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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all,
It's not what you might think...
When the male side of us was sex with an overweight female he tends to come much quicker than with somebody of a smaller size or those that are more athletic. Strange but true.
Anybody else have these issues or is he just a one off!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm the polar opposite of that. I simply can't have sex with hugely overweight people. I don't mind a few curves but obesity doesn't do a thing for me."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm the polar opposite of that. I simply can't have sex with hugely overweight people. I don't mind a few curves but obesity doesn't do a thing for me."
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By *pal2Man
over a year ago
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Stimulation is as much mental as pysical, we are turned on by different things and luckily dont all like the same women or type. A friend of mine was telling me he had to lift a girls stomach up to put his cock in her pussy. At that point I would be flaccid... but not him! |
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This might sound weird but bear with me!!
I personally think it is due to the extra weight we carry causing the 'fit' around the penis being different and so causing different sensations during sex.
It would make sense that the fat around and in the abdomen would push down into the vaginal wall differently in different positions.
That's what I think anyway, not a medical professional or a biology specialist and I am sure a lot of Google md's will swoop down on me and crucify me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This might sound weird but bear with me!!
I personally think it is due to the extra weight we carry causing the 'fit' around the penis being different and so causing different sensations during sex.
It would make sense that the fat around and in the abdomen would push down into the vaginal wall differently in different positions.
That's what I think anyway, not a medical professional or a biology specialist and I am sure a lot of Google md's will swoop down on me and crucify me. "
I think your right. To me it feels so much better. Also in my eyes a bigger lady is much sexier |
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By *eccymanMan
over a year ago
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"Stimulation is as much mental as pysical, we are turned on by different things and luckily dont all like the same women or type. A friend of mine was telling me he had to lift a girls stomach up to put his cock in her pussy. At that point I would be flaccid... but not him!"
I had a similar experience in my early 20s. I'd pulled a girl in my local and us and my mate went back to mine. I took her upstairs and as I tried to get her knickers off they ripped as pulled them over her thighs (she was a big girl) and that was it for me, I couldn't go any further so I made my excuses and went downstairs. My mate said, "that was quick" and I told him what had happened. He then said, "do you mind if I try?" and up he went. They were fucking for hours.
I mean no disrespect to larger ladies but it does prove that there are guys who prefer the bigger girls, and good luck to them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Stimulation is as much mental as pysical, we are turned on by different things and luckily dont all like the same women or type. A friend of mine was telling me he had to lift a girls stomach up to put his cock in her pussy. At that point I would be flaccid... but not him!
I had a similar experience in my early 20s. I'd pulled a girl in my local and us and my mate went back to mine. I took her upstairs and as I tried to get her knickers off they ripped as pulled them over her thighs (she was a big girl) and that was it for me, I couldn't go any further so I made my excuses and went downstairs. My mate said, "that was quick" and I told him what had happened. He then said, "do you mind if I try?" and up he went. They were fucking for hours.
I mean no disrespect to larger ladies but it does prove that there are guys who prefer the bigger girls, and good luck to them."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Stimulation is as much mental as pysical, we are turned on by different things and luckily dont all like the same women or type. A friend of mine was telling me he had to lift a girls stomach up to put his cock in her pussy. At that point I would be flaccid... but not him!
I had a similar experience in my early 20s. I'd pulled a girl in my local and us and my mate went back to mine. I took her upstairs and as I tried to get her knickers off they ripped as pulled them over her thighs (she was a big girl) and that was it for me, I couldn't go any further so I made my excuses and went downstairs. My mate said, "that was quick" and I told him what had happened. He then said, "do you mind if I try?" and up he went. They were fucking for hours.
I mean no disrespect to larger ladies but it does prove that there are guys who prefer the bigger girls, and good luck to them."
Can't help but ask why you took her upstairs in the first place, surely she didn't look a size 10 in the pub  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know a guy who has a talent for finishing about 30 seconds before me.
EVERYTIME, EVERYTIME MAN!! 
It's terribly impolite of him "
It is, thankyou  #fabworldproblems |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all,
It's not what you might think...
When the male side of us was sex with an overweight female he tends to come much quicker than with somebody of a smaller size or those that are more athletic. Strange but true.
Anybody else have these issues or is he just a one off!
X"
I'm a fat bastard, some guys I play with last hours some don't i have always put it down to the guy rather than my size, if a guy does cum quick with me maybe he's just trying to get it over and done with faster so he can get out of there |
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By *eccymanMan
over a year ago
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"Stimulation is as much mental as pysical, we are turned on by different things and luckily dont all like the same women or type. A friend of mine was telling me he had to lift a girls stomach up to put his cock in her pussy. At that point I would be flaccid... but not him!
