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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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so as a Male on here who carries a few extra pounds just wondering what people's views are on fat shaming. As anyone been a victim of it or been the person that fat shamed somebody else..
Also is there any females and couples out there that are into meeting lads who are overweight ? It seems extremely hard to find anyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I also carry a bit of extra, I have a bigger from bodybuilding which I don't know if it helps or hinders how I look. Work in progress still though. Would be interesting to see more responses.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had sex with a couple of quite large men. It's more difficult for me because of body pain and hips not wanting to spread too far,and the stamina was poor,but we had a good time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had the usual abuse when I've turned people down..you're too fat to fuck,I was only asking as I felt sorry for you etc. That I ignore as idiots throwing their toys out the pram.
I struggle to find women and couples who prefer fat women,definitely seems more men prefer the BBW than women.
As for fat shaming in the vanilla world I have got to a point in my life where I accept I'm fat so calling me it is as much an insult to me as saying I'm blue eyed. Not going to let some small minded imbeciles opinion on what is "normal" or beautiful stop me enjoying my life.
And for the record I like me men chunky,6 packs do nothing for me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We don't care either way, thin or curvy, as long as you have a smile, smell good, your own teeth and trim your pubes, and a great way about you it's all good by us."
Bi man here loving your profile |
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"so as a Male on here who carries a few extra pounds just wondering what people's views are on fat shaming. As anyone been a victim of it or been the person that fat shamed somebody else..
Also is there any females and couples out there that are into meeting lads who are overweight ? It seems extremely hard to find anyone"
Fat shamers are wankers as are skinny shamers or anyone else who thinks it's OK to judge anyone else by their standards. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"so as a Male on here who carries a few extra pounds just wondering what people's views are on fat shaming. As anyone been a victim of it or been the person that fat shamed somebody else..
Also is there any females and couples out there that are into meeting lads who are overweight ? It seems extremely hard to find anyone
Fat shamers are wankers as are skinny shamers or anyone else who thinks it's OK to judge anyone else by their standards. "
I prefer larger to skinny, I am not saying there's anything wrong with being skinny though. XXX |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A man messaged me after I posted a semi clad pic of me not long after I joined. He told me that my belly was bigger than my boobs and added a few hahahaha's on the end of his message. I think I was supposed to be upset. That's the only negativity I've had on here, that and the "cunr" message last night.
Just block and move on.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you ashamed to be fat OP ?
No but doesn't stop people judging me without knowing me "
But if they didn't judge you for your weight it would be something else
Plus it depends what you mean by judge, not being attracted to somebody for whatever reason isnt judging them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a larger lass and state that categorically in my profile. So it's rather laughable that I have had messages asking to meet then further messages after I have turned them down calling me all sorts of names! I just block them and try not to take it to heart.
And yes there are plenty women on here who will like a bigger guy- in fact my profile states it as a preference! So hang in there OP we do exist  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm a larger lass and state that categorically in my profile. So it's rather laughable that I have had messages asking to meet then further messages after I have turned them down calling me all sorts of names! I just block them and try not to take it to heart.
And yes there are plenty women on here who will like a bigger guy- in fact my profile states it as a preference! So hang in there OP we do exist "
Thanks for your support  . Don't listen to them
Lads you are beautiful |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
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"Are you ashamed to be fat OP ?
No but doesn't stop people judging me without knowing me "
This.
If you are happy being overweight, then carry on.
If you are unhappy being ovwrweight, diet some off. It isn't hard. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Look at the hot pics for men
Most Fabs this month
Most Fabs last month
What are the common denominators ?
Athletic / toned men
Mid 20's to early 30's
Or Big cocks
That, for the majority, is the ideal
That's not shaming anyone for being fat, but a hard statement that if you are fat you will find it harder here as a guy.
Personality and sense of humour only works with certain people
Looks matter for the majority |
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"Look at the hot pics for men
Most Fabs this month
Most Fabs last month
What are the common denominators ?
Athletic / toned men
Mid 20's to early 30's
Or Big cocks
That, for the majority, is the ideal
That's not shaming anyone for being fat, but a hard statement that if you are fat you will find it harder here as a guy.
Personality and sense of humour only works with certain people
Looks matter for the majority "
Aren't they being fabbed by gay men though?...I prefer a bit of meat on my men, and i'm more likely to fab a hairy chest or a nice bum than a six pack x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Look at the hot pics for men
Most Fabs this month
Most Fabs last month
What are the common denominators ?
Athletic / toned men
Mid 20's to early 30's
Or Big cocks
That, for the majority, is the ideal
That's not shaming anyone for being fat, but a hard statement that if you are fat you will find it harder here as a guy.
Personality and sense of humour only works with certain people
Looks matter for the majority
Aren't they being fabbed by gay men though?...I prefer a bit of meat on my men, and i'm more likely to fab a hairy chest or a nice bum than a six pack x "
I don't know.
You can't see who Fabs them (as far as I know)
As I said, there will be exceptions, but I do believe that for most (but not all), a guy with an athletic / muscled build will be more attractive than one with a podge
As for me ? I like all sorts of builds. I don't have a type, but given the choice of two, I'd go for the swimmers build over the darts player.
Somewhere in between the two is best tho (for me at least) |
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By *eccymanMan
over a year ago
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Having been overweight in the past I'm acutely aware of people making remarks about it and my response has always been, "I can always lose weight whereas you will always be a wanker."
There's no comeback from that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Having been overweight in the past I'm acutely aware of people making remarks about it and my response has always been, "I can always lose weight whereas you will always be a wanker."
There's no comeback from that. "
My favourite was to say I'm fat but you're ugly,I can lose weight..you'lol always be screwed lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Look at the hot pics for men
Most Fabs this month
Most Fabs last month
What are the common denominators ?
Athletic / toned men
Mid 20's to early 30's
Or Big cocks
That, for the majority, is the ideal
That's not shaming anyone for being fat, but a hard statement that if you are fat you will find it harder here as a guy.
Personality and sense of humour only works with certain people
Looks matter for the majority "
Spot on. It's basically the same when you look at the hot pictures for women. The stereotypical beauties fill those pages.
It's no barometer on how good the sex will be though. Anybody with a bit of experience knows that body shape tells you little or nothing about how satisfied you're going to be after sex.
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
"Having been overweight in the past I'm acutely aware of people making remarks about it and my response has always been, "I can always lose weight whereas you will always be a wanker."
There's no comeback from that.
My favourite was to say I'm fat but you're ugly,I can lose weight..you'lol always be screwed lol
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My favourite was always to say "yep, I'm a right porker. But at least I have potential". |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been fat shamed on a social. Upset me at the time, especially when I hadn't hidden my size. Maybe it made him feel better, I left here for a long time after that. |
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I feel no shame about my appearance/size, so I can't be "shamed".
I grew up being told by my own mother that I was fat, that my bum was big etc as did my sister and as a result we were miserably thin. I find all the "shaming" totally horrifying having experienced the damage it can cause. I prefer to help others love who they are |
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By *eccymanMan
over a year ago
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"Having been overweight in the past I'm acutely aware of people making remarks about it and my response has always been, "I can always lose weight whereas you will always be a wanker."
There's no comeback from that.
My favourite was to say I'm fat but you're ugly,I can lose weight..you'lol always be screwed lol
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They soon shut up don't they. |
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