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"There's no point in asking , you'll get no reply!"
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"Ohhh nooooooooooo - not again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!" oh ffs , i did it the nice way lol | |||
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"could you elaborate on that response?" YEP!! The 100th post about no replies from single guys, and there are loads of answers on here too. Have a read- there are that many posts i am sure i would keep you busy for at least a week - sort of the length of time it takes for us single girls to plow thru all our mail - and half as long if we tried to reply to them all. Debz | |||
"Ohhh nooooooooooo - not again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! oh ffs , i did it the nice way lol " LOL Sorry hun - am in one of "those" moods tonight........and have had several copy and paste messages tonight that i cant even be bothered to read the rest of my mail as am bored now!!! xx | |||
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"Good point, perhaps I've been driven to the point of distraction by getting no responses " just a thought.... but if you send out loads of replies and get nothing back maybe the problem lies at the foot of the sender..... hmmmmm if you do nothing but blooming moan in your profile i am not surprised you get nothing back... i am... you are not coming across as mr positive now are you... | |||
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"Im bored, night night" PMSL!!! Night hun xxx | |||
"Stop moaning you got one reply didnt you and yes it does matter whether you cut and paste or send an individual message." absofuckinlutely!
cut and paste messages are exactly that, cant take the time to write me a proper & personal response? it takes me the same amount of time to hit the delete button  | |||
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"Oi, thats my template you've pasted........ err, not that I use it "You used it on me you bitch!!! hehehe Thats why i stole it!!!! x | |||
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"Thanks, I think my real problem is people who read the message and then don't even look at my profile. I understand the numbers game, Scattergun method! Throw enough shit at the wall and something will stick, it's the system that junk mail companies used for years." how do u know they dont look at yr profile ??? | |||
"cos thanks but no thanks often results in a) being called a whore or a timewaster b) someone wanting a dialogue about why you said thanks but no thanks c) because "wanna fuck" doesnt really cut it in deserving a reply yep..some huge generalisations there , but so has the OP its a numbers game on here for all concerned ...thick skins needed and perserverance ( and yes that applies to single females too ) good luck " Sprite has hit the nail on the head. I tried to be polite and answer all messages but its the "Thanks but no thanks" that generate "you're a fat bitch anyway" type of comment. Delete.... gone ... simples!!! | |||
" I tried to be polite and answer all messages but its the "Thanks but no thanks" that generate "you're a fat bitch anyway" type of comment. Delete.... gone ... simples!!! " Twats spoil it for genuine people of both sexes on here  | |||
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"cos thanks but no thanks often results in a) being called a whore or a timewaster b) someone wanting a dialogue about why you said thanks but no thanks c) because "wanna fuck" doesnt really cut it in deserving a reply yep..some huge generalisations there , but so has the OP its a numbers game on here for all concerned ...thick skins needed and perserverance ( and yes that applies to single females too ) good luck Sprite has hit the nail on the head. I tried to be polite and answer all messages but its the "Thanks but no thanks" that generate "you're a fat bitch anyway" type of comment. Delete.... gone ... simples!!! " lol i think we've had the same profile visitors estee 
you could do with adding a bit more to your profile too mrNicko...we all need to stand out from the 100's of others like us on here. And a targeted scattergun, with people you've really looked for compatability with along side a message which reflects that may increase your reply rate - even if it still is a thanks but no thanks. I know i'm not the only one who'll reply to those messages where someones made a real effort to personalise it ...the wanna fucks get deleted | |||
"Because as a site subscriber you get a "Who looked at me button" and you can see the last 100 people who checked you out" you can opt out of this tho...in the privacy settings - then you wont be seen on the who's looked at you | |||
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" It does become frustrating though as I'm sure you'll appreciate" no... it is suppose to be fun, and this is where people take it too seriously... heck i know as a big black guy not everyone is going to like me... such is life... concentrate on those who do... if they don't they loss..... jeez..... | |||
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"Because as a site subscriber you get a "Who looked at me button" and you can see the last 100 people who checked you out" ive just looked at yr profile, but i bet u cant see that | |||
"Heay i dont get one message on here "ya fibber, i mailed u lastnight lol | |||
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"i had an idiot send me a message the other day. "Nice legs" Erm, i only have my eyes and messaged him to say that. He replied back, "ahh but I got you to reply to me though" What a wanker!!!!" YEP!!!! Wanking will all he will be doing tonight!!! LOL | |||
"i had an idiot send me a message the other day. "Nice legs" Erm, i only have my eyes and messaged him to say that. He replied back, "ahh but I got you to reply to me though" What a wanker!!!! YEP!!!! Wanking will all he will be doing tonight!!! LOL" Nice head | |||
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"i had an idiot send me a message the other day. "Nice legs" Erm, i only have my eyes and messaged him to say that. He replied back, "ahh but I got you to reply to me though" What a wanker!!!! YEP!!!! Wanking will all he will be doing tonight!!! LOL Nice head "we talking yours or mine now....lol | |||
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"it is 92% bollox actually, 8% shite "is it fook i always said it was 6% bollox .42% shite ,and 50 % of meaningless banter and bitchin !!!!  | |||
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"the other 2% we aint got a clue what it is .!!! "the other 2% is Cliggy bless him | |||
"the other 2% we aint got a clue what it is .!!!