I had a similar experience in my early 20s. I'd pulled a girl in my local and us and my mate went back to mine. I took her upstairs and as I tried to get her knickers off they ripped as pulled them over her thighs (she was a big girl) and that was it for me, I couldn't go any further so I made my excuses and went downstairs. My mate said, "that was quick" and I told him what had happened. He then said, "do you mind if I try?" and up he went. They were fucking for hours.
I mean no disrespect to larger ladies but it does prove that there are guys who prefer the bigger girls, and good luck to them.
Can't help but ask why you took her upstairs in the first place, surely she didn't look a size 10 in the pub "
That was the night I realised larger girls weren't for me. I hadn't been with a girl her size before and didn't think it would be an issue. We got on so well in the pub and I wanted to shag her. My body thought differently though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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He's probably more attracted to the bigger woman? Have you asked him
I have a lovely friend who likes big big girls. I remember him telling me it took a while for him to be open about it. I mean when you're younger people like to conform and the magazines say we must like slim athletic and attractive. Whilst in reality we all are attracted to different things |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"He's probably more attracted to the bigger woman? Have you asked him
I have a lovely friend who likes big big girls. I remember him telling me it took a while for him to be open about it. I mean when you're younger people like to conform and the magazines say we must like slim athletic and attractive. Whilst in reality we all are attracted to different things "
I used to meet a guy a few years ago quite regular never understood why he met me, he was really good looking, good body, nice guy he could have done so much better than me, I was about a size 22/24 back then
He had to work away for a while so stopped meeting, I had decided to loose weight and joined a slimming club and lost just over 7stone, one day out the blue i got a text from his saying he was back in the UK would I like to meet so we did, I was dead excited because I hadn't seen him in ages and I though he's going to be so chuffed when he seems me, I was about a size 12 now (yes I've put weight back on since )
Anyway I'm stood at the arranged meeting place and he walked straight by me, I shouted him and he walked over, looked me up and down and said ...what the heck have you don't to yourself? So I said oh I've lost some weight, he proceeded to tell me I looked shit, he preferred me before and he was no longer attracted to me
Some guys genuinely do prefer bigger woman |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"He's probably more attracted to the bigger woman? Have you asked him
I have a lovely friend who likes big big girls. I remember him telling me it took a while for him to be open about it. I mean when you're younger people like to conform and the magazines say we must like slim athletic and attractive. Whilst in reality we all are attracted to different things
I used to meet a guy a few years ago quite regular never understood why he met me, he was really good looking, good body, nice guy he could have done so much better than me, I was about a size 22/24 back then
He had to work away for a while so stopped meeting, I had decided to loose weight and joined a slimming club and lost just over 7stone, one day out the blue i got a text from his saying he was back in the UK would I like to meet so we did, I was dead excited because I hadn't seen him in ages and I though he's going to be so chuffed when he seems me, I was about a size 12 now (yes I've put weight back on since )
Anyway I'm stood at the arranged meeting place and he walked straight by me, I shouted him and he walked over, looked me up and down and said ...what the heck have you don't to yourself? So I said oh I've lost some weight, he proceeded to tell me I looked shit, he preferred me before and he was no longer attracted to me
Some guys genuinely do prefer bigger woman"
Do you have his number?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"He's probably more attracted to the bigger woman? Have you asked him
I have a lovely friend who likes big big girls. I remember him telling me it took a while for him to be open about it. I mean when you're younger people like to conform and the magazines say we must like slim athletic and attractive. Whilst in reality we all are attracted to different things
I used to meet a guy a few years ago quite regular never understood why he met me, he was really good looking, good body, nice guy he could have done so much better than me, I was about a size 22/24 back then
He had to work away for a while so stopped meeting, I had decided to loose weight and joined a slimming club and lost just over 7stone, one day out the blue i got a text from his saying he was back in the UK would I like to meet so we did, I was dead excited because I hadn't seen him in ages and I though he's going to be so chuffed when he seems me, I was about a size 12 now (yes I've put weight back on since )
Anyway I'm stood at the arranged meeting place and he walked straight by me, I shouted him and he walked over, looked me up and down and said ...what the heck have you don't to yourself? So I said oh I've lost some weight, he proceeded to tell me I looked shit, he preferred me before and he was no longer attracted to me
Some guys genuinely do prefer bigger woman
Do you have his number? "
It's ok I'm a fatty again now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes you just can't win can you. "
Somebody for everybody though isnt there
Be you a size 8,18 or 28 there will always be people attracted to you
It just annoys me when people think only desperate men shag fat women because it's not always the case
I have some really good looking, gym fit guys mail me and it's quite obvious from their pics they aren't desperate
I've lost count of the amount of times I looked at guys who have come into me, in clubs etc too not just on here and thought, really  you could do so much better
T
I don't get it myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"He's probably more attracted to the bigger woman? Have you asked him
I have a lovely friend who likes big big girls. I remember him telling me it took a while for him to be open about it. I mean when you're younger people like to conform and the magazines say we must like slim athletic and attractive. Whilst in reality we all are attracted to different things
I used to meet a guy a few years ago quite regular never understood why he met me, he was really good looking, good body, nice guy he could have done so much better than me, I was about a size 22/24 back then
He had to work away for a while so stopped meeting, I had decided to loose weight and joined a slimming club and lost just over 7stone, one day out the blue i got a text from his saying he was back in the UK would I like to meet so we did, I was dead excited because I hadn't seen him in ages and I though he's going to be so chuffed when he seems me, I was about a size 12 now (yes I've put weight back on since )
Anyway I'm stood at the arranged meeting place and he walked straight by me, I shouted him and he walked over, looked me up and down and said ...what the heck have you don't to yourself? So I said oh I've lost some weight, he proceeded to tell me I looked shit, he preferred me before and he was no longer attracted to me
Some guys genuinely do prefer bigger woman"
Omg what a prick! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all,
It's not what you might think...
