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By *reakShow90 OP Man
over a year ago
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Well as it says it's a rant and it's about all the boo hoo iam soo sad by all the pretty people,good looking, hot when they have to deal with been let down or find it hard for meets.
From day one in life if you are good looking you will have the upper hand weather it's others just been nicer to you willing to help you or boost your ego
Why do shops have their best looking staff at the front? To help sell shit no one wants to say no to a pretty face.
Why are most (not all) hot people assholes or up them self's?
They have had it handed to them every on bending over for them to help and make them happy always been told how pretty or cute or hot they are making it easyer for them to find jobs or make friends and such.
As teens it has and always will be the good looking who are popular and if anything stand on others to get to the top.
Going to clubs (swingers or normal)
Well it seems they run the show yet again pick who's in and who's out who's worth talking too and who should only be there to hand over their money for the luxury of been allowed in the same building as them.
Them as people
Well what can I say never much going on upstairs or so it seems don't have to work on their people skill as their looks get them by and well always seem to have this God like complex
( look iam sorry this a big nasty judgmental post just maybe it's all the ones I have met or maybe iam just been a green eyes monster just sick of hearing the boo hooing of hot people)
Yes iam ready for the hate and come backs and the judging on myself |
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over a year ago
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You've got what 30? Facial piercings thats a choice thats gonna affect your life amd peoples judgement/interactions with you way more than body type.
Although i do think you are conflating looks and personality why is it only "hot people" who are willing to stand/climb over others to get to the top?
Cause to be honest looking at say the forbes top 100 rich list there aint many hot people.
So that would seem to put that argument to bed.
But trainers are cheap, play grounds have monkey bars go get hot if you care. |
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By *reakShow90 OP Man
over a year ago
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"You've got what 30? Facial piercings thats a choice thats gonna affect your life amd peoples judgement/interactions with you way more than body type.
Although i do think you are conflating looks and personality why is it only "hot people" who are willing to stand/climb over others to get to the top?
Cause to be honest looking at say the forbes top 100 rich list there aint many hot people.
So that would seem to put that argument to bed.
But trainers are cheap, play grounds have monkey bars go get hot if you care."
1st off I had the views long before the metal and yes I under stand they will make others judge me and for that I don't blame them at all
Now with the looks and personality every one is diffrent yet with who I have met in the' hot circle' I have found to be pretty much all the same yes the odd one to be very nice but once again out of who I have met
Yes the top 100 so and so maybe not be 'hot' but I am not doing it a multi million level iam talking in work places round the world where your looks get you through it easyer not your skill at the job
and getting 'hot' no getting fit maybe and if anything people who have gone out and worked on them self's I have nothing bad to say as they have worked hard at their body and mind and personaly to become who they are not just been fed ego boosters by others
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"You've got what 30? Facial piercings thats a choice thats gonna affect your life amd peoples judgement/interactions with you way more than body type.
Although i do think you are conflating looks and personality why is it only "hot people" who are willing to stand/climb over others to get to the top?
Cause to be honest looking at say the forbes top 100 rich list there aint many hot people.
So that would seem to put that argument to bed.
But trainers are cheap, play grounds have monkey bars go get hot if you care.1st off I had the views long before the metal and yes I under stand they will make others judge me and for that I don't blame them at all
Now with the looks and personality every one is diffrent yet with who I have met in the' hot circle' I have found to be pretty much all the same yes the odd one to be very nice but once again out of who I have met
Yes the top 100 so and so maybe not be 'hot' but I am not doing it a multi million level iam talking in work places round the world where your looks get you through it easyer not your skill at the job
and getting 'hot' no getting fit maybe and if anything people who have gone out and worked on them self's I have nothing bad to say as they have worked hard at their body and mind and personaly to become who they are not just been fed ego boosters by others
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Yeah, the world aint an american high school drama most work places outside of retail/menial office work looks arent going to get you anywhere.
Also you make a lot of contradicting points, first the hot people are popular but then they have no people skills.
Popularity requires good people skills, just cause they aren't nice to you doesnt mean they dont have them.
So far according to you hot people are stupid and bad with people but get ahead because of looks
If that where true most companies would be in much worse shape |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bitter much?maybe so or maybe just trying to stand up for normal people who have been talked too and treated like shit by others "
By being abusive and treating like shit people based purely upon thier physical appearance?
This is seeming to be a case of people in glass houses |
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By *reakShow90 OP Man
over a year ago
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"You've got what 30? Facial piercings thats a choice thats gonna affect your life amd peoples judgement/interactions with you way more than body type.
Although i do think you are conflating looks and personality why is it only "hot people" who are willing to stand/climb over others to get to the top?
Cause to be honest looking at say the forbes top 100 rich list there aint many hot people.
So that would seem to put that argument to bed.
But trainers are cheap, play grounds have monkey bars go get hot if you care.1st off I had the views long before the metal and yes I under stand they will make others judge me and for that I don't blame them at all
Now with the looks and personality every one is diffrent yet with who I have met in the' hot circle' I have found to be pretty much all the same yes the odd one to be very nice but once again out of who I have met
Yes the top 100 so and so maybe not be 'hot' but I am not doing it a multi million level iam talking in work places round the world where your looks get you through it easyer not your skill at the job
and getting 'hot' no getting fit maybe and if anything people who have gone out and worked on them self's I have nothing bad to say as they have worked hard at their body and mind and personaly to become who they are not just been fed ego boosters by others
Yeah, the world aint an american high school drama most work places outside of retail/menial office work looks arent going to get you anywhere.
Also you make a lot of contradicting points, first the hot people are popular but then they have no people skills.
Popularity requires good people skills, just cause they aren't nice to you doesnt mean they dont have them.
So far according to you hot people are stupid and bad with people but get ahead because of looks
If that where true most companies would be in much worse shape"
ok I did say out the the 'hot' people I have met not every one Ok yes maybe not in all jobs but yes looks will have some sway on how others treat you and behave with you
Once again assholes attract assholes does not mean anything why do bullies always have 1 or 2 side kicks but no one really likes them or just bitches about each other but as it's 4 am iam pissed off sleepy and had a very bad day I will let you win so well done sir you have put me in my place I will never rise my head again |
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By *reakShow90 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Bitter much?maybe so or maybe just trying to stand up for normal people who have been talked too and treated like shit by others
By being abusive and treating like shit people based purely upon thier physical appearance?
This is seeming to be a case of people in glass houses"
yes i happens a lot but as I am no match for you mentally you win again sir |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You've got what 30? Facial piercings thats a choice thats gonna affect your life amd peoples judgement/interactions with you way more than body type.
Although i do think you are conflating looks and personality why is it only "hot people" who are willing to stand/climb over others to get to the top?
Cause to be honest looking at say the forbes top 100 rich list there aint many hot people.
So that would seem to put that argument to bed.
But trainers are cheap, play grounds have monkey bars go get hot if you care.1st off I had the views long before the metal and yes I under stand they will make others judge me and for that I don't blame them at all
Now with the looks and personality every one is diffrent yet with who I have met in the' hot circle' I have found to be pretty much all the same yes the odd one to be very nice but once again out of who I have met
Yes the top 100 so and so maybe not be 'hot' but I am not doing it a multi million level iam talking in work places round the world where your looks get you through it easyer not your skill at the job
and getting 'hot' no getting fit maybe and if anything people who have gone out and worked on them self's I have nothing bad to say as they have worked hard at their body and mind and personaly to become who they are not just been fed ego boosters by others
Yeah, the world aint an american high school drama most work places outside of retail/menial office work looks arent going to get you anywhere.
