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Is anyone on here generally interested in young men, or do they just say that?
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
Most folk look for the reason why folk won't meet them, your age might be the determinining factor, You can't change it though ......
There are as many ladies that won't meet you for this reason or that often things you can't change , age height cock size , locality yadda yadda...
move on to the profiles you do fit and be as appealing to them as you can be. Expect nothing and if something comes along It'll make your time on here much more fun.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well purely for research .....I'd be willing to road-test a spunky youth with a cock like a tent-pole ....
But I think its only fair to point out the test could end prematurely ....  |
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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago
CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly) |
I still really can't understand why young, single lads/girls consider themselves swingers. They should be out enjoying life with their mates. Clubbing in normal clubs. Meeting girls/boys, living life as all young people do. Come back here in 20 years when they have gained life's experiences, and swing properly as a couple, if that's agreeable with both parties.
Sorry but to us you young uns just think it is a site for an easy fuck.
Just our opinion, before you slate us  xxxxx Suzi |
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By *VBethTV/TS
over a year ago
Chester |
"Well purely for research .....I'd be willing to road-test a spunky youth with a cock like a tent-pole ....
But I think its only fair to point out the test could end prematurely .... "
Form an orderly queue behind Soxy!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I still really can't understand why young, single lads/girls consider themselves swingers. They should be out enjoying life with their mates. Clubbing in normal clubs. Meeting girls/boys, living life as all young people do. Come back here in 20 years when they have gained life's experiences, and swing properly as a couple, if that's agreeable with both parties.
Sorry but to us you young uns just think it is a site for an easy fuck.
Just our opinion, before you slate us xxxxx Suzi"
What's "young"?
I'm 26 and I've never viewed the site as an "easy fuck"... actually I've always viewed the site as a way to chat to and socialise with other like-minded people, and if sexual attraction and a meet comes out of it, that's a bonus.
I'm not slating you, just offering you the opposing opinion from someone who's younger & who doesn't fit your little stereotype.  |
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"I still really can't understand why young, single lads/girls consider themselves swingers. They should be out enjoying life with their mates. Clubbing in normal clubs. Meeting girls/boys, living life as all young people do."
Yes, I feel that too. I would never in a million years have come on a place like this in my 20's! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's more to do with maturity than actual age...
Some 23yo lads are more successful on here for having patience and respect where as most 30yo men struggle to get a meet when all they do hurl vulgar requests into ladies inboxes  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some like young people on here some don't ...personally I have children in their late 20s so I wouldn't meet them ...don't mind chatting but sex ...no xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like young men, I find most of the guys on here I'm attracted to are much younger than me, I still wouldn't meet anybody under 30 though even if I get on with them and find them attractive, it just feels wierd to shag somebody that young, if I met a guy in his 20s even I'd be questioning if I was having a mid life crisis |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And besides... after recent observation of some people's behaviour on here, age is absolutely NOT a reflection of a person's mental & emotional maturity. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I still really can't understand why young, single lads/girls consider themselves swingers. They should be out enjoying life with their mates. Clubbing in normal clubs. Meeting girls/boys, living life as all young people do. Come back here in 20 years when they have gained life's experiences, and swing properly as a couple, if that's agreeable with both parties.
Sorry but to us you young uns just think it is a site for an easy fuck.
Just our opinion, before you slate us xxxxx Suzi"
A different opnion might be that its better they come here and be upfront about what they want. Ie sex and not relationship.
Im in the camp of live while your young and settle down when you have experienced as much of life as possible.
Plus people in their 20s live in a different world now.. xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I still really can't understand why young, single lads/girls consider themselves swingers. They should be out enjoying life with their mates. Clubbing in normal clubs. Meeting girls/boys, living life as all young people do. Come back here in 20 years when they have gained life's experiences, and swing properly as a couple, if that's agreeable with both parties.
Sorry but to us you young uns just think it is a site for an easy fuck.
