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Judged by pic

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Not on here

But had a message from someone with no pic

So I asked to see one as I won't speak to anyone without seeing them

He said no he doesn't do vain people who judge by looks ....

Now don't get me wrong of course it comes down to personality in the end , but for me there MUST be a physical attraction

He's gone off on one saying my attitude stinks and I'm vain lol

Irony is I doubt he would have messaged me at all it if he hadn't liked the look of my photos

Or am I in the wrong ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd say you're well within your rights.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Your wrong.

It's a fact all the most attractive people in here don't have photos.

Sometimes not even a profile too if they are really really attractive

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How very dare you request to put a face to the person you're talking to and considering as a potential sex partner!

I wouldnt worry about it, your more than entitled to ask for one and by not sending one hes more wasting your time than anything else and hes clearly not put himself across too well either!

Sounds like a bullet dodged

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nope you are correct....Swingers site, doesn't mean we all jump into bed with just anyone, has to be a physical attraction in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i think he will fuck anything and thinks you will too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

erm.....

how can you know whether you are physically attracted to someone without seeing a pic; I don't know anyone that would go on a blind internet date or swing with someone they haven't seen a picture of; first it would be a dive into an unknown and secondly, surely its bloody dangerous?

Maybe I am just vain

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman over a year ago

Lyndhurst

Actualy I used to get messages from men when I didn't have any pictures, I think they just imagined what I looked like. When I was on a dating site a long time ago I didn't bother with pictures at first, I was lucky I met one really nice man but some awful ones too. Knowing what I know now I would never meet anyone who didn't have a face pic.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

One to consign to the "temperamental nutter" bin I think! If anyone started on me calling me vain and saying my attitude stank for simply requesting to see who I'm speaking to (when THEY contacted me first!) I'd just smile and move merrily on ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Your wrong.

It's a fact all the most attractive people in here don't have photos.

Sometimes not even a profile too if they are really really attractive

Pmsl !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Your wrong.

It's a fact all the most attractive people in here don't have photos.

Sometimes not even a profile too if they are really really attractive

Pmsl ! "

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Keeps messaging me lol !! Trying to sweet talk me .

Not blocked him yet because I'm quite amused currently

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Could have the best personality , and be the nicest person but if there's no physical attraction it ain't going to happen .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I know what you mean and on profiles here that are asking for pics, but don't have any themselves lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Keeps messaging me lol !! Trying to sweet talk me .

Not blocked him yet because I'm quite amused currently "

How many cock shots he sent you lol

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

Knows he's going to be turned down when it's provided

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By *ettyboop61Woman over a year ago

St Neots

Lol Yeh string him along a bit and then dump him!! Teach him a lesson after all if you were in a pub you wouldn't have a bag over your head with 2 holes for eyes???

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

I want to know what the person im talking to looks like.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Keeps messaging me lol !! Trying to sweet talk me .

Not blocked him yet because I'm quite amused currently "

get him to apologise then block.

he sounds like a manipulative dickhead tbh. slagging you off to make you feel bad then being nice so you'll fuck him. creepy.

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan over a year ago

London

"Keeps messaging me lol !! Trying to sweet talk me .

Not blocked him yet because I'm quite amused currently "

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire

"Not on here

But had a message from someone with no pic

So I asked to see one as I won't speak to anyone without seeing them

He said no he doesn't do vain people who judge by looks ....

Now don't get me wrong of course it comes down to personality in the end , but for me there MUST be a physical attraction

He's gone off on one saying my attitude stinks and I'm vain lol

Irony is I doubt he would have messaged me at all it if he hadn't liked the look of my photos

Or am I in the wrong ? "

You are free to set whatever rules you choose to run your profile. Others can choose to either follow them, or move on.

We have never sent face pics, we simply would never put them on a site such as this. It's never caused us any problems.

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not on here

But had a message from someone with no pic

So I asked to see one as I won't speak to anyone without seeing them

He said no he doesn't do vain people who judge by looks ....

Now don't get me wrong of course it comes down to personality in the end , but for me there MUST be a physical attraction

He's gone off on one saying my attitude stinks and I'm vain lol

Irony is I doubt he would have messaged me at all it if he hadn't liked the look of my photos

Or am I in the wrong ?

