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Id happily say the majority of people would want to make an example of a previous employer if they hunmiliated them in the public eye for actually doing their specific job |
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Apparently she has turned down £1.2 million from Chelsea ..... But she wanted her day in court..... So don't be surprised if she wins the case and the judge awards her costs and a years salary ..... Which I very much doubt would come remotely close to £1.2m but She will have won which is her stated aim.... |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Who think just another tipical woman after all she can get"
A typical woman after all she can get? 
So you'd accept being publicly humiliated for doing your job? You'd accept your employer treating you badly and just walk away happy with your lot?
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Apparently she has turned down £1.2 million from Chelsea ..... But she wanted her day in court..... So don't be surprised if she wins the case and the judge awards her costs and a years salary ..... Which I very much doubt would come remotely close to £1.2m but She will have won which is her stated aim...."
Accepting £1.2m would have come with a compromise agreement and no sanctions to the employer. Good for her if she's willing to stick to her principles rather than grab the money.
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"Who think just another tipical woman after all she can get
A typical woman after all she can get?
So you'd accept being publicly humiliated for doing your job? You'd accept your employer treating you badly and just walk away happy with your lot?
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i have had a bollocking in public u just take it |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Who think just another tipical woman after all she can get
A typical woman after all she can get?
So you'd accept being publicly humiliated for doing your job? You'd accept your employer treating you badly and just walk away happy with your lot?
i have had a bollocking in public u just take it "
Your bollocking was covered by the press?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Who think just another tipical woman after all she can get
A typical woman after all she can get?
So you'd accept being publicly humiliated for doing your job? You'd accept your employer treating you badly and just walk away happy with your lot?
i have had a bollocking in public u just take it "
Really? Simply just take it? I certainly wouldn't there's a way in dealing with issues in the workplace a public outrage certainly isn't one |
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"Who think just another tipical woman after all she can get
A typical woman after all she can get?
So you'd accept being publicly humiliated for doing your job? You'd accept your employer treating you badly and just walk away happy with your lot?
i have had a bollocking in public u just take it "
With God knows how many million people watching?
Plus the publicity the situation has received since it happened.
Yep, sure, your situation was exactly the same.  |
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"Who think just another tipical woman after all she can get
A typical woman after all she can get?
So you'd accept being publicly humiliated for doing your job? You'd accept your employer treating you badly and just walk away happy with your lot?
i have had a bollocking in public u just take it "
YOU just take it.
Others stand up for themselves if it suits them. |
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"So she's settled?
I wonder why she didn't see it through? "
Because she had a very strong case & Chelsea knew it would cost a lot more than £1.2m if the tribunal ruled in her favour. She'll get what she deserves & be able to hold her head high.
Having read comments made by Chelsea & Mourinho (if BBC is to be believed) they have admitted she was right to do what she did & Mourinho admitted calling her "daughter of a whore" |
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Because she had a very strong case & Chelsea knew it would cost a lot more than £1.2m if the tribunal ruled in her favour. "
But that's why I don't understand why she settled.
If she had a strong case and would have won more money and more importantly won a judgement against Chelsea then why on earth wouldn't she want to follow it through? |
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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago
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"Who think just another tipical woman after all she can get
A typical woman after all she can get?
So you'd accept being publicly humiliated for doing your job? You'd accept your employer treating you badly and just walk away happy with your lot?
i have had a bollocking in public u just take it "
Did you deserve it though?
Would you just accept it if you'd had a bollocking in public and you'd done nothing wrong? Bit weak to just accept it then, I'd say. |
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By *olgateMan
over a year ago
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Because she had a very strong case & Chelsea knew it would cost a lot more than £1.2m if the tribunal ruled in her favour.
But that's why I don't understand why she settled.
If she had a strong case and would have won more money and more importantly won a judgement against Chelsea then why on earth wouldn't she want to follow it through? "
thats how the law works. In cases like that you quit while you are ahead |
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Because she had a very strong case & Chelsea knew it would cost a lot more than £1.2m if the tribunal ruled in her favour.
But that's why I don't understand why she settled.