Just our opinion, before you slate us xxxxx Suzi"
I cannot stand arrogant people who make intentionally derisive comments on forums like this and then excuse their behaviour by saying that it's 'just their opinion,' as if that insulates them against any and all criticism.
Pray tell what gives you the right to dictate what I should be doing with my leisure time, or judge as to whether I do or do not have a right to be here?
On what basis should confine my social interactions to 'people my own age' in 'normal' clubs? On what basis should 'proper swinging' be confined to 'life-experienced' couples over the age of 40?
Are you so self-absorbed that you see fit to appoint yourselves the 'gatekeepers' of the swinging scene?
You may be put off by the idea of meeting those whom you label so derisively as 'young uns,' but you do not speak for an entire demographic.
People of my generation and younger may have missed out on the heady sexual liberation of the 60s and 70s, but we have just as much a right to explore every facet of our sexuality as you do.
Contrary to what you imply, there is no such thing as 'proper swinging,' and no minimum age requirement or relationship status is required to participate.
Kindly keep your arrogant, narrow-minded views to yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I still really can't understand why young, single lads/girls consider themselves swingers. They should be out enjoying life with their mates. Clubbing in normal clubs. Meeting girls/boys, living life as all young people do. Come back here in 20 years when they have gained life's experiences, and swing properly as a couple, if that's agreeable with both parties.
Sorry but to us you young uns just think it is a site for an easy fuck.
Just our opinion, before you slate us xxxxx Suzi
I cannot stand arrogant people who make intentionally derisive comments on forums like this and then excuse their behaviour by saying that it's 'just their opinion,' as if that insulates them against any and all criticism.
Pray tell what gives you the right to dictate what I should be doing with my leisure time, or judge as to whether I do or do not have a right to be here?
On what basis should confine my social interactions to 'people my own age' in 'normal' clubs? On what basis should 'proper swinging' be confined to 'life-experienced' couples over the age of 40?
Are you so self-absorbed that you see fit to appoint yourselves the 'gatekeepers' of the swinging scene?
You may be put off by the idea of meeting those whom you label so derisively as 'young uns,' but you do not speak for an entire demographic.
People of my generation and younger may have missed out on the heady sexual liberation of the 60s and 70s, but we have just as much a right to explore every facet of our sexuality as you do.
Contrary to what you imply, there is no such thing as 'proper swinging,' and no minimum age requirement or relationship status is required to participate.
Kindly keep your arrogant, narrow-minded views to yourself."
whooooaaaa. ..hold on ...the question was posted in an open forum and was and is being answered! !everyone is entitled to their opinions and can post them accordingly .... |
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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago
CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly) |
"I still really can't understand why young, single lads/girls consider themselves swingers. They should be out enjoying life with their mates. Clubbing in normal clubs. Meeting girls/boys, living life as all young people do. Come back here in 20 years when they have gained life's experiences, and swing properly as a couple, if that's agreeable with both parties.
Sorry but to us you young uns just think it is a site for an easy fuck.
Just our opinion, before you slate us xxxxx Suzi
I cannot stand arrogant people who make intentionally derisive comments on forums like this and then excuse their behaviour by saying that it's 'just their opinion,' as if that insulates them against any and all criticism.
Pray tell what gives you the right to dictate what I should be doing with my leisure time, or judge as to whether I do or do not have a right to be here?
On what basis should confine my social interactions to 'people my own age' in 'normal' clubs? On what basis should 'proper swinging' be confined to 'life-experienced' couples over the age of 40?
Are you so self-absorbed that you see fit to appoint yourselves the 'gatekeepers' of the swinging scene?
You may be put off by the idea of meeting those whom you label so derisively as 'young uns,' but you do not speak for an entire demographic.
People of my generation and younger may have missed out on the heady sexual liberation of the 60s and 70s, but we have just as much a right to explore every facet of our sexuality as you do.
Contrary to what you imply, there is no such thing as 'proper swinging,' and no minimum age requirement or relationship status is required to participate.
Kindly keep your arrogant, narrow-minded views to yourself.
whooooaaaa. ..hold on ...the question was posted in an open forum and was and is being answered! !everyone is entitled to their opinions and can post them accordingly ...."