Also you make a lot of contradicting points, first the hot people are popular but then they have no people skills.
Popularity requires good people skills, just cause they aren't nice to you doesnt mean they dont have them.
So far according to you hot people are stupid and bad with people but get ahead because of looks
If that where true most companies would be in much worse shapeok I did say out the the 'hot' people I have met not every one Ok yes maybe not in all jobs but yes looks will have some sway on how others treat you and behave with you
Once again assholes attract assholes does not mean anything why do bullies always have 1 or 2 side kicks but no one really likes them or just bitches about each other but as it's 4 am iam pissed off sleepy and had a very bad day I will let you win so well done sir you have put me in my place I will never rise my head again "
Dear lord could you be more melodramatic?
And yay its 4 am only 2 more hours till works over.
Looks can also be a negative.
Try speaking to any above average attractive woman who works in engineering, tech or stem.
Getting taken seriously when they're just viewed as eye candy is very difficult.
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By *reakShow90 OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester/halifax |
"You've got what 30? Facial piercings thats a choice thats gonna affect your life amd peoples judgement/interactions with you way more than body type.
Although i do think you are conflating looks and personality why is it only "hot people" who are willing to stand/climb over others to get to the top?
Cause to be honest looking at say the forbes top 100 rich list there aint many hot people.
So that would seem to put that argument to bed.
But trainers are cheap, play grounds have monkey bars go get hot if you care.1st off I had the views long before the metal and yes I under stand they will make others judge me and for that I don't blame them at all
Now with the looks and personality every one is diffrent yet with who I have met in the' hot circle' I have found to be pretty much all the same yes the odd one to be very nice but once again out of who I have met
Yes the top 100 so and so maybe not be 'hot' but I am not doing it a multi million level iam talking in work places round the world where your looks get you through it easyer not your skill at the job
and getting 'hot' no getting fit maybe and if anything people who have gone out and worked on them self's I have nothing bad to say as they have worked hard at their body and mind and personaly to become who they are not just been fed ego boosters by others
Yeah, the world aint an american high school drama most work places outside of retail/menial office work looks arent going to get you anywhere.
Also you make a lot of contradicting points, first the hot people are popular but then they have no people skills.
Popularity requires good people skills, just cause they aren't nice to you doesnt mean they dont have them.
So far according to you hot people are stupid and bad with people but get ahead because of looks
If that where true most companies would be in much worse shapeok I did say out the the 'hot' people I have met not every one Ok yes maybe not in all jobs but yes looks will have some sway on how others treat you and behave with you
Once again assholes attract assholes does not mean anything why do bullies always have 1 or 2 side kicks but no one really likes them or just bitches about each other but as it's 4 am iam pissed off sleepy and had a very bad day I will let you win so well done sir you have put me in my place I will never rise my head again
Dear lord could you be more melodramatic?
And yay its 4 am only 2 more hours till works over.
Looks can also be a negative.
Try speaking to any above average attractive woman who works in engineering, tech or stem.
Getting taken seriously when they're just viewed as eye candy is very difficult.
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only if I tryed yeah I could maybe later ill try again hope it's up to the standard your hoping for
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By *reakShow90 OP Man
over a year ago
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You know what I cba with been childish so I will say sorry for behaving so also my point is or more it should be iam happy to give any one a chance if they are willing to give me one all I ask if every one should be treated fair and not judged on looks yet we all know it happens and I guess this post was more about been pissed off at that |
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"You know what I cba with been childish so I will say sorry for behaving so also my point is or more it should be iam happy to give any one a chance if they are willing to give me one all I ask if every one should be treated fair and not judged on looks yet we all know it happens and I guess this post was more about been pissed off at that"
But youve judged everything from thier history, thier personality and thier career prospects purely from thier looks. |
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By *reakShow90 OP Man
over a year ago
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"I haven't looked at you op. But as far as nastiness goes I see it in the original post written by you.
What a narrow minded nasty little post."
you know what I have only posted what I felt and on how I have been treated and if anything I have seen much more hate to others about looks also I have said sorry for it before and how I was very judgementl and was been just like the people I hate |
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By *reakShow90 OP Man
over a year ago
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"You know what I cba with been childish so I will say sorry for behaving so also my point is or more it should be iam happy to give any one a chance if they are willing to give me one all I ask if every one should be treated fair and not judged on looks yet we all know it happens and I guess this post was more about been pissed off at that
But youve judged everything from thier history, thier personality and thier career prospects purely from thier looks."
yes and once again from what I have seen with my own eyes it is true the thing I am wrong about is taring every one of them the same |
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By *reakShow90 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Mostly this comes across as a massive pity party.
So either get some help for your unresolved issues, or suck it up, cupcake. "
maybe it has come across like that pity is the last thing I want I would find that even worse then some of people I am posting about |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Look before every one starts to hate me even more I did say warning and also that it was a rant eg letting off steam after a rough and shit day "
Next time try a run, press ups, or a wank. |
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By *reakShow90 OP Man
over a year ago
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Look I have said sorry for been judge mental and that I was wrong to tar people with the same brush I have said I was letting off steam after a shit day and ok maybe not the best way but no one can say they have never said things in anger or when they are pissed off or done things in the heat of the moment |
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To a certain extent op you're right...the world loves pretty people! ...BUT it's not the pretty people's fault!!..
Also I'm a big believer in confidence and being a good rounded person e.g good people skills and nice personality ,if you haven't got those qualities it doesn't matter how chuffing good looking you are you're not going to be popular. ..if you behave like an arsehole people will see you has an arsehole whether you're good looking or not! !
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"Look before every one starts to hate me even more I did say warning and also that it was a rant eg letting off steam after a rough and shit day "
See rants are fine but its when you try to represent everyone on you chosen "side" you piss people off as they don't want to get tarred with the same brush.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To a certain extent op you're right...the world loves pretty people! ...BUT it's not the pretty people's fault!!..
Also I'm a big believer in confidence and being a good rounded person e.g good people skills and nice personality ,if you haven't got those qualities it doesn't matter how chuffing good looking you are you're not going to be popular. ..if you behave like an arsehole people will see you has an arsehole whether you're good looking or not! !
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"To a certain extent op you're right...the world loves pretty people! ...BUT it's not the pretty people's fault!!..
Also I'm a big believer in confidence and being a good rounded person e.g good people skills and nice personality ,if you haven't got those qualities it doesn't matter how chuffing good looking you are you're not going to be popular. ..if you behave like an arsehole people will see you has an arsehole whether you're good looking or not! !
But if you're a good looking arsehole you're still going to get more shags than an ugly arsehole ! "
yep! !!...life's a bitch |
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I happen to think that Flik is good looking and many others do too but she is also one of the nicest people you could possibly meet and would never treat anyone badly or use any of her charms to gain an advantage over anyone......just sayin' |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Whenever I'm left twiddling my thumbs I just console myself with the knowledge my radiant beauty must be so intimidating it occasionally serves as a deterrent .....
I mean lets face facts ..... it's not always their fault,,,  |
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"I'm ugly as sin and a right two hat. so I'm pretty fucked in life then. Pass me that bucket full of Valium and a bottle of vodka
Yeah yeah "
I'm just trying to give myself an excuse to get wasted on a sunny day. Besides what ever happened to beauty being in the eye of the beholder and all that.
What 1 person finds attractive the next might think is a eyesore |
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"I'm ugly as sin and a right two hat. so I'm pretty fucked in life then. Pass me that bucket full of Valium and a bottle of vodka
Yeah yeah
I'm just trying to give myself an excuse to get wasted on a sunny day. Besides what ever happened to beauty being in the eye of the beholder and all that.