When the male side of us was sex with an overweight female he tends to come much quicker than with somebody of a smaller size or those that are more athletic. Strange but true.
Anybody else have these issues or is he just a one off!
X"
He comes quicker when he's with somone with a body he fineds incredibly attractive.
That's normal.
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
Filthy Fuckeryville |
"This might sound weird but bear with me!!
I personally think it is due to the extra weight we carry causing the 'fit' around the penis being different and so causing different sensations during sex.
It would make sense that the fat around and in the abdomen would push down into the vaginal wall differently in different positions.
That's what I think anyway, not a medical professional or a biology specialist and I am sure a lot of Google md's will swoop down on me and crucify me. "
I've thought the same for a long time. I used to be considerably bigger and many didn't last long - one explained it that he never does with anyone larger, but that he could go for hours with a skinny minny (his words!) as there was less cushion for pushin'! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"He's probably more attracted to the bigger woman? Have you asked him
I have a lovely friend who likes big big girls. I remember him telling me it took a while for him to be open about it. I mean when you're younger people like to conform and the magazines say we must like slim athletic and attractive. Whilst in reality we all are attracted to different things
I used to meet a guy a few years ago quite regular never understood why he met me, he was really good looking, good body, nice guy he could have done so much better than me, I was about a size 22/24 back then
He had to work away for a while so stopped meeting, I had decided to loose weight and joined a slimming club and lost just over 7stone, one day out the blue i got a text from his saying he was back in the UK would I like to meet so we did, I was dead excited because I hadn't seen him in ages and I though he's going to be so chuffed when he seems me, I was about a size 12 now (yes I've put weight back on since )
Anyway I'm stood at the arranged meeting place and he walked straight by me, I shouted him and he walked over, looked me up and down and said ...what the heck have you don't to yourself? So I said oh I've lost some weight, he proceeded to tell me I looked shit, he preferred me before and he was no longer attracted to me
Some guys genuinely do prefer bigger woman
Do you have his number? "
Exactly. I'm not a fan of my body shape at the moment. My head keeps thinking conform. Then it thinks drink wine eat crisps then go gym to conform. And the guys are just in heaven with bouncy wobbly bits I hate. Oh well wine and crisps it is |
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"Sometimes you just can't win can you.
Somebody for everybody though isnt there
Be you a size 8,18 or 28 there will always be people attracted to you
It just annoys me when people think only desperate men shag fat women because it's not always the case
I have some really good looking, gym fit guys mail me and it's quite obvious from their pics they aren't desperate
I've lost count of the amount of times I looked at guys who have come into me, in clubs etc too not just on here and thought, really you could do so much better
T
I don't get it myself "
" you could do so much better"???
Having looked at your pics, we think you do yourself an injustice, you should just accept that you are gorgeous and live with it.
Any guy would be lucky to get a meet with you. |
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"He's probably more attracted to the bigger woman? Have you asked him
I have a lovely friend who likes big big girls. I remember him telling me it took a while for him to be open about it. I mean when you're younger people like to conform and the magazines say we must like slim athletic and attractive. Whilst in reality we all are attracted to different things
I used to meet a guy a few years ago quite regular never understood why he met me, he was really good looking, good body, nice guy he could have done so much better than me, I was about a size 22/24 back then
He had to work away for a while so stopped meeting, I had decided to loose weight and joined a slimming club and lost just over 7stone, one day out the blue i got a text from his saying he was back in the UK would I like to meet so we did, I was dead excited because I hadn't seen him in ages and I though he's going to be so chuffed when he seems me, I was about a size 12 now (yes I've put weight back on since )
Anyway I'm stood at the arranged meeting place and he walked straight by me, I shouted him and he walked over, looked me up and down and said ...what the heck have you don't to yourself? So I said oh I've lost some weight, he proceeded to tell me I looked shit, he preferred me before and he was no longer attracted to me
Some guys genuinely do prefer bigger woman
Do you have his number?