You are free to set whatever rules you choose to run your profile. Others can choose to either follow them, or move on.

We have never sent face pics, we simply would never put them on a site such as this. It's never caused us any pr0300 123 1350oblems.

Mr ddc"

It would be a problem for you Mr ddc if you didn't have your wife as bait.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not on here

But had a message from someone with no pic

So I asked to see one as I won't speak to anyone without seeing them

He said no he doesn't do vain people who judge by looks ....

Now don't get me wrong of course it comes down to personality in the end , but for me there MUST be a physical attraction

He's gone off on one saying my attitude stinks and I'm vain lol

Irony is I doubt he would have messaged me at all it if he hadn't liked the look of my photos

Or am I in the wrong ?

You are free to set whatever rules you choose to run your profile. Others can choose to either follow them, or move on.

We have never sent face pics, we simply would never put them on a site such as this. It's never caused us any problems.

Mr ddc

It would be a problem for you Mr ddc if you didn't have your wife as bait.

whose phone number is that?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not on here

But had a message from someone with no pic

So I asked to see one as I won't speak to anyone without seeing them

He said no he doesn't do vain people who judge by looks ....

Now don't get me wrong of course it comes down to personality in the end , but for me there MUST be a physical attraction

He's gone off on one saying my attitude stinks and I'm vain lol

Irony is I doubt he would have messaged me at all it if he hadn't liked the look of my photos

Or am I in the wrong ?

You are free to set whatever rules you choose to run your profile. Others can choose to either follow them, or move on.

We have never sent face pics, we simply would never put them on a site such as this. It's never caused us any problems.

Mr ddc

It would be a problem for you Mr ddc if you didn't have your wife as bait.

whose phone number is that?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Attraction is key for me ! It's got to start somewhere so if that what works for you then who's to say that's wrong ?!?!

Totally within your right to ask for a face

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Not on here

But had a message from someone with no pic

So I asked to see one as I won't speak to anyone without seeing them

He said no he doesn't do vain people who judge by looks ....

Now don't get me wrong of course it comes down to personality in the end , but for me there MUST be a physical attraction

He's gone off on one saying my attitude stinks and I'm vain lol

Irony is I doubt he would have messaged me at all it if he hadn't liked the look of my photos

Or am I in the wrong ?

You are free to set whatever rules you choose to run your profile. Others can choose to either follow them, or move on.

We have never sent face pics, we simply would never put them on a site such as this. It's never caused us any problems.

Mr ddc

It would be a problem for you Mr ddc if you didn't have your wife as bait.

whose phone number is that?

Oooer lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ask the guy to meet in a pub for a social, but you need a photo to know who you're looking for.

He wouldn't want you propositioning a random guy and accidentally having a meet with the wrong person now, would he?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Attraction is key for me ! It's got to start somewhere so if that what works for you then who's to say that's wrong ?!?!

Totally within your right to ask for a face "

Cor if it was u please just confess now

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ask the guy to meet in a pub for a social, but you need a photo to know who you're looking for.

He wouldn't want you propositioning a random guy and accidentally having a meet with the wrong person now, would he?

Ha ha ha

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire

You are free to set whatever rules you choose to run your profile. Others can choose to either follow them, or move on.

We have never sent face pics, we simply would never put them on a site such as this. It's never caused us any problems.

Mr ddc

It would be a problem for you Mr ddc if you didn't have your wife as bait.

Charming, she'll like that description when she's on later.

Why did you insert a phone number into my post?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You are free to set whatever rules you choose to run your profile. Others can choose to either follow them, or move on.

We have never sent face pics, we simply would never put them on a site such as this. It's never caused us any problems.

Mr ddc

It would be a problem for you Mr ddc if you didn't have your wife as bait.

Charming, she'll like that description when she's on later.

Why did you insert a phone number into my post?"

What phone number? I can't see one ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe he's into blind dates?

But you should also send a bloke in your place

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By *igeiaWoman over a year ago

Bristol

"Not on here

But had a message from someone with no pic

So I asked to see one as I won't speak to anyone without seeing them

He said no he doesn't do vain people who judge by looks ....