What 1 person finds attractive the next might think is a eyesore "
I agree I'm not everyone's cup of tea I know that and I'm not shallow to believe that I'm that irrisitable to every man but I do have confidence and I would like to think I'm a nice person too... |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
I'm a lovely guy, helpful , charitable, put others before myself,... Reading your op means I must be butt ugly .. 
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"I'm ugly as sin and a right two hat. so I'm pretty fucked in life then. Pass me that bucket full of Valium and a bottle of vodka
Yeah yeah
I'm just trying to give myself an excuse to get wasted on a sunny day. Besides what ever happened to beauty being in the eye of the beholder and all that.
What 1 person finds attractive the next might think is a eyesore
I agree I'm not everyone's cup of tea I know that and I'm not shallow to believe that I'm that irrisitable to every man but I do have confidence and I would like to think I'm a nice person too..."
I'd take you out Chops  |
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OP would you rather have looks or people skills and personality?
I've know some amazing people who could charm anyone into anything, but they don't look like supermodels.
And I've know gorgeous people who are a bit personality-less and not very nice.
I'd rather have tons of people skills and no looks, given the choice. (I got average looks and shit people skills so I'm a bit screwed really. lol)
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"I'm ugly as sin and a right two hat. so I'm pretty fucked in life then. Pass me that bucket full of Valium and a bottle of vodka
Yeah yeah
I'm just trying to give myself an excuse to get wasted on a sunny day. Besides what ever happened to beauty being in the eye of the beholder and all that.
What 1 person finds attractive the next might think is a eyesore
I agree I'm not everyone's cup of tea I know that and I'm not shallow to believe that I'm that irrisitable to every man but I do have confidence and I would like to think I'm a nice person too...
I'd take you out Chops "
Aww cheers Fats  |
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Haven't read all this so apologies if it's been said before, but I know I'm an ugly bigger (Mr) but I've got a decent personality.
People are like mirrors. They reflect how you treat them. If you think them an arsehole, unless you are a brilliant actor, they will be an arsehole. Treat them with respect and dignity, then you will get it back. |
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"I'm ugly as sin and a right two hat. so I'm pretty fucked in life then. Pass me that bucket full of Valium and a bottle of vodka
Yeah yeah
I'm just trying to give myself an excuse to get wasted on a sunny day. Besides what ever happened to beauty being in the eye of the beholder and all that.
What 1 person finds attractive the next might think is a eyesore
I agree I'm not everyone's cup of tea I know that and I'm not shallow to believe that I'm that irrisitable to every man but I do have confidence and I would like to think I'm a nice person too..."
First impression is you seem lovely and you're attractive too. So the OP isn't liking you much lol
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"I'm ugly as sin and a right two hat. so I'm pretty fucked in life then. Pass me that bucket full of Valium and a bottle of vodka
Yeah yeah
I'm just trying to give myself an excuse to get wasted on a sunny day. Besides what ever happened to beauty being in the eye of the beholder and all that.
What 1 person finds attractive the next might think is a eyesore
I agree I'm not everyone's cup of tea I know that and I'm not shallow to believe that I'm that irrisitable to every man but I do have confidence and I would like to think I'm a nice person too...
First impression is you seem lovely and you're attractive too. So the OP isn't liking you much lol
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Oh dear I'll just go and cry  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's so odd that "average" is a bit of an insult. We're all different, unique, and that's probably a good thing.
It's slightly mind blowing that there's so many facets to "being a human" that we ARE all different.
No duplicates. Otherwise Fab would be a confusing place. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I just like nice people never been one to judge on looks alone. I hate needy people and rude people.
If a person prefers to be their own centre of attention then they probably won't be my cup of tea |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Im ugly and a prick... Didnt i just luck out
Its not just "hot" people who're boo hooing over let downs etc ive seen it from a whole range of people on here.
What you need to do is accept that ALL people have the right whether they think its god given or not to allow who ever they want into their life and activities. This shouldnt upset you because you also have a choice but you should be respectful of peoples choices and accept them whether you think its fair or not.
Sounds like you have a bit of snow white syndrome |
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No duplicates. Otherwise Fab would be a confusing place.
Those poor identical twin tag team profiles "
Even identical twins aren't completely identical.  |
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I feel my looks have been advantageous in many aspects of my life but I was bullied at school because of them . Many women automatically dislike me before getting to know me and assume I'm going to steal their man, which is very hurtful.
Lastly I am extremely intelligent and know many good looking people who are also. |
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By *reakShow90 OP Man
over a year ago
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"OP would you rather have looks or people skills and personality?
I've know some amazing people who could charm anyone into anything, but they don't look like supermodels.
And I've know gorgeous people who are a bit personality-less and not very nice.
I'd rather have tons of people skills and no looks, given the choice. (I got average looks and shit people skills so I'm a bit screwed really. lol)
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people skills and as much as the post and most people think I dont I do have them |
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"I feel my looks have been advantageous in many aspects of my life but I was bullied at school because of them . Many women automatically dislike me before getting to know me and assume I'm going to steal their man, which is very hurtful.
Lastly I am extremely intelligent and know many good looking people who are also. "
Genuinly curious what you look like now |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP would you rather have looks or people skills and personality?
I've know some amazing people who could charm anyone into anything, but they don't look like supermodels.
And I've know gorgeous people who are a bit personality-less and not very nice.
I'd rather have tons of people skills and no looks, given the choice. (I got average looks and shit people skills so I'm a bit screwed really. lol)
people skills and as much as the post and most people think I dont I do have them "
To quote mr Jackson "english mother fucker, do you speak it" |
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By *reakShow90 OP Man
over a year ago
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"I'm ugly as sin and a right two hat. so I'm pretty fucked in life then. Pass me that bucket full of Valium and a bottle of vodka
Yeah yeah
I'm just trying to give myself an excuse to get wasted on a sunny day. Besides what ever happened to beauty being in the eye of the beholder and all that.
What 1 person finds attractive the next might think is a eyesore
I agree I'm not everyone's cup of tea I know that and I'm not shallow to believe that I'm that irrisitable to every man but I do have confidence and I would like to think I'm a nice person too...
First impression is you seem lovely and you're attractive too. So the OP isn't liking you much lol
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I don't like any one until I get to know them yet oddly I can be a nice guy and get on with most people as much as you all think I can't |
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By *reakShow90 OP Man
over a year ago
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"OP would you rather have looks or people skills and personality?
I've know some amazing people who could charm anyone into anything, but they don't look like supermodels.
And I've know gorgeous people who are a bit personality-less and not very nice.
I'd rather have tons of people skills and no looks, given the choice. (I got average looks and shit people skills so I'm a bit screwed really. lol)
people skills and as much as the post and most people think I dont I do have them
To quote mr Jackson "english mother fucker, do you speak it""
I would like to know why you have been dogging me all morning I under stand you did not like this post and we chatted about it and I even said sorry for been alittle childish but for you to then post iam lying about some thing on an other post and to now come back and give me shit I would happyily talk It out if you have a problem? |
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"I feel my looks have been advantageous in many aspects of my life but I was bullied at school because of them . Many women automatically dislike me before getting to know me and assume I'm going to steal their man, which is very hurtful.
Lastly I am extremely intelligent and know many good looking people who are also.
