way way over estimated...however, women will always check a profile before opening a message...if theres nothing there,then theres no point them bothering to read the message..the numbers game is a very tired excuse..."
Yeah I was exaggerating, like when I say I'm 5" ;P |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know what the OP means. I put my face as profile pic, sent nice messages which get deleted. You see lots of blokes on here getting frustrated at it but its sheer numbers. Must be 200:1 ratio men to women! I just lurk and browse now.....
200:1 is way way over estimated...however, women will always check a profile before opening a message...if theres nothing there,then theres no point them bothering to read the message..the numbers game is a very tired excuse...
Yeah I was exaggerating, like when I say I'm 5" ;P"
still, the fact remains that if people dont bother to have much of a profile, their messages are unlikely to be read,let alone replied to. |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"Inbox me then
Your profile is hidden x
Good point
You're a nice looking guy, just need to funk up your profile & get out there
And how do I funk it up??"
There are countless threads in the archives offering generic profile advice, we don't know you well enough to tell you that. |
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By *hoco DMan
over a year ago
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"I know what the OP means. I put my face as profile pic, sent nice messages which get deleted. You see lots of blokes on here getting frustrated at it but its sheer numbers. Must be 200:1 ratio men to women! I just lurk and browse now....."
This seems to be so ture especially in London given up on get meets unless I'm out of London as im black has its advantages if I'm somewhere where black is niche...
my advice is stick to parties where will judge to for you and not if you can create a seen from 50 shades and make your contacts from there.
I been where you are and come on the forum for advice and people very helpful at tell you what you are doing wrong but not so much went it comes to how to put it right.
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"...messages? I don't get any replies, and I wouldn't say I'm ugly"
Speak for yourself, I'm ugly and I get plenty.
Admittedly, most are from S-J and Mark, but it's better than nowt, surely?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Uggly is reletive, wiggles says im not ugly and a few women agree with her, but others and myself say I am.
Dark rooms balance it
I think men on this site need to stop putting themselves down so much. "
We're just honest.
My recent status said "I look nothing like my profile picture, I'm a one eyed horse botherer with an electric part".
For some reason my honesty didn't help me get a shah.
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