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But the owner of the appendage does!
Having read so many forum threads about alleged 'timewasters' on FAB, like most who have been subjected to it, it is a mystery to me ...why???
The number of guys who seem incapable of being honest about their marital / relationship status.... ?
Guys I have personally met for a social, who say how much they want me and who bombard me with messages afterwards saying how they want to meet again but never quite manage to find the time?? ?? Yet they keep messaging me???? WTF?
From a woman's perspective, it is assumed that guys are here for NSA sex ...ok maybe some want more but I think the sex element is the main attraction to FAB? So..... get on with it then?
We are all too aware of the many men who post threads bemoaning their lack of success in meeting women yet when many women have agreed to meet guys, many apparently don't turn up or they chicken out at the last minute or they suddenly go silent when they have to commit to a date and time etc.....
What is the point???
Maybe we ladies are so intimidatingly hot that guys get scared off??
OK Sunday reflections over! X
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By *onyneMan
over a year ago
Newcastle |
I'm never sure why people lie about relationships as there seems to be enough people who don't mind meeting attached people, and indeed some who seem to be actively looking for people in relationships.
It goes back to the regular site mantra...we aren't all the same, not all time wasters, and not all liars.
I guess it's ing out through discussion when chatting and making mind up from there.
Frustrating though when you chat for a good while and you realise there is some sort of deception apparent. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have found that too, have spent ages chatting to men then they either can't meet or chicken out. Then there's the ones who message and want you to come straight round....without even exchanging messages first.
It's hard going on here sometimes
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"I have found that too, have spent ages chatting to men then they either can't meet or chicken out. Then there's the ones who message and want you to come straight round....without even exchanging messages first.
It's hard going on here sometimes
XXX"
Yep...those too! Lol.... usually around midnight they send their desperate invites out! Because obviously I am that stupid and equally desperate that I would get dolled up and into my car in the wee hours to meet a total strangers with his mates for a 'good seeing to'!!!!!
I sometimes wonder if some women actually accept these crazy offers!!! Although we might never know as they probably dumped in a ditch somewhere! Ugh! Horrid thought!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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he internet attracts fantasists in general.
kind of weird someone would have a social and then not meet again though. maybe they don't know if they're guaranteed a fuck at the next meet but presumed they would be guaranteed one at the social? |
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"he internet attracts fantasists in general.
kind of weird someone would have a social and then not meet again though. maybe they don't know if they're guaranteed a fuck at the next meet but presumed they would be guaranteed one at the social?"
Nope. I am always crystal clear about socials. No sex first meet. Social only. They can decide for themselves if they still want to meet. If guys don't want to see me again or vice versa, then that's fine! That's the point of a social! But you wouldn't keep messaging someone telling them how much you want them and then run away when the other person agrees and asks when and where? I suspect girlfriend or wife has found out or suspects! Or they have chickened out! Because it's bizarre otherwise!  |
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"I have never had a no-show, but then I don't meet single guys. Are no-shows that prevalent?"
Well admittedly I don't personally have a lot of meets as i am a fussy mare but I am not just going on my experiences bit of others who say similar in the forums. I haven't had anyone not show up. But it's arranging it...or arranging follow up meets when they keep messaging saying they want to.....but don't!
Don't message me then! Lol!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have never had a no-show, but then I don't meet single guys. Are no-shows that prevalent?
Well admittedly I don't personally have a lot of meets as i am a fussy mare but I am not just going on my experiences bit of others who say similar in the forums. I haven't had anyone not show up. But it's arranging it...or arranging follow up meets when they keep messaging saying they want to.....but don't!
Don't message me then! Lol!!!!"
I don't have that problem.... no one ever wants a follow up meet..... so either I am awesome beyond compare and once is enough or (and I know this is out there but I should at least acknowledge it could be true), I am shit........... nah, I will go with the former |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have found that too, have spent ages chatting to men then they either can't meet or chicken out. Then there's the ones who message and want you to come straight round....without even exchanging messages first.
It's hard going on here sometimes
XXX
Yep...those too! Lol.... usually around midnight they send their desperate invites out! Because obviously I am that stupid and equally desperate that I would get dolled up and into my car in the wee hours to meet a total strangers with his mates for a 'good seeing to'!!!!!
