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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Chance of any ladies wanting to meet for a coffee/social /meet etc....this afternoon? ...blackpool/preston/Blackburn area...if not no worries everybody loves a trier haha x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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You say i waited 51 mins but the reason i put another message on was if i didn't my post would of disappeared due to all the new posts and no one would of seen it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You say i waited 51 mins but the reason i put another message on was if i didn't my post would of disappeared due to all the new posts and no one would of seen it"
Being wondering recently if anybody actually does on this site myself. Come to the conclusion no, just seem to like talking about it! Never mind I've got my model aircraft to keep me out of mischief  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Im starting to think that way as well..it's a bit clique don't get me wrong I've had replies but mostly you'll join in a conversation /post and you'll get totally ignored but I'm not giving up yet lol |
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By *eccymanMan
over a year ago
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Cliques don't exist except in the minds of those who percieve that they are outside of one. A group of people who all know each other communicate with each other and only accept new members to the group gradually. Online forums are notoriously difficult to break into and patience truly is a virtue in this instance. Give it time and hide your frustrations. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im starting to think that way as well..it's a bit clique don't get me wrong I've had replies but mostly you'll join in a conversation /post and you'll get totally ignored but I'm not giving up yet lol"
Just join in we were all new in the forum at some point 
Regarding meets of course prople meet  Blackpool is kinda far for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im starting to think that way as well..it's a bit clique don't get me wrong I've had replies but mostly you'll join in a conversation /post and you'll get totally ignored but I'm not giving up yet lol"
I get ignored all the time and been block by a few and I am not really sure why but just the way it go's. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im starting to think that way as well..it's a bit clique don't get me wrong I've had replies but mostly you'll join in a conversation /post and you'll get totally ignored but I'm not giving up yet lol"
i've been here over a year and same with me.
you have to be one of the following to get attention: funny/mental/attention whore but not too much of one/a sexy female who doesn't say no outright to men or give off any idea that you have standards. |
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By *eccymanMan
over a year ago
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"Im starting to think that way as well..it's a bit clique don't get me wrong I've had replies but mostly you'll join in a conversation /post and you'll get totally ignored but I'm not giving up yet lol
I get ignored all the time and been block by a few and I am not really sure why but just the way it go's."
If someone blocks me they've unwittingly done me a favour. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Im starting to think that way as well..it's a bit clique don't get me wrong I've had replies but mostly you'll join in a conversation /post and you'll get totally ignored but I'm not giving up yet lol
Just join in we were all new in the forum at some point
Regarding meets of course prople meet Blackpool is kinda far for me"
Thanks for the nice reply and yeah shame your not closer x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im starting to think that way as well..it's a bit clique don't get me wrong I've had replies but mostly you'll join in a conversation /post and you'll get totally ignored but I'm not giving up yet lol"
Maybe if you put it in the meet section? But having said that most people can't do 'drop of a hat' meets as they have plans etc ...
Maybe if you had given a little bit more notice and stop blaming the supposed cliques  |
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Don't give up. Just keep joining in. Everyone who posts lots and knows people was new once. Socials are the way forward. The more you post and join in, you'll be seen as a regular. It can be disheartening but don't take it personally. Remember it's just a website. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you got any sea fog op? Xxx
Seafog?
Yes I'm on the prom in rhyl and it's very misty out there can only just make out the beach. Xxx"
I have brain fog... Does that count?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have you got any sea fog op? Xxx
Seafog?
Yes I'm on the prom in rhyl and it's very misty out there can only just make out the beach. Xxx
I have brain fog... Does that count? "
It's all those men we were surounded by yesterday.  xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im starting to think that way as well..it's a bit clique don't get me wrong I've had replies but mostly you'll join in a conversation /post and you'll get totally ignored but I'm not giving up yet lol
i've been here over a year and same with me.
you have to be one of the following to get attention: funny/mental/attention whore but not too much of one/a sexy female who doesn't say no outright to men or give off any idea that you have standards."
I think you can just be friendly there are plenty of nice welcoming people on the forums or at least that has been my experience |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im starting to think that way as well..it's a bit clique don't get me wrong I've had replies but mostly you'll join in a conversation /post and you'll get totally ignored but I'm not giving up yet lol
i've been here over a year and same with me.
you have to be one of the following to get attention: funny/mental/attention whore but not too much of one/a sexy female who doesn't say no outright to men or give off any idea that you have standards.
I think you can just be friendly there are plenty of nice welcoming people on the forums or at least that has been my experience "
yeah maybe that as well and probably some other stuff i haven't noticed. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Have you got any sea fog op? Xxx
Seafog?
Yes I'm on the prom in rhyl and it's very misty out there can only just make out the beach. Xxx"
Right i get you now haha. .i don't know I'm in Preston at the moment x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im starting to think that way as well..it's a bit clique don't get me wrong I've had replies but mostly you'll join in a conversation /post and you'll get totally ignored but I'm not giving up yet lol
i've been here over a year and same with me.
you have to be one of the following to get attention: funny/mental/attention whore but not too much of one/a sexy female who doesn't say no outright to men or give off any idea that you have standards.