Genuinly curious what you look like now "
Well I'm not supermodel good looking, which is maybe the type of people he's referring to. Just told a lot I'm good looking  |
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over a year ago
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"I'm ugly as sin and a right two hat. so I'm pretty fucked in life then. Pass me that bucket full of Valium and a bottle of vodka
Yeah yeah
I'm just trying to give myself an excuse to get wasted on a sunny day. Besides what ever happened to beauty being in the eye of the beholder and all that.
What 1 person finds attractive the next might think is a eyesore
I agree I'm not everyone's cup of tea I know that and I'm not shallow to believe that I'm that irrisitable to every man but I do have confidence and I would like to think I'm a nice person too...
First impression is you seem lovely and you're attractive too. So the OP isn't liking you much lol
I don't like any one until I get to know them yet oddly I can be a nice guy and get on with most people as much as you all think I can't "
Persecution complex much?
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"I feel my looks have been advantageous in many aspects of my life but I was bullied at school because of them . Many women automatically dislike me before getting to know me and assume I'm going to steal their man, which is very hurtful.
Lastly I am extremely intelligent and know many good looking people who are also.
Genuinly curious what you look like now
Well I'm not supermodel good looking, which is maybe the type of people he's referring to. Just told a lot I'm good looking "
Gotta be pretty hot to have women hate you.
I tend to notice that's the classic vouge tall and skinny type that gets the hate.
(Women bitch at me about each other far too much)
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By *reakShow90 OP Man
over a year ago
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"I'm ugly as sin and a right two hat. so I'm pretty fucked in life then. Pass me that bucket full of Valium and a bottle of vodka
Yeah yeah
I'm just trying to give myself an excuse to get wasted on a sunny day. Besides what ever happened to beauty being in the eye of the beholder and all that.
What 1 person finds attractive the next might think is a eyesore
I agree I'm not everyone's cup of tea I know that and I'm not shallow to believe that I'm that irrisitable to every man but I do have confidence and I would like to think I'm a nice person too...
First impression is you seem lovely and you're attractive too. So the OP isn't liking you much lol
I don't like any one until I get to know them yet oddly I can be a nice guy and get on with most people as much as you all think I can't
Persecution complex much?
Dude not everyone is out to get you. "
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By *reakShow90 OP Man
over a year ago
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"I'm ugly as sin and a right two hat. so I'm pretty fucked in life then. Pass me that bucket full of Valium and a bottle of vodka
Yeah yeah
I'm just trying to give myself an excuse to get wasted on a sunny day. Besides what ever happened to beauty being in the eye of the beholder and all that.
What 1 person finds attractive the next might think is a eyesore
I agree I'm not everyone's cup of tea I know that and I'm not shallow to believe that I'm that irrisitable to every man but I do have confidence and I would like to think I'm a nice person too...
First impression is you seem lovely and you're attractive too. So the OP isn't liking you much lol
I don't like any one until I get to know them yet oddly I can be a nice guy and get on with most people as much as you all think I can't
Persecution complex much?
Dude not everyone is out to get you. no I under stand that it seems I did not come off as funny as I felt I was guess I should still to ranting and not comedy "
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"I feel my looks have been advantageous in many aspects of my life but I was bullied at school because of them . Many women automatically dislike me before getting to know me and assume I'm going to steal their man, which is very hurtful.
Lastly I am extremely intelligent and know many good looking people who are also.
Genuinly curious what you look like now
Well I'm not supermodel good looking, which is maybe the type of people he's referring to. Just told a lot I'm good looking
Gotta be pretty hot to have women hate you.
I tend to notice that's the classic vouge tall and skinny type that gets the hate.
(Women bitch at me about each other far too much)
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Well I'm not tall or skinny, but Im talking about friendship circles not just being pointed at in the street. I get accused of flirting with their men etc even when I've never spoken to them. I think it's probably more to do with their insecurities than me being hot. But it bugs me when other are allowed to kiss hello or dance with men just because they are deemed not to be a threat! |
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By *reakShow90 OP Man
over a year ago
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"To describe yourself as a freak says to me you're comfortable with the effect your chosen look has on people. "
it is some thing I have been called and instead of hiding away from it I make it my own also if I say it 1st it beats others to the punch so to speak
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"I feel my looks have been advantageous in many aspects of my life but I was bullied at school because of them . Many women automatically dislike me before getting to know me and assume I'm going to steal their man, which is very hurtful.
Lastly I am extremely intelligent and know many good looking people who are also.
Genuinly curious what you look like now
Well I'm not supermodel good looking, which is maybe the type of people he's referring to. Just told a lot I'm good looking
Gotta be pretty hot to have women hate you.
I tend to notice that's the classic vouge tall and skinny type that gets the hate.
(Women bitch at me about each other far too much)
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Yeah why it is some women are jealous of tall women? Most (all?) guys really want women shorter than them. And contrary to popular belief, clothes aren't designed for tall women, it's a nightmare finding may trousers stop above your ankles and sleeves are too short. It's definitely not a sexy look.
And if you wear heels of any height you just end up being left out of conversations as you are that much further away from everyone. Or you wear flats and feel frumpy on a night out. And you can never fit a size 8 dress without getting anorexic.
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Looks can also be a negative.
Try speaking to any above average attractive woman who works in engineering, tech or stem.
Getting taken seriously when they're just viewed as eye candy is very difficult.
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By *reakShow90 OP Man
over a year ago
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Look every one have said sorry I have tryed to say how I feel and my bit I have said not all'hot'people are the same and iam sorry for taring all with the same brush I am just speaking on the 'hot' people I have met in real life |
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"I feel my looks have been advantageous in many aspects of my life but I was bullied at school because of them . Many women automatically dislike me before getting to know me and assume I'm going to steal their man, which is very hurtful.
Lastly I am extremely intelligent and know many good looking people who are also.
Genuinly curious what you look like now
Well I'm not supermodel good looking, which is maybe the type of people he's referring to. Just told a lot I'm good looking
Gotta be pretty hot to have women hate you.
I tend to notice that's the classic vouge tall and skinny type that gets the hate.
(Women bitch at me about each other far too much)
Yeah why it is some women are jealous of tall women? Most (all?) guys really want women shorter than them. And contrary to popular belief, clothes aren't designed for tall women, it's a nightmare finding may trousers stop above your ankles and sleeves are too short. It's definitely not a sexy look.
And if you wear heels of any height you just end up being left out of conversations as you are that much further away from everyone. Or you wear flats and feel frumpy on a night out. And you can never fit a size 8 dress without getting anorexic.
Seriously, what's to be jealous about?"
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Good job im not hot then. As that would make me mean stupid and self entitled from your original post.
People have a right to moan and saying they dont based on their looks is only contributing to treating them differently when thats what you dont like??
Seriously though hitler judged peoples worth on their looks look where that got him. |
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"Look every one have said sorry I have tryed to say how I feel and my bit I have said not all'hot'people are the same and iam sorry for taring all with the same brush I am just speaking on the 'hot' people I have met in real life "
What you have to remeber though thats your opnion one mans hot is another mans not x |
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"Look every one have said sorry I have tryed to say how I feel and my bit I have said not all'hot'people are the same and iam sorry for taring all with the same brush I am just speaking on the 'hot' people I have met in real life "
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"I feel my looks have been advantageous in many aspects of my life but I was bullied at school because of them . Many women automatically dislike me before getting to know me and assume I'm going to steal their man, which is very hurtful.
Lastly I am extremely intelligent and know many good looking people who are also.
Genuinly curious what you look like now
Well I'm not supermodel good looking, which is maybe the type of people he's referring to. Just told a lot I'm good looking
Gotta be pretty hot to have women hate you.
