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I think a lot wont meet, they seem to think because we are Bi we are going to want to jump on the male, so not true.
In any good potentioal meet you agree the boundaries and stick to them, as you say in your profile
You seldom see both straight couples profiles saying wont meet Bi woman do you, strange that aint it |
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over a year ago
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Why is it ok to meet a bi female within a couple but if it's a bi male within a couple some won't or a bi couple, we wouldn't jump a straight male unless asked hehe  |
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over a year ago
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Well Hell ... im gonna stick my bit in too... so to speak... what about bi guys & girls who get meet requests from "straight" couples who say they dont meet bi folks ....??? wtf... |
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i would hope they would think,oh a couple find us attractive and want to meet and play within mutually agreed boundaries.
However the very fact this thread is here suggests that ppl still think a bi male is unable to resist cock, regardless of the situation.Some St8 men need to get over themselves! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i would hope they would think,oh a couple find us attractive and want to meet and play within mutually agreed boundaries.
However the very fact this thread is here suggests that ppl still think a bi male is unable to resist cock, regardless of the situation.Some St8 men need to get over themselves!"
Hit the nail on the head there, I've met a few straight couples and kept to the boundaries set but for some reason on here I'm noticing that bi males just don't have a chance with straight couples. They assume just that, the guy will get jumped at the first opportunity  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You wana see Mallys arse when he is riding his bike. You would either want to fuck it or knock him off with your car haha!!!!"
hahaha I keep looking out for you pet, ready to jump on ya bonet |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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I think most people know that a man isn't going to jump another man just because he is bi.....but there isn't anything wrong in being comfortable with who you play with, and if someone isn't comfortable playing with bi men in a MFM situation , then thats their choice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think a lot wont meet, they seem to think because we are Bi we are going to want to jump on the male, so not true.
In any good potentioal meet you agree the boundaries and stick to them, as you say in your profile
You seldom see both straight couples profiles saying wont meet Bi woman do you, strange that aint it"
Absolutely agree with you there...it is a cheek to think that my partner would want to"jump" every man, as that is so not the case at all. Same as me , we both have to fancy the guy (or woman) and there has to be some sort of attraction.
And neither of us would ever dream of pushing any play with non interested parties. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i would hope they would think,oh a couple find us attractive and want to meet and play within mutually agreed boundaries.
However the very fact this thread is here suggests that ppl still think a bi male is unable to resist cock, regardless of the situation.Some St8 men need to get over themselves!
Hit the nail on the head there, I've met a few straight couples and kept to the boundaries set but for some reason on here I'm noticing that bi males just don't have a chance with straight couples. They assume just that, the guy will get jumped at the first opportunity "
We get overlooked by some straight couples because of my sexuality... straight women think I'm going to jump on them
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"Im not in a couple.. but i did presume that because a man is bi that he wanted cock.. guilty & sorry xxxxxx"
How very dare you!!!
I don't class myself as "bi" but don't jump off the bed in fright if touched by wandering hands.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I wanted to know what Straight Couples thought, didn't want members being attacked cause of their comments about the subject, but it is Fab after all, these things happen, and its not even Thursday |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i don't want this thread turning into a witch hunt 
You know when this subject comes up it always gets heated.
So a question for you....why the question?"
what feckin question. does it mean I have to bloody read through all this again. told ya i had an attention span of a gnat |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"I wanted to know what Straight Couples thought, didn't want members being attacked cause of their comments about the subject, but it is Fab after all, these things happen, and its not even Thursday "
No one got attacked.
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"i don't want this thread turning into a witch hunt
You know when this subject comes up it always gets heated.
So a question for you....why the question?
what feckin question. does it mean I have to bloody read through all this again. told ya i had an attention span of a gnat"
The original question
Keep up Pussy, there will be questions later  |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Im not in a couple.. but i did presume that because a man is bi that he wanted cock.. guilty & sorry xxxxxx
How very dare you!!!
I don't class myself as "bi" but don't jump off the bed in fright if touched by wandering hands.
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Thats not what she said |
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We're a straight couple and have no problems with messages from bi guys. I (like rugby) assume the want MFM or just a straight meet with me. And the bonus of a bi guy in a MFM is that they're not fazed by another man being about - some straight guys are, we have found.. they think they'll be ok, but the reality is that they're not. (hence why I prefer guys who have already tried 3sums or who are bi for that scenario - it's a lot of hard work trying to persuade a cock with stage fright to play!) |
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over a year ago
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I am not bi myself but I am comfortable in the company of others in a group or 3sum and body parts do sometimes bump into each other whether it be a dp or a double bj, it happens. |
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I've played with straight and bi couples and with any meet's alway's make sure what people are comftable with if the woman does'nt swallow or take anal or anything else i'm not going to try and force that on her so if the guy is straight i'm not going to play with him it's all about knowing what everyone want's out of the meet and respecting that |
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over a year ago
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Doesnt bother us at all, if we like them and work permitting etc we can meet then we will. Just cos they are bi doesnt mean that a bisexual session takes place when we meet |
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"Why is it ok to meet a bi female within a couple but if it's a bi male within a couple some won't"
Because for some guys the ultimate fantasy is FF action, however, those who refuse to meet a Bi male within a M/F couple, have insecurity issues, they believe a) we can’t be trusted because b) we’re going to jump on them at the sight of their cock!