I sometimes wonder if some women actually accept these crazy offers!!! Although we might never know as they probably dumped in a ditch somewhere! Ugh! Horrid thought! "
Yes quite so, I like to check blokes out first, for safety. XXX |
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"I have found that too, have spent ages chatting to men then they either can't meet or chicken out. Then there's the ones who message and want you to come straight round....without even exchanging messages first.
It's hard going on here sometimes
XXX
Yep...those too! Lol.... usually around midnight they send their desperate invites out! Because obviously I am that stupid and equally desperate that I would get dolled up and into my car in the wee hours to meet a total strangers with his mates for a 'good seeing to'!!!!!
I sometimes wonder if some women actually accept these crazy offers!!! Although we might never know as they probably dumped in a ditch somewhere! Ugh! Horrid thought!
Yes quite so, I like to check blokes out first, for safety. XXX"
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By *hav02Man
over a year ago
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Many guys here are probably just after a quick wank, and bottle it when it comes to meet.
On the flipside, I've had great chats with some women, who then suddenly go silent.
There are timewasters both sides of the fence |
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"Many guys here are probably just after a quick wank, and bottle it when it comes to meet.
On the flipside, I've had great chats with some women, who then suddenly go silent.
There are timewasters both sides of the fence"
I am sure there are! I couldn't care less if people aren't interested. It's when they CONTINUE to message me telling me they want to meet....but never do! |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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Either they are having what they might think to be better offers and stringing you along incase they don't pan out or they are fantasists with fake profiles or possibly married an getting off just the chat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I usually get repeat meets. It's getting the meets in the first place that is the problem for me, which is my fault usually due to availability.
I blame their nerves, over egging how good they are (so a bit shy of actually meeting to prove they could "ruin you"). Lots of men on here give out confident vibes, but they are just as nervous as us women, and I think that just gets the better of them.
Lots of men don't meet again to avoid attachment, but i suppose they still mesage because, having sampled the goods, they can feed their imagination and have a wank over what could be.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I came across the ones who want regular fun, then you meet and you get on well. Great verification left. Next thing they go totally silent, say they are busy but are constantly updating status looking for fun? Same shit, different smell |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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I am always somewhat surprised that what some men say does not match up with what some men do. I've been messaged pretty regularly by a guy who wants to meet for a coffee. Due to the fact that I am somewhat busy and also work days, I wasn't able to give him a time to meet until recently. He says yes, then immediately says he'll have to message me the morning of the meet to confirm the time. Gone midday and not heard a sausage.
I don't mind if people don't want to meet me. I'm not everyone's cup of tea. But don't say you do if you don't.
Then again, I find this behaviour in the minority. I had a great social meet with a lovely guy yesterday. Lets just hope that's not where it ends.  |
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"I usually get repeat meets. It's getting the meets in the first place that is the problem for me, which is my fault usually due to availability.
I blame their nerves, over egging how good they are (so a bit shy of actually meeting to prove they could "ruin you"). Lots of men on here give out confident vibes, but they are just as nervous as us women, and I think that just gets the better of them.
Lots of men don't meet again to avoid attachment, but i suppose they still mesage because, having sampled the goods, they can feed their imagination and have a wank over what could be.
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They didn't sample the goods!!!!! Lol! They met for a coffee!
They then keep messenging me to say they WANT to and all what they want to do blah blah!!!! But they don't actually get round to it! Lol!
# scared? ?? |
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"I am always somewhat surprised that what some men say does not match up with what some men do. I've been messaged pretty regularly by a guy who wants to meet for a coffee. Due to the fact that I am somewhat busy and also work days, I wasn't able to give him a time to meet until recently. He says yes, then immediately says he'll have to message me the morning of the meet to confirm the time. Gone midday and not heard a sausage.
I don't mind if people don't want to meet me. I'm not everyone's cup of tea. But don't say you do if you don't.