Thanks. Ànd I wish I hadn't been a child during the heady, sexual liberation of the 60's and 70's... It sounded like fun   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's ridiculous to say "young people are only here for easy sex" as if no one else is. Everyone wants to fuck with the least aggro possible.
You old people need some perspective. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's ridiculous to say "young people are only here for easy sex" as if no one else is. Everyone wants to fuck with the least aggro possible.
You old people need some perspective. "
SOME old people .... ...not me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"..hold on ...the question was posted in an open forum and was and is being answered! !everyone is entitled to their opinions and can post them accordingly"
The question was indeed posted in an open forum.
Everyone is indeed entitled to their opinion.
However, neither of those facts imply that a poster should consider their opinion to be sacrosanct.
Implying that 'young people' have no business being members of the swinging scene; that only couples are 'proper' swingers; or that people of a certain age are just looking for 'an easy fuck;' are precisely the kind of views that serve to drive new members away from the community.
I attended my first swinging event when I was 25 and single. At no point did anyone tell me that I should 'be out enjoying life with my mates;' or that I should 'come back in 20 years.'
By contrast, they welcomed the fact that people my age were exploring swinging, and were more than forthcoming in sharing advice on how to navigate the scene as a 'newcomer.'
As I said in my original post, if you don't feel comfortable meeting someone my age, fair enough; however, don't assume that your personal preferences give you the right to dictate who 'deserves' to be here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are couples in their early 20's on here looking to swing, that means there will always be a place for young single guys too, even if the more mature crowd aren't interested.
My only advice would be better public pics, I'd rather have a 21 year old that looks like a man than a 30 year old that still looks like a boy but you can only judge that if you have decent pics
Mrs x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I still really can't understand why young, single lads/girls consider themselves swingers. They should be out enjoying life with their mates. Clubbing in normal clubs. Meeting girls/boys, living life as all young people do. Come back here in 20 years when they have gained life's experiences, and swing properly as a couple, if that's agreeable with both parties.
Sorry but to us you young uns just think it is a site for an easy fuck.
Just our opinion, before you slate us xxxxx Suzi
I cannot stand arrogant people who make intentionally derisive comments on forums like this and then excuse their behaviour by saying that it's 'just their opinion,' as if that insulates them against any and all criticism.
Pray tell what gives you the right to dictate what I should be doing with my leisure time, or judge as to whether I do or do not have a right to be here?
On what basis should confine my social interactions to 'people my own age' in 'normal' clubs? On what basis should 'proper swinging' be confined to 'life-experienced' couples over the age of 40?
Are you so self-absorbed that you see fit to appoint yourselves the 'gatekeepers' of the swinging scene?
You may be put off by the idea of meeting those whom you label so derisively as 'young uns,' but you do not speak for an entire demographic.
People of my generation and younger may have missed out on the heady sexual liberation of the 60s and 70s, but we have just as much a right to explore every facet of our sexuality as you do.
Contrary to what you imply, there is no such thing as 'proper swinging,' and no minimum age requirement or relationship status is required to participate.
Kindly keep your arrogant, narrow-minded views to yourself.
whooooaaaa. ..hold on ...the question was posted in an open forum and was and is being answered! !everyone is entitled to their opinions and can post them accordingly ...."
I stopped meeting older men because the attitudes of a lot of them towards women who have had multiple sexual partners stank. They too only wanted sex but their archaic notions of women and sex pisses me off. I'm sticking to younger men thank you (with the occasional older men with the right attitude). Being old doesn't mean you're a "proper" swinger,it just means you're old. |
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"I still really can't understand why young, single lads/girls consider themselves swingers. They should be out enjoying life with their mates. Clubbing in normal clubs. Meeting girls/boys, living life as all young people do. Come back here in 20 years when they have gained life's experiences, and swing properly as a couple, if that's agreeable with both parties.
Sorry but to us you young uns just think it is a site for an easy fuck.