It's ok I'm a fatty again now "
You're not a fatty just built for comfort and looked fantastic when i saw you at chams |
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"He's probably more attracted to the bigger woman? Have you asked him
I have a lovely friend who likes big big girls. I remember him telling me it took a while for him to be open about it. I mean when you're younger people like to conform and the magazines say we must like slim athletic and attractive. Whilst in reality we all are attracted to different things
I used to meet a guy a few years ago quite regular never understood why he met me, he was really good looking, good body, nice guy he could have done so much better than me, I was about a size 22/24 back then
He had to work away for a while so stopped meeting, I had decided to loose weight and joined a slimming club and lost just over 7stone, one day out the blue i got a text from his saying he was back in the UK would I like to meet so we did, I was dead excited because I hadn't seen him in ages and I though he's going to be so chuffed when he seems me, I was about a size 12 now (yes I've put weight back on since )
Anyway I'm stood at the arranged meeting place and he walked straight by me, I shouted him and he walked over, looked me up and down and said ...what the heck have you don't to yourself? So I said oh I've lost some weight, he proceeded to tell me I looked shit, he preferred me before and he was no longer attracted to me
Some guys genuinely do prefer bigger woman"
Had a similar (ish) situation myself I'd arranged a meet with a gym fit gorgeous guy on here a few years ago when I first joined and was a size 24 (now a 16/18), all my pics were current but when we met he looked at me and said sorry your pics made you look bigger than you are so I'm not interested. |
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By *eccymanMan
over a year ago
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Had a similar (ish) situation myself I'd arranged a meet with a gym fit gorgeous guy on here a few years ago when I first joined and was a size 24 (now a 16/18), all my pics were current but when we met he looked at me and said sorry your pics made you look bigger than you are so I'm not interested. "
How do you deal with something like that? The media are forever telling women they should be slim etc and when you buy into that and start dieting you get guys refusing you because you're slim/slimmer.
That's a real mind fuck.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all,
It's not what you might think...
When the male side of us was sex with an overweight female he tends to come much quicker than with somebody of a smaller size or those that are more athletic. Strange but true.
No its quite the same for me as I noticed that too I cum much quicker with a gorgeous yummy curvy woman than someone whose slim.
And since being married my wife has put on a bit like I have and the sensations amazing I cum quicker than I did when she was slimmer so I think it is due to the extra weight pushing down into the vaginal area mmm
Plus curvy girls are just yummy anyways haha
Anybody else have these issues or is he just a one off!
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Had a similar (ish) situation myself I'd arranged a meet with a gym fit gorgeous guy on here a few years ago when I first joined and was a size 24 (now a 16/18), all my pics were current but when we met he looked at me and said sorry your pics made you look bigger than you are so I'm not interested.
How do you deal with something like that? The media are forever telling women they should be slim etc and when you buy into that and start dieting you get guys refusing you because you're slim/slimmer.
That's a real mind fuck. "
You do it for yourself, not men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sometimes you just can't win can you. "
No we can't. I have a friend who looked mortified when I met him again after I had lost a couple of stone. He said don't lose any more or your tits will be small. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Here's a thought. What if,because we are fat,the man is relaxed and not worrying if he's not fit enough for us,and it makes the experience so much more pleasurable for him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Had a similar (ish) situation myself I'd arranged a meet with a gym fit gorgeous guy on here a few years ago when I first joined and was a size 24 (now a 16/18), all my pics were current but when we met he looked at me and said sorry your pics made you look bigger than you are so I'm not interested.
How do you deal with something like that? The media are forever telling women they should be slim etc and when you buy into that and start dieting you get guys refusing you because you're slim/slimmer.
That's a real mind fuck. "
No you get some guys refuse you because your slimmer
In my case ok I had one guy turn me down because I had lost weight but I was never short of offers from other men
It don't matter what size you are men will offer to meet you its just a different group of men who will meet you at a size 24 than will at a size 12, I've put weight back on since I lost my 7stone I'm now a size 16 but I still get men offering to meet me, again just different men than wanted to meet me when I was a size 12
But it's a no strings sex site so we change our partners regular anyway so that's not an issue at all |
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"Here's a thought. What if,because we are fat,the man is relaxed and not worrying if he's not fit enough for us,and it makes the experience so much more pleasurable for him. "
That assumes that fat women dont want or are not worthy of fit men and also that slimmer women are only interested in fit men. Neither are true. |
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By *eccymanMan
over a year ago
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"Sometimes you just can't win can you.
No we can't. I have a friend who looked mortified when I met him again after I had lost a couple of stone. He said don't lose any more or your tits will be small. "
Now that I understand perfectly as my ex/w lost the weight she'd put on during pregnancy and her boobs vanished whereas before they had a lovely shape to them. It didn't make me feel differently towards her but I missed her old boobs lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Here's a thought. What if,because we are fat,the man is relaxed and not worrying if he's not fit enough for us,and it makes the experience so much more pleasurable for him. "
Probably closer to the truth |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Stimulation is as much mental as pysical, we are turned on by different things and luckily dont all like the same women or type. A friend of mine was telling me he had to lift a girls stomach up to put his cock in her pussy. At that point I would be flaccid... but not him!