If she had a strong case and would have won more money and more importantly won a judgement against Chelsea then why on earth wouldn't she want to follow it through?
thats how the law works. In cases like that you quit while you are ahead "
Exactly. Chelsea will have wanted to settle as Tribunal rulings are public documents. This way we'll never know what was agreed. |
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Yes, women should just accept being called things like mother of a whore and just get on with it 
They should accept being marginalised and passed over simply for doing their job (and following correct practice).
Rich men and employers should in no way face up to their wrong doings in a court.
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Why let Chelsea off the hook?
If you have a point to prove then prove it.
It's like when celebrities settled with News International over phone hacking.
If organisations/bosses do wrong then hold them fully to account. |
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"Who think just another tipical woman after all she can get
A typical woman after all she can get?
So you'd accept being publicly humiliated for doing your job? You'd accept your employer treating you badly and just walk away happy with your lot?
i have had a bollocking in public u just take it "
So you just took your public bollocking? More fool you then
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By (user no longer on site)
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Chelsea have apologised unreservedly and Jose has issued a "statement".
I don't know the woman but I'm glad she stood up for herself and I wish that was typical of all women.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Because she had a very strong case & Chelsea knew it would cost a lot more than £1.2m if the tribunal ruled in her favour.
But that's why I don't understand why she settled.
If she had a strong case and would have won more money and more importantly won a judgement against Chelsea then why on earth wouldn't she want to follow it through? "
We don't know what she settled for though.
It could have been for more than the £1.2m she was offered and turned down.
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It's all bollocks if you ask me. A pathetic excuse to fuck over a employer for big bucks. She's got the big payout now but she's fucked herself too. Who is going to employ her now? She's probably made enough to retire now anyway.
I don't like stories like this. If you haven't got the balls and strength to take a bit of criticism, your just too weak. That's my generalisation of it
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By *olgateMan
over a year ago
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Because she had a very strong case & Chelsea knew it would cost a lot more than £1.2m if the tribunal ruled in her favour.
But that's why I don't understand why she settled.
If she had a strong case and would have won more money and more importantly won a judgement against Chelsea then why on earth wouldn't she want to follow it through?
We don't know what she settled for though.
It could have been for more than the £1.2m she was offered and turned down.
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It's more than likely a lot more than the original offer.
Chelsea will think they have got off lightly |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"It's all bollocks if you ask me. A pathetic excuse to fuck over a employer for big bucks. She's got the big payout now but she's fucked herself too. Who is going to employ her now? She's probably made enough to retire now anyway.
I don't like stories like this. If you haven't got the balls and strength to take a bit of criticism, your just too weak. That's my generalisation of it
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A bit of criticism is being told that you did wrong and here's how to improve in a professional manner and privately. Being called names and shouted at in public is not a bit of criticism.
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Chelsea have apologised unreservedly and Jose has issued a "statement".
I don't know the woman but I'm glad she stood up for herself and I wish that was typical of all women.
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this..
she was doing her job as the medical professional and the way she was treated was shocking and not appropriate nor necessary..
bullying misogyny belongs back in the past and fair play to her for not taking it from him.. |
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"It's all bollocks if you ask me. A pathetic excuse to fuck over a employer for big bucks. She's got the big payout now but she's fucked herself too. Who is going to employ her now? She's probably made enough to retire now anyway.
I don't like stories like this. If you haven't got the balls and strength to take a bit of criticism, your just too weak. That's my generalisation of it
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Thankfully, you weren't asked.
This wasn't "a bit of criticism". It was open and very public abuse, which continued long after the incident in the form of "punishment" by demotion.
Chelsea and Mourinho wouldn't have settled if they felt he or the club didn't have a case to answer to. |
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"It's all bollocks if you ask me. A pathetic excuse to fuck over a employer for big bucks. She's got the big payout now but she's fucked herself too. Who is going to employ her now? She's probably made enough to retire now anyway.
I don't like stories like this. If you haven't got the balls and strength to take a bit of criticism, your just too weak. That's my generalisation of it
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does one assume that you would be ok with your mother, sister, daughter or partner being addressed how the Doctor was..?
someone calling them what he did in public.. |
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"It's all bollocks if you ask me. A pathetic excuse to fuck over a employer for big bucks. She's got the big payout now but she's fucked herself too. Who is going to employ her now? She's probably made enough to retire now anyway.