Then again, I find this behaviour in the minority. I had a great social meet with a lovely guy yesterday. Lets just hope that's not where it ends. "
Yes...that's it. Don't say you do....and keep messenging to say the same thing.... when you don't lol!!!!!! Madness!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I came across the ones who want regular fun, then you meet and you get on well. Great verification left. Next thing they go totally silent, say they are busy but are constantly updating status looking for fun? Same shit, different smell "
Maybe you didn't match up to what they wanted in a regular partner but they don't want the direct argument of saying as much. |
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"I came across the ones who want regular fun, then you meet and you get on well. Great verification left. Next thing they go totally silent, say they are busy but are constantly updating status looking for fun? Same shit, different smell "
Yep!!!!! Lol..... except they text me.... message me....sexting their socks off! But never quite manage to arrange to meet again.... lol... they didn't even get any on the social anyway (which they knew beforehand! )
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By *hav02Man
over a year ago
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Maybe some men and women just aren't used to the dating scene?
It's protective being able to pretend do all the "chat" on here, but in person could be a total freak....
How many catfish have their been? |
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"I came across the ones who want regular fun, then you meet and you get on well. Great verification left. Next thing they go totally silent, say they are busy but are constantly updating status looking for fun? Same shit, different smell
Maybe you didn't match up to what they wanted in a regular partner but they don't want the direct argument of saying as much."
If that were the case.... that would be fine. But then.... they wouldn't continue to message me with all they want to do to me! They would either tell me or ignore me. It isn't normal to continue writing to someone! I wasn't chasing them! They chased me! But wouldn't follow up on it lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im just on forums for a while . Had 3 last min cancellations in two weeks. really hacks me of and spoils it for the genuine guys on here. But its knocked me. I t takes a lot for me to meet and a lot to change my schedule to do so. |
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"Maybe some men and women just aren't used to the dating scene?
It's protective being able to pretend do all the "chat" on here, but in person could be a total freak....
How many catfish have their been?"
No... you haven't understood. I am talking of guys who HAVE met me. For a social.
They knew the social was no sex on first meet.
They then continue to text me endlessly telling me how much they want me...
But they never arrange it. |
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"I think you'll find that they're what's known as keyboard lovers. They get off on telling a woman what they'd like to do but have very little self confidence to carry it over into the real world."
When when they met me in real life and continue to do that afterwards???? Seems a bit odd! |
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By *eccymanMan
over a year ago
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"I think you'll find that they're what's known as keyboard lovers. They get off on telling a woman what they'd like to do but have very little self confidence to carry it over into the real world.
When when they met me in real life and continue to do that afterwards???? Seems a bit odd! "
Odd being the operative word. Personally, I think think they're bloody crazy to turn you down. I wouldn't. |
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"I don't cyber or sext and make that very clear to guys early on in our correspondence. That does tend to out the wannabes."
Yes but when you have met eachother and there is chemistry /attraction and they continue to message after........ ? They say they want to...but always busy etc.... I just ignore their messages now.
If someone really wants to meet again, they can arrange it! |
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"I think you'll find that they're what's known as keyboard lovers. They get off on telling a woman what they'd like to do but have very little self confidence to carry it over into the real world.
When when they met me in real life and continue to do that afterwards???? Seems a bit odd!
Odd being the operative word. Personally, I think think they're bloody crazy to turn you down. I wouldn't."
Thanks..but I think they are scared of actually doing it... they will meet for coffee... message me... but can't actually do it lol!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I came across the ones who want regular fun, then you meet and you get on well. Great verification left. Next thing they go totally silent, say they are busy but are constantly updating status looking for fun? Same shit, different smell
Maybe you didn't match up to what they wanted in a regular partner but they don't want the direct argument of saying as much.
If that were the case.... that would be fine. But then.... they wouldn't continue to message me with all they want to do to me! They would either tell me or ignore me. It isn't normal to continue writing to someone! I wasn't chasing them! They chased me! But wouldn't follow up on it lol"
She said they go silent.
So i guess that means they arent messaging |
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"I came across the ones who want regular fun, then you meet and you get on well. Great verification left. Next thing they go totally silent, say they are busy but are constantly updating status looking for fun? Same shit, different smell
Maybe you didn't match up to what they wanted in a regular partner but they don't want the direct argument of saying as much.