I had a similar experience in my early 20s. I'd pulled a girl in my local and us and my mate went back to mine. I took her upstairs and as I tried to get her knickers off they ripped as pulled them over her thighs (she was a big girl) and that was it for me, I couldn't go any further so I made my excuses and went downstairs. My mate said, "that was quick" and I told him what had happened. He then said, "do you mind if I try?" and up he went. They were fucking for hours.
I mean no disrespect to larger ladies but it does prove that there are guys who prefer the bigger girls, and good luck to them."
This my sound daft but did you not realise she was large before you got to attempting to remove her underwear??  |
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"Stimulation is as much mental as pysical, we are turned on by different things and luckily dont all like the same women or type. A friend of mine was telling me he had to lift a girls stomach up to put his cock in her pussy. At that point I would be flaccid... but not him!
I had a similar experience in my early 20s. I'd pulled a girl in my local and us and my mate went back to mine. I took her upstairs and as I tried to get her knickers off they ripped as pulled them over her thighs (she was a big girl) and that was it for me, I couldn't go any further so I made my excuses and went downstairs. My mate said, "that was quick" and I told him what had happened. He then said, "do you mind if I try?" and up he went. They were fucking for hours.
I mean no disrespect to larger ladies but it does prove that there are guys who prefer the bigger girls, and good luck to them.
This my sound daft but did you not realise she was large before you got to attempting to remove her underwear?? "
I've already asked that question
He said he didn't realise big women wasn't for him untill he took her pants off |
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"Stimulation is as much mental as pysical, we are turned on by different things and luckily dont all like the same women or type. A friend of mine was telling me he had to lift a girls stomach up to put his cock in her pussy. At that point I would be flaccid... but not him!
I had a similar experience in my early 20s. I'd pulled a girl in my local and us and my mate went back to mine. I took her upstairs and as I tried to get her knickers off they ripped as pulled them over her thighs (she was a big girl) and that was it for me, I couldn't go any further so I made my excuses and went downstairs. My mate said, "that was quick" and I told him what had happened. He then said, "do you mind if I try?" and up he went. They were fucking for hours.
I mean no disrespect to larger ladies but it does prove that there are guys who prefer the bigger girls, and good luck to them.
This my sound daft but did you not realise she was large before you got to attempting to remove her underwear??
I've already asked that question
He said he didn't realise big women wasn't for him untill he took her pants off "
My question regarding this was how did she get her knickers on without ripping them on her thunder thighs if he couldn't get them off without ripping them?
I have never ripped my knickers putting them on or taking them off. Mind you I did spend a few years not writing any lol still don't on occasion. |
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"Stimulation is as much mental as pysical, we are turned on by different things and luckily dont all like the same women or type. A friend of mine was telling me he had to lift a girls stomach up to put his cock in her pussy. At that point I would be flaccid... but not him!
I had a similar experience in my early 20s. I'd pulled a girl in my local and us and my mate went back to mine. I took her upstairs and as I tried to get her knickers off they ripped as pulled them over her thighs (she was a big girl) and that was it for me, I couldn't go any further so I made my excuses and went downstairs. My mate said, "that was quick" and I told him what had happened. He then said, "do you mind if I try?" and up he went. They were fucking for hours.
I mean no disrespect to larger ladies but it does prove that there are guys who prefer the bigger girls, and good luck to them.
This my sound daft but did you not realise she was large before you got to attempting to remove her underwear??
I've already asked that question
He said he didn't realise big women wasn't for him untill he took her pants off
My question regarding this was how did she get her knickers on without ripping them on her thunder thighs if he couldn't get them off without ripping them?
I have never ripped my knickers putting them on or taking them off. Mind you I did spend a few years not writing any lol still don't on occasion. "
I've had loads if guys rip my knickers off and they are always the right size |
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"Stimulation is as much mental as pysical, we are turned on by different things and luckily dont all like the same women or type. A friend of mine was telling me he had to lift a girls stomach up to put his cock in her pussy. At that point I would be flaccid... but not him!
I had a similar experience in my early 20s. I'd pulled a girl in my local and us and my mate went back to mine. I took her upstairs and as I tried to get her knickers off they ripped as pulled them over her thighs (she was a big girl) and that was it for me, I couldn't go any further so I made my excuses and went downstairs. My mate said, "that was quick" and I told him what had happened. He then said, "do you mind if I try?" and up he went. They were fucking for hours.
I mean no disrespect to larger ladies but it does prove that there are guys who prefer the bigger girls, and good luck to them.
This my sound daft but did you not realise she was large before you got to attempting to remove her underwear??