“Some” guys need reminding, irrespective of looks / size, not every guy is calendar material |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a bi guy - I don't wanna jump and service every cock I see!
Shame a lot of folk have this presumption.
I'm happy to play with a couple... That being both the make and female if that's
1 what they want
2 what I want
Have had messages from people i've spoken to that say sorry not interested as mr is straight.
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This is my take on it....
If a Couple choose not to meet a bi male, I don't see any reasons for them to be questioned about that decision, nor for them to be deemed to be 'Insecure' to be honest.
It's their choice....in the same way that is the choice of a guy to put 'bisexual' on his profile.
Whatever happened to freedom of choice?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In all the years of being on the scene ive actually played bi with couples no more than five times
Its actually something i keep out of swinging situations if possible and actually prefer it that way xx |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Why is it ok to meet a bi female within a couple but if it's a bi male within a couple some won't
Because for some guys the ultimate fantasy is FF action, however, those who refuse to meet a Bi male within a M/F couple, have insecurity issues, they believe a) we can’t be trusted because b) we’re going to jump on them at the sight of their cock!
“Some” guys need reminding, irrespective of looks / size, not every guy is calendar material "
Thats a huge sweeping statement.
I think some bi people need reminding that straight people are allowed preferences of who they meet and who they are comfortable playing with, just like bi people can and without being told the are scared that a man will jump on them regardless. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"This is my take on it....
If a Couple choose not to meet a bi male, I don't see any reasons for them to be questioned about that decision, nor for them to be deemed to be 'Insecure' to be honest.
It's their choice....in the same way that is the choice of a guy to put 'bisexual' on his profile.
Whatever happened to freedom of choice?
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Apparently you lose that if you are straight...we are either surpessing our sexuality or insecure and are not allowed to JUST have a preference, it has to be dissected and it is never pleasant what people come up with. |
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"I think some bi people need reminding that straight people are allowed preferences of who they meet and who they are comfortable playing with"
Off course they are.
How many times has the subject been debated and the reasons why male’s state straight on their profile when in fact they’re actually bi.
You yourself have defended those who state straight on their profile due to the ewwww brigade, it never ceases to amaze me the amount of profiles that state “NO bi males” yet, on their friends list, numerous meets from “single” guys, click on that individual profile and see how many “single” bi males they’ve met |
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How many times has the subject been debated and the reasons why male’s state straight on their profile when in fact they’re actually bi.
You yourself have defended those who state straight on their profile due to the ewwww brigade, it never ceases to amaze me the amount of profiles that state “NO bi males” yet, on their friends list, numerous meets from “single” guys, click on that individual profile and see how many “single” bi males they’ve met "
good point, well made |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There plenty single female profiles on here that state “no bi males” on their profiles, does that mean that these ladies don’t want a male jumping on them, even though its men they’re seeking? sorry guys but all these presumptions that some people don’t meet bi men because they’re scared they’ll get jumped on seem to be made by the bi males themselves rather than the other way around |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"I think some bi people need reminding that straight people are allowed preferences of who they meet and who they are comfortable playing with
Off course they are.
How many times has the subject been debated and the reasons why male’s state straight on their profile when in fact they’re actually bi.
You yourself have defended those who state straight on their profile due to the ewwww brigade, it never ceases to amaze me the amount of profiles that state “NO bi males” yet, on their friends list, numerous meets from “single” guys, click on that individual profile and see how many “single” bi males they’ve met "
Have I defended people for implying they are straight when they are bi?
I might have said I can understand why they put it, but we like honesty so we would rather people be honest on their profiles ( I know, pigs may fly)
It still isn't nice to lump everyone in the same pot as insecure and scared to walk away from the wall for fear of a man diving on them.
People have their own reasons why they don't want to play with people and it isn't their fault if some sections of the swinging world take offence about that..... so much so that they come out with what can only be described as derogatry comments.
