Hello all, not sure of the response i will get from this post but here goes:
Myself like others i have seen in the forums havent been getting much luck in response to the messages sent, dont get me wrong i get it, you dont have to reply or whatever, however when you feel you pique each others interests, how do you females like being messaged, in the sense of the man saying what he wants to do to you or a more gentle and polite approach of getting to know the person. Just thought id create this post to see what response is out here in the forums. Apologies for the lengthy post  |
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"Where's a well known forumite's cliché when you need it?
Yeah i thought this might have been, i just didnt see anything relating to it on the forum page is all  "
No, I was referring to the eternal need for 'patience'.
You're a young fella, new to the site. You need to stand out in a good way from the thousands of other young men on here hoping for a shag.
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"I just prefer a normal conversation as if we were face to face in a pub, it's not that hard a concept "
Yeah that was sort of my understanding, but thats not always the case, interesting to know tho  |
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"Hello all, not sure of the response i will get from this post but here goes:
Myself like others i have seen in the forums havent been getting much luck in response to the messages sent, dont get me wrong i get it, you dont have to reply or whatever, however when you feel you pique each others interests, how do you females like being messaged, in the sense of the man saying what he wants to do to you or a more gentle and polite approach of getting to know the person. Just thought id create this post to see what response is out here in the forums. Apologies for the lengthy post "
Don't assume all ladies like the same thing: one size does not fit all.
Tailor your response to who you're talking to. Bare in mind however, the "women" into lengthy, graphic correspondence are usually men!  |
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"Hello all, not sure of the response i will get from this post but here goes:
Myself like others i have seen in the forums havent been getting much luck in response to the messages sent, dont get me wrong i get it, you dont have to reply or whatever, however when you feel you pique each others interests, how do you females like being messaged, in the sense of the man saying what he wants to do to you or a more gentle and polite approach of getting to know the person. Just thought id create this post to see what response is out here in the forums. Apologies for the lengthy post
Don't assume all ladies like the same thing: one size does not fit all.
Tailor your response to who you're talking to. Bare in mind however, the "women" into lengthy, graphic correspondence are usually men! "
I do tend to tailor to the person im talking to but never thought that men pretend to be women thats pretty sad to hear, ill bare in mind to keep it short and sweet then  |
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Don't come across as needy, nor too assertive, nor desperate. Women on here love sex as much as we do but many of them don't like to be treated as though they are easy prey. I've been more successful when I haven't really been trying but I've been out of the scene for a number of years so I'm starting all over again. For men, it's a game of patience unless you happen to have a body like A dons in which case you'll be fighting them off |
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"The best advice I can give you is read the profile first. Never do a cut and paste message. Don't ask how are you today? Would you like to bounce on my cock? Fancy a fuck? Etc
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Agreed, im not one for copy and paste, but would you like to bounce on my cock is pretty hilarious i shall take this advice on board tho  |
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"Don't come across as needy, nor too assertive, nor desperate. Women on here love sex as much as we do but many of them don't like to be treated as though they are easy prey. I've been more successful when I haven't really been trying but I've been out of the scene for a number of years so I'm starting all over again. For men, it's a game of patience unless you happen to have a body like A dons in which case you'll be fighting them off "
Yeah i know what you mean, i think the problem with text messages you might say something in your head that isnt needy and desperate but can be taken as desperate in the form of text, and i know i think ive decided to quit this until my body is better muscular shape |
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For me steering clear of sex chat until I've had chance to decide if I actually like you or not gets massive brownie points. I know it's primarily a sex site but a good rule of thumb for the first few messages is - if I said this to her face in a pub would I get slapped, if yes leave it out and, if I shouted this in a public place would I get arrested and put on a register, again if yes leave it out
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"For me steering clear of sex chat until I've had chance to decide if I actually like you or not gets massive brownie points. I know it's primarily a sex site but a good rule of thumb for the first few messages is - if I said this to her face in a pub would I get slapped, if yes leave it out and, if I shouted this in a public place would I get arrested and put on a register, again if yes leave it out
Mrs x"
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"For me steering clear of sex chat until I've had chance to decide if I actually like you or not gets massive brownie points. I know it's primarily a sex site but a good rule of thumb for the first few messages is - if I said this to her face in a pub would I get slapped, if yes leave it out and, if I shouted this in a public place would I get arrested and put on a register, again if yes leave it out
Mrs x"
This even steer clear till i have slept with someone. I just find it incredibly presumptious xx |
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I love a good chat, everyday crap about stuff and nonsense can help me make a decision on meeting someone! Leave the finer details of bedroom activity until later. If the conversation grabs my mind I'm more likely to arrange a meet with them |
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