the other 2% is Cliggy bless him "yeah i suppose it was early cliggy ....lol | |||
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"The pistols got it absolutely right! It really doesn't seem to make any difference if you cut and paste a message or tailor it to the person/couples profile. If you are a single male the reply ratio is about 1:50 for those of you that don't do statistics that means for every 50 messages a genuine single male like me sends out, he gets 1 reply. How frustrating is that! It takes ten seconds to type "Thanks but no thanks" so why can people not do that? Defeats me! " I have a good idea why don't you try sending people abusive mail, that might generate a reply....by the way check your inbox | |||
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"why is it its all the youngsters who moan on about no responces im an old sod and since i came on here my weekends are mostly booked up if i can get responces what the he** are they doing "aw to be fair he did take on board what was said early on ..profile is so much better than it was and while we may have seen the same thread a million and one times then its a new one to whoevers posting it at the time ! sprite - in a diplomatic mood | |||
"because your bored and need something to do LOL" dont think ive ever been that bored!!!! | |||
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"i think its so ignorant not to reply to ppl i reply to every single email i get on here and other websites. manners dont cost as thing that is if you have them not everyone does" its hardly a matter of manners now is it? what sort of manners does someone have to not even bother writing a decent message in the first place? and btw it does state on our profile that we will delete unread messages from single guys...didnt realise it was compulsory to reply to every single message we get ....not enough hours in the day | |||
"i think its so ignorant not to reply to ppl i reply to every single email i get on here and other websites. manners dont cost as thing that is if you have them not everyone doesits hardly a matter of manners now is it? what sort of manners does someone have to not even bother writing a decent message in the first place? and btw it does state on our profile that we will delete unread messages from single guys...didnt realise it was compulsory to reply to every single message we get ....not enough hours in the day" agree totally ..i'll reply if someone obviously put some effort into it but as the majority of the mail i get consists of 3 or 4 word messages ..nope i dont reply to those | |||
"i think its so ignorant not to reply to ppl i reply to every single email i get on here and other websites. manners dont cost as thing that is if you have them not everyone doesits hardly a matter of manners now is it? what sort of manners does someone have to not even bother writing a decent message in the first place? and btw it does state on our profile that we will delete unread messages from single guys...didnt realise it was compulsory to reply to every single message we get ....not enough hours in the day agree totally ..i'll reply if someone obviously put some effort into it but as the majority of the mail i get consists of 3 or 4 word messages ..nope i dont reply to those " thanks sprite ...and for the record...had 4 really nice messages from single guys that i did reply to ...even if it was a thanx but no thanx | |||
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"i think its so ignorant not to reply to ppl i reply to every single email i get on here and other websites. manners dont cost as thing that is if you have them not everyone doesits hardly a matter of manners now is it? what sort of manners does someone have to not even bother writing a decent message in the first place? and btw it does state on our profile that we will delete unread messages from single guys...didnt realise it was compulsory to reply to every single message we get ....not enough hours in the day agree totally ..i'll reply if someone obviously put some effort into it but as the majority of the mail i get consists of 3 or 4 word messages ..nope i dont reply to those thanks sprite ...and for the record...had 4 really nice messages from single guys that i did reply to ...even if it was a thanx but no thanx" yep ive had some great ones too recently...even if they are wayyyy outside my age range then i'll still reply nicely if it says more than nice tits . | |||
"The pistols got it absolutely right! It really doesn't seem to make any difference if you cut and paste a message or tailor it to the person/couples profile. If you are a single male the reply ratio is about 1:50 for those of you that don't do statistics that means for every 50 messages a genuine single male like me sends out, he gets 1 reply. How frustrating is that! It takes ten seconds to type "Thanks but no thanks" so why can people not do that? Defeats me! " Have you considered the line “using blindfolds ropes and gags” may actually frighten many people off. The establishment of trust is your first contact priority. Message people and be your self, a few pictures and just be honest as honesty and a politeness can go a long way. Only an observation mind. As for replies well any contact encourages people so many don’t reply. Just move on and maybe mail again in a month or so but don’t pester as its not a good look. | |||
"i think its so ignorant not to reply to ppl i reply to every single email i get on here and other websites. manners dont cost as thing that is if you have them not everyone does" yr having a laff, do u realise how much time replying to every mail would take.... ??? i'm far from rude or ignorant , but i never reply unless im interested . never have and never will.... do u reply to all them spams you get in yr emails ?? or to all the junk mail u get ?? | |||