Now don't get me wrong of course it comes down to personality in the end , but for me there MUST be a physical attraction

He's gone off on one saying my attitude stinks and I'm vain lol

Irony is I doubt he would have messaged me at all it if he hadn't liked the look of my photos

Or am I in the wrong ? "

If the visual is important to you then no, you're not in the wrong. However, I have been in a similar situation where I was messaged by a guy with no pics and a one line profile, liked him immediately from his messages, met him a week later and nearly two years on we are still seeing each other. So you never know.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You are free to set whatever rules you choose to run your profile. Others can choose to either follow them, or move on.

We have never sent face pics, we simply would never put them on a site such as this. It's never caused us any problems.

Mr ddc

It would be a problem for you Mr ddc if you didn't have your wife as bait.

Charming, she'll like that description when she's on later.

Why did you insert a phone number into my post?

What phone number? I can't see one ? "

Oh yes ??? How strange ?

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Not on here

But had a message from someone with no pic

So I asked to see one as I won't speak to anyone without seeing them

He said no he doesn't do vain people who judge by looks ....

Now don't get me wrong of course it comes down to personality in the end , but for me there MUST be a physical attraction

He's gone off on one saying my attitude stinks and I'm vain lol

Irony is I doubt he would have messaged me at all it if he hadn't liked the look of my photos

Or am I in the wrong ?

You are free to set whatever rules you choose to run your profile. Others can choose to either follow them, or move on.

We have never sent face pics, we simply would never put them on a site such as this. It's never caused us any problems.

Mr ddc"

People meet you as blind dates?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Attraction is key for me ! It's got to start somewhere so if that what works for you then who's to say that's wrong ?!?!

Totally within your right to ask for a face

Cor if it was u please just confess now "

Haha unfortunately not ! Might take mine down and message you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not on here

But had a message from someone with no pic

So I asked to see one as I won't speak to anyone without seeing them

He said no he doesn't do vain people who judge by looks ....

Now don't get me wrong of course it comes down to personality in the end , but for me there MUST be a physical attraction

He's gone off on one saying my attitude stinks and I'm vain lol

Irony is I doubt he would have messaged me at all it if he hadn't liked the look of my photos

Or am I in the wrong ? "

Yes you're wrong for asking for a face pic if he sent you a " fancy a fuck " message...

You know the rules.... The only appropriate answer is to ask for a cock pic first..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You are free to set whatever rules you choose to run your profile. Others can choose to either follow them, or move on.

We have never sent face pics, we simply would never put them on a site such as this. It's never caused us any problems.

Mr ddc

It would be a problem for you Mr ddc if you didn't have your wife as bait.

Charming, she'll like that description when she's on later.

Why did you insert a phone number into my post?

What phone number? I can't see one ? "

it's a government one.

illuminati.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire

You are free to set whatever rules you choose to run your profile. Others can choose to either follow them, or move on.

We have never sent face pics, we simply would never put them on a site such as this. It's never caused us any problems.

Mr ddc

People meet you as blind dates?

Let me turn that around.

There are people on these forums who we have no idea how physically attractive they are, but purely from their posts we know we would never want to meet them. How does a picture show that?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not on here

But had a message from someone with no pic

So I asked to see one as I won't speak to anyone without seeing them

He said no he doesn't do vain people who judge by looks ....

Now don't get me wrong of course it comes down to personality in the end , but for me there MUST be a physical attraction

He's gone off on one saying my attitude stinks and I'm vain lol

Irony is I doubt he would have messaged me at all it if he hadn't liked the look of my photos

Or am I in the wrong ?

You are free to set whatever rules you choose to run your profile. Others can choose to either follow them, or move on.

We have never sent face pics, we simply would never put them on a site such as this. It's never caused us any problems.

Mr ddc

People meet you as blind dates?

The power of sex will make men do strange things

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You are free to set whatever rules you choose to run your profile. Others can choose to either follow them, or move on.

We have never sent face pics, we simply would never put them on a site such as this. It's never caused us any problems.

Mr ddc

It would be a problem for you Mr ddc if you didn't have your wife as bait.

Charming, she'll like that description when she's on later.

Why did you insert a phone number into my post?