I tend to notice that's the classic vouge tall and skinny type that gets the hate.
(Women bitch at me about each other far too much)
Yeah why it is some women are jealous of tall women? Most (all?) guys really want women shorter than them. And contrary to popular belief, clothes aren't designed for tall women, it's a nightmare finding may trousers stop above your ankles and sleeves are too short. It's definitely not a sexy look.
And if you wear heels of any height you just end up being left out of conversations as you are that much further away from everyone. Or you wear flats and feel frumpy on a night out. And you can never fit a size 8 dress without getting anorexic.
Seriously, what's to be jealous about?"
I dont get it either tbh like you say most orwfer smaller than them like women prefer men taller than them.
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By *reakShow90 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Look every one have said sorry I have tryed to say how I feel and my bit I have said not all'hot'people are the same and iam sorry for taring all with the same brush I am just speaking on the 'hot' people I have met in real life
What you have to remeber though thats your opnion one mans hot is another mans not x"
oh I know this what I class as hot lots would not |
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over a year ago
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"Look every one have said sorry I have tryed to say how I feel and my bit I have said not all'hot'people are the same and iam sorry for taring all with the same brush I am just speaking on the 'hot' people I have met in real life
Are you upset because "hot" people won't play? "
no this is not about playing it's more about just life and how others are treated |
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"Look every one have said sorry I have tryed to say how I feel and my bit I have said not all'hot'people are the same and iam sorry for taring all with the same brush I am just speaking on the 'hot' people I have met in real life
Are you upset because "hot" people won't play? no this is not about playing it's more about just life and how others are treated "
Others or you? |
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"Look every one have said sorry I have tryed to say how I feel and my bit I have said not all'hot'people are the same and iam sorry for taring all with the same brush I am just speaking on the 'hot' people I have met in real life
Are you upset because "hot" people won't play? no this is not about playing it's more about just life and how others are treated
Others or you?"
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"Look every one have said sorry I have tryed to say how I feel and my bit I have said not all'hot'people are the same and iam sorry for taring all with the same brush I am just speaking on the 'hot' people I have met in real life
Are you upset because "hot" people won't play? no this is not about playing it's more about just life and how others are treated
Others or you?both"
So what happened yesterday to annoy you?
As you yourself admit your choices now dictate peoples first impression of you far and above your genetics.
Ao youre either griving over decades old issues or lamenting your choices |
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By *reakShow90 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Look every one have said sorry I have tryed to say how I feel and my bit I have said not all'hot'people are the same and iam sorry for taring all with the same brush I am just speaking on the 'hot' people I have met in real life
Are you upset because "hot" people won't play? no this is not about playing it's more about just life and how others are treated "
if it was just about playing I could under stand every one has their tastes when it comes to sex but it's how other treat you in the outside world |
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"Look every one have said sorry I have tryed to say how I feel and my bit I have said not all'hot'people are the same and iam sorry for taring all with the same brush I am just speaking on the 'hot' people I have met in real life
Are you upset because "hot" people won't play? no this is not about playing it's more about just life and how others are treated
Others or you?both
So what happened yesterday to annoy you?
As you yourself admit your choices now dictate peoples first impression of you far and above your genetics.
Ao youre either griving over decades old issues or lamenting your choices "
look it is nether how I look is how I want to look maybe a few things I would change but it's how I have been treated and how I hav seen others been treated that makes me mad |
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"I feel my looks have been advantageous in many aspects of my life but I was bullied at school because of them . Many women automatically dislike me before getting to know me and assume I'm going to steal their man, which is very hurtful.
Lastly I am extremely intelligent and know many good looking people who are also.
Genuinly curious what you look like now
Well I'm not supermodel good looking, which is maybe the type of people he's referring to. Just told a lot I'm good looking
Gotta be pretty hot to have women hate you.
I tend to notice that's the classic vouge tall and skinny type that gets the hate.
(Women bitch at me about each other far too much)
Yeah why it is some women are jealous of tall women? Most (all?) guys really want women shorter than them. And contrary to popular belief, clothes aren't designed for tall women, it's a nightmare finding may trousers stop above your ankles and sleeves are too short. It's definitely not a sexy look.
And if you wear heels of any height you just end up being left out of conversations as you are that much further away from everyone. Or you wear flats and feel frumpy on a night out. And you can never fit a size 8 dress without getting anorexic.
Seriously, what's to be jealous about?"
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"Look every one have said sorry I have tryed to say how I feel and my bit I have said not all'hot'people are the same and iam sorry for taring all with the same brush I am just speaking on the 'hot' people I have met in real life
Are you upset because "hot" people won't play? no this is not about playing it's more about just life and how others are treated
Others or you?both
So what happened yesterday to annoy you?
As you yourself admit your choices now dictate peoples first impression of you far and above your genetics.
Ao youre either griving over decades old issues or lamenting your choices look it is nether how I look is how I want to look maybe a few things I would change but it's how I have been treated and how I hav seen others been treated that makes me mad "
So like i said what happened to you yesterday to make you mad.
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I gotta say when I met you the other week at Decandance I was thinking fuck me, that's a lot of shit in his face. It's cool, but it is different. I'm sure it will make people think differently of you. Which is perhaps a shame as you seemed a nice enough fella, a little bit self-derogatory but that's all. I'm sure people treat me differently too, but once they get to know me they realise I'm quite a nice person.
As we are always taught when we are younger, never judge a book by its cover. |
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By *reakShow90 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Look every one have said sorry I have tryed to say how I feel and my bit I have said not all'hot'people are the same and iam sorry for taring all with the same brush I am just speaking on the 'hot' people I have met in real life
Are you upset because "hot" people won't play? no this is not about playing it's more about just life and how others are treated
Others or you?both
So what happened yesterday to annoy you?
As you yourself admit your choices now dictate peoples first impression of you far and above your genetics.
Ao youre either griving over decades old issues or lamenting your choices look it is nether how I look is how I want to look maybe a few things I would change but it's how I have been treated and how I hav seen others been treated that makes me mad
So like i said what happened to you yesterday to make you mad.
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tbh I don't feel I ne to tell you or that it would matter and I only said some thing made me mad as I felt I should maybe give a reson for my post but what ever I say will be a lie or as you said shit that dint happen |
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"Look every one have said sorry I have tryed to say how I feel and my bit I have said not all'hot'people are the same and iam sorry for taring all with the same brush I am just speaking on the 'hot' people I have met in real life
Are you upset because "hot" people won't play? no this is not about playing it's more about just life and how others are treated if it was just about playing I could under stand every one has their tastes when it comes to sex but it's how other treat you in the outside world "
Bur you see youve come in with some vauge shit that doesnt really translate to most peoples experiences.
So most are going to assume you got turned down for sex and are arsey about it.
Without specifics most will go to this conclusion given the context.
You keep pointing out "other people" too as if youre trying ro be righteously angry on thier behalf bur that doesn't wash. |
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"how I look is how I want to look maybe a few things I would change but it's how I have been treated and how I hav seen others been treated that makes me mad "
You are giving your power away if you let others dictate how You feel. Take back control and make the choice not to let it embitter you then. |
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"how I look is how I want to look maybe a few things I would change but it's how I have been treated and how I hav seen others been treated that makes me mad
You are giving your power away if you let others dictate how You feel. Take back control and make the choice not to let it embitter you then."