I've already asked that question
He said he didn't realise big women wasn't for him untill he took her pants off
My question regarding this was how did she get her knickers on without ripping them on her thunder thighs if he couldn't get them off without ripping them?
I have never ripped my knickers putting them on or taking them off. Mind you I did spend a few years not writing any lol still don't on occasion.
I've had loads if guys rip my knickers off and they are always the right size "
Ripping I'm the heat of the moment is horny but the not what was described in said story. He made sound as if it were inevitable that they ripped because of her size.
Anyway. We know the answer, pissed as newts lol |
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over a year ago
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"Here's a thought. What if,because we are fat,the man is relaxed and not worrying if he's not fit enough for us,and it makes the experience so much more pleasurable for him.
That assumes that fat women dont want or are not worthy of fit men and also that slimmer women are only interested in fit men. Neither are true. "
I was thinking more of the mindset of individuals. I've read lots on here where women have said they wouldn't meet a man because the other women he's met are slim,or that he looked too hot. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Stimulation is as much mental as pysical, we are turned on by different things and luckily dont all like the same women or type. A friend of mine was telling me he had to lift a girls stomach up to put his cock in her pussy. At that point I would be flaccid... but not him!
I had a similar experience in my early 20s. I'd pulled a girl in my local and us and my mate went back to mine. I took her upstairs and as I tried to get her knickers off they ripped as pulled them over her thighs (she was a big girl) and that was it for me, I couldn't go any further so I made my excuses and went downstairs. My mate said, "that was quick" and I told him what had happened. He then said, "do you mind if I try?" and up he went. They were fucking for hours.
I mean no disrespect to larger ladies but it does prove that there are guys who prefer the bigger girls, and good luck to them.
This my sound daft but did you not realise she was large before you got to attempting to remove her underwear??
I've already asked that question
He said he didn't realise big women wasn't for him untill he took her pants off "
Haha
She we look ok with clothes on??
Sorry Evie I only skimmed the thread so obviously missed that bit |
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over a year ago
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"She was a lovely girl and we remained friends until she moved away but that night was never repeated."
Thank God for that I don't think I could cope with an update |
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"Hi all,
It's not what you might think...
When the male side of us was sex with an overweight female he tends to come much quicker than with somebody of a smaller size or those that are more athletic. Strange but true.
Anybody else have these issues or is he just a one off!
X"
Why don't you discuss this with him?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes you just can't win can you.
Somebody for everybody though isnt there
Be you a size 8,18 or 28 there will always be people attracted to you
It just annoys me when people think only desperate men shag fat women because it's not always the case
I have some really good looking, gym fit guys mail me and it's quite obvious from their pics they aren't desperate
I've lost count of the amount of times I looked at guys who have come into me, in clubs etc too not just on here and thought, really you could do so much better
T
I don't get it myself "
Im the same thou I do ask them why me they say coz they prefer larger women |
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"He's probably more attracted to the bigger woman? Have you asked him
I have a lovely friend who likes big big girls. I remember him telling me it took a while for him to be open about it. I mean when you're younger people like to conform and the magazines say we must like slim athletic and attractive. Whilst in reality we all are attracted to different things
I used to meet a guy a few years ago quite regular never understood why he met me, he was really good looking, good body, nice guy he could have done so much better than me, I was about a size 22/24 back then
He had to work away for a while so stopped meeting, I had decided to loose weight and joined a slimming club and lost just over 7stone, one day out the blue i got a text from his saying he was back in the UK would I like to meet so we did, I was dead excited because I hadn't seen him in ages and I though he's going to be so chuffed when he seems me, I was about a size 12 now (yes I've put weight back on since )
Anyway I'm stood at the arranged meeting place and he walked straight by me, I shouted him and he walked over, looked me up and down and said ...what the heck have you don't to yourself? So I said oh I've lost some weight, he proceeded to tell me I looked shit, he preferred me before and he was no longer attracted to me
Some guys genuinely do prefer bigger woman"
bloody hell,what did you say to him? |
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"He's probably more attracted to the bigger woman? Have you asked him
I have a lovely friend who likes big big girls. I remember him telling me it took a while for him to be open about it. I mean when you're younger people like to conform and the magazines say we must like slim athletic and attractive. Whilst in reality we all are attracted to different things
I used to meet a guy a few years ago quite regular never understood why he met me, he was really good looking, good body, nice guy he could have done so much better than me, I was about a size 22/24 back then
He had to work away for a while so stopped meeting, I had decided to loose weight and joined a slimming club and lost just over 7stone, one day out the blue i got a text from his saying he was back in the UK would I like to meet so we did, I was dead excited because I hadn't seen him in ages and I though he's going to be so chuffed when he seems me, I was about a size 12 now (yes I've put weight back on since )
Anyway I'm stood at the arranged meeting place and he walked straight by me, I shouted him and he walked over, looked me up and down and said ...what the heck have you don't to yourself? So I said oh I've lost some weight, he proceeded to tell me I looked shit, he preferred me before and he was no longer attracted to me
Some guys genuinely do prefer bigger woman
bloody hell,what did you say to him?"