I don't like stories like this. If you haven't got the balls and strength to take a bit of criticism, your just too weak. That's my generalisation of it
does one assume that you would be ok with your mother, sister, daughter or partner being addressed how the Doctor was..?
someone calling them what he did in public.."
which she had gone through with it..really thought she would do..make that smug conceited Jose apologize in public.. |
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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago
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"It's all bollocks if you ask me. A pathetic excuse to fuck over a employer for big bucks. She's got the big payout now but she's fucked herself too. Who is going to employ her now? She's probably made enough to retire now anyway.
I don't like stories like this. If you haven't got the balls and strength to take a bit of criticism, your just too weak. That's my generalisation of it
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If you were demoted when you'd done nothing wrong and were simply doing your job properly (showing a duty of care to fellow employees in her case) would you just take it?
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"It's all bollocks if you ask me. A pathetic excuse to fuck over a employer for big bucks. She's got the big payout now but she's fucked herself too. Who is going to employ her now? She's probably made enough to retire now anyway.
I don't like stories like this. If you haven't got the balls and strength to take a bit of criticism, your just too weak. That's my generalisation of it
If you were demoted when you'd done nothing wrong and were simply doing your job properly (showing a duty of care to fellow employees in her case) would you just take it?
I somehow doubt it "
I'm a lot stronger than you think. I work my arse off at work, more so than anyone in my department. I've been kicked in the teath and bollocks so many times but still get up from the floor, hold my head high and continue with what I do.
It's all sticks and stones. Maybe I'm just old fashioned and a dying breed. Everything had to be just so politically these days. I'm not like that. I simply dish out criticism knowing full well that I can take it too. |
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"It's all bollocks if you ask me. A pathetic excuse to fuck over a employer for big bucks. She's got the big payout now but she's fucked herself too. Who is going to employ her now? She's probably made enough to retire now anyway.
I don't like stories like this. If you haven't got the balls and strength to take a bit of criticism, your just too weak. That's my generalisation of it
If you were demoted when you'd done nothing wrong and were simply doing your job properly (showing a duty of care to fellow employees in her case) would you just take it?
I somehow doubt it
I'm a lot stronger than you think. I work my arse off at work, more so than anyone in my department. I've been kicked in the teath and bollocks so many times but still get up from the floor, hold my head high and continue with what I do.
It's all sticks and stones. Maybe I'm just old fashioned and a dying breed. Everything had to be just so politically these days. I'm not like that. I simply dish out criticism knowing full well that I can take it too."
We've all done that.
The thing is, we don't have to.
I'm guessing you like being treated like that, can't see why else you'd tolerate it.
And she wasn't criticised, she was verbally abused and insulted in front of thousands of people and demoted. |
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By *ost SockMan
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"It's all bollocks if you ask me. A pathetic excuse to fuck over a employer for big bucks. She's got the big payout now but she's fucked herself too. Who is going to employ her now? She's probably made enough to retire now anyway.
I don't like stories like this. If you haven't got the balls and strength to take a bit of criticism, your just too weak. That's my generalisation of it
If you were demoted when you'd done nothing wrong and were simply doing your job properly (showing a duty of care to fellow employees in her case) would you just take it?
I somehow doubt it
I'm a lot stronger than you think. I work my arse off at work, more so than anyone in my department. I've been kicked in the teath and bollocks so many times but still get up from the floor, hold my head high and continue with what I do.
It's all sticks and stones. Maybe I'm just old fashioned and a dying breed. Everything had to be just so politically these days. I'm not like that. I simply dish out criticism knowing full well that I can take it too."
Not sure why you've concluded that I think you're not strong
It's precisely because you strike me as being a strong person who stands up for themselves that I couldn't imagine you being demoted/relieved of duties very unfairly and just taking it lying down.
You say yourself you dish out criticism at work,
as well as take it. Would you not be critical of an appalling, unjust decision against you?
Reading your words about your approach to work in the last post only makes me more convinced you wouldn't take it lying down (rightly). They scream "man who accepts fair criticism but would take no crap", not someone who'd be "quiet as a mouse" (see what I did there ). |
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