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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP whilst I dont like the word rejection we cant all be for everyone.
Be considerate when you message, read the profile, have fun and don't take it too seriously.
Good Luck Knitter  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So it's not just me? Thanks X "
God no
My success rate of meeting guys I have mailed first is zero
I suppose what I do have on my side though is being female people do mail me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Be patient. Eight weeks isn't that long.
I've only been here for two weeks and I'm overflowing. 
With what though
A gentleman never tells. Saucy "
I wasn't asking a gentleman I was asking you  |
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By *eccymanMan
over a year ago
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"Be patient. Eight weeks isn't that long.
I've only been here for two weeks and I'm overflowing.
With what though
A gentleman never tells. Saucy
I wasn't asking a gentleman I was asking you "
Oh fuck. Sussed. |
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"I do seem to be getting rather a lot of rejection, I don't take it personally but It does get you guessing yourself
Any suggestions? "
in all honesty OP whether it be on fab or just with women in real life i come across/deal with I just do something which for me personally is fool proof. I always assume women are not interested in me in the sense that be it on here or in real life I have no idea or notion as to what they want or seek in a sense that you're best off just leaving them be. Maybe once in a long while one might show interest on here or in real life and I just like to see how it goes but I never get my hopes up so dealing with a set back is easier. You're best bet is probably stick with the forums/chatrooms or hit a social or a club someday to just interact and one might show interest or approach you? All the best mate..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I was chatting to a guy and told him 3 times i would not meet him 1 to 1 but may do in a group situation. In the end when i told him yet again no 121 he gave me a string of abuse and blocked me. So I told admin.
The problem seems to me to be that many of the men joining are doing so to get escort type "girl friend experiences" for free with single women rather than pay an escort or get a real girlfriend. For me swinging is uninhibited group play and these men just don't understand. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was chatting to a guy and told him 3 times i would not meet him 1 to 1 but may do in a group situation. In the end when i told him yet again no 121 he gave me a string of abuse and blocked me. So I told admin.
The problem seems to me to be that many of the men joining are doing so to get escort type "girl friend experiences" for free with single women rather than pay an escort or get a real girlfriend. For me swinging is uninhibited group play and these men just don't understand. "
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"I was chatting to a guy and told him 3 times i would not meet him 1 to 1 but may do in a group situation. In the end when i told him yet again no 121 he gave me a string of abuse and blocked me. So I told admin.
The problem seems to me to be that many of the men joining are doing so to get escort type "girl friend experiences" for free with single women rather than pay an escort or get a real girlfriend. For me swinging is uninhibited group play and these men just don't understand.
confused "
ditto,totally confused |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was chatting to a guy and told him 3 times i would not meet him 1 to 1 but may do in a group situation. In the end when i told him yet again no 121 he gave me a string of abuse and blocked me. So I told admin.
The problem seems to me to be that many of the men joining are doing so to get escort type "girl friend experiences" for free with single women rather than pay an escort or get a real girlfriend. For me swinging is uninhibited group play and these men just don't understand.
confused
ditto,totally confused"
I am suggesting that the men joining do not agree with the swinging lifestyle they just want a GFE with a free escort. Consequently many are not what the swingers are looking for.
Ditto, absolutely totally confused as hell? |
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