I think you can just be friendly there are plenty of nice welcoming people on the forums or at least that has been my experience "
I don't think and don't use the forums as a place to find sex, it's a bit of fun and a place to get to know people.
Yes if your luck something else may come of chatting on the forums but don't expect it your only going to be disappointed  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im starting to think that way as well..it's a bit clique don't get me wrong I've had replies but mostly you'll join in a conversation /post and you'll get totally ignored but I'm not giving up yet lol
Maybe if you put it in the meet section? But having said that most people can't do 'drop of a hat' meets as they have plans etc ...
Maybe if you had given a little bit more notice and stop blaming the supposed cliques "
Exactly this I can't do last minute meets not that I'd want to. Prefer to chat for a bit first before deciding to meet. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Im starting to think that way as well..it's a bit clique don't get me wrong I've had replies but mostly you'll join in a conversation /post and you'll get totally ignored but I'm not giving up yet lol
Maybe if you put it in the meet section? But having said that most people can't do 'drop of a hat' meets as they have plans etc ...
Maybe if you had given a little bit more notice and stop blaming the supposed cliques "
I've put it in meets before but with no success...it seems I've upset some people on here mentioning the word 'clique'..I'm sorry if I've offenfing anyone and i actually appreciate the comments I'm getting in this post. .learning curve i suppose x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Don't give up. Just keep joining in. Everyone who posts lots and knows people was new once. Socials are the way forward. The more you post and join in, you'll be seen as a regular. It can be disheartening but don't take it personally. Remember it's just a website. "
Cheers Steve |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have you got any sea fog op? Xxx
Seafog?
Yes I'm on the prom in rhyl and it's very misty out there can only just make out the beach. Xxx
Right i get you now haha. .i don't know I'm in Preston at the moment x"
You may never find Blackpool again. xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have you got any sea fog op? Xxx
Seafog?
Yes I'm on the prom in rhyl and it's very misty out there can only just make out the beach. Xxx
I have brain fog... Does that count?
It's all those men we were surounded by yesterday. xxx"
Please tell me more lol
.wish i was one of them men x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't give up. Just keep joining in. Everyone who posts lots and knows people was new once. Socials are the way forward. The more you post and join in, you'll be seen as a regular. It can be disheartening but don't take it personally. Remember it's just a website. "
This. You can still go on your own and have a coffee in a coffee shop and someone in the real world will chat to you. I always end up chatting, I think I must have a face that says - come and chat to me.
Sarah |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Im starting to think that way as well..it's a bit clique don't get me wrong I've had replies but mostly you'll join in a conversation /post and you'll get totally ignored but I'm not giving up yet lol
Maybe if you put it in the meet section? But having said that most people can't do 'drop of a hat' meets as they have plans etc ...
Maybe if you had given a little bit more notice and stop blaming the supposed cliques
Exactly this I can't do last minute meets not that I'd want to. Prefer to chat for a bit first before deciding to meet. "
It was more of a if anyone was in the area and just fancied a chat really wasn't really expecting anything to be honest lol. ..but at least I've got to some hot and decent people on here x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't give up. Just keep joining in. Everyone who posts lots and knows people was new once. Socials are the way forward. The more you post and join in, you'll be seen as a regular. It can be disheartening but don't take it personally. Remember it's just a website.
This. You can still go on your own and have a coffee in a coffee shop and someone in the real world will chat to you. I always end up chatting, I think I must have a face that says - come and chat to me.
Sarah "
Its because you're lovely |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Have you got any sea fog op? Xxx
Seafog?
Yes I'm on the prom in rhyl and it's very misty out there can only just make out the beach. Xxx
Right i get you now haha. .i don't know I'm in Preston at the moment x
You may never find Blackpool again. xxx"
Not a bad thing i suppose haha x |
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"Don't give up. Just keep joining in. Everyone who posts lots and knows people was new once. Socials are the way forward. The more you post and join in, you'll be seen as a regular. It can be disheartening but don't take it personally. Remember it's just a website.
This. You can still go on your own and have a coffee in a coffee shop and someone in the real world will chat to you. I always end up chatting, I think I must have a face that says - come and chat to me.
Sarah
Its because you're lovely "
You've obviously not met her yet  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Cliques don't exist except in the minds of those who percieve that they are outside of one. A group of people who all know each other communicate with each other and only accept new members to the group gradually. Online forums are notoriously difficult to break into and patience truly is a virtue in this instance. Give it time and hide your frustrations."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You say i waited 51 mins but the reason i put another message on was if i didn't my post would of disappeared due to all the new posts and no one would of seen it"
I just bumped it for ya. |
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"You say i waited 51 mins but the reason i put another message on was if i didn't my post would of disappeared due to all the new posts and no one would of seen it
I just bumped it for ya. "
After 3 minutes! That's the length of a wank, you know! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You say i waited 51 mins but the reason i put another message on was if i didn't my post would of disappeared due to all the new posts and no one would of seen it
I just bumped it for ya.