Just our opinion, before you slate us xxxxx Suzi
I cannot stand arrogant people who make intentionally derisive comments on forums like this and then excuse their behaviour by saying that it's 'just their opinion,' as if that insulates them against any and all criticism.
Pray tell what gives you the right to dictate what I should be doing with my leisure time, or judge as to whether I do or do not have a right to be here?
On what basis should confine my social interactions to 'people my own age' in 'normal' clubs? On what basis should 'proper swinging' be confined to 'life-experienced' couples over the age of 40?
Are you so self-absorbed that you see fit to appoint yourselves the 'gatekeepers' of the swinging scene?
You may be put off by the idea of meeting those whom you label so derisively as 'young uns,' but you do not speak for an entire demographic.
People of my generation and younger may have missed out on the heady sexual liberation of the 60s and 70s, but we have just as much a right to explore every facet of our sexuality as you do.
Contrary to what you imply, there is no such thing as 'proper swinging,' and no minimum age requirement or relationship status is required to participate.
Kindly keep your arrogant, narrow-minded views to yourself.
whooooaaaa. ..hold on ...the question was posted in an open forum and was and is being answered! !everyone is entitled to their opinions and can post them accordingly ....
I stopped meeting older men because the attitudes of a lot of them towards women who have had multiple sexual partners stank. They too only wanted sex but their archaic notions of women and sex pisses me off. I'm sticking to younger men thank you (with the occasional older men with the right attitude). Being old doesn't mean you're a "proper" swinger,it just means you're old. "
Amen..
Enough said in reply to that comment ! (28 yo here) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's ridiculous to say "young people are only here for easy sex" as if no one else is. Everyone wants to fuck with the least aggro possible.
You old people need some perspective. "
I agree though less of the old
I'm only here for sex and if these sites were around when I was in my 20 I'd be here having a ball |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I still really can't understand why young, single lads/girls consider themselves swingers. They should be out enjoying life with their mates. Clubbing in normal clubs. Meeting girls/boys, living life as all young people do. Come back here in 20 years when they have gained life's experiences, and swing properly as a couple, if that's agreeable with both parties.
Sorry but to us you young uns just think it is a site for an easy fuck.
Just our opinion, before you slate us xxxxx Suzi"
Looooooooooooooool
Yeah let's go get pissed up in a nightclub where most fuckers are d up looking for a fight.
We'll take a swingers club any night of the week.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Judging by my experience, yes. There are plenty of people out there interested in younger folk.
It's the ones around my age that have no interest in me.  |
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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago
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"Judging by my experience, yes. There are plenty of people out there interested in younger folk.
It's the ones around my age that have no interest in me. "
Aawwwww.... let Suzi make you a cup of tea. Not promising it will taste nice I'm crap at tea making. Only got Earl Grey though. Will that suffice xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Judging by my experience, yes. There are plenty of people out there interested in younger folk.
It's the ones around my age that have no interest in me. "
You must be at that awkward age  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Judging by my experience, yes. There are plenty of people out there interested in younger folk.
It's the ones around my age that have no interest in me.
Aawwwww.... let Suzi make you a cup of tea. Not promising it will taste nice I'm crap at tea making. Only got Earl Grey though. Will that suffice xxxx "
That will be lovely, thank you xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Judging by my experience, yes. There are plenty of people out there interested in younger folk.
It's the ones around my age that have no interest in me.
You must be at that awkward age "
I think it's just that I'm awkward. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Judging by my experience, yes. There are plenty of people out there interested in younger folk.
It's the ones around my age that have no interest in me.
You must be at that awkward age
I think it's just that I'm awkward."
But awkward is the new black mi'dear!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I still really can't understand why young, single lads/girls consider themselves swingers. They should be out enjoying life with their mates. Clubbing in normal clubs. Meeting girls/boys, living life as all young people do. Come back here in 20 years when they have gained life's experiences, and swing properly as a couple, if that's agreeable with both parties.
Sorry but to us you young uns just think it is a site for an easy fuck.