If that were the case.... that would be fine. But then.... they wouldn't continue to message me with all they want to do to me! They would either tell me or ignore me. It isn't normal to continue writing to someone! I wasn't chasing them! They chased me! But wouldn't follow up on it lol
She said they go silent.
So i guess that means they arent messaging "
Think you are out of sync with the replies. You responded to a conversation between myself and another lady. She said the person went silent on her. Then I explained my situation was different. For me they DON'T go silent. Oh never mind lol. ... already explained it loads of times about after they meet for a social etc  |
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"I came across the ones who want regular fun, then you meet and you get on well. Great verification left. Next thing they go totally silent, say they are busy but are constantly updating status looking for fun? Same shit, different smell
Maybe you didn't match up to what they wanted in a regular partner but they don't want the direct argument of saying as much.
If that were the case.... that would be fine. But then.... they wouldn't continue to message me with all they want to do to me! They would either tell me or ignore me. It isn't normal to continue writing to someone! I wasn't chasing them! They chased me! But wouldn't follow up on it lol
She said they go silent.
So i guess that means they arent messaging
Think you are out of sync with the replies. You responded to a conversation between myself and another lady. She said the person went silent on her. Then I explained my situation was different. For me they DON'T go silent. Oh never mind lol. ... already explained it loads of times about after they meet for a social etc "
No thats you.
I quoted her and only her.
You then quoted me and replied as if i had spoken to you. |
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"I came across the ones who want regular fun, then you meet and you get on well. Great verification left. Next thing they go totally silent, say they are busy but are constantly updating status looking for fun? Same shit, different smell
Maybe you didn't match up to what they wanted in a regular partner but they don't want the direct argument of saying as much.
If that were the case.... that would be fine. But then.... they wouldn't continue to message me with all they want to do to me! They would either tell me or ignore me. It isn't normal to continue writing to someone! I wasn't chasing them! They chased me! But wouldn't follow up on it lol
She said they go silent.
So i guess that means they arent messaging
Think you are out of sync with the replies. You responded to a conversation between myself and another lady. She said the person went silent on her. Then I explained my situation was different. For me they DON'T go silent. Oh never mind lol. ... already explained it loads of times about after they meet for a social etc
No thats you.
I quoted her and only her.
You then quoted me and replied as if i had spoken to you."
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yep they went silent on me but if I message them first they reply.
Honestly? Say things as they are. Don't verify 'can't wait for the next meet, hopefully soon' if that is not what you want.
You're human too. You know when someone enjoyed it and the connection is there to take it further.
It's about honesty for me. Bit like the minority on here tbh...  |
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"Yep they went silent on me but if I message them first they reply.
Honestly? Say things as they are. Don't verify 'can't wait for the next meet, hopefully soon' if that is not what you want.
You're human too. You know when someone enjoyed it and the connection is there to take it further.
It's about honesty for me. Bit like the minority on here tbh... "
Totally agree! Although I 'kind of' get it if they write positive verifications. Some don't write veris at all. But it's when they continue to message me!!!!! That's what I don't get!!!!! Lol!!!! |
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By *hoco DMan
over a year ago
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"But the owner of the appendage does!
Having read so many forum threads about alleged 'timewasters' on FAB, like most who have been subjected to it, it is a mystery to me ...why???
The number of guys who seem incapable of being honest about their marital / relationship status.... ?
Guys I have personally met for a social, who say how much they want me and who bombard me with messages afterwards saying how they want to meet again but never quite manage to find the time?? ?? Yet they keep messaging me???? WTF?
From a woman's perspective, it is assumed that guys are here for NSA sex ...ok maybe some want more but I think the sex element is the main attraction to FAB? So..... get on with it then?
We are all too aware of the many men who post threads bemoaning their lack of success in meeting women yet when many women have agreed to meet guys, many apparently don't turn up or they chicken out at the last minute or they suddenly go silent when they have to commit to a date and time etc.....
What is the point???
Maybe we ladies are so intimidatingly hot that guys get scared off??
OK Sunday reflections over! X
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A guy put's a scene from 50 shade on his profile and writes 20 page messages plus add 10 face pic's gets the date (all words and no action)
A guy has three words and a cock pic messages consists of three words and cock pic get deleted (action speak louder than words)
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