"i think its so ignorant not to reply to ppl i reply to every single email i get on here and other websites. manners dont cost as thing that is if you have them not everyone doesits hardly a matter of manners now is it? what sort of manners does someone have to not even bother writing a decent message in the first place? and btw it does state on our profile that we will delete unread messages from single guys...didnt realise it was compulsory to reply to every single message we get ....not enough hours in the day agree totally ..i'll reply if someone obviously put some effort into it but as the majority of the mail i get consists of 3 or 4 word messages ..nope i dont reply to those thanks sprite ...and for the record...had 4 really nice messages from single guys that i did reply to ...even if it was a thanx but no thanx yep ive had some great ones too recently...even if they are wayyyy outside my age range then i'll still reply nicely if it says more than nice tits . " in the end if you dont put the effort in ..dont expect to get results ...simple x | |||
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"People have a choice if to reply or not. Personally I don’t worry if they don’t as my profile just doesn’t appeal. I do find it strange though that some people get there hair off if you don’t reply. Well you didn’t ask them to message you in the first place. Think the attitude is to smile and exchange messages with people who do like you." all guys should of at the end of their profile wot u have freddie, then they might stop bloody moaning bout not getting replies
morning btw x | |||
"i had an idiot send me a message the other day. "Nice legs" Erm, i only have my eyes and messaged him to say that. He replied back, "ahh but I got you to reply to me though" What a wanker!!!!" LOL i get ones like that ie 'U must by lying about ur age cos u look so much younger on ur pic' WOT lol ive got a pics of my tits up Flattery gets u nowehere  | |||
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"I am astounded at how little pride some people have with the pestering thing. I personally wouldn’t consider sending someone another message for at least a month if I didn’t get a reply to my first one. I do suspect some men see all the meets going on, get excited, then get desperate which turns into frustration and then they get snappy. Not a good look at all I think. My mum told me manners cost nothing and they don’t. " I'll ave that 20 squid back then | |||
"I am astounded at how little pride some people have with the pestering thing. I personally wouldn’t consider sending someone another message for at least a month if I didn’t get a reply to my first one. I do suspect some men see all the meets going on, get excited, then get desperate which turns into frustration and then they get snappy. Not a good look at all I think. My mum told me manners cost nothing and they don’t. " oh yeah i always say "thank you very much for a good shag" | |||
"I am astounded at how little pride some people have with the pestering thing. I personally wouldn’t consider sending someone another message for at least a month if I didn’t get a reply to my first one. I do suspect some men see all the meets going on, get excited, then get desperate which turns into frustration and then they get snappy. Not a good look at all I think. My mum told me manners cost nothing and they don’t. I'll ave that 20 squid back then "Your boobs are very perky though | |||
"I am astounded at how little pride some people have with the pestering thing. I personally wouldn’t consider sending someone another message for at least a month if I didn’t get a reply to my first one. I do suspect some men see all the meets going on, get excited, then get desperate which turns into frustration and then they get snappy. Not a good look at all I think. My mum told me manners cost nothing and they don’t. " Can I ask do you send another mail even if they have said no thanks? | |||
"I am astounded at how little pride some people have with the pestering thing. I personally wouldn’t consider sending someone another message for at least a month if I didn’t get a reply to my first one. I do suspect some men see all the meets going on, get excited, then get desperate which turns into frustration and then they get snappy. Not a good look at all I think. My mum told me manners cost nothing and they don’t. I'll ave that 20 squid back then
Your boobs are very perky though "They are 4 a few mins after ive dragged em up from my knees then gravity sets it again..damn it | |||
"I am astounded at how little pride some people have with the pestering thing. I personally wouldn’t consider sending someone another message for at least a month if I didn’t get a reply to my first one. I do suspect some men see all the meets going on, get excited, then get desperate which turns into frustration and then they get snappy. Not a good look at all I think. My mum told me manners cost nothing and they don’t. Can I ask do you send another mail even if they have said no thanks?" Me well i would not intentionally mail again after a no thanks. Ok a pic change may make me forget after a month or so but me no i wouldn't mail. But i do realise some men will get desperate and ask why not. Or get shirty. Me well i have a little pride and if someone isn't interested why on earth waste your time. | |||