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"I gotta say when I met you the other week at Decandance I was thinking fuck me, that's a lot of shit in his face. It's cool, but it is different. I'm sure it will make people think differently of you. Which is perhaps a shame as you seemed a nice enough fella, a little bit self-derogatory but that's all. I'm sure people treat me differently too, but once they get to know me they realise I'm quite a nice person.
As we are always taught when we are younger, never judge a book by its cover. "
you saw me in Dec's? Wow might of been a little d*unk my bad if I was a pain lol |
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"Look every one have said sorry I have tryed to say how I feel and my bit I have said not all'hot'people are the same and iam sorry for taring all with the same brush I am just speaking on the 'hot' people I have met in real life
Are you upset because "hot" people won't play? no this is not about playing it's more about just life and how others are treated
Others or you?both
So what happened yesterday to annoy you?
As you yourself admit your choices now dictate peoples first impression of you far and above your genetics.
Ao youre either griving over decades old issues or lamenting your choices look it is nether how I look is how I want to look maybe a few things I would change but it's how I have been treated and how I hav seen others been treated that makes me mad
So like i said what happened to you yesterday to make you mad.
tbh I don't feel I ne to tell you or that it would matter and I only said some thing made me mad as I felt I should maybe give a reson for my post but what ever I say will be a lie or as you said shit that dint happen "
No you see i can fully people somone did something or you perceived them to do something that hurt you.
Thats fairly common place.
The whole somone eating a pube and body fluid pizza wothout realising though is straight out if bad tv.
As anyone who has gone down on a bushy lass could tell you pubes are an unmistakable oral intrusion.
Assuming the lerson you laid out the pube and arse laden pizza for was blind so as not to notice it.
I mean come on most ofnus can pcik out a singe hair in a salad but you expect us to belive a guy ate a reasonable ampunt of ballsack hair without notice?
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"I gotta say when I met you the other week at Decandance I was thinking fuck me, that's a lot of shit in his face. It's cool, but it is different. I'm sure it will make people think differently of you. Which is perhaps a shame as you seemed a nice enough fella, a little bit self-derogatory but that's all. I'm sure people treat me differently too, but once they get to know me they realise I'm quite a nice person.
As we are always taught when we are younger, never judge a book by its cover. you saw me in Dec's? Wow might of been a little d*unk my bad if I was a pain lol"
No you were fine. A tad d*unk yes, but like I said you were just a bit down on yourself then. |
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"Look every one have said sorry I have tryed to say how I feel and my bit I have said not all'hot'people are the same and iam sorry for taring all with the same brush I am just speaking on the 'hot' people I have met in real life
Are you upset because "hot" people won't play? no this is not about playing it's more about just life and how others are treated if it was just about playing I could under stand every one has their tastes when it comes to sex but it's how other treat you in the outside world
Bur you see youve come in with some vauge shit that doesnt really translate to most peoples experiences.
So most are going to assume you got turned down for sex and are arsey about it.
Without specifics most will go to this conclusion given the context.
You keep pointing out "other people" too as if youre trying ro be righteously angry on thier behalf bur that doesn't wash."
well you don't have to beleave me and sure you won't but it is not to do with sex and is it wrong to feel for some one else who you is been treated like you have and want to voise how you feel about it |
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I knew a girl when I was 18 who was very good looking, I met her a few years ago and she was a single parent living in a council flat and hadn't had much of a life, so just goes to show being attractive isn't always enough. |
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"Look every one have said sorry I have tryed to say how I feel and my bit I have said not all'hot'people are the same and iam sorry for taring all with the same brush I am just speaking on the 'hot' people I have met in real life
Are you upset because "hot" people won't play? no this is not about playing it's more about just life and how others are treated
Others or you?both
So what happened yesterday to annoy you?
As you yourself admit your choices now dictate peoples first impression of you far and above your genetics.
Ao youre either griving over decades old issues or lamenting your choices look it is nether how I look is how I want to look maybe a few things I would change but it's how I have been treated and how I hav seen others been treated that makes me mad
So like i said what happened to you yesterday to make you mad.
tbh I don't feel I ne to tell you or that it would matter and I only said some thing made me mad as I felt I should maybe give a reson for my post but what ever I say will be a lie or as you said shit that dint happen
No you see i can fully people somone did something or you perceived them to do something that hurt you.
Thats fairly common place.
The whole somone eating a pube and body fluid pizza wothout realising though is straight out if bad tv.
As anyone who has gone down on a bushy lass could tell you pubes are an unmistakable oral intrusion.
Assuming the lerson you laid out the pube and arse laden pizza for was blind so as not to notice it.
I mean come on most ofnus can pcik out a singe hair in a salad but you expect us to belive a guy ate a reasonable ampunt of ballsack hair without notice?
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"I gotta say when I met you the other week at Decandance I was thinking fuck me, that's a lot of shit in his face. It's cool, but it is different. I'm sure it will make people think differently of you. Which is perhaps a shame as you seemed a nice enough fella, a little bit self-derogatory but that's all. I'm sure people treat me differently too, but once they get to know me they realise I'm quite a nice person.
As we are always taught when we are younger, never judge a book by its cover. "
I always assumed that expression came from people who didnt read much tbh.
As if you read a lot the cover is a pretty damn good way to judge a book, its the advert (both visual and textual) that the author and thier team designed specifically for people to judge the book by.
For instance if a blurb was "The full and highly detailed acount of the lives of each and every cast menber of TOWIE" i can safely judge that as a book that wpuld not interest me.
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By *reakShow90 OP Man
over a year ago
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"I gotta say when I met you the other week at Decandance I was thinking fuck me, that's a lot of shit in his face. It's cool, but it is different. I'm sure it will make people think differently of you. Which is perhaps a shame as you seemed a nice enough fella, a little bit self-derogatory but that's all. I'm sure people treat me differently too, but once they get to know me they realise I'm quite a nice person.
As we are always taught when we are younger, never judge a book by its cover. you saw me in Dec's? Wow might of been a little d*unk my bad if I was a pain lol
No you were fine. A tad d*unk yes, but like I said you were just a bit down on yourself then. "
most lighty a little to d*unk lol I try not to drink as much now so I am a bit more bouncy in there lol |
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over a year ago
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"I feel my looks have been advantageous in many aspects of my life but I was bullied at school because of them . Many women automatically dislike me before getting to know me and assume I'm going to steal their man, which is very hurtful.
Lastly I am extremely intelligent and know many good looking people who are also.
Genuinly curious what you look like now
Well I'm not supermodel good looking, which is maybe the type of people he's referring to. Just told a lot I'm good looking
Gotta be pretty hot to have women hate you.
I tend to notice that's the classic vouge tall and skinny type that gets the hate.
(Women bitch at me about each other far too much)
Yeah why it is some women are jealous of tall women? Most (all?) guys really want women shorter than them. And contrary to popular belief, clothes aren't designed for tall women, it's a nightmare finding may trousers stop above your ankles and sleeves are too short. It's definitely not a sexy look.
And if you wear heels of any height you just end up being left out of conversations as you are that much further away from everyone. Or you wear flats and feel frumpy on a night out. And you can never fit a size 8 dress without getting anorexic.
Seriously, what's to be jealous about?
Be a flamingo in a flock of pigeons "
I'm shit at standing on one leg. I fall over a lot. |
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over a year ago
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"I knew a girl when I was 18 who was very good looking, I met her a few years ago and she was a single parent living in a council flat and hadn't had much of a life, so just goes to show being attractive isn't always enough."
Slap in the face for all the single mums out there doing a very difficult job while having scorn heaped upon them.
Still i suppose if she ever read your comment herbreply would probbaly be "at least in dont have pictures of me being fucked by some old guy all over the Internet at 57".
