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By *rnortholt OP Man
over a year ago
Waveney Valley |
"Being pregnant and alone isthe worst moment in my life"
As statuses go - that has to be the most gut wrenching one I've ever read in here.
Now I may be a disreputable low-life, but I felt I had to mail to say however dark life may be - people will care. Not people here, though of course many will, but people who can offer practical help, be they family, workmates or even the old lady who lives two doors down.
So I wrote what I could, just to show a bit of humanity and pressed send to message the person who seconds before had been showing online.
Back came the message "user no longer on site."
So at two in the morning, I'm here...just hoping this now ex-member of fab does get the help they need and that maybe someone who knows who they really are - maybe after a met or social - digs their number out of their "play phone" memory and does what I couldn't and offers them a bit of support. |
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""Being pregnant and alone isthe worst moment in my life"
As statuses go - that has to be the most gut wrenching one I've ever read in here.
Now I may be a disreputable low-life, but I felt I had to mail to say however dark life may be - people will care. Not people here, though of course many will, but people who can offer practical help, be they family, workmates or even the old lady who lives two doors down.
So I wrote what I could, just to show a bit of humanity and pressed send to message the person who seconds before had been showing online.
Back came the message "user no longer on site."
So at two in the morning, I'm here...just hoping this now ex-member of fab does get the help they need and that maybe someone who knows who they really are - maybe after a met or social - digs their number out of their "play phone" memory and does what I couldn't and offers them a bit of support."
At least you tried, which is more than a lot of people would have done.  |
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""Being pregnant and alone isthe worst moment in my life"
As statuses go - that has to be the most gut wrenching one I've ever read in here.
Now I may be a disreputable low-life, but I felt I had to mail to say however dark life may be - people will care. Not people here, though of course many will, but people who can offer practical help, be they family, workmates or even the old lady who lives two doors down.
So I wrote what I could, just to show a bit of humanity and pressed send to message the person who seconds before had been showing online.
Back came the message "user no longer on site."
So at two in the morning, I'm here...just hoping this now ex-member of fab does get the help they need and that maybe someone who knows who they really are - maybe after a met or social - digs their number out of their "play phone" memory and does what I couldn't and offers them a bit of support."
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My thought was, if you feel bad when you are alone and pregnant, how are you going to feel when you have the baby? Let's hope there are some support networks in place and the 'cry for help' was hormonal, as they do play havoc in pregnancy. |
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over a year ago
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"I think I might be totally heartless, when I see statuses like that on here I just think drama and attention seeking
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All statuses are attention seeking, that's their point essentially. And I'd say whilst I agree on your points, they probably do need some support too. A swinging site is still probably not the best forum to get proper help though. |
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"I think I might be totally heartless, when I see statuses like that on here I just think drama and attention seeking
All statuses are attention seeking, that's their point essentially. And I'd say whilst I agree on your points, they probably do need some support too. A swinging site is still probably not the best forum to get proper help though."
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The woman just needed to put down how she felt where that was probably didn't matter,she already knew she would get no real help from anyone here especially from the heartless one's. We don't need need to know someone to show a little compassion which you have op so well done for that. |
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