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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I see plenty of ladies on here and on their profiles it says words to the effect. "must be discrete as my husband doesn't know I play" yet I post a post on here and I get tore a new one lmao good job I have thick skin! What's all that about??? Then we get the other types on here that seem to think cause they are "real swingers" they can take the moral high ground when I guarantee that 90% of swinging couples (unless they met actually swinging) one of the partner was the driving force in getting the other into this lifestyle so that also must beg a question. Now I'm not judging anybody indeed if I could get my wife involved with her mate sue and they let me join in I'd be over the moon. ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well they don't tend to write numerous threads about "booboo I'm playing away from home and I've been on site for seven years without a meet" OP.
Grow up, look at your priorities and get over it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That is right, it is more acceptable that a woman cheat as she will get all praises and understanding. I guess as they are the minority, so couples and men make exceptions to the rule there lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was lambasted last year for cheating. Cheating isn't rite by any stretch of the imagination but sometimes the reasons are understandable. In my opinion the ops reasons are not understandable.
I still get accused of cheating now dispite the wedding rings I wear being on the wrong hand n thier being two of them.  xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I was lambasted last year for cheating. Cheating isn't rite by any stretch of the imagination but sometimes the reasons are understandable. In my opinion the ops reasons are not understandable.
I still get accused of cheating now dispite the wedding rings I wear being on the wrong hand n thier being two of them. xxx"
lmfao this sites hilarious |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Women don't post on the forums discussing the fact they are on here without their partners knowledge.
Men post on the forums probably daily saying they are married and can't get a meet and "is it because they are cheating?" and it's when you post public ally about it, you tend to invite criticism. |
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"That is right, it is more acceptable that a woman cheat as she will get all praises and understanding. I guess as they are the minority, so couples and men make exceptions to the rule there lol."
Nope. Both need to look at their relationship and ask am I being fair to my partner/spouse if they don't know they are on here. I did, I came out, dealt with my demons and got divorced. Simple really.
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By *olgateMan
over a year ago
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"With regards to double standards, my girl hates mayonnaise on chips, yet she will dip her chips in her coleslaw? What kind of hypocrisy is that?! "
She doesn't sound like a keeper for that reason alone. I make her right about the chips too |
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If your married just put it on your profile. You dont have to go on about it.
I couldnt careless if someone is married but noone needs to go on about it on the forums or try and justify themselves. Just get on with it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was lambasted last year for cheating. Cheating isn't rite by any stretch of the imagination but sometimes the reasons are understandable. In my opinion the ops reasons are not understandable.
I still get accused of cheating now dispite the wedding rings I wear being on the wrong hand n thier being two of them. xxx lmfao this sites hilarious "
Yes I  fab n the forums are brilliant. Especially when we are all so well entertained |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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Yeah over a year an no veris best deleting profile an starting again an maybe not be too open about your private life through your txt. That will put a lot of women off. People don't want to feel guilty about meeting you its not nice in my opinion but each to there own. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"With regards to double standards, my girl hates mayonnaise on chips, yet she will dip her chips in her coleslaw? What kind of hypocrisy is that?!
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I don't even know what you're ing at but if it's the sickening double standard then I'm with you all the way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Then we get the other types on here that seem to think cause they are "real swingers" they can take the moral high ground when I guarantee that 90% of swinging couples (unless they met actually swinging) one of the partner was the driving force in getting the other into this lifestyle so that also must beg a question. "
What question does it beg? Do you have link to the research for your "guaranteed" figures please?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"With regards to double standards, my girl hates mayonnaise on chips, yet she will dip her chips in her coleslaw? What kind of hypocrisy is that?!
I don't even know what you're ing at but if it's the sickening double standard then I'm with you all the way"
Mayo or coleslaw. Both gross with chips. I never even heard of that until I came to the UK |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"With regards to double standards, my girl hates mayonnaise on chips, yet she will dip her chips in her coleslaw? What kind of hypocrisy is that?!
