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Tarred with the same brush.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It is just me, or does everyone guy automatically get tarred with the same brush?
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Yes, I know the Catfish/Fake profiles out weight the genuine profiles and know of the amount of abuse women have to put up on here, so do they assume that all messages come for the said above type?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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nope, I have strong beliefs, some who disagree with my beliefs will mail me direct for a chat or debate regarding this;
others just block
but think of it this way!!!!!!
if someone blocks you; just consider that you have your own direct garbage disposable unit, its like garbage putting itself out to the bin |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Iv found a lot of women on here are very suspicious of guys and very wary,probably brought on by timewasters and bellends on here so you cant blame them really......or can you?  |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
Wakefield |
"It is just me, or does everyone guy automatically get tarred with the same brush?
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Yes, I know the Catfish/Fake profiles out weight the genuine profiles and know of the amount of abuse women have to put up on here, so do they assume that all messages come for the said above type?
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Sorry but if we got a message from you we would look at your profile.
After reading the first few lines we would be bored and move on.
We suggest you change your profile to something a little more user friendly |
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"Iv found a lot of women on here are very suspicious of guys and very wary,probably brought on by timewasters and bellends on here so you cant blame them really......or can you? "
No you cant blame them. |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
Filthy Fuckeryville |
"It is just me, or does everyone guy automatically get tarred with the same brush?
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Send out an initial message - READ!
Send out an initial message - RESPONCE!
Yes, I know the Catfish/Fake profiles out weight the genuine profiles and know of the amount of abuse women have to put up on here, so do they assume that all messages come for the said above type?
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Well yes, one of those is likely to be your response |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"the profile text is shall we say ---lengthy
If you cut n paste part of the profile text and google it, you'll see that it originated elsewhere in the Internet. "
even less interested than not at all now
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's ok we got blocked by a single guy yesterday because we pointed out they hadn't read our profile.
We do answer single guys if they are of interest to us, if it's clear they haven't read our profile we might ask them to do so, ir we just delete .
but it always depends on the type of message we get sent. If your messaging couples my biggest thing is addressing then both, not just the female, that annoys me so much and I'm the female |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do you read their profiles and make sure you fit what they are looking for?
If they arent interested they arent. I dont assume anything about men in general but i assume things and judge on what they send as individuals.
So for example i had one yesterday good profile nice pics then the last pick he was swearing. I thought chav and hit delete... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It is just me, or does everyone guy automatically get tarred with the same brush?
Send out an initial message - BLOCKED!
Send out an initial message - DELETE!
Send out an initial message - UNREAD!
Send out an initial message - READ!
Send out an initial message - RESPONCE!
Yes, I know the Catfish/Fake profiles out weight the genuine profiles and know of the amount of abuse women have to put up on here, so do they assume that all messages come for the said above type?
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Maybe your messages are the issue? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It is just me, or does everyone guy automatically get tarred with the same brush?
Send out an initial message - BLOCKED!
Send out an initial message - DELETE!
Send out an initial message - UNREAD!
Send out an initial message - READ!
Send out an initial message - RESPONCE!
Yes, I know the Catfish/Fake profiles out weight the genuine profiles and know of the amount of abuse women have to put up on here, so do they assume that all messages come for the said above type?
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As said already, someone looking at your profile.... well to be honest it isn't a profile, it's just a copy and paste rabble poem and a lets face it dumb pointless Sydney Uni warning which can speak volumes about the owner.... so I'm honestly amazed you'd even get any messages back, but good luck all the same |
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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago
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"Good Artists Copy, Great Artists Steal!!"
If they do, they hopefully steal great pieces of work and not utter drivel
Seriously though, all men aren't tarred with the same brush. It's not easy on here for single guys, but that's a cop-out used because it's easier than looking critically at what they are doing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ok I held a social yesterday and one thing that struck me was just how different people are in the flesh to on here. Men I've previously discounted I've now added to my to do list. Women I may of misjudged I've added to my lovely list. And some I thought we're going to be nice I've added to my no thanks list. So my best advice to everyone but especially single males is get yourself to socials or clubs. Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I understand why people are giving a profile review as it's a possible reason why he's not getting a response, but he didn't ask for a review.
To the OP, if you're messaging people that are looking for single males, then by default you haven't been judged as a male, you're being judged on the content of your message and/or profile. If you have a look at both your shop window (your profile) and your message content I'm sure you'll have more fun, good luck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok I held a social yesterday and one thing that struck me was just how different people are in the flesh to on here. Men I've previously discounted I've now added to my to do list. Women I may of misjudged I've added to my lovely list. And some I thought we're going to be nice I've added to my no thanks list. So my best advice to everyone but especially single males is get yourself to socials or clubs. Xxx"
I agree.
People in real life are often the complete opposite of how the portray themselves on here and on line.
I've personally found that applies to the ones who usually portray themselves as Mr or Mrs lovely and nice and everyone likes me and look how popular I am etc.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I understand why people are giving a profile review as it's a possible reason why he's not getting a response, but he didn't ask for a review.