We have on our friends list a man who describes himself as 75% gay, we will be meeting him some time this year... it doesn't mean we are are going to shag him though. |
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"There plenty single female profiles on here that state “no bi males” on their profiles, does that mean that these ladies don’t want a male jumping on them, even though its men they’re seeking? sorry guys but all these presumptions that some people don’t meet bi men because they’re scared they’ll get jumped on seem to be made by the bi males themselves rather than the other way around "
Actually i agree with that and will remove that line from my profile
Ive never looked at it like that
Thanks xx |
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We dont care if the guy is bi or not, if we like him and he likes us and we want to meet then we will. I dont care what hes done in other meets, that doesnt necessarily mean it will happen in our meet.
We go with the flow and what feels right on the night.
The thing I have found with bi guys though is that I have a particular preference of two guys touching me at the same time. Bi guys dont jump through the roof if they happen to glance across Chris's hand, Chris really isnt interested in holding guys hands!! When people are comfortable with their own sexuality, they seem to have less hang ups |
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By (user no longer on site)
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we get absolutely shitloads of mail from "straight" guys saying "i am bi, but dont put it on my profile because it puts straight cpls off"..........so the straight cpls have no idea if they are meeting a guy who maybe bi anyhow.
We are both bi (although the wife prefers cock and the male prefers pussy)
Its purely down to each individuals level and what they want.
And for crying out loud - no bi guy in the world is ever going to dream of jumping on a straight guy.
If we didnt put it on our profile, then no one would have a clue if we were bi or not.
We also dont advertise for single fems.........but we get loads of those as well !! |
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"We dont care if the guy is bi or not, if we like him and he likes us and we want to meet then we will. I dont care what hes done in other meets, that doesnt necessarily mean it will happen in our meet.
We go with the flow and what feels right on the night.
The thing I have found with bi guys though is that I have a particular preference of two guys touching me at the same time. Bi guys dont jump through the roof if they happen to glance across Chris's hand, Chris really isnt interested in holding guys hands!! When people are comfortable with their own sexuality, they seem to have less hang ups "
spot on there being comfortable with ones sexuality like ive said ive met a few bi cpls and im happy as im str8 who gives a shit wondering hands dont bother me and as we know it freaks some guys  |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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As anyone who has had MFM will know...contact will happen at times.
Straight men can be just as comfortable with that situation as bi men can.
We have had MFM with bi and straight men...the bi man knew it was a straight MFM from the start and didn't go beyond anything that we had all agreed on.
The straight men we have played with were not uncomfortable with an odd bit of contact just like the bi man wasn't. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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I never worry about it.. plenty bi couples or single ladies who meet bi guys.
It is all about being comfortable in the situation and some str8 guys wouldn't be and I can kinda understand that to be honest.
Also some of the ladies within the str8 couples also might find the thought of guy on guy action very uncomfortable.
I can't actually understand why bi guys write to str8 couples to be honest.. ( only if they invite bi guys to do with the understanding of boundaries. ) |
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I can't actually understand why bi guys write to str8 couples to be honest.. "
Becausenot all bi men want to jump on every cock they see and suck the life out of it would you believe!?
On this basis every bi female would want sexual contact with every female they see in any situation.
Every straight person would have the insatiable urge to have some kind of sexual contact with anopposite member of sex...
NO obviously this isn't quite the case.
What a lot of people seem to forget is Bi guys are attracted to females (not all females) and males (not all males)
Some bi guys have a preference of tendancy towards women, others towards men, others are attracted equally.
There are too many things running in the background to "STEREOTYPE" people of certain 'tendancies' (for want of a better word) |
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I can't actually understand why bi guys write to str8 couples to be honest..
Becausenot all bi men want to jump on every cock they see and suck the life out of it would you believe!?
On this basis every bi female would want sexual contact with every female they see in any situation.
Every straight person would have the insatiable urge to have some kind of sexual contact with anopposite member of sex...
NO obviously this isn't quite the case.
What a lot of people seem to forget is Bi guys are attracted to females (not all females) and males (not all males)
Some bi guys have a preference of tendancy towards women, others towards men, others are attracted equally.
There are too many things running in the background to "STEREOTYPE" people of certain 'tendancies' (for want of a better word)"
do you get any messages from guys? asking for a meet |
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I can't actually understand why bi guys write to str8 couples to be honest..
Becausenot all bi men want to jump on every cock they see and suck the life out of it would you believe!?
On this basis every bi female would want sexual contact with every female they see in any situation.
Every straight person would have the insatiable urge to have some kind of sexual contact with anopposite member of sex...
NO obviously this isn't quite the case.
What a lot of people seem to forget is Bi guys are attracted to females (not all females) and males (not all males)
Some bi guys have a preference of tendancy towards women, others towards men, others are attracted equally.
There are too many things running in the background to "STEREOTYPE" people of certain 'tendancies' (for want of a better word)
do you get any messages from guys? asking for a meet"
Nope as I have my profile set not to |
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