What phone number? I can't see one ?

it's a government one.

illuminati.

Spooky

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

You are free to set whatever rules you choose to run your profile. Others can choose to either follow them, or move on.

We have never sent face pics, we simply would never put them on a site such as this. It's never caused us any problems.

Mr ddc

People meet you as blind dates?

Let me turn that around.

There are people on these forums who we have no idea how physically attractive they are, but purely from their posts we know we would never want to meet them. How does a picture show that?"

I understand that, but I was going by what your post said

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I had one guy messaging and flirting with me.

When I politely told him no thank you he told me he wouldn't have gone with a woman like me because I had cheapened myself with my pics!!!

Pmsl

I think he forgot he wasn't in Fab Nuns!!!

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire

You are free to set whatever rules you choose to run your profile. Others can choose to either follow them, or move on.

We have never sent face pics, we simply would never put them on a site such as this. It's never caused us any problems.

Mr ddc

People meet you as blind dates?

Let me turn that around.

There are people on these forums who we have no idea how physically attractive they are, but purely from their posts we know we would never want to meet them. How does a picture show that?

I understand that, but I was going by what your post said

Besides, with my face, we have more chance of meeting if it's as a blind date...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have you been here before OP? I've seen those boobs before...

How's your growler?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not on here

But had a message from someone with no pic

So I asked to see one as I won't speak to anyone without seeing them

He said no he doesn't do vain people who judge by looks ....

Now don't get me wrong of course it comes down to personality in the end , but for me there MUST be a physical attraction

He's gone off on one saying my attitude stinks and I'm vain lol

Irony is I doubt he would have messaged me at all it if he hadn't liked the look of my photos

Or am I in the wrong ? "

could've asked if he'd be happy having bag over his head then just so you're not vain

Of course he didn't message you because of your pic...he obviously read your profile and assumed your personality was why he wanted to message you

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By *eliz NelsonMan over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

"I had one guy messaging and flirting with me.

When I politely told him no thank you he told me he wouldn't have gone with a woman like me because I had cheapened myself with my pics!!!

Pmsl

I think he forgot he wasn't in Fab Nuns!!!

Fab Nuns???? Off to google Fab Nuns

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've never made a habit of it, but I have met the odd guy without seeing a pic.

As someone said in jest before, they have actually been amongst the best looking meets I've had.

I've never been disappointed by a blind meet, but they might have been

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP, he sounds like a prize fucktard and it would seem he is the one with the attitude that stinks. Thank God he showed his true colours before you wasted any time chatting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Attraction is key for me ! It's got to start somewhere so if that what works for you then who's to say that's wrong ?!?!

Totally within your right to ask for a face

Cor if it was u please just confess now

Haha unfortunately not ! Might take mine down and message you

Ooh good idea

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i would have stopped chat at the point he said no pic - block and forget him

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Have you been here before OP? I've seen those boobs before...

How's your growler?"

Hee Hee she's getting quite hairy at the moment needs a trim

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OP, he sounds like a prize fucktard and it would seem he is the one with the attitude that stinks. Thank God he showed his true colours before you wasted any time chatting. "

I've heard he's a police officer lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In that case there's a lot of vain people around, including me

no physical attraction .. no conversation I'm afraid

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

He can say whatever, but he messaged you because he liked the look of you

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By *earlytylerdurdenMan over a year ago

London

I'm interested to know what about his profile (with no pics) inspired you to reply in the first place!

I find it hard enough to get responses and I have several verifications and pics on my profile (admittedly not face pics, although I'm always happy to send them). Maybe my profile is rubbish

Yes you are in the right and he is wrong xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm interested to know what about his profile (with no pics) inspired you to reply in the first place!

I find it hard enough to get responses and I have several verifications and pics on my profile (admittedly not face pics, although I'm always happy to send them). Maybe my profile is rubbish

Yes you are in the right and he is wrong xx "

Your not telling the women that your going to smash their back doors in or ruin them etc.

That's where your going wrong

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"He can say whatever, but he messaged you because he liked the look of you

That's what I said to him lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"He can say whatever, but he messaged you because he liked the look of you

That's what I said to him lol "

You asked and he chose not to supply. His loss. Chances are he was Pushing his luck.