To the OP, if you're messaging people that are looking for single males, then by default you haven't been judged as a male, you're being judged on the content of your message and/or profile. If you have a look at both your shop window (your profile) and your message content I'm sure you'll have more fun, good luck "
if we get a message we go straight to the profile - dont reply just of the message - |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if we get a message we go straight to the profile - dont reply just of the message -
So do I. He still didn't ask for a profile review."
no but hes questioning his response to his messages |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
Filthy Fuckeryville |
"Ok I held a social yesterday and one thing that struck me was just how different people are in the flesh to on here. Men I've previously discounted I've now added to my to do list. Women I may of misjudged I've added to my lovely list. And some I thought we're going to be nice I've added to my no thanks list. So my best advice to everyone but especially single males is get yourself to socials or clubs. Xxx
I agree.
People in real life are often the complete opposite of how the portray themselves on here and on line.
I've personally found that applies to the ones who usually portray themselves as Mr or Mrs lovely and nice and everyone likes me and look how popular I am etc.
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Although when people hide their profile it's hard to get any idea of that person at all.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok I held a social yesterday and one thing that struck me was just how different people are in the flesh to on here. Men I've previously discounted I've now added to my to do list. Women I may of misjudged I've added to my lovely list. And some I thought we're going to be nice I've added to my no thanks list. So my best advice to everyone but especially single males is get yourself to socials or clubs. Xxx
I agree.
People in real life are often the complete opposite of how the portray themselves on here and on line.
I've personally found that applies to the ones who usually portray themselves as Mr or Mrs lovely and nice and everyone likes me and look how popular I am etc.
Although when people hide their profile it's hard to get any idea of that person at all.... "
Lol the only people who I wish to view my profile are those who are friends and those who I am interested in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok I held a social yesterday and one thing that struck me was just how different people are in the flesh to on here. Men I've previously discounted I've now added to my to do list. Women I may of misjudged I've added to my lovely list. And some I thought we're going to be nice I've added to my no thanks list. So my best advice to everyone but especially single males is get yourself to socials or clubs. Xxx
I agree.
People in real life are often the complete opposite of how the portray themselves on here and on line.
I've personally found that applies to the ones who usually portray themselves as Mr or Mrs lovely and nice and everyone likes me and look how popular I am etc.
Although when people hide their profile it's hard to get any idea of that person at all.... "
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
Filthy Fuckeryville |
"Ok I held a social yesterday and one thing that struck me was just how different people are in the flesh to on here. Men I've previously discounted I've now added to my to do list. Women I may of misjudged I've added to my lovely list. And some I thought we're going to be nice I've added to my no thanks list. So my best advice to everyone but especially single males is get yourself to socials or clubs. Xxx
I agree.
People in real life are often the complete opposite of how the portray themselves on here and on line.
I've personally found that applies to the ones who usually portray themselves as Mr or Mrs lovely and nice and everyone likes me and look how popular I am etc.
Although when people hide their profile it's hard to get any idea of that person at all....
Lol the only people who I wish to view my profile are those who are friends and those who I am interested in "
But if we all did that the site wouldn't work  |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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scanning you profile the only words i really caught were 'high maintenance'. although creative, its not easy to read or work out what you offer or want.
rethink it and get out more xx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok I held a social yesterday and one thing that struck me was just how different people are in the flesh to on here. Men I've previously discounted I've now added to my to do list. Women I may of misjudged I've added to my lovely list. And some I thought we're going to be nice I've added to my no thanks list. So my best advice to everyone but especially single males is get yourself to socials or clubs. Xxx
I agree.
People in real life are often the complete opposite of how the portray themselves on here and on line.
I've personally found that applies to the ones who usually portray themselves as Mr or Mrs lovely and nice and everyone likes me and look how popular I am etc.
Although when people hide their profile it's hard to get any idea of that person at all....
Lol the only people who I wish to view my profile are those who are friends and those who I am interested in
But if we all did that the site wouldn't work "
Use this site the way you wish to.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"scanning you profile the only words i really caught were 'high maintenance'. although creative, its not easy to read or work out what you offer or want.
rethink it and get out more xx
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He wasn't the creative one...
http://www.openculture.com/2011/05/george_carlin_the_modern_man_in_three_minutes.html |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"You've got no pictures and no veri's in over a year, that will put most people off. Single guys can have a tough time anyway, read the dozens of supportive threads about how to help yourself."
exactly you don't look successful on here an a lot of single ladies couples are looking for proven single men. The competition is fierce need up your game
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"scanning you profile the only words i really caught were 'high maintenance'. although creative, its not easy to read or work out what you offer or want.
rethink it and get out more xx
He wasn't the creative one...
http://www.openculture.com/2011/05/george_carlin_the_modern_man_in_three_minutes.html"
so no own profile, no veris and no photos...no wonder cant meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"scanning you profile the only words i really caught were 'high maintenance'. although creative, its not easy to read or work out what you offer or want.
rethink it and get out more xx
He wasn't the creative one...
http://www.openculture.com/2011/05/george_carlin_the_modern_man_in_three_minutes.html
so no own profile, no veris and no photos...no wonder cant meet "
George Carlin was a genius.