Nothing
I took it as a compliment
Was the first time in my life I'd been turned down for being to thin
We had a drink and a catch up and left
His choice what could I have said? |
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Had a similar (ish) situation myself I'd arranged a meet with a gym fit gorgeous guy on here a few years ago when I first joined and was a size 24 (now a 16/18), all my pics were current but when we met he looked at me and said sorry your pics made you look bigger than you are so I'm not interested.
How do you deal with something like that? The media are forever telling women they should be slim etc and when you buy into that and start dieting you get guys refusing you because you're slim/slimmer.
That's a real mind fuck. "
I was fine with it. Just got myself back on fab and arranged another meet and had lots of fun. We're still actually really good friends on here and meet socially we just don't fuck each other. We all like what we like |
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"He's probably more attracted to the bigger woman? Have you asked him
I have a lovely friend who likes big big girls. I remember him telling me it took a while for him to be open about it. I mean when you're younger people like to conform and the magazines say we must like slim athletic and attractive. Whilst in reality we all are attracted to different things
I used to meet a guy a few years ago quite regular never understood why he met me, he was really good looking, good body, nice guy he could have done so much better than me, I was about a size 22/24 back then
He had to work away for a while so stopped meeting, I had decided to loose weight and joined a slimming club and lost just over 7stone, one day out the blue i got a text from his saying he was back in the UK would I like to meet so we did, I was dead excited because I hadn't seen him in ages and I though he's going to be so chuffed when he seems me, I was about a size 12 now (yes I've put weight back on since )
Anyway I'm stood at the arranged meeting place and he walked straight by me, I shouted him and he walked over, looked me up and down and said ...what the heck have you don't to yourself? So I said oh I've lost some weight, he proceeded to tell me I looked shit, he preferred me before and he was no longer attracted to me
Some guys genuinely do prefer bigger woman
bloody hell,what did you say to him?
Nothing
I took it as a compliment
Was the first time in my life I'd been turned down for being to thin
We had a drink and a catch up and left
His choice what could I have said? "
Don't know,it just sounded pretty pants saying you look shit |
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All I'd like to add to this thread.. Is I'm happy white guy's started admitting they like the larger ladies...
For years they have been casing stones at us black men for being honest with our appreciation , while secretly craving the loving of the larger ladies...
Now I see more guys on these forums being proud and proclaiming their love for the larger ladies.
Thank you white guys for coming out of the closet |
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"All I'd like to add to this thread.. Is I'm happy white guy's started admitting they like the larger ladies...
For years they have been casing stones at us black men for being honest with our appreciation , while secretly craving the loving of the larger ladies...
Now I see more guys on these forums being proud and proclaiming their love for the larger ladies.
Thank you white guys for coming out of the closet "
Keeping my mouth shut |
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"All I'd like to add to this thread.. Is I'm happy white guy's started admitting they like the larger ladies...
For years they have been casing stones at us black men for being honest with our appreciation , while secretly craving the loving of the larger ladies...
Now I see more guys on these forums being proud and proclaiming their love for the larger ladies.
Thank you white guys for coming out of the closet "
I think you're right. It's good to see. |
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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago
a quandary, could you change my mind? |
Again I'm still confused by the sizing people use both for themselves and others.
I find the lines cross and get muddled (and that's in my opinion) , I prefer what is in my eyes the smaller ladies.
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"Again I'm still confused by the sizing people use both for themselves and others.
I find the lines cross and get muddled (and that's in my opinion) , I prefer what is in my eyes the smaller ladies.
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Do men have the same sizing options? |
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"Stimulation is as much mental as pysical, we are turned on by different things and luckily dont all like the same women or type. A friend of mine was telling me he had to lift a girls stomach up to put his cock in her pussy. At that point I would be flaccid... but not him!
I had a similar experience in my early 20s. I'd pulled a girl in my local and us and my mate went back to mine. I took her upstairs and as I tried to get her knickers off they ripped as pulled them over her thighs (she was a big girl) and that was it for me, I couldn't go any further so I made my excuses and went downstairs. My mate said, "that was quick" and I told him what had happened. He then said, "do you mind if I try?" and up he went. They were fucking for hours.
I mean no disrespect to larger ladies but it does prove that there are guys who prefer the bigger girls, and good luck to them."
Charming. You may mean no disrespect but that's not how your posts come across. |
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I have found that a lot of men like the larger ladies. Been member of a lot of chat rooms for bbw and even owned a few on the old MSN chat. And the men who was in love with the bbw ladies was from all sorts of men, from fit gym sorts to larger men.