After 3 minutes! That's the length of a wank, you know! "
6 wanks...  |
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By *eccymanMan
over a year ago
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"You say i waited 51 mins but the reason i put another message on was if i didn't my post would of disappeared due to all the new posts and no one would of seen it
I just bumped it for ya.
After 3 minutes! That's the length of a wank, you know! "
You be careful. Friction burns. |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
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Chance of any ladies wanting to meet for a coffee/social /meet etc....this afternoon? ...blackpool/preston/Blackburn area...if not no worries everybody loves a trier haha x"
OP. If you put it as your status people local to you see your request. Putting it on the forum section it is seen by a smaller number of people spread all over the UK and beyond.
I would have met you for a diet if I had been free and if I had been near Preston. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You say i waited 51 mins but the reason i put another message on was if i didn't my post would of disappeared due to all the new posts and no one would of seen it
I just bumped it for ya. "
Thanks x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Chance of any ladies wanting to meet for a coffee/social /meet etc....this afternoon? ...blackpool/preston/Blackburn area...if not no worries everybody loves a trier haha x
OP. If you put it as your status people local to you see your request. Putting it on the forum section it is seen by a smaller number of people spread all over the UK and beyond.
I would have met you for a diet if I had been free and if I had been near Preston. "
Thanks for the advice lizzy still trying to get used to this site x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't give up. Just keep joining in. Everyone who posts lots and knows people was new once. Socials are the way forward. The more you post and join in, you'll be seen as a regular. It can be disheartening but don't take it personally. Remember it's just a website.
This. You can still go on your own and have a coffee in a coffee shop and someone in the real world will chat to you. I always end up chatting, I think I must have a face that says - come and chat to me.
Sarah
Its because you're lovely
You've obviously not met her yet "
Oi Mr Blade you know I am angelic.
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"You say i waited 51 mins but the reason i put another message on was if i didn't my post would of disappeared due to all the new posts and no one would of seen it
I just bumped it for ya.
After 3 minutes! That's the length of a wank, you know!
You be careful. Friction burns. "
Lube  it's like having a power girlfriend - ever ready |
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By *eccymanMan
over a year ago
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"You say i waited 51 mins but the reason i put another message on was if i didn't my post would of disappeared due to all the new posts and no one would of seen it
I just bumped it for ya.
After 3 minutes! That's the length of a wank, you know!
You be careful. Friction burns.
Lube it's like having a power girlfriend - ever ready "
And your cock doesn't insist on a cuddle when all you want to do is go for a piss! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You say i waited 51 mins but the reason i put another message on was if i didn't my post would of disappeared due to all the new posts and no one would of seen it
I just bumped it for ya.
After 3 minutes! That's the length of a wank, you know!
You be careful. Friction burns.
Lube it's like having a power girlfriend - ever ready
And your cock doesn't insist on a cuddle when all you want to do is go for a piss! "
Those that are into WS would combine both. A wet cuddle.  |
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"You say i waited 51 mins but the reason i put another message on was if i didn't my post would of disappeared due to all the new posts and no one would of seen it
Being wondering recently if anybody actually does on this site myself. Come to the conclusion no, just seem to like talking about it! Never mind I've got my model aircraft to keep me out of mischief "
Or they don't want to meet you. Clearly plenty of other's meet and not just 'talk about it' |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Always best to take the view that you aren't guaranteed any meets on fab, social or play, and if they do happen, it's a bonus. It's really no different than real life, other than the proportion of men to women is much higher, but if people aren't in your area, or don't like the look or sound of you, it isn't going to happen. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Always best to take the view that you aren't guaranteed any meets on fab, social or play, and if they do happen, it's a bonus. It's really no different than real life, other than the proportion of men to women is much higher, but if people aren't in your area, or don't like the look or sound of you, it isn't going to happen. "
Don't i know it lol. ..no harm in trying i suppose |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Passive aggression isn't cool OP
Aggression please explain? "
An over used cliché word used by piss takers on here who can't meet themselves
Ignore and move on. Hot list those who said they would but not in you're area and when you're in theirs look them up and hopefully you'llget one there....or not...but worth a try
Patience...some days you do some days you don't. ..but there's a new day tomorrow. .. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Passive aggression isn't cool OP
Aggression please explain?
An over used cliché word used by piss takers on here who can't meet themselves
Ignore and move on. Hot list those who said they would but not in you're area and when you're in theirs look them up and hopefully you'llget one there....or not...but worth a try
Patience...some days you do some days you don't. ..but there's a new day tomorrow. .. "
Thanks for the advice pal |
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