"I am astounded at how little pride some people have with the pestering thing. I personally wouldn’t consider sending someone another message for at least a month if I didn’t get a reply to my first one. I do suspect some men see all the meets going on, get excited, then get desperate which turns into frustration and then they get snappy. Not a good look at all I think. My mum told me manners cost nothing and they don’t. Can I ask do you send another mail even if they have said no thanks? Me well i would not intentionally mail again after a no thanks. Ok a pic change may make me forget after a month or so but me no i wouldn't mail. But i do realise some men will get desperate and ask why not. Or get shirty. Me well i have a little pride and if someone isn't interested why on earth waste your time. " Thanks for answering | |||
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"and some of the must get replies or i've met some very hairy women recently with extremely convincing strap ons "lmao that made me laugh | |||
"and some of the must get replies or i've met some very hairy women recently with extremely convincing strap ons
lmao that made me laugh"hope it does to the men i've met else im in the billy no mates corner | |||
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"i didnt mean to offend anyone with my comment, i just think we are all here to have fun if your not interested tell the person thats all. sorry people " i dont think u offended anyone, u put yr point accross like we all do. | |||
"and some of the must get replies or i've met some very hairy women recently with extremely convincing strap ons
lmao that made me laugh
hope it does to the men i've met else im in the billy no mates corner "Hey, it made me laugh! 'Course, my real name is Brenda.... | |||
"The pistols got it absolutely right! It really doesn't seem to make any difference if you cut and paste a message or tailor it to the person/couples profile. If you are a single male the reply ratio is about 1:50 for those of you that don't do statistics that means for every 50 messages a genuine single male like me sends out, he gets 1 reply. How frustrating is that! It takes ten seconds to type "Thanks but no thanks" so why can people not do that? Defeats me! " I personally do try to reply to every message, ( except to those who in my profile I have said I won't reply to!, otherwise I'd be replying all day). I feel that if someone had taken the time to send a message to me its only fair and polite to reply even if its just to say 'thanks but no thanks'. And judging by the replies I get to replies, most people don't get any replies at all. If that makes sense! | |||
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"i didnt mean to offend anyone with my comment, i just think we are all here to have fun if your not interested tell the person thats all. sorry people " whether intended or not your comments came across as offensive and quite obviously aimed at me,and as i said ..if it states in our profile we wont reply to single males then how could it be construed as ignorant and ill-mannered when we do just that? we are on here looking for other couples,we dont block single males as a whole as we have male friends on here ....as in real life i have no intention of taking the time or effort to speak to people who show me no manners from the start. | |||
"i didnt mean to offend anyone with my comment, i just think we are all here to have fun if your not interested tell the person thats all. sorry people whether intended or not your comments came across as offensive and quite obviously aimed at me,and as i said ..if it states in our profile we wont reply to single males then how could it be construed as ignorant and ill-mannered when we do just that? we are on here looking for other couples,we dont block single males as a whole as we have male friends on here ....as in real life i have no intention of taking the time or effort to speak to people who show me no manners from the start. "ah eh is someone picking on our kaz, point em out to me hun and i will lob me rocks at em. | |||
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"if it states it in ur profile babes then its down to the male to read profiles properly. i really didnt mean to offend anyone and my comment wasnt aimed at anyone i was just putting my point across. SORRY " do you still think its rude and ignorant then not to reply to every mail you get? | |||
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"i got 78 messages in one day .... i replied to 1 lol. i wasnt gonna write thanx but no thanx to 77 of em, sack that, i got better things to do wi my time, like go shag the 1 i replied to "You got 78 messages from the same guy or different ones? I hope you told the one how lucky he was lol. On a serious note you don’t have to answer them as it’s a choice/time thing. You should never feel pressure to reply to unsolicited mail. However if you have chatted to someone with a few messages and you decide your not interested any more then I figure a little message explaining is polite. | |||
"i got 78 messages in one day .... i replied to 1 lol. i wasnt gonna write thanx but no thanx to 77 of em, sack that, i got better things to do wi my time, like go shag the 1 i replied to
You got 78 messages from the same guy or different ones? I hope you told the one how lucky he was lol.
On a serious note you don’t have to answer them as it’s a choice/time thing. You should never feel pressure to reply to unsolicited mail.
However if you have chatted to someone with a few messages and you decide your not interested any more then I figure a little message explaining is polite.
"all different ones lol yeah the one i met was chuffed , well i think he was . | |||
"and some of the must get replies or i've met some very hairy women recently with extremely convincing strap ons
lmao that made me laugh
hope it does to the men i've met else im in the billy no mates corner
Hey, it made me laugh! 'Course, my real name is Brenda.... "i knew there was something unusual about you ..i just put it down to coming from MK
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