Cause i reckon in normal society that would probably be the bigger judgemental issue that being a single mum or living in a council house. |
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"I knew a girl when I was 18 who was very good looking, I met her a few years ago and she was a single parent living in a council flat and hadn't had much of a life, so just goes to show being attractive isn't always enough.
Slap in the face for all the single mums out there doing a very difficult job while having scorn heaped upon them.
Still i suppose if she ever read your comment herbreply would probbaly be "at least in dont have pictures of me being fucked by some old guy all over the Internet at 57".
Cause i reckon in normal society that would probably be the bigger judgemental issue that being a single mum or living in a council house. "
Ooh touchy. |
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"I knew a girl when I was 18 who was very good looking, I met her a few years ago and she was a single parent living in a council flat and hadn't had much of a life, so just goes to show being attractive isn't always enough.
Slap in the face for all the single mums out there doing a very difficult job while having scorn heaped upon them.
Still i suppose if she ever read your comment herbreply would probbaly be "at least in dont have pictures of me being fucked by some old guy all over the Internet at 57".
Cause i reckon in normal society that would probably be the bigger judgemental issue that being a single mum or living in a council house. "
Nice burn........ |
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"Bitter much?maybe so or maybe just trying to stand up for normal people who have been talked too and treated like shit by others "
rubbish, i agree looks cqn help you. But if people treat someone like shit its cause they are shit people.
Do good looking people never get treated like shit.
Whatever, this thread is obviously based on your experiences not everyones |
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"I knew a girl when I was 18 who was very good looking, I met her a few years ago and she was a single parent living in a council flat and hadn't had much of a life, so just goes to show being attractive isn't always enough.
Slap in the face for all the single mums out there doing a very difficult job while having scorn heaped upon them.
Still i suppose if she ever read your comment herbreply would probbaly be "at least in dont have pictures of me being fucked by some old guy all over the Internet at 57".
Cause i reckon in normal society that would probably be the bigger judgemental issue that being a single mum or living in a council house. "
Actualy he wasn't an old guy he was a young guy. |
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over a year ago
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"I knew a girl when I was 18 who was very good looking, I met her a few years ago and she was a single parent living in a council flat and hadn't had much of a life, so just goes to show being attractive isn't always enough.
Slap in the face for all the single mums out there doing a very difficult job while having scorn heaped upon them.
Still i suppose if she ever read your comment herbreply would probbaly be "at least in dont have pictures of me being fucked by some old guy all over the Internet at 57".
Cause i reckon in normal society that would probably be the bigger judgemental issue that being a single mum or living in a council house.
Nice burn........"
Thanks.
Disturbingly nearly everyone I know has seen it.
But I dont pretend to be anything more than a degenerate
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By (user no longer on site)
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And if you wear heels of any height you just end up being left out of conversations as you are that much further away from everyone. Or you wear flats and feel frumpy on a night out. And you can never fit a size 8 dress without getting anorexic.
Seriously, what's to be jealous about?
Be a flamingo in a flock of pigeons
I'm shit at standing on one leg. I fall over a lot. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I knew a girl when I was 18 who was very good looking, I met her a few years ago and she was a single parent living in a council flat and hadn't had much of a life, so just goes to show being attractive isn't always enough.
Slap in the face for all the single mums out there doing a very difficult job while having scorn heaped upon them.
Still i suppose if she ever read your comment herbreply would probbaly be "at least in dont have pictures of me being fucked by some old guy all over the Internet at 57".
Cause i reckon in normal society that would probably be the bigger judgemental issue that being a single mum or living in a council house.
Actualy he wasn't an old guy he was a young guy. "
Time has not been kind it would seem then. |
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"I knew a girl when I was 18 who was very good looking, I met her a few years ago and she was a single parent living in a council flat and hadn't had much of a life, so just goes to show being attractive isn't always enough.
Slap in the face for all the single mums out there doing a very difficult job while having scorn heaped upon them.
Still i suppose if she ever read your comment herbreply would probbaly be "at least in dont have pictures of me being fucked by some old guy all over the Internet at 57".
Cause i reckon in normal society that would probably be the bigger judgemental issue that being a single mum or living in a council house.
Actualy he wasn't an old guy he was a young guy.
Time has not been kind it would seem then."
Don't be bitchy now... |
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"I knew a girl when I was 18 who was very good looking, I met her a few years ago and she was a single parent living in a council flat and hadn't had much of a life, so just goes to show being attractive isn't always enough.
Slap in the face for all the single mums out there doing a very difficult job while having scorn heaped upon them.
Still i suppose if she ever read your comment herbreply would probbaly be "at least in dont have pictures of me being fucked by some old guy all over the Internet at 57".
Cause i reckon in normal society that would probably be the bigger judgemental issue that being a single mum or living in a council house.
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That is... that is some sass right there. |
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"I knew a girl when I was 18 who was very good looking, I met her a few years ago and she was a single parent living in a council flat and hadn't had much of a life, so just goes to show being attractive isn't always enough.
Slap in the face for all the single mums out there doing a very difficult job while having scorn heaped upon them.
Still i suppose if she ever read your comment herbreply would probbaly be "at least in dont have pictures of me being fucked by some old guy all over the Internet at 57".
Cause i reckon in normal society that would probably be the bigger judgemental issue that being a single mum or living in a council house.
Actualy he wasn't an old guy he was a young guy.
Time has not been kind it would seem then.
Don't be bitchy now..."
But thats my favourite hobby!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest, I could hardly tell what point or points the op was trying to make - it was so badly written and expressed. He needs to stop and think a bit before ranting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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In short though,
I get the venting thing... But as everyone has pointed too - everyone faces a different battle. The more traditionally beautiful people have expectations placed on them to their detriment just as the unattractive do.
You've got your battle and they have there own, it's not a tic for tac, extend to others the respect you want. If they do the same cool, if not, move on.
I don't think it's that deep but ultimately I think behind all of this is a "you have to learn to love yourself" vibe. |
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"I knew a girl when I was 18 who was very good looking, I met her a few years ago and she was a single parent living in a council flat and hadn't had much of a life, so just goes to show being attractive isn't always enough.
Slap in the face for all the single mums out there doing a very difficult job while having scorn heaped upon them.
Still i suppose if she ever read your comment herbreply would probbaly be "at least in dont have pictures of me being fucked by some old guy all over the Internet at 57".
Cause i reckon in normal society that would probably be the bigger judgemental issue that being a single mum or living in a council house. "
Fucking is only natural you know, even old people do it too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Id say your negativity will have a bigger impact on people then your looks .... in the right place you would be put at the front of the counter , like an alternative style type shop or maybe goth shop , I think your far to conscious of the things you have mentioned and have blown them up in your mind (out of proportion), it comes across as bitter , looks are subjective but by being a hater you won't do yourself any favours .
Looks are temporary , good character is forever . |
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Op your refering to something that happened to YOU yesterday.
Your face isnt normal, if it was normal we would all be walking around with our faces covered in metal.
Now i couldnt care either way what you got in your face and that its wrong to be judged on looks (which it is) but are you seriously telling me you would have that done to your face not knowing people would notice |
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"I knew a girl when I was 18 who was very good looking, I met her a few years ago and she was a single parent living in a council flat and hadn't had much of a life, so just goes to show being attractive isn't always enough.
Slap in the face for all the single mums out there doing a very difficult job while having scorn heaped upon them.
Still i suppose if she ever read your comment herbreply would probbaly be "at least in dont have pictures of me being fucked by some old guy all over the Internet at 57".