The OP clearly isn't  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"scanning you profile the only words i really caught were 'high maintenance'. although creative, its not easy to read or work out what you offer or want.
rethink it and get out more xx
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Cut & pasting should never be confused with creativity |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"scanning you profile the only words i really caught were 'high maintenance'. although creative, its not easy to read or work out what you offer or want.
rethink it and get out more xx
Cut & pasting should never be confused with creativity "
actually cutting and pasting was quite an achievement for me at one time - im the most untechy bod |
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"Ok I held a social yesterday and one thing that struck me was just how different people are in the flesh to on here. Men I've previously discounted I've now added to my to do list. Women I may of misjudged I've added to my lovely list. And some I thought we're going to be nice I've added to my no thanks list. So my best advice to everyone but especially single males is get yourself to socials or clubs. Xxx
I agree.
People in real life are often the complete opposite of how the portray themselves on here and on line.
I've personally found that applies to the ones who usually portray themselves as Mr or Mrs lovely and nice and everyone likes me and look how popular I am etc.
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"It is just me, or does everyone guy automatically get tarred with the same brush?
Send out an initial message - BLOCKED!
Send out an initial message - DELETE!
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Send out an initial message - RESPONCE!
Yes, I know the Catfish/Fake profiles out weight the genuine profiles and know of the amount of abuse women have to put up on here, so do they assume that all messages come for the said above type?
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Give the ladies and or couples yu might be messaging a reason to not tar you with that brush... Simples.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I block most messages if I'm not interested, saves time later when they message u again a hundred times lol
Might benefit you to put a couple pics on that arnt friend only, I get turned off if there's no pics when I 1St check out someones profile
Hope this may help in some small way xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"the profile text is shall we say ---lengthy
If you cut n paste part of the profile text and google it, you'll see that it originated elsewhere in the Internet. "
A specially the "Sydney University" bollocks which even the site admin tell people not to put as it just wastes space and shows you haven't read the advice given.....I know many members here avoid people just because they have that on their profile... |
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Have you considered a new username, such as 'thebulletpointkid'
From looking at your post, and your profile, I can see why there would be very few people who would want to actually read beyond the first few lines. Now don't get me wrong, I also assume my own profile isn't really up to much but I'm not really worried about it as I'm here mostly for the chat as opposed to being constantly 'on the pull' |
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"It's ok we got blocked by a single guy yesterday because we pointed out they hadn't read our profile.
We do answer single guys if they are of interest to us, if it's clear they haven't read our profile we might ask them to do so, ir we just delete .
but it always depends on the type of message we get sent. If your messaging couples my biggest thing is addressing then both, not just the female, that annoys me so much and I'm the female "
Funnily enough, we get it the other way around! People seem to think it's C online when in fact it's mostly me, R. I enjoy letting them know that they presumed wrongly |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's ok we got blocked by a single guy yesterday because we pointed out they hadn't read our profile.
We do answer single guys if they are of interest to us, if it's clear they haven't read our profile we might ask them to do so, ir we just delete .
but it always depends on the type of message we get sent. If your messaging couples my biggest thing is addressing then both, not just the female, that annoys me so much and I'm the female
Funnily enough, we get it the other way around! People seem to think it's C online when in fact it's mostly me, R. I enjoy letting them know that they presumed wrongly "
When couples message me, they very rarely say which of them has sent the message  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's ok we got blocked by a single guy yesterday because we pointed out they hadn't read our profile.
We do answer single guys if they are of interest to us, if it's clear they haven't read our profile we might ask them to do so, ir we just delete .
but it always depends on the type of message we get sent. If your messaging couples my biggest thing is addressing then both, not just the female, that annoys me so much and I'm the female
Funnily enough, we get it the other way around! People seem to think it's C online when in fact it's mostly me, R. I enjoy letting them know that they presumed wrongly
When couples message me, they very rarely say which of them has sent the message "
we sign from both of us and state that i will do most of the chatting - if he messages he says its him |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's ok we got blocked by a single guy yesterday because we pointed out they hadn't read our profile.
We do answer single guys if they are of interest to us, if it's clear they haven't read our profile we might ask them to do so, ir we just delete .
but it always depends on the type of message we get sent. If your messaging couples my biggest thing is addressing then both, not just the female, that annoys me so much and I'm the female
Funnily enough, we get it the other way around! People seem to think it's C online when in fact it's mostly me, R. I enjoy letting them know that they presumed wrongly "
Well the guy told me what amazinging nipples and breasts I had, so I said I would pass on his comments to Mr as I'm sure he would love the comments about his chest  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's ok we got blocked by a single guy yesterday because we pointed out they hadn't read our profile.
We do answer single guys if they are of interest to us, if it's clear they haven't read our profile we might ask them to do so, ir we just delete .
but it always depends on the type of message we get sent. If your messaging couples my biggest thing is addressing then both, not just the female, that annoys me so much and I'm the female
Funnily enough, we get it the other way around! People seem to think it's C online when in fact it's mostly me, R. I enjoy letting them know that they presumed wrongly
When couples message me, they very rarely say which of them has sent the message "
We let people know and I always sign off with an x as the fem |
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