Just our opinion, before you slate us xxxxx Suzi"
As a single 20 year old I don't consider myself a swinger, however I'm not here for an easy fuck as it takes a while for me to feel comfortable meeting on my own, the site got recommended to me by a friend as I wanted to experiment a bit (meeting women and couples, trying new things with a bit more adventurous men than your usual club pick up) and it has given me quite a bit of confidence and I've had amazing experiences. I'd rather experiment while I'm young and single than wait 20 years not knowing what I like and how much I'm missing
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Judging by my experience, yes. There are plenty of people out there interested in younger folk.
It's the ones around my age that have no interest in me.
You must be at that awkward age
I think it's just that I'm awkward."
I make an awesome cuppa speaking of i think ill make one now |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Judging by my experience, yes. There are plenty of people out there interested in younger folk.
It's the ones around my age that have no interest in me.
You must be at that awkward age
I think it's just that I'm awkward.
But awkward is the new black mi'dear! "
I can't wait to see the profiles with awkward guys only on them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Judging by my experience, yes. There are plenty of people out there interested in younger folk.
It's the ones around my age that have no interest in me.
You must be at that awkward age
I think it's just that I'm awkward.
I make an awesome cuppa speaking of i think ill make one now "
You make an awesome cuppa? Well.. hello there |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Who's got an opinion of an opinion
Lol
Me... My opinion is
Yeah, I'm after a fuck but who aint? that's what I'm on here for.
And it'll be nice if it comes knocking on my door or literally giftwraps itself to me but as you all know
People's search criteria can sometimes make it difficult as I find most ppl that get me excited are after the opposite of me or live way to far for them to even bother to get back to ya
It's frustrating but at the end of the day it is what it is I suppose
My profile pics ain't exactly grabbing the headlines but I'm trying to be a descreet sort and that's another thing what won't do you any favours
Ppl wanna see yr pics mostly
If I could plaster em all over the web I would but that's not what I'm after, I can send the odd couple of privert pics but to verified accounts
That's my only preference when searching... Makes it hard for newbies
Anyway if anyone does just want a normal chat come say hi
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"Who's got an opinion of an opinion
Lol
Me... My opinion is
Yeah, I'm after a fuck but who aint? that's what I'm on here for.
And it'll be nice if it comes knocking on my door or literally giftwraps itself to me but as you all know
People's search criteria can sometimes make it difficult as I find most ppl that get me excited are after the opposite of me or live way to far for them to even bother to get back to ya
It's frustrating but at the end of the day it is what it is I suppose
My profile pics ain't exactly grabbing the headlines but I'm trying to be a descreet sort and that's another thing what won't do you any favours
Ppl wanna see yr pics mostly
If I could plaster em all over the web I would but that's not what I'm after, I can send the odd couple of privert pics but to verified accounts
That's my only preference when searching... Makes it hard for newbies
Anyway if anyone does just want a normal chat come say hi
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How straight is 'straight' again?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Judging by my experience, yes. There are plenty of people out there interested in younger folk.
It's the ones around my age that have no interest in me.
You must be at that awkward age
I think it's just that I'm awkward.
But awkward is the new black mi'dear!
I can't wait to see the profiles with awkward guys only on them."
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
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"I still really can't understand why young, single lads/girls consider themselves swingers. They should be out enjoying life with their mates. Clubbing in normal clubs. Meeting girls/boys, living life as all young people do. Come back here in 20 years when they have gained life's experiences, and swing properly as a couple, if that's agreeable with both parties.
Sorry but to us you young uns just think it is a site for an easy fuck.
Just our opinion, before you slate us xxxxx Suzi"
I'm 53 and don't consider myself a swinger. I don't think it's an age thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Judging by my experience, yes. There are plenty of people out there interested in younger folk.
It's the ones around my age that have no interest in me.
You must be at that awkward age
I think it's just that I'm awkward.
I make an awesome cuppa speaking of i think ill make one now
You make an awesome cuppa? Well.. hello there "
for the record i never made my cuppa got distracted somehow  |
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