Cause i reckon in normal society that would probably be the bigger judgemental issue that being a single mum or living in a council house.
Fucking is only natural you know, even old people do it too."
3 replies to one post, impressive.
But your attempt at wit aside you understand the point is not that you have sex right?
I mean would you show your friends or coworkers your profile on here?
Would you show that single mum you so willingly judged?
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"I knew a girl when I was 18 who was very good looking, I met her a few years ago and she was a single parent living in a council flat and hadn't had much of a life, so just goes to show being attractive isn't always enough.
Slap in the face for all the single mums out there doing a very difficult job while having scorn heaped upon them.
Still i suppose if she ever read your comment herbreply would probbaly be "at least in dont have pictures of me being fucked by some old guy all over the Internet at 57".
Cause i reckon in normal society that would probably be the bigger judgemental issue that being a single mum or living in a council house.
Fucking is only natural you know, even old people do it too.
3 replies to one post, impressive.
But your attempt at wit aside you understand the point is not that you have sex right?
I mean would you show your friends or coworkers your profile on here?
Would you show that single mum you so willingly judged?
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No because I doubt they would be interested, you think what you like about me, im not ashamed of myself for having pictures on here. |
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"Well as it says it's a rant and it's about all the boo hoo iam soo sad by all the pretty people,good looking, hot when they have to deal with been let down or find it hard for meets.
From day one in life if you are good looking you will have the upper hand weather it's others just been nicer to you willing to help you or boost your ego
Why do shops have their best looking staff at the front? To help sell shit no one wants to say no to a pretty face.
Why are most (not all) hot people assholes or up them self's?
They have had it handed to them every on bending over for them to help and make them happy always been told how pretty or cute or hot they are making it easyer for them to find jobs or make friends and such.
As teens it has and always will be the good looking who are popular and if anything stand on others to get to the top.
Going to clubs (swingers or normal)
Well it seems they run the show yet again pick who's in and who's out who's worth talking too and who should only be there to hand over their money for the luxury of been allowed in the same building as them.
Them as people
Well what can I say never much going on upstairs or so it seems don't have to work on their people skill as their looks get them by and well always seem to have this God like complex
( look iam sorry this a big nasty judgmental post just maybe it's all the ones I have met or maybe iam just been a green eyes monster just sick of hearing the boo hooing of hot people)
Yes iam ready for the hate and come backs and the judging on myself "
There's a south park episode on this subject called "Bebe's Boobs Destroy Society". There's some truth in it if you measure things probabilistically. |
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Cause to be honest looking at say the forbes top 100 rich list there aint many hot people.
So that would seem to put that argument to bed"
But the average CEO is three inches taller than the average person, men aren't necessarily judged on facial attractiveness |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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Hot is so subjective. There are people I find absolutely beautiful visually (from a position of my own subjectivity) who are also lovely people. And people who are perceived as hot by others where I just don't get it. If I went around assuming someone must lack personality or substance because they are gorgeous on the outside then that would say more about me and my own self image issues than them. |
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"Hot is so subjective. There are people I find absolutely beautiful visually (from a position of my own subjectivity) who are also lovely people. And people who are perceived as hot by others where I just don't get it. If I went around assuming someone must lack personality or substance because they are gorgeous on the outside then that would say more about me and my own self image issues than them."
That's about the size of it in my view. |
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"Hot is so subjective. There are people I find absolutely beautiful visually (from a position of my own subjectivity) who are also lovely people. And people who are perceived as hot by others where I just don't get it. If I went around assuming someone must lack personality or substance because they are gorgeous on the outside then that would say more about me and my own self image issues than them."
Yes there are men on here who consider themselves good looking and other women think they are too but I don't. |
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Cause to be honest looking at say the forbes top 100 rich list there aint many hot people.
So that would seem to put that argument to bed
But the average CEO is three inches taller than the average person, men aren't necessarily judged on facial attractiveness"
That's a good point. Image definitely can have a big bearing in business and the perception of a successful male (and of course female).
Honestly, to a degree people will judge things how they wish, I think it's tireless and a fight we'll never win. Think it's better to become the best you and fight for what you want and walk away where you aren't appreciated.
Everyone judges to an extent by physical appearance, some allot harsher than others. |
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It is challenging being hot OP, and we don't get life handed to us on a plate; sometimes we have to sleep with people to get what we want, and I mean "average" people ((shudders))...
Dealing with rampant jealousy and personal attacks, just for being stunning, makes the attacker look shallow....we can't help being gorgeous.
((You are as "hot" as you feel OP, seems a shame to knock others for your own self esteem issues)) |
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Cause to be honest looking at say the forbes top 100 rich list there aint many hot people.
So that would seem to put that argument to bed
But the average CEO is three inches taller than the average person, men aren't necessarily judged on facial attractiveness
That's a good point. Image definitely can have a big bearing in business and the perception of a successful male (and of course female).
Honestly, to a degree people will judge things how they wish, I think it's tireless and a fight we'll never win. Think it's better to become the best you and fight for what you want and walk away where you aren't appreciated.
Everyone judges to an extent by physical appearance, some allot harsher than others. "
I think that being a good looking, tall, smooth talking mo-fo helps you in certain industries and companies, particularly ones that are style over substance (consulting, cough cough)
I think entrepreneurs are more likely to be fugly because they get themselves on the rich list based on grit more than charm. It's not like many women strum their clit to the thought of Bill Gates or Warren Buffett. |
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it's true there's some advantages to being better looking, i used to be cute rather than hot though. i have been able to get any job i applied for and been offered many others.
i also was nice, now i'm not as nice because i'm not as naive any more, been fucked over and lied to, and don't live in fluffy head land any more but it was nicer there.
shopping is superficial anyway, unless you're buying food so yeah the staff are gonna be employed on a partial superficial basis.
anyone can be the most attractive they want to be, even men. you can become superficial too and make the most of what you've got.
depends if you wanna be fake or real.
and being real won't get you all the advantages of being fake but depends if you wanna be true to yourself or fake for everyone else.
i know fakes, they're always stressed out privately and competitive as fuck and waste of lot of energy on pointless shit. am sure they're happy as they are and if they're not then it's sad they don't even know how to be real. |
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Cause to be honest looking at say the forbes top 100 rich list there aint many hot people.
So that would seem to put that argument to bed
But the average CEO is three inches taller than the average person, men aren't necessarily judged on facial attractiveness
That's a good point. Image definitely can have a big bearing in business and the perception of a successful male (and of course female).
Honestly, to a degree people will judge things how they wish, I think it's tireless and a fight we'll never win. Think it's better to become the best you and fight for what you want and walk away where you aren't appreciated.
Everyone judges to an extent by physical appearance, some allot harsher than others.
I think that being a good looking, tall, smooth talking mo-fo helps you in certain industries and companies, particularly ones that are style over substance (consulting, cough cough)
I think entrepreneurs are more likely to be fugly because they get themselves on the rich list based on grit more than charm. It's not like many women strum their clit to the thought of Bill Gates or Warren Buffett."
exploitation and being devious.
bill gates got rich through that and has admitted to it. |
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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I find Paul Kaye highly desirable yet my friend in work barfs whenever she has to look at his 50 fan posters on the wall behind me. Swings and roundabouts. |
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Down side of being extremely attractive if I've personally found is this...
Do women actually want me for being me ?
Or do they just like to use me as a bit of arm candy and to make their friends jealous etc?
Often wondered if I wasn't a "God" would they still be interested in me?
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