So in life it's about ones own choices. |
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over a year ago
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"I do cum quicker with a bbw or ssbbw. I just find these women so sexy
What's SSBBW? I'm guessing at "Super Size BBW""
Yes you would be right x its a term a lady i was seeing used to describe herself |
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"I have found that a lot of men like the larger ladies. Been member of a lot of chat rooms for bbw and even owned a few on the old MSN chat. And the men who was in love with the bbw ladies was from all sorts of men, from fit gym sorts to larger men.
So in life it's about ones own choices. "
This is true but liking the larger ladies is usually a dirty secret!
Lets face it in real life most men prefer a slim lady on their arm!
And then come on here and fuck us fatties!
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"I have found that a lot of men like the larger ladies. Been member of a lot of chat rooms for bbw and even owned a few on the old MSN chat. And the men who was in love with the bbw ladies was from all sorts of men, from fit gym sorts to larger men.
So in life it's about ones own choices.
This is true but liking the larger ladies is usually a dirty secret!
Lets face it in real life most men prefer a slim lady on their arm!
And then come on here and fuck us fatties!
"
Some men do hide it but must of them now will say what they like. It more up front then it use to be. More men like the comfort and our bubbly sense of humour. |
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"I have found that a lot of men like the larger ladies. Been member of a lot of chat rooms for bbw and even owned a few on the old MSN chat. And the men who was in love with the bbw ladies was from all sorts of men, from fit gym sorts to larger men.
So in life it's about ones own choices.
This is true but liking the larger ladies is usually a dirty secret!
Lets face it in real life most men prefer a slim lady on their arm!
And then come on here and fuck us fatties!
Some men do hide it but must of them now will say what they like. It more up front then it use to be. More men like the comfort and our bubbly sense of humour. "
Yeah never got the fat people are jolly thing myself
I'm a right misrable twat |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I have found that a lot of men like the larger ladies. Been member of a lot of chat rooms for bbw and even owned a few on the old MSN chat. And the men who was in love with the bbw ladies was from all sorts of men, from fit gym sorts to larger men.
So in life it's about ones own choices.
This is true but liking the larger ladies is usually a dirty secret!
Lets face it in real life most men prefer a slim lady on their arm!
And then come on here and fuck us fatties!
Some men do hide it but must of them now will say what they like. It more up front then it use to be. More men like the comfort and our bubbly sense of humour.
Yeah never got the fat people are jolly thing myself
I'm a right misrable twat "
Me too but I have a big smile so I must be bubbly. |
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"I have found that a lot of men like the larger ladies. Been member of a lot of chat rooms for bbw and even owned a few on the old MSN chat. And the men who was in love with the bbw ladies was from all sorts of men, from fit gym sorts to larger men.
So in life it's about ones own choices.
lol hun
This is true but liking the larger ladies is usually a dirty secret!
Lets face it in real life most men prefer a slim lady on their arm!
And then come on here and fuck us fatties!
Some men do hide it but must of them now will say what they like. It more up front then it use to be. More men like the comfort and our bubbly sense of humour.
Yeah never got the fat people are jolly thing myself
I'm a right misrable twat "
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"I have found that a lot of men like the larger ladies. Been member of a lot of chat rooms for bbw and even owned a few on the old MSN chat. And the men who was in love with the bbw ladies was from all sorts of men, from fit gym sorts to larger men.
So in life it's about ones own choices.
See you are bubbly
This is true but liking the larger ladies is usually a dirty secret!
Lets face it in real life most men prefer a slim lady on their arm!
And then come on here and fuck us fatties!
Some men do hide it but must of them now will say what they like. It more up front then it use to be. More men like the comfort and our bubbly sense of humour.
Yeah never got the fat people are jolly thing myself
I'm a right misrable twat
Me too but I have a big smile so I must be bubbly. "
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"I have found that a lot of men like the larger ladies. Been member of a lot of chat rooms for bbw and even owned a few on the old MSN chat. And the men who was in love with the bbw ladies was from all sorts of men, from fit gym sorts to larger men.
So in life it's about ones own choices.
See you are bubbly
This is true but liking the larger ladies is usually a dirty secret!
Lets face it in real life most men prefer a slim lady on their arm!
And then come on here and fuck us fatties!
Some men do hide it but must of them now will say what they like. It more up front then it use to be. More men like the comfort and our bubbly sense of humour.
Yeah never got the fat people are jolly thing myself
I'm a right misrable twat
Me too but I have a big smile so I must be bubbly. "
See u are bubbly and beautiful. |
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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago
a quandary, could you change my mind? |
"Again I'm still confused by the sizing people use both for themselves and others.
I find the lines cross and get muddled (and that's in my opinion) , I prefer what is in my eyes the smaller ladies.
Do men have the same sizing options?"
I Believe so |
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"Hi all,
It's not what you might think...
When the male side of us was sex with an overweight female he tends to come much quicker than with somebody of a smaller size or those that are more athletic. Strange but true.
Anybody else have these issues or is he just a one off!
X"
Sounds like he obviously finds overweight women a massive turn on |
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