I don't even know what you're ing at but if it's the sickening double standard then I'm with you all the way
Mayo or coleslaw. Both gross with chips. I never even heard of that until I came to the UK"
To be fair anything is gross with chips  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"With regards to double standards, my girl hates mayonnaise on chips, yet she will dip her chips in her coleslaw? What kind of hypocrisy is that?!
I don't even know what you're ing at but if it's the sickening double standard then I'm with you all the way
Mayo or coleslaw. Both gross with chips. I never even heard of that until I came to the UK
To be fair anything is gross with chips "
I didn't come on here expecting this kind of vilification, it's a good job I've got a thick skin and don't care what you all think.
It's not the Mayo or lack thereof that I object to, it's the lies |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mate I understand what you're saying but on fab women In generally and especially single women are like gods they can do what ever they want and whatever they say that's the way it is .. |
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"That is right, it is more acceptable that a woman cheat as she will get all praises and understanding. I guess as they are the minority, so couples and men make exceptions to the rule there lol."
Wow shag... You are beginning to sound as bitter as the OP with your comments about cheating women at every given opportunity!! |
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OP, you really didn't read my advice yesterday did you? 
"Women don't post on the forums discussing the fact they are on here without their partners knowledge "
because when they do, they also get attacked.
"Men post on the forums probably daily saying they are married and can't get a meet and "is it because they are cheating?" and it's when you post publically about it, you tend to invite criticism."
Plus many of the men, your competition,will see it as an opportunity to demonstrate a) that they are single, and b) that they have 'better character/morals' than you.
Either way: Never speak of it in public again!
(Nor the bit about how you are so stunningly handsome, attentive and good in bed that your wife no longer wants to sleep with you )
Mr ddc |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That is right, it is more acceptable that a woman cheat as she will get all praises and understanding. I guess as they are the minority, so couples and men make exceptions to the rule there lol.
Wow shag... You are beginning to sound as bitter as the OP with your comments about cheating women at every given opportunity!! "
No, not at all there, just noticing the different replies when men and woman do the same topic x. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All depends on the responder op. We all make judgements right or wrong.
Ive never really been attacked and someone told me once its maybe because i dont moan about it.
Thing is a lot of people live in a world of black and white without any shades of grey. Not all swingers are open minded. They suffer the same 'anyone who is different to me is wrong syndrome' as some of those outside swinging. These people are easy to spot their horses are very high
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Either way: Never speak of it in public again!
(Nor the bit about how you are so stunningly handsome, attentive and good in bed that your wife no longer wants to sleep with you)
Mr ddc "
Fantastic!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I see plenty of ladies on here and on their profiles it says words to the effect. "must be discrete as my husband doesn't know I play" yet I post a post on here and I get tore a new one lmao good job I have thick skin! What's all that about??? Then we get the other types on here that seem to think cause they are "real swingers" they can take the moral high ground when I guarantee that 90% of swinging couples (unless they met actually swinging) one of the partner was the driving force in getting the other into this lifestyle so that also must beg a question. Now I'm not judging anybody indeed if I could get my wife involved with her mate sue and they let me join in I'd be over the moon. ?? "
So this guarantee about 90% of couples - can you tell us more? |
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"I see plenty of ladies on here and on their profiles it says words to the effect. "must be discrete as my husband doesn't know I play" yet I post a post on here and I get tore a new one lmao good job I have thick skin! What's all that about??? Then we get the other types on here that seem to think cause they are "real swingers" they can take the moral high ground when I guarantee that 90% of swinging couples (unless they met actually swinging) one of the partner was the driving force in getting the other into this lifestyle so that also must beg a question. Now I'm not judging anybody indeed if I could get my wife involved with her mate sue and they let me join in I'd be over the moon. ??
So this guarantee about 90% of couples - can you tell us more?"
I am interested in this too, OP. I do see some couples taking the higher moral ground about single guys swinging without their other half knowing, but I am not sure its 90 per cent who have been 'coerced' by their partner. We met on here and our relationship is living. The other thing I have coerced my other half into doing today is going to the garden centre, but then I found out he wanted to anyway .... so I wonder if he put the suggestion in my mind by whispering in my ear when I was sleeping. |
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